Yes, maybe what I told Su Wen was the best way. I have a relatively good understanding of women's personality traits, and I also made a preliminary analysis of her personality from my conversation with Secretary Rong in the morning.
As a woman, no matter how strong her character is, no matter how much power she holds, there is always a soft place in her heart. Compassion is a woman's nature.
In my conversation with Secretary Rong today, I felt some of her character traits: perseverance, tolerance, and kindness. Although she is also obsessed with power, she is a woman after all, so she hates certain behaviors of men.
. She is preparing to re-examine those female cadres who were promoted by Secretary Chen. This fact in itself completely proves that she has unique female character traits.
All in all, apart from her status as secretary of the municipal party committee, she is a woman. In this regard, she is no different from other women.
Therefore, I came up with this idea for Su Wen: I asked her to take the initiative to talk to Secretary Rong, but she must tell the truth, and it is best to communicate with her with a sense of grievance.
In fact, Secretary Rong, as the newly appointed Municipal Party Committee Secretary, whether it is from an emotional point of view or from a need to satisfy the desire for power, it would be best if Su Wen could take the initiative to find her. Because she is a woman, in
In such a situation, she especially needs someone to talk to her, and she also hopes to gain the trust of others.
In the final analysis, this is the dual needs of power and motherhood. Su Wen is also a woman, so psychologically speaking, Secretary Rong will not be very defensive against her.
Therefore, I can completely believe that this is the best way.
In the afternoon, the Municipal Government Office sent me the topics for tomorrow's executive meeting submitted by the deputy mayors. I read them carefully and then called them one by one. My purpose is very simple, which is to send me
Issues that I think are not particularly urgent or not particularly important are selected and put on hold for research, but I have to discuss them with them first.
This in itself is my consistent style, but now, I feel that I should pay more attention to it.
After the phone call, I listed the issues to be studied tomorrow, and then asked the secretary to give them to the General Office to print them out, and requested that the General Office must deliver the issues to each deputy mayor within today.
I think the purpose of the meeting is to effectively solve the problem, so it is very necessary for the deputy mayors to understand the status of the topic in advance and think about it in advance, so that the purpose of democratic decision-making can be truly achieved. And, in this way
This method also saves time and improves efficiency.
I received several calls in the afternoon, and they were all invited to dinner by the heads of the departments below, but I refused them all. I know what they were thinking, and their main purpose was to congratulate me on becoming a full-time employee, but I felt that I still
I should stick to the previous principles. Of course, I will not create too much distance from my subordinates because of this, so I always reject them in a joking way, "I am still the same person as before, don't make it so awkward."
You can come to me at any time if you have any problems. If there is a problem with your work, I will still criticize others as before. Don’t think that I won’t criticize others after you treat me to dinner. Haha!”
Of course they won't force it. In fact, many things are like this. As long as a person's way of dealing with others has formed a pattern, others won't find it strange and won't care too much about it.
As a result, Mayor Wu called me later and told me that Yu Yong wanted to invite me to dinner that evening. I didn’t refuse this time, partly because Mayor Wu was attending, and partly because I really had some dissatisfaction with the industrial park.
The same emotion.
But when I arrived at the restaurant where I was having dinner, I discovered the person I least wanted to see right now. Xiao Qianhua.
But I didn't say anything, I still greeted her with a smile. She was very enthusiastic towards me, and the smile on her face made her even more beautiful.
Later, I took the opportunity to talk to Mayor Wu and asked him in a low voice: "Who called this woman here?"
He answered me in a low voice: "I don't know, I guess it's Yu Yong."
I muttered: "What is this Yu Yong doing?"
He said: "It's okay, isn't it just a meal? Lao Chen has left, so we don't need to be too nervous, right?"
I couldn't help but smile bitterly in my heart: Brother, you don't know the situation. But I can't tell you some things, but I don't think the problem is big, it's just a meal anyway.
While drinking, I asked about the recent progress of all the projects in the industrial park, and Yu Yong gave me answers one by one. I was very satisfied, "Not bad. The real estate development projects must be carried out faster and strive to be the next one."
Pre-sales will start this month.”
Yu Yong asked me: "Mayor Feng, we have just started to engage in real estate development now. I think the risk is not big, but what about in the future? It is impossible for this house price to be stable forever? I have been thinking about a question recently, we
When will we start changing industries for development? After the recent subprime mortgage crisis broke out in the United States, I felt very unsure."
I smiled and said, "Don't worry, I think our country's real estate industry will continue to develop in a good direction."
Xiao Qianhua then asked me: "Mayor Feng, why do you say that?"
I had an extreme dislike for this woman in my heart, but I couldn't express my dislike for her. I smiled and replied: "To answer this question, we must first talk about the relationship between China and Western countries about family."
Different concepts. For example, in the United States, the American "Family" is not the Chinese "House", nor even "Home". The American Family emphasizes family members and family relationships, while the Chinese family,
It is equivalent to 'House' in American English, emphasizing the house rather than family members and family relationships. This is also the reason why Americans like to rent a house, take the house relatively lightly, and take family members very seriously, while the Chinese
People are just the opposite. They value their houses more than their family members. Even if Chinese people leave their hometowns and their old houses have long been empty, they still regard those old houses in their hometowns as their own homes. Americans
You regard family members as your own home, and your home is where you are. If I explain it this way, you may understand why."
Mayor Wu nodded and said: "It makes sense. In the final analysis, this is just a necessity."
I smiled and nodded: "Yes. In the final analysis, this problem is about rigid demand. It is precisely because of such rigid demand that the real estate industry will continue to develop steadily. Maybe the value of investment in this industry will not be too great in the future, but the value of preservation
It’s no problem.”
Mayor Wu smiled and said: "Then I will also buy one, but I can only get a mortgage. I don't have that much money on hand."
I smiled and said nothing.
At this time, a deputy director of the park asked me: "Mayor Feng, can we buy it?"
I smiled and said: "Of course, but our internal staff cannot enjoy any special discounts, lest everyone can't explain it clearly. I still say the same thing, don't go for small gains. In fact, a person can't enjoy any special discounts.
The more atmospheric you are, the more you can stand high and see far, and God will give you greater rewards."
I can only speak to this extent, because I can't encourage everyone to buy it. Although I think the risk of this project is not big in the future, if I encourage everyone to buy it, it may be considered in the future.
It is to seek illegal benefits for employees.
Things like this can only be understood by themselves. I believe in the truth contained in the saying: Poverty is a sin. If the society does not allow you to get rich, this sin should be attributed to the society; if a person does not work hard himself,
If you can't find business opportunities by yourself, then the fault should be your own fault. (To be continued)