She said: "The following words are something I have only recently realized. Today is the first time I have told them to others. In ancient China, there were 'Ten Secrets of Go', did you know?"
I shook my head.
She began to speak slower, "First, don't be greedy for victory; second, enter the world slowly; third, attack the other side and look after yourself; fourth, abandon your son and fight for the first; fifth, sacrifice the small to save the big; sixth, give up in danger; seven
, Be careful not to act too hastily; 8, Move accordingly; 9, The enemy is strong to protect himself; 10, Make peace when the situation is solitary. This was put forward by Wang Jixin, a national player in the Tang Dynasty. Think carefully about these ten sentences, each
The key point of this sentence is to defend and let you be careful. You should not be greedy for winning. It means that you should stop it in moderation and not overdo it. Whatever you do, you will be bad if you are greedy, so it is placed first. You can win half an eye and half an eye in Go.
If you win, that's it. You can only win two eyes. If you insist on winning twenty, it would be unwise. This is China's doctrine of moderation. You should only stop in moderation and don't be greedy for winning. It is better to enter the world slowly.
If you want to invade someone else's place, don't be in a hurry. Take your time and don't rush to invade others. When attacking others, you must take care of yourself. When attacking others, you must take care of yourself. You must consider yourself. If you attack blindly, you will have flaws everywhere. This kind of attack
No, you have to take care of yourself first. Only when you have no flaws can you attack others. We should not encourage the bravery of a man. Abandon your son to be the first. Only when you abandon your son can you be the first. If you want to be the first, you have to pay the price. If you give up, you can be the first. What?
You have to pay a price, and all the benefits in the world are given to you. If you don't have any, it's not just playing chess, this is what you do as a human being. Give up the small and go big. If you want the big, you have to give up the small, even the small.
If you can't lose, that won't work. There must be gains and losses. A person must have gains and losses in anything he does. By learning Go, one must understand the relationship between gains and losses. In the end, a person's life will be successful if he gains more than he loses. In the world
No one gains or loses, give up the small and take the big. Give up when you are in danger. Don't hold on and refuse to let go. Be careful not to speed too fast. Nothing can be too fast for you.
It's not okay to be quick and act rashly. This is true for anything you do. Every sentence tells you that you have to be cautious, cautious, and conscientious. You must act accordingly. Your actions must be coordinated. Don't do it alone. It's not okay to act recklessly. The same is true for playing chess.
The other side protects itself. When others are strong, you still have to protect them. They are very strong, and you are a fool to attack them blindly. This is also true when you want to make peace when you are weak. So if you think about it carefully, these ten sentences are all necessary to teach people.
You have to be steady, keep your composure, and work conscientiously every step of the way."
I couldn't help but exclaimed, "Sister, you said it so well! I find that many of our country's foreign policies seem to be based on this."
She smiled and said, "That's right. That's why many people don't understand. Because there are not many people studying traditional Chinese culture now. I haven't finished what I said before, so you continue to listen to me. In fact, life is the same, you have to be cautious.
Caution and prudence are both important, and you cannot act rashly. You cannot make decisions too rashly or too greedily. It is not just about playing chess. There are ways of doing business, ways of doing politics, and ways of being a human being. In fact, they are all in it, so
Life is like chess, and chess is like life. Just like when you are born, you go to kindergarten, elementary school, middle school, and university. This is the layout. You go very well and pass every level. You go to Tsinghua University, Peking University, etc.
It’s because you have a good layout, which is beneficial to your future development, and it is easy to find a good job, which is beneficial to you in the middle game. If the situation is not laid out well, it will be unfavorable in the middle game. If you did not study well when you were a child, it will be detrimental to you in the future, and you will lose a lot.
If you have the opportunity, you will be passive. When you reach middle age or young adulthood, you have to fight even more and work harder. But it’s not too late. Let’s fight hard in the middle game. When the situation is good, don’t be complacent, even if you are complacent.
Bad, you think you are the boss, you are arrogant, you still have to study hard, you just went to college, you only mastered basic knowledge, you don’t have great talents, you still have to go out and work hard in society
Beat, practice, and learn a lot of knowledge. The principle is the same. After the middle game, there are many endings. We say that there should be no fifty-nine-year-old phenomenon. Everything is good. If the ending is bad in the end, it will be bad.
If you are not careful, you will lose everything. So playing chess is the same as life."
I was so mesmerized by it that I couldn't help but sigh.
After dinner, she insisted on playing chess with me because she heard me say that there was that thing here. I was very frightened because I could completely predict my disastrous defeat.
But she insisted, "You and your sister are playing chess purely for entertainment. It doesn't matter whether you win or lose. Your place is so beautiful and elegant. It would be a pity not to play chess."
