That sentence was originally a joke I made with her on the phone today, just to find a reason to ask her out, but I didn't expect that she actually took it seriously. But I can't say that I lied to her now, can I? That would make it appear that
I'm not polite. You know, what women like most is to be praised by men.
She has dreamed of her in her dreams. Such praise will make her feel more happy than other words. Because she will think: Dreams are often a person's inner feelings. As the saying goes, "Think about something every day and think about it at night."
This is what the dream means.
"Really, I did dream about you last night." I said with a very sincere tone and expression.
But she looked at me with a strange look in her eyes, "You men must be doing bad things when you dream about us women in your dreams."
I was immediately stunned.
According to Kangdemao's arrangements for me, he asked me to take down Ning Xiangru. However, I had no such idea at all, and I did not promise Kangdemao that I would do what he wanted. But my answer was very vague.
.My idea is actually very simple. It is best to have a face-to-face talk with Ning Xiangru and then make a temporary decision on how to handle it based on the situation.
From a psychological point of view, the prerequisite for communicating with others is to gain the trust of the other person. Ning Xiangru and I are already acquaintances, but we don’t have any special friendship. At most, we were just business partners. So.
, I tried my best to use a casual and affectionate way when I contacted her on the phone. My idea at the time was very simple: no matter what, I had to ask her out before talking. Some things are difficult to talk about on the phone.
If we didn't meet each other, the task Kang Demao assigned me would basically be considered a failure.
But what I never expected was that she was more casual than me and put me in embarrassing situations several times. Now I have discovered a truth: Never make excessive jokes with women, because women are bold
It is often men who cannot get off the stage after getting up.
However, I feel that something is not quite right about Ning Xiangru today, because she is too casual and what she says is so bold that I am stunned.
I think there must be a reason for this. Does she know the purpose of inviting her to dinner today? Her purpose is to make me ashamed and prevent me from telling her about Kang Demao? If this is really the case, then
That just shows one thing - she understands psychology.
Generally speaking, most of the time when a man dreams about a beautiful woman, it is a sexual dream. And the sexual dream represents the man’s desire for the sex of the woman in the dream. I was originally joking with her, but she changed the topic to
The sexual dream is quoted, that is to say: she thinks that I use her as the object of sexual fantasies.
Kang Demao is my classmate, and I know his relationship with Ning Xiangru. She is very aware of these situations. Therefore, I think what she just said is actually reminding me: If I really dreamed about it in my dream,
If she says so, then I am immoral. It is ridiculous for an immoral person to discuss moral issues with her.
Of course, maybe my analysis is wrong. Because there is a more likely situation - she was just joking with me casually. She is older than me, and her joking with me is considered a kind of joke.
normal.
In our rural areas in the south of the Yangtze River, it is normal for older women to joke around with young men, sometimes even to the point of being extremely pornographic.
Anyway, today I have to tell her about Kang Demao. I don’t believe that she will do anything excessive after learning that he is going to marry another woman, as Kang Demao said. She
She's not a nymphomaniac, is there anything she can't keep away from? We are all adults, and it is normal to satisfy each other occasionally. No matter what, it will not lead to murder.
?
Now that I had made up my mind that I had to talk to her about that matter, I thought it didn't matter. I thought to myself: The most I can do is promise to introduce a project to her in the future. People nowadays are very realistic, not to mention she is not that kind of person.
A true chaste and martyr woman.
But I hope it's best not to go to that point, because such conditions are too expensive. In my heart, I feel that she is not worth it.
You know, the profits from a project are often millions or even tens of millions, and even I didn't give that much to Sun Lulu. For Kang Demao, it's really not worth it for this woman to get so much money for no reason.
In fact, I didn't think about it for long. All these ideas were completed at the moment when I was stunned and dumbfounded.
Then, I hurriedly said: "What are you talking about? You know, I am an obstetrician and gynecologist, and I see a lot of beautiful women every day. If I dreamed about them every night, I would have gone crazy."
She laughed.
I added: "But you are different. We are friends. Of course you appear as a friend in the dream. I dreamed of you, Kang Demao, and me, and the three of us were drinking together. It's very strange.
We drank in the dream and when we woke up in the morning, we actually felt a little dizzy."
