"He went out. After talking to the child, his friend asked him to go out for a drink." She said, "Brother Feng, I want to see you and talk to our child. Okay?"
Her emotions infected me, and I felt that I should not refuse her request, "Okay, let me find a hotel near your home, and I will call you after I book a room."
She immediately laughed on the phone.
Her belly bulged more obviously. As soon as she entered the room, she immediately ran towards me, then stretched out her hands to hug my neck, and her face pressed tightly against my cheek.
I immediately felt a sense of moisture on my cheeks.
"Brother Feng, I miss you so much..." she said, her voice choked with sobs.
I patted her back gently, "Okay, aren't I already here?"
She still didn't let go of me, "I'm going to keep holding you like this to prevent you from running away again."
"I won't run away. But you have to go back early. Yu Min, I feel very sorry for your man, so we must not go too far. Don't you think so?" I said.
She didn't speak, her lips were kissing my cheek.
"Be obedient, didn't you ask me to talk to the child? Then I'll talk to him now. Let me go first. Okay?" I said to her softly.
She finally let me go, and I found that she was smiling at me in front of me, with tears on her face.
I reached out my hand and gently wiped away her tears, "You are about to become a mother, why are you still like this?"
She stretched out her hand and hit me gently, and said with a bright smile: "It's not all you!"
I immediately picked her up and kissed her on the face. I immediately felt the salty taste and said, "Let's go and lie down on the bed."
I gently placed her on the white sheets. She lay there obediently and motionless, but her eyes were following my face. I unbuttoned her loose shirt and gently pulled her pants down.
, her belly immediately bulged high in front of me.
I stretched out my hand and gently stroked her swollen belly, slowly from top to bottom, and then from left to right. What I could see with my hand was a panoramic view of the swelling of the uterus in her belly. I could also feel the baby's growth.
Every detail of the movement inside, and I also saw her abdomen surging like waves. Suddenly, a lump-like thing appeared in the lower part of her abdomen, and she immediately heard her cry out in pain.
One sound.
I laughed and said, "This little guy is kicking you in there."
"That's right. He often does this now. He's so naughty." Yu Min also laughed immediately.
I immediately put my face against her belly, and my ears immediately heard the sound of the baby inside. So I habitually started counting the seconds.
Well, it's normal, one hundred and thirty times per minute. Judging from the way the child moved just now, I think it is a daughter, because her movement is not as big as that of a son. Boys are naturally naughty, this is their nature.
Now, my son has started to become naughty. Although he can't speak yet, he often makes a mess of things at home and is quite destructive. Several times I have seen him pick up toys and smash them.
TV. Because the news broadcast was broadcast on TV at that time.
I didn't criticize the child because he was still young and I thought boys should be like that. As the saying goes, a child who is not naughty will not be smart when he grows up.
Now, I may have another daughter, and she is in the swollen belly in front of me. How can I not be excited?
I started talking to the baby in Yu Min's belly.
Experts found in experiments that the fetus particularly likes to listen to the father's voice. When the baby cries after birth, the mother often cannot calm it down, but the father can make the baby calm down or fall asleep as soon as possible by singing familiar songs and stroking the baby.
.This is probably related to the fact that fetuses do not like high, sharp, and thin sounds, because such sounds often cause increased fetal movement, so fetuses tend to like deep, generous sounds. So some psychologists put forward an extremely useful suggestion:
Ask the father to speak to the fetus, creating the prerequisites for establishing a close, deep relationship with the baby after birth.
The father speaking to the fetus is first of all a concrete expression of father's love. The fetus can feel not only maternal love but also the warmth of father's love through hearing and touch, which is of great benefit to the fetus' emotional development.
The father touching the fetus and talking to it is also a great psychological comfort to the mother. This kind of family happiness is the best atmosphere for gestating, raising and educating children.
Because of this, I did not refuse Yu Min’s request today. Although I can’t be with Yu Min often, and I won’t be able to see this child often in the future, but for me, I must satisfy her on this matter.
Because I am the child's real father after all.