So I made a pot of tea, and then sat on the floor with her. After looking around, she smiled and said, "Feng Xiao, you are missing two things here."
"What?" I asked hurriedly.
"Incense burner and incense." She said with a smile, "Think about it, if we were playing chess here and a faint scent of sandalwood floated out of the incense burner in the room, wouldn't it be like a fairyland?"
I laughed and said, "That makes sense. I'll prepare it after I get down from the mountain. I'll definitely have it ready when my sister comes next time."
The result was just as it should be. I failed miserably. I couldn't help but lose interest and feel a little discouraged.
Lin Yu smiled slightly and said: "Feng Xiao, your chess skills are still good. It's just that you have never studied the chess records seriously. Also, you rarely go out to play chess with the masters. That's why you care about one thing and not the other when playing chess.
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"Sister, I think there is someone who can play chess with you. My level is too poor. But he can't beat you, because he seems to be only slightly better than me in skill." I said with a wry smile.
"Who?" she asked.
"Kang Demao. He has also been here and played chess outside, but I couldn't beat him," I said.
"Let's talk about it later. Where do I have so much time to play chess? He is now Governor Huang's secretary, so he doesn't have much time," she said.
"That's true." I smiled.
"Feng Xiao, I discovered your problem from the way you played chess just now. In fact, the problems you had while playing chess were exactly the weaknesses in your character or way of dealing with the world. Feng Xiao, there are some things that I had thought about before.
I have to remind you, but I felt it was too early at that time. It is different now, because you have gradually matured, and I feel more and more unable to live without you. Therefore, for everyone’s safety in the future, I feel that now
It's time to tell you." She said immediately.
I hurriedly gathered my attention and sat upright, because I found that she had become very serious.
I'm not that kind of aloof person, so I don't resent others giving me advice. I can completely believe that the advice Lin Yu gave me may be very helpful to my life.
"Sister, tell me. I know I have many problems, but I don't know which ones will affect you. Sometimes I am weak-willed and do things casually. But there is one thing I have always paid attention to, that is, once
I will be particularly cautious when it comes to your affairs. Really, I used to be a very casual person, because I think many things don’t matter. Anyway, I think that I am just a little doctor, and I don’t have any big pursuits in many things, but
I really care about how it affects you. To be honest, I may be indifferent to some things, but once I think about the possibility that you may be involved, I will get flustered and trembling. Sister, if I really have any questions, please ask.
Tell me right away and I will definitely change it." I said immediately, speaking very sincerely and the truest words from my heart.
She nodded and said softly: "I know, I know. That's why I trust you so much. In fact, our acquaintance is also a lucky thing. We have been together until today, and we are thinking about each other. This has been
It goes far beyond the relationship between men and women. To be honest, Feng Xiao, if I hadn’t been the municipal party secretary, and if your wife hadn’t been like this, I would have really wanted to start a family with you. But, that’s impossible, you
There are so many egos, your wife is unconscious in bed, all of these make it impossible for me to make such a decision. In fact, I also know that if you really want to marry me, you will not agree, and I myself may not be able to
Accept that you have other women. Isn’t it good that we are like this now? I can tolerate you and other women, and take care of you like a brother, and you care about me like a sister. This is really good.
Okay. So sometimes I think, maybe this can be regarded as God’s compensation for me? So, although I am disappointed in my personal marriage, I am very satisfied. Feng Xiao, in fact, we are a pair of hard-working mandarin ducks.
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She spoke very quietly, but it was full of true feelings. Later, she actually shed tears.
"Sister, what's wrong with you? Didn't you say you wanted to tell me about my shortcomings? Why are you crying?" I said hurriedly.
But she shook her head and said, "No more, you have already said it yourself. Besides, I am very happy today and don't want to talk about those unpleasant things. Let's go back. I have an entertainment tonight. I will meet you when I am free in the future.
I came here, but I won’t tell you. If you’re here, we’ll play chess and drink. If you’re not here, I’ll stay here alone. It’s really nice here, I like it very much.”
I nodded and said, "Yeah."
Then I drove down the mountain. She asked me to take her directly home.
When I drove the car downstairs, she didn't get out of the car immediately. She seemed to be hesitating about what to say to me. So I asked her, "Sister, do you want to say something to me?"
She looked at me, "Do you have a good relationship with a policewoman named Tong Yao?"
I nodded, "Yes. But we are just friends. We met when something happened to my ex-wife. We became good friends later on."
"Feng Xiao, I always feel that Duan Muxiong's death is very strange. I heard that police officer Tong was the one who handled the case. I think... do you understand what I mean?" she said, still hesitant.
Her words surprised me, "Sister, do you want me to ask Officer Tong? Do you suspect that Duan Muxiong committed suicide?" (To be continued)