At this time, another Japanese woman came and asked me, "Mr. Feng, I also dreamed about snakes. But what I dreamed about was that I was bitten by a snake. When I woke up, I still felt some pain in my calf."
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I nodded and said: "Your dream is still the same. The snake represents the male genitals. The process of you being bitten actually symbolizes the process of sex, but you may be a little afraid of being hurt. If you dream
If it is a poisonous snake, it means harmful sex. In addition, in men's dreams, snakes symbolize women. For example, the python that Mr. Tanaka dreamed about earlier represents his mother. In addition, in men's dreams, snakes symbolize women.
In some men’s dreams, snakes also represent the female component of their character. If the appearance of snakes makes the dreamer fearful, it means that the dreamer does not accept his female character component, which is reflected in real life.
There is an underlying fear in interacting with women..."
Having said this, I glanced at Tanaka meaningfully. Moreover, I was a little confused: How could this Japanese woman feel nervous about sex? Logically speaking, she took the initiative to come to our Jiangnan Province to see Tanaka.
Sebi, shouldn't she have such emotions?
At this time, Tianzhong quickly waved to me, "Mr. Feng, come, the three of us will toast you and Mr. Wu a glass of wine."
Of course I wouldn't continue talking, but after we finished drinking, Minister Wu brought up the topic again. He said to me: "Mayor Feng, I didn't expect you to be so knowledgeable about dreams. So, dreams also represent something
What’s the content?”
I said: "The problem of dreams is very complicated, and it is difficult to explain it comprehensively at once. Freud has a special monograph on dreams. If I were to talk about it now, I can only summarize it in a few sentences: 1. Dreams
It is a reflection of the subconscious mind. I have already talked about this issue before. Second, dreams often represent sexual issues. Third, the ending of dreams is often the fulfillment of our wishes. For example, the endings of many of our dreams are actually based on our wishes.
To achieve the desired result, if it cannot be achieved, there can only be one result: waking up. This kind of waking up is actually a kind of escape, because our subconscious is unwilling to face that terrible result.
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Minister Wu nodded and said: "It makes sense."
I continued: "As I said before, animals like tongues appear in many of our dreams, so let me briefly talk about dream-related issues with snakes as the content of dreams. Dreaming about snakes sometimes symbolizes intuition.
Intuition is one of the four psychological functions of human beings. The other three are feeling, thinking, and emotion. The function of intuition is to instruct people on what to do. Snakes are precisely animals with keen responses, similar to people's intuitive reactions. Therefore, people
We often get inspiration from snakes in our dreams. For example, a student dreamed that a snake got under his mattress and disappeared. During the day, he was looking for his meal card everywhere. The next day, he opened the mattress full of doubts.
, he actually found the meal card. In fact, it was his intuition that helped him find the meal card, and the snake in the dream symbolized his intuitive activity. Mystery is also the main characteristic of snakes, according to Swiss psychologists
Snakes often appear in Jung's dreams. He and the analytical psychology he founded are also called mysterious by the world, so his connection with snakes is close. His intuition and sense of mystery come from him.
The snake in the heart. Secondly, physiologically, the snake also represents the spine, and spinal lesions will be represented by injured snakes. From the perspective of yin and yang, the snake represents yin.
Thirdly, snakes also represent evil, cunning, cold-bloodedness, deception and temptation, which is the same as the image of snakes in many myths and folklore. In the Bible, it was the snake that tempted Eve to eat the forbidden fruit. Snakes are often seen as animals in hell.
Or the devil's messenger, which drags people towards darkness, depravity and evil, and the main method it uses is temptation.
According to folklore, snakes eat frogs without actively catching them. Once the snake finds the frog, it stares at it with its eyes. At this time, the frog seems to be hypnotized and will jump into the snake's mouth step by step. In people's minds,
Snakes represent such a hypnotic power of temptation. Therefore, when people find someone attractive and evil, they call them poisonous snakes; if the tempter is a woman, we call them beauty snakes, femme fatales or
This woman is a poisonous snake. Haha! That’s what Mr. Tanaka’s dream mentioned earlier was like.
Therefore, the snake in the dream may be an evil, cunning, deceptive, hypnotic, alluring or charming person. However, snakes have completely different interpretations at home and abroad. In China, dreaming about snakes is a symbol of wealth, and
In the West, dreaming about snakes is a symbol of sex. However, through continuous psychological research in recent years, it has been found that when dreaming about snakes, especially for women, the result is a symbol of sex.
Freud said in "The Interpretation of Dreams": Dreaming about snakes is a sign of sexual dissatisfaction; seeing snakes is generally a symbol of sexual repression, being attacked by snakes is a symbol of disease, and being injured by snakes is a symbol of sexual life.
