The nanny asked in surprise: "My uncle hasn't eaten yet?"
I said, "I'm too busy. Let's see if there's anything to eat. The sooner the better."
The nanny suddenly became nervous, "I, I made chicken soup..."
I understood immediately, so I smiled and said: "What's not easy to say? Your daughter is here, what's the point of stewed chicken? Auntie, I told you before, you can buy whatever you want to eat at my house."
I put my monthly living expenses there. I found that you used too little. How much can you eat for food? Okay, I won’t say any more. Please hurry up and get me some food."
The nanny suddenly became calm and hurried to the kitchen. I found that her daughter was not at home, and I was secretly puzzled.
The child was awake. I teased him for a while, and suddenly remembered that I had forgotten a very important thing recently: to bring Chen Yuan back.
I have been drinking every day recently, and... thinking about this, I felt extremely ashamed.
The nanny heated up the food for me, and I immediately sat down at the dining table. The nanny added a bowl of chicken soup to me and said to me at the same time: "Uncle, please drink a bowl of soup first to warm your stomach."
I nodded and immediately asked her: "Where is your food?"
"He went to the street. This child can't stay at home." She said, and then looked at me without hesitation.
I smiled and said, "Does she think I'm avoiding her on purpose?"
The nanny smiled sheepishly, "How could that be? This is your home."
I laughed and said, "That's right. A monk can run away, but he can't run away from the temple."
She suddenly panicked, "Uncle, that's not what I meant. It's just that my family is ignorant."
Now I realized that my guess was correct, and then said: "The main reason is that I have been too busy recently. I should have brought Chen Yuan back earlier, but I forgot about it. I will go and handle the discharge procedures for her tomorrow. Like this
Well, I'm going to do an experiment later, so I'll talk to her when I have time at noon. Auntie, does she have a phone number? Give me her number."
"This..." she said hesitantly.
I immediately understood her concerns, or maybe she was worried that I had some bad intentions towards her daughter. Because in this family, after all, I had experienced such things with Su Hua and Azhu, although I hoped in my heart that she would not do anything.
I know, but I know in my heart that my thinking may be a kind of self-deception.
So I said: "Auntie, today's children are a little rebellious. Do you understand rebelliousness? She just doesn't listen to what adults say and has to confront her parents. So, I think it's possible to talk to her alone.
You can also understand her true thoughts. Only after knowing her true thoughts can you arrange a job for her that will satisfy her as much as possible. Do you think this is the case?"
Then she said: "My uncle is really a cultured person. What you said makes sense."
Now I feel a little awkward in my heart, because her words make me feel that my guess is right again, "I'll call her now. Can you give me her number? I'll talk to her."
I’ll do the experiment immediately after I get it. I’ve been too busy lately, and all kinds of things have been piled up. Hey!”
I feel that I am really mean, asking others for help instead. The same thing seems to happen to Ning Xiangru. In fact, I understand why, so I can't help but sigh in my heart: A person is too kind and cares too much about being treated.
It’s actually very tiring to be judged by people.
I called my daughter in front of the nanny, "Cai Cai? I'm Feng Xiao."
"Feng Xiao? Oh, Doctor Feng. I heard that you didn't go home yesterday. I thought you were at work during the day, so I came out to play." She said.
"Where are you now? I have something to do in the afternoon. Let's find a place to chat now, okay? I want to ask you about your specific ideas. What kind of job do you want, what is the salary level, etc." I said.
"Hmm. I'm...wait a minute, let me see where this place is." She said, and then told me about a landmark building around her.
I found that she who has been to the coast is different from other girls from the countryside. At least she knows how to tell me her current location. This thing seems simple, but many people do not have this ability. Most people
You may immediately ask the people around you, but the result may become more and more complicated. This is the case with many things. You can know a person's personality traits and even abilities from seemingly simple things.
"Well, look around. Are there any teahouses around there? Once you find it, go there and wait for me. Just send me a text message. I'll be right over." I said immediately and hung up the phone.
"Auntie, don't worry, I will try my best to arrange a job that satisfies her." I then said to the nanny.
The nanny kept saying words of gratitude to me, and then asked me: "Uncle, will you come back for dinner tonight?"
"I should. I don't have much to do today." I said, and then walked out the door.
When I arrived at the teahouse, I saw her at first sight. She was sitting in the middle of the teahouse. There were not many people in the teahouse now. Most people might choose a seat by the window, because that kind of place can see the outside scenery and the passing people.
