She immediately laughed and said, "You are so candid."
I also laughed, "That's how it is. Men have more obvious animal attributes than women, so it's normal for men to like beautiful women and do such things outside. If you exclude ethical and moral factors, I think it's understandable.
Especially successful men, their needs are much higher than ordinary people, not to mention that the situation of every family is different. After a couple has been together for a long time, of course they will be indifferent to such issues. Men,
As long as your heart is at home and you have a sense of family responsibility, that's all."
She shook her head and said: "I don't agree with your point of view. What is family responsibility? Then you should be loyal first."
I couldn't help but feel funny in my heart: You are talking about this with me, but you open such a place. You are providing opportunities for men to make mistakes.
She glanced at me and seemed to understand what I was thinking, "Do you think I'm ridiculous? I open such a private club, but I talk to you about moral issues."
I laughed "haha" twice and said, "You are a businessman and it is understandable to make money by doing this. Only when there is demand will there be a market."
She smiled and said, "That's how it is. I graduated from Peking University and then studied as a graduate student in the United States. After graduating from graduate school, I returned to China and found a job as an editor in a magazine. I later got married. A year later, he and someone else
I fell in love with a woman, and then I divorced him. He was the second generation of rich people. When we divorced, I got a sum of money, and later I used that money to open this club. Now the more upscale the place, the better the business.
, and at the same time, it also allowed me to see how men spend their time here. On the contrary, now I understand my former men somewhat, because I find that most men are like this."
I don't know why she told me about her own experience. Maybe she was too lonely inside. I just opened her long-lost heart, so she had the urge to talk about it. However,
Her words also touched my heart, and I think she said these words to me out of the most basic trust in me. Women are often more emotional. Just now I refused her to arrange a woman for me, maybe this is the reason.
Things made her think that I am different from other men. For men who come to this kind of place, I may be quite different. Also, I used to be a doctor.
I smiled and said to her: "Actually, you are lucky enough. After all, you got so much money during the divorce."
She said: "That's true. At that time, my idea was very simple. Since he betrayed his marriage, he should pay the price. But now I realize that it is actually not easy for men. For example, my private club
, although it’s very profitable, I don’t dare to offend him in any aspect, and I’m also under a lot of pressure.”
I looked at her and said, "Let me ask you another question. It has nothing to do with medicine, but I feel a little curious. Oh, by the way, I haven't answered your question just now. That's right, from a medical point of view, if a woman
Lack of a normal and regular sexual life not only easily leads to endocrine disorders, but also leads to atrophy of female organs due to disuse, resulting in reduced secretions and reduced disease resistance, thus causing inflammation of the genitourinary system. Also, if you are in the hospital for a long time
In a state of sexual repression, repeated pelvic congestion, depression, and blood stasis can easily lead to irregular menstruation, breast nodules, uterine fibroids, ovarian cysts and other diseases. In more serious cases, it may lead to endometrial cancer and ovarian cancer. From
Judging from your current situation, you should only be in the early stage. Therefore, your problem is actually easy to solve, that is, find a boyfriend as soon as possible and get married. This is better than taking any medicine or doing anything else.
The treatment is all good.”
Her face turned red again, "No way? Are you kidding me?"
I shook my head and said, "I'm not joking with you. Our traditional Chinese culture pays attention to the coordination of yin and yang. There is such a story in the "Huangdi Neijing": Huangdi asked the plain girl: My strength is exhausted, my pulse is not harmonious, and I am worried all day long.
Why do you feel that danger is approaching and you cannot escape? Su Nu replied: This phenomenon is due to the imbalance of yin and yang and the consequences of improper sexual life. Women are water-based, and the more they are burned by fire, the more water will be in the cauldron.
Boiling, turbulent. Therefore, women cannot lack sex, otherwise they will get sick. Mr. Leng, let me explain it this way, I wonder if you can understand it? "
She smiled and said, "It seems to make sense."
I said: "It doesn't seem like it, it's just like this. When I worked in the obstetrics and gynecology department, I often found that divorced women often suffer from various gynecological diseases, and their faces tend to look haggard." At this point, I went to see him.
He glanced at her and said, "Mr. Leng, with all due respect, wrinkles shouldn't appear at your age, but you already have them at the corners of your eyes. And your makeup is heavier. If you were bare-faced, your face wouldn't look that bright."
Like that. Haha! I'm sorry, I didn't mean anything else, I was just discussing your condition with you."
She shook her head, "But who can trust today's men?"
I said to her: "Mr. Leng, you can't generalize, right? There are still many good men in this world. Maybe the bad men have gathered here, so you have no confidence in men."
She immediately laughed, "Maybe. Mayor Feng, you are not a bad man, are you?"
I shook my head and smiled bitterly, "Don't talk about me. Okay?"
But she was still looking at me and said softly: "Your family must be very happy, your wife is so lucky."
I was stunned for a moment and said with a wry smile: "Mr. Leng, you are wrong. I am also single. I have had two wives, but they both passed away. Therefore, luck, good or bad, is all relative and cannot be
In general terms.”
At this point, I looked at the time and said, "Mr. Leng, thank you for the good tea. This is my initial diagnosis of your condition, and I am very confident that I have not made a mistake in my diagnosis. I am going back, and you are welcome to visit us in Jiangnan."
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She said hurriedly: "Didn't you just say you have other questions to ask me?"
I shook my head and said, "I won't ask anymore. That question has nothing to do with your condition. Haha! Sorry, it's a bit late. I have to go back and rest. I have important things to do tomorrow."
She looked at me, "Okay... Actually, I rarely chat with others like this. If you can stay and talk to me for a while, I would be very grateful. For example, my problem will not last for a while.
Maybe I can find a new boyfriend, can you help me prescribe another prescription or something." (To be continued)