She nodded and said: "It makes sense. I know Governor Huang very well. He is very self-disciplined. Maybe it's like you said? He also likes to recall his past. Haha! I thought about this matter wrongly before.
, it seems that I still don’t understand you men.”
At this time, another question came to my mind, "Sister, why do you think Governor Huang might come tonight?"
She smiled and said, "Didn't I already tell you on the phone?"
I shook my head and said, "I still don't understand."
She looked at me in surprise, "Feng Xiao, you really want to know, don't you? It seems that you are already interested in official affairs?"
I hurriedly said: "No, I'm just curious. I think it's just a very intelligent thing and I want to learn it."
She was still smiling, "Maybe you haven't noticed the changes in yourself yet. Well, I'll tell you."
I don't feel that anything has changed in me. At most, I am no longer as disgusted with officialdom as before. Also, I have become interested in the intellectual things in officialdom, and that's it. So, I
I am very curious about how she and Lin Yi both judged that Governor Huang might attend today's dinner, and from what Kang Demao said, it seemed that he also judged this. Although Lin Yu had already told me about this matter on the phone,
But I think her words are still too profound, and I still can't understand them until now.
Lin Yu said: "I have told you on the phone that leaders pay great attention to their way of expression. For example, I have been a director and a municipal party committee secretary. There are many things that I do not know.
I will express my position easily. Even if I have to express my position, I will adopt many methods according to the situation. For example, although I agree with something in my heart, I feel that it may have a bad impact. In this case, I will adopt acquiescence.
method, and smart subordinates will understand my true inner thoughts, and they will act according to my thoughts. In this way, things will be done, and as a leader, I will not need to bear too much responsibility.
"
I shook my head and said, "Isn't this too troublesome? What if your subordinates don't understand your intentions?"
She smiled and said: "So, the secretary next to the leader is very important. As the leader's secretary, he must figure out the leader's thoughts at all times, and he must do many things quietly. Of course, if the secretary really can't
If you understand the leader's intention, then the leader will give further hints. Haha! If the secretary often fails to understand the leader's intention, or if there is still no response after repeated hints from the leader, then the leader will have to change
A secretary. In fact, it is not just the secretary who needs to understand the leader's intention, but also the subordinates. Therefore, the people the leader admires most are actually those who can understand their own intention and do things beautifully. Feng Xiao,
Officialdom is a science, and it requires wisdom, and Kang Demao has basically learned it through experience."
In fact, I still didn’t understand after she said so much. On the contrary, I became even more confused. I also felt that official affairs seemed too mysterious and too complicated. I sighed and shook my head and said, "I remember that Governor Huang wanted me to work for him at the beginning.
Secretary, luckily I didn't go, otherwise he might have replaced him long ago. It seems that I'm not really qualified for that job."
But she shook her head, "Feng Xiao, don't think like that. In fact, you are very good, but you are not in that position, so you won't spend so much time trying to figure out the leader's ideas. You are a doctor, and you are a good student.
Have you studied psychology, right? In fact, this kind of speculation is just the application of psychology. There is a discipline in psychology called behavioral psychology, right? If a person masters that knowledge, he can learn from a person
You can know what problem he is thinking about through some unconscious action of his. The reason is that simple."
When she said this, I immediately understood, "So that's it, I basically understand it. I also studied behavioral psychology, but I learned it by myself. For example, two people sit together and they both cross their legs. If they cross their legs
If they are in the same direction, it means they don't trust each other very much. If their crossed legs are facing each other, it means they have a desire to understand each other or have a good impression of each other. Also, it is said that Wu Sangui likes to touch his nose before killing someone.
It’s also behavioral psychology.”
She laughed, "Yes, that's what it means. Therefore, some things may seem mysterious, but in fact they are just that. Every leader has different personalities and habits. The secretary around him must first understand the personality characteristics of his leader and then pay attention to them.
By observing, it will be easy to know the leader’s inner thoughts.”
I nodded and said: "Yes. But I think no one, including the leader, wants his heart to be seen through, right? Isn't Yang Xiu during the Three Kingdoms an example? He guessed Cao Cao's thoughts more than once.
That’s why he suffered a tragic death.”
Lin Yu said: "This is a deeper problem. Feng Xiao, you are right. No one likes their inner world to be completely exposed to the eyes of others. A person's inner world is actually a person."
