"I see you just put something in the trunk, it seems to be cosmetics. You are having dinner with a woman tonight, right? How about I go shopping by myself? Feng Xiao, don't be angry, I think it's too much in your home.
I'm bored, your parents are so good to me, they always remind me of my own parents, so I feel uncomfortable, so I thought of going out for a walk." She said, her expression suddenly darkened.
"It's really my classmate, and there is also a leader. The leader is a woman, the secretary of the municipal party committee. Azhu, I am your mother's student, and I have always treated you as a little sister. So I want to take this opportunity to treat you
Say a few words, I hope you can listen. Okay?" I said.
"Just tell me. I know you are doing it for my own good." She said after being silent for a while.
"Azhu, you are twenty-three this year, close to twenty-four, right? Well, you went to college at the age of seventeen. The medical school is a five-year institution. You just graduated. That's right. But why do I always feel that
You look like you're only seventeen or eighteen years old? Do you know why I feel like this? It's because you seem too childish. Of course, this is not your responsibility. Maybe it's because your parents used to pamper you too much.
.You grew up in a family of high-level intellectuals, and nothing bad ever happened to you. Don’t get me wrong. What I’m saying is that you should have never encountered any big difficulties, because your parents always
I will meet all your requirements. That’s why you always feel that you are still young and like to act like a child about everything. Azhu, you are already in your twenties and already working, so you should mature as soon as possible. Of course,
Su Hua and I will help you with many things, but mainly you have to rely on yourself. Don't you think so?" I said carefully because I was worried that she wouldn't be able to bear it.
She suddenly stopped the car and slowly turned sideways to look at me, "Do you think I shouldn't ask to go to dinner with you today?"
I didn’t expect that what I said would lead to her misunderstanding, and I hurriedly said: "Azhu, pull over quickly, you know that things can easily get into trouble like this? What did I say about what happened tonight?"
Don’t you think what I said is right? Have you ever thought about it? How can you continue your life when you are alone from now on? Don’t park your car here? Either pull over or drive away quickly. Look, you put
The cars behind are blocked. Can you please stop being like this? You have to consider others."
To be honest, I'm a little angry now because she still has the same temper.
She didn't say anything and slowly drove the car forward. I was speechless for a moment.
When we arrived at the hotel where we were having dinner, she stopped the car. I sat in the passenger seat and didn't move because I found that she had no intention of getting out of the car. I looked at her and said, "Azhu, what's wrong? Are you unhappy? I
I don’t mean anything else, I just hope you can become independent as soon as possible.”
"Feng Xiao, I understand what you mean, and I thank you very much. But, I, I hate my parents very much now. They are too irresponsible to themselves and to me." She said in a low voice,
Then the tears started.
I couldn't help but sigh, "Azhu, please don't say that, okay? Everyone has their own ideas, and maybe we still don't understand them. But I have always believed that everything a person does is due to him.
There is a special reason. This has something to do with a person's character, environment, and mentality at a certain time. They are always your parents anyway, so don't blame them. The problem you face now is
From now on, you have to live alone. You have to fall in love, get married, have children, spend your life well, and make yourself happy. I said that I will help you, but it is impossible to treat you like your parents.
You care so meticulously, but the key is to rely on yourself, do you understand what I mean?"
"I'm so scared now. Feng Xiao, you're right. I didn't think about anything before, but now I realize that the world is too complicated and scary. I'm really scared." She whispered, faintly.
said.
I looked at her and said softly: "This world is not as complicated as you think. If you want to do something, just go straight towards the goal, don't look in both directions, just walk straight. In fact, many things are
Blocked by the difficulties we imagined. If we really do it, we will find that it is not that complicated at all! If we really encounter difficulties, there will always be a way out if soldiers come to block it and water comes to cover it. The key is
To take this step, you have to do it. If you do it, everything is possible. If you don't do it, there will be nothing. Not long ago, I saw an interview question from a well-known foreign company in a magazine: Please drink a Coke. There was a question in front of the interviewer.
A cup, a bottle of Coke. The correct way is very simple, unscrew the bottle, pour the Coke into the cup, drink, and that’s it. But no one does it right, because everyone is thinking: How can it be so simple? It must be
It can't be that simple! There must be some mystery hidden, there must be a hole dug, waiting for me to jump. So, these interviewers did it in a variety of ways: some abandoned the cup and just picked up the bottle to drink.
What I thought was that this test must be a test of our ability to simplify the complex; some put the Coke in their pockets, thinking that this test must be a test of our ability to prepare for a rainy day; others sat in front of the Coke for a quarter of an hour.
