The next morning, the sun was shining brightly, and it looked like a cloudless sky.
Under the bright sunshine in the early morning, Chen Beiyuan led the brothers from the anti-drug brigade to salute Xu Yun and Lin Ge and send them off. He arranged a car to send the two away.
Huazi didn't say anything to Xu Yun, but patted him heavily on the shoulder. He still had high expectations for Xu Yun.
"This brother of yours is the person I admire the most in my life." Hua Zi said to Xu Yun: "You are still young and have a lot of time to do your own things. Haha, what will you do in the future as a brother?
We all need to be careful and don’t let those bad guys take advantage of us.”
"I understand, Brother Hua Zi." Xu Yun smiled slightly: "I will be careful, I will remember your words here."
Xu Yun pointed to the pit of his heart. This was his respect for Hua Zi. Although they both knew very well that Hua Zi did not have the qualifications to educate Xu Yun, what Hua Zi said was true to his heart.
, this is all about concern for Xu Yun.
Satisfied, Huazi sent Xu Yun to the car. After the car drove out for a long time, Huazi was still standing there waving.
Duan Mingming walked up behind Hua Zi and whispered in Hua Zi's ear: "Brother Hua Zi, everyone has left, let's go back too."
"Little Duan..." Hua Zi turned back and glanced at Duan Mingming: "You know, from the first day you came here, I have seen his shadow in you. I have always believed that you can be like that.
As a person, I believe you can do it."
Duan Mingming lowered his head in embarrassment: "I am too far behind others, whether it is in terms of strength, mind or consciousness. Brother Hua Zi, please don't laugh at me. I really
Can not afford."
"Who said you can't bear it? I'd say you are qualified. You're not even thirty yet, so why are you in a hurry?" Hua Zi said, "Take your time."
Duan Mingming raised his head and looked at the sunshine in the east. He will be thirty in one month.
When a man reaches his thirties, he doesn't know whether he is "standing" or not.
"Brother Hua Zi, tell me, why do people say that men should be established at thirty?" Duan Mingming said: "Is this considered established or not?"
"Who said that men must stand at thirty?" Hua Zi said: "Standing up at thirty, many people with little education have misunderstood this... He must stand at thirty, hahaha, this is what the old master said."
Duan Mingming was startled: "Old Master?"
"Old Master said: When I was fifteen, I was determined to learn; when I was thirty, I was established; when I was forty, I was not confused; when I was fifty, I knew the destiny; when I was sixty, my ears were attuned; when I was seventy, I followed my heart's desires without going beyond the rules." Since Hua Zi retired from the front line,
He often reads books, and he especially likes to read ancient books. He feels that they are the essence summarized by the ancients.
Especially this Analects of Confucius is so insightful!
Every word is insightful!
"Old Master said that he would stand at thirty, but he did not say that anyone must stand at thirty." Hua Zi said: "Besides, even an accomplished man like Old Master dared to say that he would stand at thirty. How many people are there now?
Can an individual achieve the achievements of the old master? Who is worthy of saying that he can stand up at thirty! No one is worthy!"
Duan Mingming was stunned for a moment, and after thinking about it carefully, Hua Zi's words really made sense.
Who is Confucius? No matter which country, which scholar, which expert or which professor selects the 100 most influential people in the world, Confucius can always be ranked in the top five! If someone ranks him in the top five, then
He is definitely a pseudo-scholar and a person who relies on deception to make a living.
Founder of Confucianism!
The world's most famous cultural celebrity!
China’s eternal saint!
He is the greatest thinker and educator in Chinese history, an iconic figure in Chinese culture, and the setter of behavioral norms for the Chinese people for two thousand years. His thoughts and doctrines are the long-term ideology and official philosophy of ancient society.
Not to mention in ancient times, even in modern times, children should worship Confucius in the first class when they enter school.
