He smiled slightly, "You are not too stupid, but too smart. People who are too smart tend to be lazy and unwilling to carefully understand the deep-seated truths contained in many things. Of course, your current family situation also makes you
Affected, because of Xiaonan, you have indulged yourself too much and are unwilling to think about many problems calmly. I can understand all of this. But Feng Xiao, have you ever thought about it? There will be many variables in a person's life.
Yes, if you don't make preparations in advance now, you will be caught off guard in the future. I have never interfered in your personal affairs. In fact, I have thought of your current special situation, but Feng Xiao, you can't be like this in life. A person must always do something for you.
For your own future, you should think about your parents and friends. Do you think so? You are indulging yourself more and more now. This is not okay. You should know that we are not just living in the present, but also
Most people are living for the future. Take this incident as an example. Last time I asked Shangguan Qin to call you back. In fact, I also wanted to remind you not to indulge yourself too much. Think about it,
You ran away with a married man in private, and you didn’t know the other person’s family situation at all, and you didn’t understand why the woman did what she did. Aren’t you stupid? It’s a pity that you didn’t understand it at all.
Hey! I thought you were so smart and should understand what I meant, but you turned out to be so confused! Well, something happened in the end, right?"
His words made me ashamed and ashamed. At this moment, I wanted to find a gap in the ground and crawl in, "I'm sorry..."
He sighed softly, "It's not too late for you to realize you were wrong now. People will always mature slowly. With this lesson, I think you will mature faster in the future.
Feng Xiao, I know you are lonely, lonely, have you ever thought about it? Sometimes loneliness and loneliness are also a test for people. If a person can learn to enjoy this kind of loneliness, loneliness is also a state. In
Being alone, thinking and feeling in loneliness, is the more meaningful thing. Do you think so?"
Of course what he said is right, but can I do it? I was secretly ashamed in my heart, but I nodded, "Yes, I did indulge myself too much before."
He suddenly laughed, "I see, you still can't do it for the time being, unless you truly understand what I said to you today."
Now he could see me clearly as if I was not wearing any clothes. I suddenly became embarrassed and said hurriedly: "What happened this time... did he admit it?"
On the one hand, I asked this to change the topic, but on the other hand, I really wanted to know the current situation of the matter. To be honest, I was very anxious and anxious. If I hadn't had dinner with Tong Yao tonight, I would have put this matter aside temporarily.
If it had been different, I might have gone to find Shangguan Qin. Now I understand that I came here tonight not just to see Chen Yuan and the child, but maybe more to ask about this matter.
Maybe this is my real purpose.
He was nodding, "He has already admitted that he did it."
My hanging heart suddenly relaxed, my body couldn't help but become less stiff and tense, and I breathed a long sigh of relief, and then asked: "So, what should I do next?"
He said: "What else can I do? Give me money. He has already agreed to accept a sum of money and go abroad to live. He will never mention this matter again. I have called Principal Zhang and he said, since
It's an anonymous letter, so they can ignore it. Even if someone asks about it, they can just say that no problem has been found. Feng Xiao, even if this matter is over, you can't go on like before.
I am a man, and I can completely understand some things, because I was young myself, but everything must be done in a certain manner. You are in such a situation now, and I have no objection to finding women outside.
, but it can’t be too excessive, don’t you think?”
His words today were more direct than before, and every word hit me directly. This made me feel that I had nowhere to hide but no room to talk back, so I could only nod because I was really shameless. I
I fully admit this.
"I won't do it again. I'm ashamed." I said, with sweat pouring from my face.
He burst into laughter immediately, "That's good. In fact, the key to the matter is not what you did, but how mature you have become. Do you think so?"
In fact, I didn't quite understand what he said, but I still nodded.
But he asked me again: "Feng Xiao, if this matter is not handled well, what are you going to do? I mean, if this matter gets serious, how will you deal with it?"
I was startled, then thought about it and then said: "Anyway, I didn't make any profit from it, so there shouldn't be any problem."