"Baby, where are your little hands? Put them out and let daddy touch them. Where are your little feet? Can you kick them? Kick them and let daddy take a look. Where's your big head? Has your hair grown now?
Mom often eats walnuts and black sesame seeds for you. Your hair must be black and shiny, right? What new skills do you have today? Sniff, you know how to push. Then push it gently, but don’t do it
Don't push mom, it hurts..." I put my ear against Yu Min's belly and talked to the child softly and softly.
I am ashamed that I am speaking the relatively standard language used in prenatal education, because I don’t know what language I should use to express my inner feelings for this child.
The child seemed to understand what I said, and he started to move violently.
Yu Min exhaled softly and immediately laughed, "Brother Feng, look, this child knows that his father is here."
I immediately left her belly and stroked it with my hand, "This child will definitely be very beautiful in the future."
"What if it's my son?" Yu Min asked me with a smile.
"Children, the word beautiful can be used." I said with a smile.
At this moment, my phone suddenly rang loudly. I quickly made a silencing gesture to Yu Min, and then took out the phone.
It was a call from Lin Yi.
"Feng Xiao, where are you?" he asked me.
I suddenly felt panicked in my heart, but I tried my best to control my nervousness, "There's something going on outside."
"I'm downstairs at your house." He said.
I said without thinking, "I'll be right back."
He immediately hung up the phone, as if he knew I would answer this way.
"Is something wrong?" Yu Min asked me after seeing me hang up the phone. His eyes were full of disappointment.
I said apologetically: "My father-in-law is downstairs at my house."
She immediately panicked, "Well, then go back quickly."
"You should go back quickly. Yu Min, I don't think it's good for us to meet like this. You can come to our hospital for regular check-ups, so that I can see you more often." I said to her softly.
She didn't speak immediately, just looked at me. I was a little anxious and said, "I'm leaving first."
"Then, I will come to your hospital for check-ups from now on." She then said.
When she said this, I suddenly realized that what I just said was a bit cruel to her.
Now I suddenly remembered that she had been hospitalized twice in our department. In fact, to be precise, her two hospitalizations were a humiliation for her. So, I can be sure that she subconsciously
There is a strong reluctance to come to our department.
When she first started working on medical equipment in our hospital, she often went to my office. I now think that was a kind of helplessness on her part. Faced with survival and humiliation, she could only choose the former.
And because of this, she has not been to my department for a long time recently, and may not have even been to the hospital. You know, her current office is right across from our hospital.
She once told me the reason why she didn't come to our hospital for a check-up, but I didn't think about it too much at the time. I just felt that what she said seemed to make some sense. However, at the moment when she hesitated just now, I seemed to
Everything is understood.
I don't care about her too much. This is the fundamental reason why I didn't understand this until now. Therefore, I feel very guilty in my heart.
So I said to her softly: "Yu Min, I'm sorry. I will try my best to make time to call you from now on. I will try to have as many opportunities with you as possible. As for which hospital you want to go to for examination, you can decide for yourself."
She started to cry.
I sighed, went over to hug her gently, and kissed the hair on her head, "Yu Min, why are you so stupid? You have to have this child."
She didn't speak, just pushed me away gently, "You go. Don't delay too long."
I saw Lin Yi's car downstairs at home, but he was not in the car.
"The chairman went upstairs." Xiao Li told me.
So I hurriedly ran towards the elevator.
Immediately after entering the house, I saw a warm scene: my son was playing with him on the sofa. Lin Yi was making all kinds of weird faces, and the child couldn't help but giggle.
When he saw me coming home, the child immediately became excited. He stretched out his two little hands and kept making noises at me. I picked up the child and handed it to the nanny. "You take it with me."
Children, go inside."
The child immediately stopped and started crying loudly.
"Just hold the child, don't let him cry." Lin Yi said to me, looking in the direction the child was leaving.
I shook my head, "You must have something important to talk to me about. Don't let the child here affect our conversation."
He sighed, "You just don't appreciate everything you have got. Well, let's talk about it."
So I asked him: "What happened?"
He looked at me and asked: "Feng Xiao, have you told Zhuang Qing that I am going to ask her to be my spokesperson?" (To be continued)