The privacy of people, and the deep-seated privacy that they don’t want to be penetrated by others. When you are a subordinate, you must not appear too smart in front of the leader, otherwise it will be counterproductive, so sometimes you have to hide your intelligence. As a
As for the secretary and his subordinates, they only need to understand the signals deliberately given by the leader. There is a question of degree of control."
I couldn't help but sigh, "It seems that the secretary is really tired."
She laughed again, "What are you doing that's not tiring? Isn't it easier for you to be a doctor?"
I deeply agree.
While we were chatting, Lin Yi called. He asked me where I was now, and I replied that I was in the hospital. He said, "Come here early, we are all ready. By the way, didn't you say you want to
Are you inviting a singer from that bar? Are you here?"
I said, "I'll pick them up right away."
He smiled and said, "You still want to pick her up in person? Okay, go ahead and get there quickly."
After hanging up the phone, I said to Lin Yu: "Sister, let's go. It's almost time. By the way, are you going?"
She said: "Of course I'm going. Your father-in-law has called me a long time ago and sent me a text message. He is really considerate of everything. Feng Xiao, you didn't tell him just now that we are very good together. I am very happy."
, This shows that I am more important to you than your father-in-law."
I couldn't help but feel ashamed, "Sister, it's not important or not, but I think there are some things I can only tell you, but there are many things I can't tell him. After all... haha! Sister, you know."
She pointed at me, then smiled and said: "You, you are not even willing to say a word to make me happy. But this is good, it shows that you are not false."
Her compliment made me a little embarrassed, so I hurriedly asked her: "Are you going to drive there directly now?"
"Yes. You and I have been drinking tea here all afternoon, and I'm already hungry. I need to eat more in the evening. By the way, Feng Xiao, who are you going to pick up?" she asked me with a smile.
"A few friends." I said, looking a little embarrassed.
She looked at me and laughed immediately, "It must be a woman, a beautiful woman. Right?"
I was even more embarrassed, "Just friends."
She then sighed, "Feng Xiao, although I don't care about you dating other women, isn't this going too far?"
I hurriedly said: "Sister, what I said is true. And...and that girl's eyes are very similar to my ex-wife. That's just it, so I want to help her. She and I have nothing to do, I didn't lie.
you."
She looked at me in surprise, "Is that so? What can I say about you? Well, I won't say it anymore. I understand you. It seems that you still have feelings for your ex-wife."
I suddenly felt sad, "I always feel that I am very sorry for her."
She also sighed, "Feng Xiao, actually you have been making the same mistake. As people often say, what is lost is the most important. In this case, why don't you cherish your present? Many people around us do
This is the case, whether you are dealing with a lover or a family relationship, you will always regret that you did not try your best to maintain it after losing it. There are also many people who did not care about their parents when they were alive, but they did not care about them when they were alive.
After your death, you should talk about pomp and ceremony and build a luxurious cemetery. Do you think it makes sense to do that? Feng Xiao, I may have talked a little too much today, but I am totally speaking out of my feelings. I am someone who has been there, and you can be considered as my sister.
The same person has been here, but why haven't you figured it out until now? Your current wife is Chen Yuan, and she has been in a coma. Why don't you talk to her more and have more spiritual communication with her?
Are you still blaming yourself and feeling guilty like you did before, until she left this world? Feng Xiao, you are a doctor. Although you understand that some diseases cannot be cured, and you also understand that people cannot be resurrected after death, but
Why can't you spend more time with your wife when she is alive? Feng Xiao, I have no other meaning in saying these words to you. I just don't want you to regret it in the future. In fact, I am not qualified to say such things to you.
After all, I was the one who asked you to betray your wife, but I really did it for your own good. You blamed yourself and felt guilty before when your ex-wife died. Do you think I didn’t feel it? I really can’t bear to see you like that again. Hey
!I won’t say anything anymore, it’s just like an old woman nagging me. Okay, let’s go.”
This is the first time she has said such a nagging thing in front of me. I can tell from her words that she is sincere advice to me, and at the same time, she also blames herself. I am so ashamed, "
Sister, I understand."
She didn't say anything and just went out and drove away. I cleaned the stone house as quickly as possible and drove down the mountain. At the same time, I called Chenchen, "Where are you? I'll pick you up right away."
"We are outside your hospital. I thought you were working here, so I came here to wait for you," she replied.
I was stunned because I didn't expect them to go there. But from a conventional perspective, it's normal. The only fault is that I'm too erratic sometimes. (To be continued)