I never think that they themselves have much fault. If they have any fault, it is because of desire. But as human beings, who doesn’t have desires? Especially young people, career, money, everything, everything is at stake.
It is the source of desire. If you want to get something, you must give it. Once a woman understands this truth, the man's goal will be achieved.
Now, I seem to have understood everything, but I began to hesitate in my heart. I was not hesitating for the two girls who had dinner with us today, but for Kang Demao and his family.
I made a lot of mistakes when I was married, which brought huge disasters to my family and my wife, and I still feel guilty about it to this day. Including me later
He became more bohemian and unruly. In fact, the most fundamental reason also originated from this. Without those sins in the past, how could he have given up on himself later?
I introduced Lilac to Kangdemao, but now Kangdemao seems to have other ideas. I can't just watch their family break up.
But I couldn't help but think again: Can I handle such a thing? I am also a man. Once a man has the idea of cheating, no one else can pull him back.
I was hesitating, so I didn't speak. There were a lot of cars in front of me, and they weren't going very fast, so even if I was distracted thinking about those things, I wouldn't be completely distracted.
After a while, I suddenly heard her next to me asking: "Mayor Feng, did I say something wrong?"
I smiled bitterly and said: "You didn't say anything wrong. Director Kang was too careless with his words. His transfer order hasn't been issued yet, so this kind of thing shouldn't be brought up. Xiao Liu, please tell Xiao Chen, don't talk about it."
Let’s talk about this matter.”
She said: "Oh."
At this time, I suddenly said to her: "Xiao Liu, you are very beautiful."
This sentence seemed to be spoken by me without passing through my brain, but I immediately understood that there was actually a reason why I said this sentence to her.
She must not have expected that I would suddenly say such words to her, because I immediately noticed that her face turned red.
I smiled and said: "Xiao Liu, don't be afraid, I don't mean anything else. Because today I suddenly discovered that you are actually quite beautiful, but you seem to be deliberately hiding your beauty. Women are born to love beauty, I don't know why you
Do you want to hide your own beauty? Haha! Xiaoliu, I'm just curious, don't be offended."
At this time, there was a traffic light in front of me, and I stopped the car, so I could completely see the surprise flashing in her eyes. Of course, I saw her in the rearview mirror of the car.
Today, the two of them sat in the back as soon as they got in the car. I adjusted the rearview mirror while they were not paying attention. It was for no other purpose than to facilitate observation. This was actually for precaution, because now I don't know much about women I meet for the first time.
Don't worry, and more importantly, I have always felt strange about their arrival today. After all, they are civil servants, and the girl named Liu Baobao who stayed in my car at this time is strangely hiding her beauty.
She said softly: "I, no?"
The brief hesitation in her words revealed everything. I smiled and then said: "Xiao Liu, I'm sorry, maybe I shouldn't ask you. Girls naturally love beauty, but you have hidden your beauty.
.I know you have your own difficulties, or it is because of inner fear. In fact, you are wrong, do you understand?"
It took her a few seconds to start asking me, "What's wrong with me?"
I smiled and said: "First, a girl's beauty cannot be concealed, and there is no need to conceal it. Second, the real strength of a person is his heart. Covering up his appearance and wrapping himself up is not the best thing."
Good way. Haha! Xiaoliu, you must not be in love yet, right? You are so beautiful, but you hide yourself. How can you find handsome men in the future? "
She immediately laughed, "Mayor Feng, I think you are too scary. But what you said seems to make sense. In fact, my situation is not what you said. The main reason is that when I was young, my family always treated me as a boy.
So I have always been unsure of myself."
Of course I won't believe her words, because from what I saw tonight, she is a standard beauty. And she also showed her beauty inadvertently. That is definitely not a lack of confidence.
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If I had been deceived by her, then all my years of medical and administrative work would have been in vain. I smiled and said, "Okay, go ahead and deceive the children. Xiaoliu, I don't want to know your secrets."
I mean, but I think your approach is wrong. You are actually wrapping yourself up in this way, which will cause problems over time.
Again, a person's inner strength is more important than anything else. As long as a person is not easily tempted by desire, then there is nothing to be afraid of. We humans are the elves of this world. God has given you beauty, then you
You should show it to your heart’s content. There is nothing wrong with a person’s beauty, but the filthiness inside is the source of all evil.”
She said softly: "Mayor Feng, you really look like a university professor. You speak so well."
I shook my head and said, "It's not that I said it too well, but it's just that it's the way it is. Each of us has times when our hearts are dirty. No one is purer or more elegant than anyone else, but there must be a bottom line in everything.
Standards, in the final analysis, are all about whether they are worth it or not.”
She said: "Well, you said it very well."
I stopped talking because I thought I was disgusting enough. I used to be so filthy, and I still am so filthy now, but I said such high-sounding words in front of such a girl. This is indeed disgusting enough.
.However, I had to remind her in this way because I wanted to take this opportunity to give her a vaccination to prevent her from being easily captured by Kang Demao in the future.
I can't guarantee that Kang Demao didn't discover her beauty. As a man, a woman's hiding may not be effective in many cases. Many times, a woman's hiding is actually just a blindfold to comfort herself. Moreover, as a man, especially a married man
Generally speaking, once you encounter difficulties when pursuing an extramarital affair, you are more likely to retreat. Because men pursue extramarital affairs only for short-term desires, mainly for physical pleasure, they tend to avoid risks and troubles.
I did this for Kang Demao's own good, for himself, and for his family. Of course, if he likes that Xiao Chen, all my efforts just now will be in vain.
I also know that some things are just a matter of effort, and many things are difficult to prevent. Destiny is so magical. Many times when we worry more about something happening, it happens in the end. My
Stopping, in the final analysis, is just to make yourself feel at ease.
She got off the car at the side of the road near her home. When she got off the car, she said to me: "Mayor Feng, you are really approachable, and what you said makes sense. Thank you."
I smiled at her and said, "I just want to chat with you casually. When I see you, it's like I saw my former student, so I become a little talkative. Xiaoliu, thank you for coming to eat with us. Goodbye.
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She glanced at me when she got out of the car, as if she wanted to say something to me, but after hesitating for a moment, she got out of the car immediately, closed the door and waved to me, "Bye!"