So in this way, his marriage was delayed. Later, when he suddenly found out that he was over forty, he became anxious. Some teachers in the school also sympathized with his situation, so something good would come of it.
People started to introduce him to girlfriends.
But he still failed and was still single. Later, the root of the matter was revealed from a woman who was introduced to him: Charlie Luan and the woman went shopping together after they met, and the woman began to have the same impression of him.
Not bad, I felt that although he was a little shorter, he was a university professor after all, and his income was relatively high. However, on that day, when it was already past noon, Charlie Luan had no intention of inviting that woman to dinner.
The woman was really hungry, so she reminded him: "Should we find a place to eat?"
Charlie Luan had already been reminded by the matchmaker before he met the woman. The matchmaker warned him not to engage in any AA-style affairs with women again. So he learned his lesson and took the woman to a noodle shop. But
When he arrived at the noodle shop, he only ordered a bowl of noodles.
The woman asked him in surprise: "Why don't you want it?"
He replied: "I'm not hungry. And I don't feel very well today. My stomach hurts."
The woman didn't take it seriously, so she started eating the bowl of noodles alone. However, when she was halfway through eating, she suddenly found that he across from her was looking at her, and he was actually crying.
saliva!
The woman suddenly felt sick, stood up and ran outside.
But what's even more amazing is that Charlie Luan didn't chase the woman. It is said that he went to bring the half bowl of noodles left by the woman in front of him and said: "Why don't you finish it? What a pity!"
"So I started eating slowly, and finally I drank all the noodle soup into my stomach.
This story was widely circulated among the teachers in the school, and later we also knew about it, and then it spread to all the students in the school. As a result, he became even more lonely, and there was no one to talk to him. Every time he gave us a lesson, he would speak directly to us.
After leaving, we never asked him any questions, and at that time the school required us students to rate the teacher, and he never got a passing grade.
In fact, I don’t believe the story about eating noodles. I think it’s a big exaggeration. Just imagine, the woman had already left at that time. Who told him about the scene of him eating noodles and drinking noodle soup? You know, that restaurant
No one in the noodle shop knew what kind of professor he was!
Chinese people have a bad nature, which is to ridicule and despise the weak, which is evident from this.
Of course, there are still many rumors about this Charlie Luan. But I never thought that such a person would be related to the young and beautiful Cai Cai in front of me, and Cai Cai personally told me that he was her boyfriend.
friend!
I think this is simply incredible.
However, when Cai Cai told me that she fell in love with Charlie Luan because she thought he was too pitiful, I immediately seemed to understand the reason.
Cai Cai is such a soft-hearted girl. She is a very caring girl. Perhaps it was Charlie Luan's helplessness that made her feel sympathetic.
"Naicai, you should know that sympathy is not love. Have you ever thought about it? Your sympathy will ruin your youth. In other words, you are showing off your so-called love wantonly. In fact, you have not until
Until now, I don’t understand what love is at all. Do you think so?” So, I began to persuade her calmly.
But she was shaking her head, "Uncle Feng, I know what I am doing. Because I feel very happy when I am with him. You don't know, although he is so old, he is like a child in my eyes.
He told me jokes in English and told me many things about his past, and I realized that many people actually misunderstood him and didn’t understand him at all. Being with him, I really felt very happy and felt that I had put my own
It is worthwhile to give him love, because my love can infect him and make him young, lively and cute like a child. I think this may be the meaning of my life, right?"
I noticed a change in her, at least in the way she addressed me, which showed that she had regarded me as an elder rather than a peer, because I couldn't understand what she had done. I said: "Cai Cai
…”
But she immediately interrupted me, "Uncle Feng, please stop trying to persuade me. I have thought about this matter carefully. I asked myself many times why I fell in love with a person like him. Later I understood that maybe
He and I were husband and wife in my previous life. I owed him a debt in my previous life, so I will repay him in this life. Uncle Feng and Aunt Chen Yuan have been in a coma, and people have become like that, but you have always been inseparable from her.
Do you want to give up? In fact, we are the same kind of people."