Confucius' culture is not only popular in the East, but also highly respected in the hearts of Western people. He advocated benevolence, emphasized interpersonal harmony supported by the ritual and music system, and valued harmony. This is also the idea of building a harmonious society in modern society.
It can even be said that if humans want to survive in the 21st century, they must learn from the wisdom of Confucius two thousand years ago! This is not bragging.
For such a big shot, he said he was thirty years old.
Nowadays, some people feel that they are thirty years old when they have some small achievements. Isn't this nonsense? Compared with the old master, it is incredible that today's people are thirty years old. Besides, who can live to be three hundred years old?
"Then...that means that it is impossible for us to be 'established' in this life?" Duan Mingming was obviously confused about this.
Hua Zi shook his head: "Of course not, I just want to tell you that what the old master calls standing at thirty does not unilaterally refer to any career or achievement. What he means by standing at thirty is for each person to stand on his own!"
"Own?"
"Yes, if you want to 'establish yourself', you must have your own knowledge reserves and an attitude of continuous learning. This is the source of your competitiveness and progress." Hua Zi said: "You must have the courage to face the unknown.
and determination, life requires stability, calmness and faith! You must have a group of friends who share weal and woe, this is your eternal wealth! You must have the quality of kindness, even if we face the cold and dark world every day, your heart will always remain warm and gentle
hope!"
Duan Mingming understood something, and nodded: "I understand. The so-called standing at thirty is to clarify the development direction of life for yourself, know the direction, clarify responsibilities, and implement it in a down-to-earth manner..."
"Yes, it is you who have the final say on how to establish yourself, not others." Hua Zi said: "The so-called 'establishment' in other people's eyes may not be the 'establishment' in your own mind at all, and those who like
People who use these words to educate others often do not achieve "establishing themselves" themselves. People who achieve "establishing themselves" will never use these words to educate others, because those who do this will find that
He will never be able to do it, and it will all be insufficient. So he himself feels that he is not qualified to say this."
Duan Mingming nodded.
He is no longer confused about why he has "achieved nothing" at the age of thirty, and he no longer doubts his life.
Because he had always lived a life "controlled" by his parents. Even if his parents did not actually control him, he was still psychologically controlled. He stood up for what his parents called "thirty."
He committed the deepest stain in his life!
In fact, he doesn't need those hypocritical things to prove himself at all. He only needs to prove himself by himself, and he doesn't need to be himself for anyone, not even his own parents.
He only needs to be a good person, that is to "establish himself".
"Brother Hua Zi, thank you." Duan Mingming said, "I didn't expect you to give me such a profound education."
"What kind of education do I have?" Hua Zi said, "I just read a few more books now that I have time. Compared with you, I am still far behind you. You should also read a few more books when you have time in the future.
Books, reading books are very easy for people to make progress.”
"Yes, I will definitely." Duan Mingming nodded vigorously.
At this time, the car that sent Xu Yun and Lin Ge away had completely disappeared from Hua Zi's eyes. Hua Zi pointed at the disappearing car and said: "You have to believe in yourself, believe that you can become such a person."
"Yes, I will definitely work hard to become that kind of person." Duan Mingming said: "It was he who let me know what righteousness is, it was he who let me know what kindness is, and he who let me know what it means to draw a sword to help when there is injustice.
, he will help even if he meets someone by chance."
"There is another thing you may not know." Hua Zi said: "The Hope School that our fellow countryman's son went to was founded by his godfather. Chief Wan told the old captain about this, and I
Overheard."
Duan Mingming couldn't open his mouth from ear to ear in surprise.
Perhaps there are indeed many fates in life, but there is no need to explain these fates.
Xu Yun didn't tell anyone about this matter, he really just didn't want this local fellow to feel that he owed him too much, because the feeling of owing too many favors was more uncomfortable than owing a lot of money.
Everyone who loves others knows it.
"Let's go, you still have a lot to learn. Work hard!" Hua Zi patted Duan Mingming's shoulder heavily.