Fang Ya tried her best to look as plain as possible: "Lin Ge, tell me... when will we get married?"
Lin Ge was startled. It's not like he hadn't thought about this problem before. Every time he thought about it, he felt guilty. He had been friends with this girl for so long and lived in the same house. There was no need to do anything. Moreover, Fang Ya's parents also knew about it.
Regarding this matter, Fang Ya spent a lot of effort to adjust herself to the ground handling department in order to make her working hours more stable.
Nowadays, Fang Ya has paid a lot to be with Lin Ge. She even stayed away from Shen Jiang and came to Qindao, so she also left her parents. This is all Fang Ya's contribution... Although Qindao can definitely be regarded as
It is an attractive international city that has also hosted the Olympic sailing competition, but compared to a metropolitan city like Shenjiang, it is somewhat inferior.
Lin Ge has always been particularly touched by everything Fang Ya has done. He also cares about Fang Ya very much. Although he does not see each other for several days because of important matters, as long as they are on Qindao, they will not see each other every day except during working hours.
Almost all tired of being together.
Now that Fang Ya is allowed to talk about this issue, Lin Ge feels that this is his dereliction of duty. As a man, he should talk about this matter instead of letting the girl talk. After being together for so long, Lin Ge has not proposed yet.
...This is also what makes Lin Ge feel guilty.
What he was afraid of was whether it was because Fang Ya's parents suspected him that Fang Ya asked this question. This was what Lin Ge was worried about.
Seeing Lin Ge's expression, Fang Ya knew the hint of guilt in his heart, and hurriedly explained: "Don't think too much, I just asked casually. My family is not in a hurry, and I am not in a hurry either."
"I'm anxious." Lin Ge suddenly raised his head and said, "I'm anxious to marry you..."
This is easy to say but complicated to do. Although Lin Ge has left China since he was a child, he has advanced ideas about marriage. Just like some Europeans and Americans, he gets married by himself and even sends invitations to his parents. If the relationship is not good, he simply refuses.
Invitations are possible.
But Chinese people are Chinese people after all, and they have Chinese rules. Although the so-called matchmaker's words about parents' orders in the past are ridiculous and should be eradicated, they are things left by our ancestors. There is still a reason why our ancestors left them behind.
So nowadays, even if you have free love, you still have to pay attention to a well-matched family, and you also have to pay attention to the parents' opinions when it comes to management.
Children's marriage is often more like a large-scale stage performance for relatives and friends. It is extravagant and worrying at the same time, but even so, parents still enjoy it.
Lin Ge has never dared to face this problem. That's because he also has this traditional heart, but he doesn't have any parents to help him. How can he say this? Get the certificate, and the two of them will fly to the Maldives for their honeymoon or something.
Yue, just come back and it’s over? Is that okay?
If Fang Ya's parents are people with traditional ideas, can they rest assured about a marriage that doesn't even have a wedding? A wedding is about a combination of marriage and etiquette, not just a marriage certificate.
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"Then marry me quickly. I can't wait to get married." Fang Ya felt warm in her heart when she heard Lin Ge's words, but she also knew that her words would lead to more important things later.
Question: "Tell me, who will host your wedding?"
"I..." Lin Ge also has a headache about this problem. Should he ask his master? His old man has long since abandoned the world. If he is asked to attend the wedding, he may not even be interested in participating in this world, let alone let him host it.
, unrealistic, really unrealistic.
Is it possible to ask Brother Yun to be his host? This is definitely not possible... Xu Yun is a young man after all. This matter needs to be done by someone of an older generation to show respect. If Xu Yun comes forward,
What if Fang Ya’s parents feel they don’t respect her enough?
Taking all kinds of things into consideration, Lin Ge's head was spinning. He really didn't know who would help him organize his wedding.
"It would be nice if your parents were here." Fang Ya smiled slightly, trying her best to hide her inner nervousness, and asked the question: "That way you don't have to be so embarrassed."
Lin Ge nodded helplessly. Yes, he had not thought for a long time that he would still want to have parents, but when Fang Ya said it today, his inner desire was ignited again.
"I want to, but I can't count on it." When Lin Ge said this, he felt very disappointed: "I'm afraid God won't even give me this opportunity."
"Maybe." Fang Ya said: "Maybe God will arrange a little angel to notify them because you want to marry me, and then they will show up, so someone will help you take care of it, haha... So,
I'm not in a hurry, I'm just talking casually, Lin Ge, I won't make it difficult for you."
Lin Ge shook his head happily: "You didn't make things difficult for me. You never have. I've always been the one who owed you. I was the one who made you suffer...Really, Fang Ya, I will definitely let you live forever."
happy."
"I believe in you." Fang Ya said: "I believe in my own choice, and I will be happy."
Lin Ge suddenly raised his head and looked out the window: "I don't even know what kind of people my parents are... What kind of people do you think they are? They even abandoned their own children... Don't they have no sense of responsibility at all?"
?Are such parents not worthy of my trust? Without them, I might be lucky."
"What nonsense are you talking about?" Fang Ya said: "No matter what kind of people they are, no matter whether they have done something wrong, I believe that no parent can abandon their children unless they are forced to do so.
I think... they must have their own difficulties, and you should understand them."
Lin Ge lowered his head and remained silent, understanding, what to understand? He didn't even know if he really had parents?
"Lin Ge, I remember you told me that in your imagination, your father must be a hero..." Fang Ya said: "Actually, I think it doesn't matter whether he is a hero or not, even if he is an ordinary person, he is
Your father. Even if he is a wrong person, he is still your father. What do you think?"
Lin Ge nodded, yes, no matter what, no matter what he has done, the person who is his father will still be his father. This is a fact that can never be changed.
"Actually, I've thought about it." Lin Ge suddenly smiled bitterly and said, "Even if he is a beggar, a criminal, or a villain, I will feel lucky if I have the opportunity to see him."
Fang Ya was surprised that Lin Ge would have such an idea.
"For example, it's like a child who got zero marks in the exam and was expelled from school. But in order to prevent his parents from beating him, he wrote a letter to his parents." Lin Ge said: "He just wrote it in the letter.
, Mom and Dad, I'm sorry for you. I was playing with fire in school and accidentally set the school on fire. The teaching building was burned down. Many students were not saved in time. Now there is news from the hospital that several people may be rescued.
But come here..."
Lin Ge still had a wry smile on his face: "He wrote this to let his parents accept the greatest helplessness... Then he wrote: In fact, what I said is just a joke. Dear parents, there is actually a small thing.
It’s true, I got zero marks in the exam and was kicked out of the school.”
Fang Ya was startled, not knowing what Lin Ge meant by this.
"Compared to burning down the school and killing students, it's really just a small thing for him to be persuaded to quit." Lin Ge said lightly: "His parents can accept this fact happily and feel lucky that their son was just persuaded.
Retreat, not burn down the school."
Fang Ya understood that Lin Ge was metaphorizing his own mood. He was like the parents in the story. He had accepted the greatest helplessness. Now nothing would make him feel more helpless. He could accept everything.
Everything, everything would be much easier than the facts he had already accepted.
Knowing that Lin Ge could think like this, Fang Ya felt more relieved: "I really didn't expect that you could think like this...Okay, let's not talk about this problem anymore. Eat the food quickly, or it will get cold. I'll go
See if the pig trotters packed for Brother Yun are ready."