That's not the case, Cai Cai, no, because you don't understand me. I said to her in my heart, but I couldn't express the words in my heart. I could only sigh, "Cai Cai, have you ever thought about your parents?"
Don’t you have any feelings? How will you let them face the world by doing this? How can you be worthy of their kindness in raising you?”
"Uncle Feng, I am happy. For the sake of happiness, I don't have to care about my parents' feelings, right? I can't give up my own happiness just because of their secular ideas, right?" She answered me like this.
"You are still young, how do you know that this is the happiness you want to pursue? Have you ever thought about it? You are only in your twenties now, but he is already close to sixty. According to the current average life span of our Chinese people, he is also
You only have more than ten years to live, but you still have more than fifty years to live? Have you ever thought about it? Let’s not talk about emotional issues. This will make you miserable for the rest of your life.
." I said, I really couldn't find any reason to convince her, so there was nothing persuasive in my words, and my logic became confusing. In front of her, I had become useless.
The slightest bit of wisdom.
Her expression became determined, "Uncle Feng, please stop talking, I have already decided. I will talk to my parents about this matter as soon as possible. For him, I would rather beg my parents to agree to our decision."
emotion."
I was extremely helpless and worried. I thought to myself: Could it be that she has been captured by Charlie Luan? For a young girl like her to be so infatuated with such an old man, what else could she do?
The reason?
So, although I found it very difficult to say anything, I had to ask her, "Cai Cai, tell me, where have you and him reached?"
"What step?" she asked me in surprise.
I was immediately speechless, "Well... I'm asking you, did you feel that you already belonged to him because of that relationship with that man? Is that right?"
Her face suddenly turned red, and she immediately lowered her head. After a while, she whispered to me: "Uncle Feng, you don't understand me at all."
I said: "I really don't know you, and I can't understand you at the same time. To be honest, my thoughts and ideas should be closer to yours. Even I can't understand you. How can you get the understanding of your parents?"
What about support and support? Cai Cai, you must think about this matter carefully, okay?"
She shook her head slightly, "Uncle Feng, I have already thought about it and made my decision. I can also tell you that I don't have the kind of relationship with him that you imagine, because, because he is simply not good..."
When she said this, she didn't come to see me at all. She raised her head and said to me, her face blushing even more. However, what she just said shocked me even more, "You, what did you say?
"
"Uncle Feng, don't ask." She said, immediately raising her head and looking at me, "Actually, at the beginning, I did just sympathize with him as you said, because I thought of him all his life.
It had been so many years since I had even touched a woman, so I sympathized with him and wanted him to know what it was like to be a woman. However, he was unwilling to taint me... Later, when we were together for a little longer,
After a while, he agreed when I tried to seduce him again. However, he was too old and had been suppressed for a long time, so he couldn't do it at all. He ejaculated every time he came to my door.
Uncle Feng, you are a doctor and an obstetrician and gynecologist, so I don’t shy away from such questions. Maybe you think I am bad, right? In fact, you don’t know, I am still a virgin. I used to threaten
My mother said she wanted to sit on the stage because she was angry with her. Uncle Feng, he is really pitiful. Now I don’t dare to ask him to do that kind of thing with me anymore, because every time the result will be disappointing to him.
He has even lower self-esteem, and several times he cried in front of me. He was like a child when he cried. He is so pitiful..."
Her voice became fainter. To be honest, I was suddenly moved. I didn't expect that this girl had such a kind inner world. But intellectually speaking, I would never support her to continue doing that.
Yes, because the outcome from now on is very clear: it must be a tragedy.
"Uncle Feng, you are a doctor and an expert in this field, can you help him?" She asked me. She had raised her head, and I found that her face was full of tears.
Of course I know how to help him. Judging from what she just mentioned, her analysis is correct. Charlie Luan may indeed have been suppressed for too long, and he has too low self-esteem in front of young Cai Cai, so
This further aggravated his low self-esteem and nervousness. In the final analysis, it was purely psychological factors that caused his premature ejaculation. From a medical point of view, as long as it is not an organic problem, there are ways to treat it. (To be continued)