"Yu Min, please take a few photos of you and Dong Jie alone." I said to them immediately.
"Okay. Brother Feng, why don't you and Xiao Dong take a photo together?" Yu Min said. Dong Jie looked at me awkwardly, and I smiled and said, "Xiao Dong, come here, let's take a photo together."
Just now I took a photo with Yu Min holding my baby, but I was actually a little worried. Now that Yu Min suggested this, I immediately felt relaxed. Because this can better show that the photo of me and her is just a photo.
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Dong Jie came over, and the child in my arms smiled happily and stretched out her hand. Dong Jie hurriedly came to pick up the child. "Click" - Yu Min caught the shot in time.
Yu Min ran across the sea of flowers with her child and Dong Jie in her arms. I drove and followed slowly. Seeing them so happy, my heart felt warm. I thought, even if I walked slowly back to my hometown like this,
Yes. Being in a good mood is the most rare thing.
But compared with them, I seem much calmer. I know what's going on: I still can't let go completely. Maybe it's because of my own experience, or maybe it's because of my age.
Suddenly I remembered how Yu Min looked drunk last night, and the tears streaming from the corners of her eyes, and I suddenly felt that I was right to agree with her decision to go with me this time. Maybe she should have walked out like this a long time ago.
It took nearly an hour to pass through this sea of flowers. I could see that they were all tired.
"Brother Feng, I'm so happy today." Yu Min said to me.
"Yeah, it's so beautiful here, and I'm in a good mood. From now on, everyone should go out for a walk more often." I said, and then I noticed that Dong Jie didn't speak. I knew she was being reserved, so I asked her with a smile, "Little
Dong, be happy and be casual. When you come out, you should enjoy yourself as much as you can, and then start working in a down-to-earth manner after going to work."
"Brother Feng, where does Xiaodong go to work?" Yu Min asked me.
"My friend has a project in my hometown, and I'm going to let Xiao Dong go there and have a look first. If you like it, stay, and if you don't like it, let's talk about it." I said. I didn't tell her the truth because I was still a little wary of her.
"How much salary does your friend give her?" Yu Min asked me.
"I'll give you 5,000 a month for the time being. At the end of the year, I'll give you a bonus depending on the situation." I answered.
"Although I just met Xiaodong today, I think you are very good. It's a pity that I can't afford such a high salary, otherwise you could just come to work here." Yu Min sighed.
I burst into laughter immediately, "Yu Min, I have her. You actually want to snatch her away?"
"Really, I think Xiao Dong is very good. He looks gentle and quiet, and he is also very beautiful. Our company needs people like this." Yu Min said.
"What does sister do?" Dong Jie suddenly asked.
"Medical equipment and medicines. Brother Feng has been helping me. Xiao Dong, you might as well come to me. Although I can't give you such a high salary now, I will definitely give you a higher salary in the future. Do you think so?"
Brother Feng?" Yu Min asked me with a smile.
"This matter still depends on Xiaodong's personal opinion. But I think it is better for her to work in a place for a period of time first, and then go to your place after she has a certain amount of experience. First, it is more cost-effective in terms of income.
Second, if Xiao Dong is willing to come to your place in the future, the treatment you will give at that time may be higher than now, and you will also get a trained talent. This will be a good benefit for both of you.
Choice. Haha! I'm just suggesting. Xiaodong, you make your own decision on this matter. I've always been like this. I completely respect everyone's choice and will never have any thoughts against you because of it. Don't worry.
." I said with a smile.
"I listen to Dr. Feng." Dong Jie said.
To be honest, I'm very happy about her statement. Although I just said that, in my heart, I don't like the kind of job seekers who are irresponsible.
There was another sea of rapeseed flowers ahead, but it was much smaller than the place before. Yu Min didn't ask me to stop, but I still slowed down. None of them were in the same excited state just now, and neither was I. From this,
I thought: Maybe, this is called aesthetic fatigue.
This is indeed the case. Later on, all we saw along the way were patches of rapeseed flowers, accompanied by beautiful white clouds in the sky, but these were no longer enough to stimulate our excitement. I occasionally admired the car windows.
The scenery outside, but Yu Min in the back seat was already drowsy. Dong Jie was looking out the window. I guess it was because she was holding the child.
"Is the child asleep?" I asked.
"Sleeping." Dong Jie replied.
"Are you tired?" I asked again.
"Not tired." She said.