He nodded slightly, "That's true, I believe you won't covet such a small amount of money. But Feng Xiao, you are an obstetrician and gynecologist, and you are also the director of the department. Last time, after Zhuang Qing's incident happened, I almost let you go
If this incident is known to people again, the impact of the previous incident will be amplified, so even if you will not be punished by law, you will be condemned ethically or morally, if it is true
If that's the case, you can't be a doctor. Don't you think so?"
In fact, I had already thought of this question he mentioned, but now when I heard him say it in person, I was still moved that my vest felt cold and I almost started sweating again, "Yes...but, I can do business, anyway.
I already have a project."
He laughed again, "Really? That's true. But have you ever thought about it? What if your parents know about this? What if the people in your hometown know about it? As far as I know, your parents are decent people.
, can they tolerate you having such a problem? And Feng Xiao, as a son, do you have the courage to face your parents when something like this happens to you? "
My sweat was slowly oozing out, "I...or I will go abroad."
But he immediately snorted coldly, "Are you so willing to abandon your wife who is unconscious in bed and your young child?"
My sweat dropped to the ground, "I..."
He was staring at me and sighed: "You!"
I immediately understood that he was enlightening me and letting me understand something. That situation did not happen, it was just a hypothesis, and Lin Yi never did those meaningless things.
So I thought that he must have his own reasons and intentions for mentioning this matter to me. So I asked in a low voice: "Then, what should I do?"
Sure enough, he immediately laughed and said, "Let me tell you, you are really smart."
I hastily and respectfully said: "You said it."
On weekdays, I rarely use the honorific "you" in front of him, because I always remember the time when I had an equal relationship with him, and now, I can't help but say it.
He said: "Drink tea, the tea is already cold."
How could I care about drinking tea now? But I didn't dare to bother him, so I had to pick up the teacup and take a sip.
He asked: "How does it taste?"
I replied: "It still smells good, it's a different kind of fragrance. But it seems a little more bitter."
He smiled and said: "That's right. Hot tea must have more aroma. As for herbal tea, the aroma is precipitated, so the taste of the tea itself is reflected. This makes it seem a bit bitter, but it is more refreshing and more able.
The purpose of drinking tea has been achieved. In fact, our life is also like this. When a person is successful in his career, he will be respected by others and looks much more glamorous on the surface. But when the glitz passes, we will find that our life is like this.
It also has a heavy and bitter side. Therefore, we should pay more attention to the essence of our lives and understand what is really important in our lives. So, what is the most important thing in our lives? That is truth. Feng
Laugh, have you ever thought about it? As for you, the most important thing is not your identity, associate professor, department director, director, these are not the most important. The most important thing is that you are the son of your parents, it is you
The husband of your wife and the father of your son. Playing these roles well is what you should do most. When you have done all this well, it will be like brewing a new cup of tea. At that time, the fragrance of tea will spread throughout the room.
Yes. Do you understand what I say?"
I nodded and said sincerely: "Thank you, thank you for teaching me so much."
He shook his head and said: "This is just a general principle. You must understand it, but you may not be able to actually do it. Some things take time, and you need to think and understand slowly. When you truly understand such a principle, the concept in it
It will slowly infiltrate into your bone marrow. Only then will you truly act in accordance with this principle and concept. At that time, everything you do will be a natural reaction and will not become deliberate.
.In this case, no matter what kind of work you do in the future, no matter where you are, you will be successful. By the way, I recently went to a temple to worship Buddha, and the abbot there told me a little story, 'Old Monk
Ask the young monk: If you take one step forward and you die, and if you take one step back and you die, what should you do? The young monk said without hesitation: I will go to the side. Feng Xiao, do you understand? There is no perfect path for man.
When you encounter a dilemma on the road of life, if you think from a different perspective, you may understand that there is still a road on the side of the road."
I was startled for a moment, because his little story really shocked me. After a while, I nodded, "Yeah. I understand."
He smiled broadly, "Okay, that's it for today. You can take Chen Yuan and the child back home tomorrow."
I stood up immediately. But he made a gesture to me to sit down, "Wait, don't worry." (To be continued)