In fact, many times I cannot understand children because I feel that such a young child should not have such complex thinking. Many children nowadays are too precocious, which is not a good thing.
Whether it is physical or psychological, each of us develops step by step. In childhood, we should be ignorant and maintain a kind of innocence. There is a saying that "a late bloomer" means that real fine products often need to be carefully crafted.
Only by pecking can perfection and perfection be achieved.
As the most advanced animal, "human", it takes the longest time to grow among all mammals. The characteristic of precocious maturation is that the developmental stage is advanced, but the duration is short and the potential is small. In the end, it often lags behind those who are late maturing.
Therefore, I am worried about my child's current situation. At the same time, I also feel sorry for my child because he lacks maternal love.
But it is impossible for me to give up the inherent principles in my heart for the desire of my children. This is not selfishness, but a concept - I do not agree with the concept that children are everything to me.
Children have their own future. Parents should provide them with the best education from a responsibility point of view. When they become adults, they should fight for themselves. Parents should not give up everything for their children, or even let their children live forever.
Living in the greenhouse of our parents is irresponsible to our children and is not conducive to the progress of society.
I have my own life. Children can change part of my life, but they cannot change all of it.
Min Siwei came out, and I showed her the menu I had ordered. She smiled and said, "You don't need to read it, the food you ordered must be delicious."
I smiled and said, "I ordered whatever I wanted. Okay, that's it." Then I handed the menu I ordered to the waiter. There were a lot of guests in this restaurant, and I guess it will take a while for the dishes we ordered to be served.
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She was looking at the child and laughing. I didn’t want our atmosphere at the moment to become cold and awkward, so I immediately asked her: "Xiao Min, how are you doing recently? Are you busy?"
This is a completely meaningless question. My purpose is to bring the topic back up and eliminate the awkwardness that may arise between us.
She answered me: "Our work is just like that. Recently, we have helped the criminal police team to go to several scenes and executed a prisoner in a death penalty case."
I suddenly became curious, "There shouldn't be many executions nowadays, right?"
She shook her head and said: "More. The most important things now are violent crimes, property crimes and other cases that are increasing significantly, as well as drug trafficking, sudden passion murder cases, etc. The criminals who were executed this time were because of drunkenness.
He had an argument with others and then killed three people in a fit of rage, resulting in a tragedy.
After analysis, the reason why the criminal committed the murder impulsively was due to excessive pressure. This person bought a house and had to pay back several thousand yuan in mortgage payments every month. His parents were in poor health, and he had a huge burden in his heart.
Stress eventually creates irreversible impulses.
In fact, most of the causes of criminal behavior lie in society, and human behavior is governed by the spirit. Some people say that China has reached its most immoral period, which is so classic. This sentence can well explain the reason for the increase in crime rate."
I nodded and said, "What you said makes sense, indeed."
She continued: "Also, the current China is money-centered, coupled with the traditional official-oriented mentality, wealth is concentrated in the powerful class, and the resulting serious unfairness has contributed to the continuous crime rate today.
An important reason for the climb.”
I was a little confused, "Why do you say that?"
She said: "The reason is very simple. Just imagine, if each of us gets what we work hard for, or if each of us can get something in return as long as we work hard, then he will not put his mind on it.
How to take other people's property as your own? Robbery and theft are misappropriations of property that does not belong to you. Isn't it the same with using power for personal gain? The forms are just different.
But when we talk about robbery and theft, we always feel that such crimes are more serious and bad than using power for personal gain. However, using power for personal gain is often robbery, stealing dozens or even tens of thousands of times the amount. It can be said that a corrupt official's corruption once is equivalent to
A thief steals ten thousand times.
In today's China, there are no real values of good in society. Traditional virtues such as integrity, fairness, justice, courtesy, helpfulness, dignity, etc. have all given way to money and politics.
Since these universal values are not available, people will not think that it is a shame to obtain benefits through unfair means. If a person does not know shame, he is hopeless. Many corrupt officials in our country have no idea until the moment they go to court.
I understand that the things he did are shameful, but I just feel that I didn't grasp the scale well.
That is to say, their hearts and souls have not been touched. They have no soul, right and wrong are all based on personal interests, and what is white is also said to be black. Mayor Feng, do you think the current situation in our country is
so?"
I was convinced and couldn't help but nod. At the same time, I felt even more the fundamental difference between me and her. Her heart was spotless, but I was already filthy.
She looked at me and smiled, "Mayor Feng, I heard Aunt Rong say that you are a good official. That's why I said these things in front of you."