"Xiao Dong, do you feel a little scared now? It's okay, anyone will have this kind of mental state when they start a new job." I said immediately. This was completely my guess, because I thought
She is still young, and she is about to go to work in a strange place.
"Aren't I afraid? Dr. Feng, I'm very grateful to you for giving me such an opportunity. As a high school student, I am very satisfied with having a job with such a high salary. Moreover, it is better than before." She said,
When he said the last sentence, his voice suddenly dropped a lot.
I was a little surprised, "Xiao Dong, didn't Professor Wu say you like painting?"
"What else can I do if I don't learn? She spent so much money on me, but I lost all of it. I have no choice at all. It's really my fault that I'm too stupid, why can't I even get into college?
What? It's too late to regret now," she said.
I can understand her mood, because many of my classmates in high school did not go to college. After graduating from high school, they either served in the military or were assigned to a certain unit. Most of them started their own small businesses.
When I was in college, some classmates organized several gatherings when I went home during the summer vacation, but none of the classmates who didn't go to college came to attend. They all had low self-esteem. So, now that I heard what Dong Jie said, I understood her inner feelings.
It was really a feeling, so he comforted her and said: "Xiao Dong, don't think like that. In fact, going to college is just a way. Everyone has their own strengths. The key is whether you can show your strengths. Now it is indeed
In this way, any employer must look at diplomas, because this is at least one aspect of measuring a person's ability. But you are different now. It should be said that you are more lucky. Haha! Xiaodong, I am a talkative person.
Straight, don’t mind."
"You are a good person. I know that. My aunt has told you that you are different. You look like a kind-hearted person. She also said that you must have bribed the security guard, but you did it for me."
The security guard concealed it, which shows that you have a good heart and sympathize with the weak. Dr. Feng, you may not know that this is why my aunt is so polite to you," she said.
I was very surprised, "How did your aunt know that I was hiding something for the security guard?"
She doesn't need to be specific, the "aunt" in her mouth is Wu Yaru.
"It's very simple. We all know that the security guard cannot go to the toilet during class time. This is clearly stipulated. If you really have diarrhea or something, you must call someone else immediately to take his place. Academy of Fine Arts
Outsiders are not allowed to watch the life drawing class," she said.
I suddenly remembered a question. In fact, this question has been in my mind but it was hard to ask her. But now I can no longer hold back my curiosity, "Xiao Dong, although I am a doctor, I still can't understand it."
You people who are engaged in art, do you really not have any psychological barriers to doing such a difficult job before?"
She doesn't speak.
I understood immediately, "I'm sorry. I shouldn't have asked you this question."
"Actually, I have cried many times. But I didn't let my aunt know." She said in a low voice.
I couldn't help but sigh, "Your aunt is the same, how can I let you do that job?"
"She is very good to me. She is an artist, and her ideas are different from yours." She said, "But I am not an artist. In fact, I don't like to do that kind of thing in my heart. No matter what, I am
She’s a girl, and she’s not married yet.”
That's right, how can any girl be willing to do that kind of job? I thought to myself, and then said to her: "Xiao Dong, you shouldn't blame your aunt. In fact, I guess she also knows that you don't like that.
Work, so she immediately agreed to let you go with me this time. Don’t you think so? Maybe she does have a different understanding of this matter than most of us, and that’s why she felt like letting you go.
There is nothing wrong with doing that kind of work. But it is not easy for her to consider this issue from your perspective. Because each of us has a different career, we always like to stand in the perspective of our own career.
Others think about the problem. For example, I am an obstetrician and gynecologist. I think it is okay for women to come to me for medical treatment, because when I see a doctor, I don’t think about other problems at all. I only see the patient’s pain. However,
When I meet acquaintances who come to see a doctor, I still try to avoid going to see them in person. This is actually a kind of understanding. Xiaodong, I don’t know if you understand what I mean? In a word, you should be grateful.
Your aunt is the one."
I said this for a purpose, because yesterday I discovered a problem: Wu Yaru does not shy away from talking about Dong Jie's shortcomings in person. This is actually a kind of contempt for her from the bottom of her heart. You know, she is like this
This practice is very harmful to a person's self-esteem. Generally speaking, a kind of resentment will arise in the heart of the person who is hurt.
From a psychological point of view, this is certain and inevitable. However, many people are often covered up by their inner inferiority. However, once they encounter something in the future, they are likely to explode immediately, or even
Produces extremely terrible consequences. Therefore, psychological harm often has a much greater impact on a person than physical harm. (To be continued)