, just didn’t touch it, thinking that this test must be our ability to resist temptation. Finally, the interviewer announced the correct answer and told them: You are really a group of complicated people, and the world is not as complicated as you think.
In the end, your courage, passion and action will be consumed, constrained and killed by your complexity. So, go straight on, don't look in both directions, go straight, live how you want to live in the future, live out
Just bring your own splendor. All you need to remember is: mature yourself as soon as possible and live boldly, and someone will help you."
Ah Zhu listened quietly, and then said after a while: "Feng Xiao, you said it very well."
I smiled and said, "It's not what I said, but it's just how it is. Okay, let's go up. Have fun tonight. If you want to drink, you can."
She shook her head, "I won't drink. Didn't you say that I will become mature from now on?"
I laughed immediately, but I was thinking in my heart: Is it mature if I don’t drink?
When Ah Zhu and I entered the elegant room, Kang Demao had already arrived, but we didn't see Lin Yu and Hong Ya.
Kang Demao's eyes widened when he saw Ah Zhu, "Feng Xiao, who is this beauty? You are so awesome, you always bring beautiful women."
I found A-Zhu looking at me with a strange look, and glanced at Kang Demao hurriedly, "Don't talk nonsense. This is my tutor's daughter A-Zhu. A-Zhu, this is the classmate I mentioned. He
His name is Kang Demao, and he is the leader."
"Didn't you say that the leader coming today is a woman? Why is it a man?" Azhu asked in surprise.
I hurriedly said: "Didn't you hear clearly? Didn't I say that I would have dinner with my classmates tonight? The leader is also coming, isn't he not here yet?"
"Yes, yes, the leader hasn't arrived yet. Feng Xiao, what kind of leader am I? I'm just a person who serves the leader. Your name is A-Zhu, right? Come on, please sit down." Kang Demao said hurriedly. I found him
He looked a little at a loss, and secretly felt funny in his heart. He suddenly thought: Isn't this Kang Demao single now? Then he immediately denied the thought that just rose in his heart: No, Kang Demao is not suitable. This guy has divorced.
Marriage, and also having a lover like Ning Xiangru, I can't harm Ah Zhu.
I immediately sat down and asked Ah Zhu to sit next to me, and then asked Kang Demao: "How long did it take for Sister Lin and the others to arrive?"
"Secretary Lin has a meeting in the afternoon. I was supposed to attend it, but she asked me to come first. Miss Hong should be arriving soon. She is going to have a beauty treatment in the afternoon," Kang Demao said.
"Sister Lin? What do you call the leader sister?" Azhu asked me in a low voice.
"Can you please stop being like this? Today we are friends having dinner together and celebrating the Chinese New Year together." I said, actually criticizing her for not paying attention to the occasion.
"Feng Xiao, your tutor's daughter, oh, your name is A-Zhu, right? Where is Miss A-Zhu employed?" Kang Demao asked.
I went to see Azhu and found that she didn’t look like she wanted to answer Kang Demao’s question, so I said, “She works in a hospital. She does imaging, that is, the radiology department.”
"Oh, that's good. But I'm a little scared, worried that Miss Azhu will see through me at a glance." Kang Demao said with a smile. Of course I knew he was joking, but I also felt that this guy seemed to be right.
Ah Zhu paid special attention to it. Maybe it’s because I’m too sensitive?
"If you don't do bad things, what are you afraid of?" Azhu said.
Kang Demao suddenly became embarrassed, "How could I do bad things? Feng Xiao, tell me, am I, Kang Demao, the person who does bad things?"
"I prove that he is not the one who did bad things." At this moment, Lin Yu and Hong Ya walked in. Lin Yu said with a smile, and then looked at Ah Zhu, "Huh? Who is this? So beautiful
A beautiful woman."
I introduced her hurriedly. Lin Yu looked at me and smiled meaningfully, and Hong Ya said: "Feng Xiao, you are really good, you have such a beautiful little sister."
I hurriedly coughed a few times and said, "Sister Lin, didn't you agree that I will treat you today? I want to wish you all a happy New Year."
"It's all the same. During the Chinese New Year, isn't it just about everyone sitting together and happily having a meal? And it's not official today?" Lin Yu said.
I said, "My parents are here and they will celebrate the New Year at my house this year, so I may not have time during the actual New Year celebrations."
"That's it. Then I have to go and pay New Year's greetings to the two old people." Kang Demao said immediately.
"Secretary-General Kang, this is what it should be. I should go too. You can make arrangements then." Lin Yu said to Kang Demao immediately.
Now I felt embarrassed and a little panicked, so I hurriedly said: "No, no, really no need." (To be continued)