I smiled bitterly and said, "I can't say I'm a good official. I just do my duty."
She smiled and said: "It would be great if today's officials can do this. Today we place too much emphasis on economy and wealth, but forget about ideals and spirit. This is a very scary thing... Mayor Feng,
Do you think I am too idealistic?"
I smiled and said, "Now, there are too few people like you. If only everyone were like you, our society would be much cleaner."
Her face suddenly turned red, "How can I be so good? It's just that I saw too many dark sides, so I was even more worried. In fact, I also know that this is a kind of naivety and inappropriateness.
If I were to be an official, I might become a bad guy. This is not our personal problem, it is a problem with the system."
I looked at her and said with a smile: "You can see this, which means you have seen something substantial."
She smiled and said: "These are not my own words, they are what I heard from others. It's just that I agree with this statement."
At this time, the waiter started serving food, and Min Siwei first gave the child some food suitable for children. The child is now very well-behaved. While we were talking, he kept playing with his newly acquired toys. At this time, I told the child
Said: "Stop playing. Let's eat."
The child pouted and said, "Dad, I won't go out to play with you next time."
I asked him in surprise: "Why?"
He said: "You adults are just talking to yourself and ignoring me."
I couldn't help but laugh, "I bought you so many new clothes today, and Aunt Min also bought you toys that you like so much. What else do you want? Be good and eat."
Min Siwei looked at the child and sighed: "Children today are too lonely."
I nodded, "Yes." Then I asked her, "What interesting cases have happened recently?"
She glanced at me and said, "My forensic scientist, do you mind if I talk about this during dinner?"
In fact, I just wanted to change the topic and carefully avoid sensitive topics about the two of us. After all, the matter between us has already been made clear by Secretary Rong, so I think it is best to avoid it as much as possible, so as not to
It won't hurt her self-esteem if there is any embarrassment between us.
I smiled and said, "I am studying medicine, and my children don't understand. It's okay."
She also smiled and said: "Actually, it's nothing. This time it's another case of an unknown male corpse. The head of the deceased was not found, and no match was found after comparing the DNA of the missing person. The case was left there, I guess.
It will be another unsolved case."
I said: "The more unsolved cases like this, the worse people's sense of security will be. The detection rate is too low now, which is not a good thing."
She smiled bitterly and said: "Then what else can we do? Today, our crime-solving technology is much better than before, but criminals are also much smarter, and their anti-detection capabilities are getting stronger and stronger. For example, in this case, the criminals
It was obvious that the head of the deceased was removed deliberately to prevent the police from finding out the identity of the deceased. Now with DNA identification technology and skull reconstruction technology, even if the criminal destroyed the appearance of the deceased, the police can still
Restore the victim's original appearance. Therefore, today's criminals are very cunning."
I said disapprovingly: "I don't believe that the criminal didn't leave any clues. A big living person died like that, how could there be no clues at all. I think the main problem is the inaction of the police."
For this kind of unknown corpse case, the police may feel that it doesn't matter whether they solve the case or not. After all, such cases will not put much pressure on them. And now that there are more and more such cases, they naturally feel that they can't solve the case anyway. According to
The handling of pending cases will not affect their promotions and bonuses."
She was startled for a moment, then sighed and said: "Maybe that's the case. There are more and more cases nowadays, and our police force is also very limited. The police are also under great pressure now, and they are busy working on various cases every day.
There is nothing that can be done about this. There are so many civil servants in the agency, taking up so much of the establishment, but there is no increase in the establishment of the police, so what do you think we should do?"
I smiled and said, "It would be easy to handle if things are as simple as you said. Why don't we have such a problem in Shangjiang City? Actually, I think you said it very well before. There is no system today where the cadres are pure.
Yes, the same goes for the police force. Haha! We seem to have gone too far, this issue is too complicated."
She looked at me, "You want to talk about the police and criminal family, right?"
I laughed and said, "I didn't say that. I just said that some of the current cases are very complicated, and we can't just use the rising crime rate and insufficient police force to shirk responsibility."
She smiled and said: "I agree with your statement. But this case is not as complicated as you think. I dissected the body, and I did not find any fatal injuries on the deceased. Obviously, the deceased
The cause of death should be on the head. But now the police have not found that part of the deceased, so their identity cannot be determined at all.
Cases like this are inherently difficult. Unless the police can establish a DNA database for everyone, it will be equally difficult to solve cases like this in the future. However, it will cost a lot to build a database for everyone.
In terms of money, even developed Western countries find it difficult to achieve this.” (To be continued)