I looked at him with questioning eyes. He smiled and said, "My sister-in-law is not a simple person. At this time, it is the wisest choice for her to surrender."
"Why do you say that?" I asked him in surprise.
"Have you ever thought about it? Under such circumstances, if she continues to try to hide it, she may only be sentenced to a heavy sentence in the end. Because she does not know that the person investigating her is me. Generally speaking, the first thing she considers
It will be the police. Rather than being discovered by the police in the future, it is better to surrender immediately, because in this way, she can get a chance of a lighter sentence. She also thinks that even if she does not surrender now, the possibility of being discovered in the future is very high.
From this point of view, my sister-in-law is a very rational and practical person," he said.
"She knows that you are investigating her. I told her last night." I said, feeling a little unhappy that he commented on Zhao Menglei like this.
"That's the same." He said, "Since she knows that someone is investigating her, it means that sooner or later the matter will be exposed."
I seemed to understand his intention in telling me all this, so I said to him coldly: "You mean, your investigation helped her make a wise choice about her own affairs?"
"You can also say that." He said confidently, "Brother Feng, maybe you think I am very shameless, right? But I am telling the truth. Think about it, she has other choices in this situation.
Isn't this the best and wisest choice for her? Moreover, in the long run, this choice is also the right one. By the way, does sister-in-law know about you and Zhuang Qing? I think it is impossible for her to be smart.
I don’t know those things about you.”
I couldn't help but sigh: This man is so smart, so smart that it's scary.
I nodded, "She knew it. She had known it for a long time. But it was not until last night that she suddenly said it to me. Now I know that she actually has low self-esteem. That's why she tolerates my betrayal of her."
"No, she doesn't just have low self-esteem. She is really sensible. There are too many women like her now, and too few at the same time." He sighed.
I was confused and asked, "Song Mei, what do you mean by this?"
"Brother Feng, do you think there are still men in this society who don't do random things outside?" Song Mei looked at me and asked with a smile.
I suddenly felt embarrassed, "You can't generalize. There are still a lot of good men in this society."
"Haha, Brother Feng's tone is like those official languages." He smiled, "Then let me put it another way. Most of the more successful men in this society have women outside. You agree with my statement, right?"
I laughed too, and found that my relationship with him was slowly recovering, and I felt vaguely uneasy.
"Men like to mess around outside to satisfy their physiological needs. There is no man in the world who is not lustful. According to your doctor, it is because of male hormones, right? After you have money or power, try all kinds of
It has become a common thing for women to satisfy their own desires. Wouldn’t a woman who is a hundred times more beautiful than her wife, ten years younger, and much sexier not be attractive enough in front of men? "
"Of course, a man who doesn't mess around outside is not because his physical desire is not strong, but because his will, his morality, and his conscience play a big role. Men are all equal when it comes to dealing with sexual desire.
It's like whether cats like to eat fish, but the level of morals, personal concepts, etc. varies from person to person. Therefore, liking women outside can be considered a natural consequence of men."
"In fact, this has been confirmed in ancient times. Why did people in ancient times have three wives and four concubines? But in modern times, with the emergence of feminism, monogamy was born, and this behavior of men was regarded as
Incorrect, so the normal behavior for men in ancient times to have three wives and four concubines has become abnormal in modern times. This is actually a change in concepts, not a change in men's physical desires. Although feminism is prevalent,
Men's sexual desire has not changed. It was like this in ancient times and it is still like this in modern times. However, this kind of sexual desire is controlled by social morality, laws, etc., so that men cannot vent it and must respect it, just like a cat is restricted.
It is the same as not being able to eat fish, but it is undeniable that in the subconscious mind of a cat, it still likes to eat fish. Therefore, it can be seen that when a man has money, power, and conditions, this most primitive
, the true colors will be exposed. Brother Feng, do you think what I said makes sense?" He asked me with a smile.
I nodded, feeling that what he said made sense. "I guess. You just gave me one reason. What else is there?"
"Also, the days after getting married will be more dull than romantic and fresh. In fact, after marriage, both parties should maintain the original delicate relationship, understand and tolerate each other, this is the most important thing. If you and your partner
Half of them become intimate lovers and share the joys and sorrows. Everyone will have a sense of belonging and will not seek sustenance outside. Men like women outside without exception because this woman is more attractive than their wives, so as to satisfy their physiological needs.
It's just to meet physiological needs, not how much a man loves that woman." He continued.
I also laughed immediately, thinking that he is very good at learning and summarizing, and such things are actually a set of things in theory. But——
"Song Mei, although what you said makes sense, you didn't explain your previous problem clearly? Why did you say that my wife is very sensible, and also said that there are too many women like her now, and at the same time too few?
Where is it?"
"Didn't I already say it?" He smiled, "In the past, the standards for measuring a woman's virtue were whether she could find a wife for a man, whether she could get along well with a man's wives, and whether she could manage them well."
I shook my head, "That was in the past. It's different now."
"Yes. This is the most fundamental thing." He laughed, "Because of this, I say that there are too many women like this now, and at the same time too few."
I'm even more confused.
I didn't expect that Song Mei still didn't explain the matter clearly after talking for a long time. Instead, it became more and more complicated. Now, I am very concerned about everything involving Zhao Menglei, so I must ask him clearly what he meant by that sentence.
"Actually, to put it simply, today's women understand today's men, and at the same time, many women have learned to turn a blind eye." He replied with a smile.
I seemed to understand a little bit, "Please tell me more specifically."
"I have said that men who are moderately successful in their careers now have other women outside. In fact, many women now know this situation. For this reason, some women will make a fuss and even go to the man's workplace to complain.
. But is that useful? It can only intensify conflicts and often lead to the breakdown of marriages. Nowadays, many women will pretend not to know anything. They understand their men’s needs and understand that their men are only interested in them.
Aesthetic fatigue, of course, they will stick to a bottom line, that is, their feelings must stay with themselves, and their money must stay with their families."
"What I mean when I say there are more and more women like this is that most women have understood this society. In order to maintain their families, they also understand the hardships faced by their men outside, so more and more women are
Choosing silence. The less and less common meaning is that they have no choice but to choose silence. A smart wife will hint that the other party knows those things, but will not care about it for the time being. I hope you will look back as soon as possible and treat yourself in the future.
Men are more gentle," he said.
After listening to his words, I was stunned because I thought of Zhao Menglei. She never asked me why I came home so late at night, and she always maintained that touching and warm tenderness towards me. The only thing she didn't
All he did was hint me and remind me. (To be continued)