In addition, snakes are also a symbol of male sexual organs and fatherhood. In addition, red or green snakes represent poor health. Black and brown snakes represent physical and mental fatigue, etc. In short, the problem of dreams is very complicated. Dream analysis
It needs to be analyzed based on the specific situation of the dreamer."
Minister Wu sighed: "This is really a profound knowledge."
I smiled and said: "Actually, it is very simple to analyze it after understanding the truth. However, a psychologist recently asked a question, which I think is very reasonable. This question is, psychologists think that each of us should
Train yourself to be kind to snakes in your dreams.”
They all looked interested, "Oh? What does this mean?"
I said: "Generally speaking, when you encounter a snake in a dream, especially if you are in a fearful mood in the dream, it is easy to choose ways to deal with it, such as hitting the snake, killing the snake, or burning the snake. But this is really not the best way.
Image psychology research shows that snakes, as a common image in dreams, often carry a large amount of psychological energy. If you use methods such as beating, killing, burning, and throwing, it will affect the balance of the overall psychological energy.
Therefore, the best way to see a snake in a dream is to pay attention to and train it. However, it is indeed difficult for the dreamer to be kind to the snake in the dream, but it can still be remedied after the dream. For example, we can
Tell yourself that if you dream about snakes or similar scenes again, you must first see clearly and don't rush to act; you can also return to the snake scene in your dream and carefully experience your emotions in this dream until the experience is clear and thorough.
until.
The advantage of these two methods is that the psychological energy represented by the snake in your heart will not be suppressed, but you can use this psychological energy to serve your psychological growth. In other words, this experience can enhance your
Intuition ability can discover more wisdom in you and make your personality more complete and perfect."
Minister Wu shook his head and said: "This is too profound. I can't quite understand it."
I smiled and said: "I'm sorry, why did today become an academic lecture? Let's not talk about it. Come on, let's continue drinking. Mr. Tanaka, I have a question for you: Can you tell the authenticity of this Moutai?
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He shook his head, but immediately smiled and said to me: "But I believe you will not invite me with fake Maotai."
I smiled bitterly in my heart, but with a smile on my face I said to him: "Thank you, Mr. Tanaka. I still say the same thing: our mutual trust and sincerity are the most important."
Tanaka nodded, "Mr. Feng, you are right."
We drank a lot of wine that day and kept talking about our topics. As a result, the catering lady was ignored by us.
Later, Tanaka got drunk. At this time, I also felt that today's dinner should be over, and I also felt a sense of relief: it was finally over.
I asked the catering lady to bring the bill. At this time, Minister Wu whispered to me: "I'll pay the bill. It's better to bring it for reimbursement."
I immediately said to him: "I am inviting friends today, please don't worry."
Maybe I drank a little too much today, so my tone of voice seemed a bit harsh. But Minister Wu just smiled and said nothing more.
After paying the bill, we went out together, with two Japanese women supporting Tanaka. Minister Wu and I looked at each other and smiled.
This meal cost nearly 10,000 yuan, including four bottles of Maotai. I knew Zhong Feng still gave me a discount, otherwise it would have cost more than this. You know, the consumption here is already very high.
I gave the catering lady five hundred yuan, and she accepted it with a smile, "Thank you, Mr. Feng. Can you leave me your phone number? If you want to dine with us in the future, you can call me directly.
Our boss Zhong said, you can just contact me directly from now on."
I couldn't refuse her in front of so many people, so I immediately gave her my number.
Tanaka's driver was waiting for him outside. When Tanaka was leaving, he pulled me aside and said to me vaguely: "Mr. Feng, Miss Yamaguchi is still a virgin. She is often laughed at because of this. Do you like her words?"
Let her accompany you today and help her solve this problem."
I immediately understood the reason why I felt strange before. I smiled and said to him: "Mr. Tanaka, you can solve it yourself. I am not interested in such things."
He shook his head and said: "I don't like virgins, I don't understand the style at all."
I immediately felt that this guy was seducing me, "Mr. Tanaka, don't make such a joke with me. You can go to the hotel to rest early. We'll see you next week."
Then I helped him get into the car. I found that his actions when he got into the car were not very drunk. I immediately understood: this Japanese really has bad intentions!
After seeing off Tanaka, I went to say goodbye to Minister Wu. Like me, he drove here by himself.
But he had no intention of leaving immediately. He immediately asked me a question, "Brother, I found that you are really good at studying dreams. I also had a dream about snakes. Just recently, could you help me?"
Analyze it."
I smiled and said to him, "Come and let me listen."
He immediately told me his dream about snakes. He said: "My dream was actually very simple. I dreamed that I got a walking stick carved with snakes, and I felt very happy. What does this mean?
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I immediately understood: his dream was actually not simple, including him. (To be continued)