The crowd. So the first feeling she gave me was that maybe she was very insecure.
Today she was wearing a light green coat with a hood, which made her look a little pale. Maybe it was because she was wearing too thin clothes. She made me feel chilly.
I went to sit across from her and found that her face suddenly turned red.
I smiled at her, "Why didn't you make tea?"
"I, I don't know what kind of tea you like to drink." She said in a low voice, looking very embarrassed.
"It's okay, I'll call you. Can I give you some chrysanthemum tea?" I asked her.
She was still embarrassed and at a loss. I didn't mean to laugh at her at all. In fact, it's very simple. Her mother is my nanny after all, and that's her identity. She was bold after all on the phone, which is normal, after all, we are not face to face.
.The feeling of inferiority often only reacts strongly when face to face, with a clear identity. When a person is confident, he will produce an aura, and this aura will make the person with low self-esteem even more inferior.
I asked the waiter to make her a cup of chrysanthemum tea and myself a cup of green tea. At the same time, I asked Cai Caidao: "Would you like more ice cubes?"
"Is there ice in the tea?" she asked me in surprise.
"Yeah. That's not actually called tea. To be more precise, it should be called a drink. A drink that clears away heat and detoxifies." I said with a smile, feeling very happy because I found that she finally became more natural. This is what a heart-to-heart conversation requires, and this is different from
When a psychiatrist treats a patient, he or she will ask the other person's true inner thoughts only when the atmosphere is harmonious and the other person feels warm.
"Then order more ice cubes. I like sweets." She said with a smile, with a hint of shyness on her face.
I immediately said to the waiter: "Did you hear that? Please add more ice cubes."
The waiter smiled and said, "I'll bring the ice cubes, and she can add them herself."
"This is better." I said with a smile, and then asked Cai Cai: "What do you do on the coast?"
"I work in a toy factory owned by a Taiwanese," she said, and then added: "That job is too hard. Not to mention working ten hours a day, the salary is still very low."
"Then what kind of job do you hope to be able to do now? How much salary do you think you will be satisfied with?" So I asked her. She immediately started to squirm again. She did not answer me.
I smiled at her and said, "Let's talk, it's okay. Anyway, let's just talk about it now. I'm not your future boss, so what are you afraid of? After you tell me, I'll see if I can arrange it according to your request. If I can't
It’s nothing to arrange, just think of me as understanding your situation. For example, our dean once asked me in private, when we were drinking, we were chatting like we are now. He asked me, Feng Xiao, what do you want for yourself?
What kind of status can it achieve? I replied that my biggest wish is to be a doctoral supervisor and become a nationally renowned expert in obstetrics and gynecology. And then I also want to be the director of a hospital. Our director was immediately shocked after hearing this.
When he laughed, he said that your request is not very high, but it will only be realized after twenty years. Do you know what happened next? "
"How is it?" She was immediately attracted by my topic and asked me curiously.
"Later he promised to let me become a master's tutor as soon as possible." I replied. Of course I made up this story, but there are still some elements of truth in it. My purpose is very simple, just to make her feel relaxed and casual.
"Caicai, in fact, looking for a job is just like doing business. You have to ask for a lot of money and pay back the money. Look, isn't that the same for me? As a result, I will soon become a master's tutor, and now I am the director of the department."
She immediately laughed and said, "Dr. Feng, you are so interesting."
"Okay, then tell me, what is the job you most want to do now?" I asked her immediately.
She shook her head, "I don't want to work."
I was surprised, "You don't want to work? Then what do you want to do?"
"I want to study. Doctor Feng, is there a nursing class in your medical university that you can take without taking an exam? It was only after I worked in the coast for a while that I really felt the pain of not having a degree. I thought, if I can
If you take a nursing class, it would be good to find a job in a hospital after graduation. I like the atmosphere in your hospital very much. Every time I smell the smell in the hospital, I feel very comfortable.
” she said.
I thought to myself: This may be difficult. Is there any study nowadays that does not require exams? However, I did not say such words and immediately said to her: "Well, I happen to be going to the school to do experiments in the afternoon. I will help
Just ask. What do you think? Well, if this is your first choice, do you have a second or third choice?"
"I don't know how to do other jobs, I can only do manual work. I don't want my whole life to go on like this. Look at my mother, she can only be a nanny." She replied.
I immediately understood: she looked down on her mother's work from the bottom of her heart, and at the same time wanted to change her current situation. (To be continued)