Of course this was nonsense, but she seemed to believe what I said, and then asked me: "You are a doctor, how can you explain such a situation?"
I smiled and said, "It's very simple. I had been drinking, and I was a little drunk, and then I had such a dream. Because of the effect of dreams, the mental drunkenness was aggravated. You know, a person's spirit
The power is very powerful, but in the final analysis it is psychological self-suggestion."
"Feng Xiao, you asked me here today not just to talk to me about dreams, right? You must have something on your mind." She then asked me with a smile.
"It's okay, it's really okay. I just want to chat with you. Haven't we seen each other for a long time? By the way, how is your project going?" I asked.
She said: "It's ongoing. That project is really good, but my current financial pressure is too much, mainly because the pre-sale is not very good. But don't worry, I will consider paying you dividends for your shares in the future. But I have
One request is that you will never let me buy back your shares in the near future. I really can’t afford the money."
Now I suddenly understood that what she just said was indeed an unintentional joke. I couldn't help feeling ashamed: It seemed that I had something on my mind, which was why I felt guilty like before, and ended up overthinking simple things.
It's complicated.
So I said: "You misunderstood. I will definitely not do such a thing. We are fellow villagers, so of course we must understand you."
Now, I am secretly happy: even if I introduce a project to you right away, you won’t be able to pay for it.
"Do you really just want to treat me to a meal?" she asked me suspiciously, "I thought you wanted to ask me to cash in the money later. Not to mention, I was really nervous for a long time before I came today."
I immediately liked her even more - it seemed that this woman was very honest and did not refuse to meet me even under such circumstances. From this, I felt that this woman would definitely be extraordinary in the future.
I always believe that integrity is a very important quality for a person. As long as a person has such quality, success is often inevitable. Such quality is especially important for businessmen.
So, at this moment, I immediately had respect for her. Moreover, I suddenly found that some of the words I had prepared could not be spoken. Now I felt that I was despicable: Feng Xiao, what qualifications do you have to ask her not to pester Kant?
Mao?
At this moment, my mood suddenly became complicated. In order to cover up my complexity, I had to smile slightly at her.
She noticed this abnormality in me and immediately asked me in surprise: "Feng Xiao, you seem to have something on your mind. What? Are you really looking for money today? What difficulties have you encountered? If you are really in a hurry,
If I really need money, I will try my best to find a way."
I realized that she had misunderstood me again, so I hurriedly said: "I don't have any difficulty. I just suddenly remembered something. By the way, Boss Ning, what kind of drink would you like to drink?"
She looked at me suspiciously, "Are you really okay?"
I shook my head, "What can happen to me? It's really okay! How about it? Let's have some drinks, okay?"
"Okay. Let's drink some wine," she said.
So I asked the waiter to bring a bottle of better red wine and ordered her to serve the food.
Ning Xiangru has been looking at me, seeming to be observing my expression. At this time she asked me: "Feng Xiao, did Kang Demao ask you to come to me today? That must be the case, right? I think so.
, because I think you are too weird today."
I felt that there was no need to avoid and dodge this question, because it had become meaningless. So I nodded and said at the same time: "Yes."
Her expression became sad, "He has a new girlfriend?"
I still nodded, "Yes."
She continued to ask me: "Are they planning to get married?"
I can only nod, "It seems so. But he feels that he is very sorry for you, but he doesn't dare to come to see you. That's why he asked me to explain this matter to you."
She said coldly: "Feng Xiao, do you think such a thing needs an explanation? He swore in front of me at the beginning, but in the end his heart changed faster than the current house price. I thought he was born in a poor family, and he was essentially
A good man, but I didn’t expect that he is still as fond of the new and dislikes the old as other officials, and is lustful and greedy for money. It’s really a waste that he wears a human skin!”
Although I had expected that she might react strongly, I was still embarrassed when she actually said such words.
I could only sigh, and at the same time I became even more uneasy in my heart, because I suddenly thought that it was me who introduced Ding Xiang to Kang Demao. Now I understand, in fact, I have always looked down on the woman in front of me, so I did what I did.
things come.
She was looking at me, but I didn’t dare to look directly at her. I wanted to say something but found that I couldn’t say anything at all because I was at a loss for words! (To be continued)