The woman quickly shook her head and waved her hands: "We have always been a poor family. How can we pamper children from poor families? Children from poor families all grow up suffering hardship and suffering injustice... Pampering is a matter for rich families.
"
"Doting does not refer to material things." Xu Yun said seriously: "Doting refers to spiritual and educational aspects. Many wealthy children who were born with a silver spoon in their mouths have always received the best material life.
, I am not spoiled, I am very sensible, and I know what gratitude is.”
The woman was stunned for a moment, this was a truth she had never heard of before.
Doting is not material, but spiritual?
"Perhaps you have always owed him materially, but you have always doted on him spiritually." Xu Yundao said: "If not, you wouldn't have made him what he is today."
"He is very good, he is a very sensible child." The woman quickly said good things for her son.
"Very sensible? If it were not me but President Song who came here today, I believe he would not continue to use him." Xu Yun said unceremoniously: "If he were my driver, I would not
Fire him without hesitation."
The woman's expression was obviously one of surprise: "Why...why...?"
"The reason is very simple. Because he doesn't even take the most basic filial piety seriously, he will definitely not be loyal to his job or his position, let alone his company or his boss." Xu Yun said: "
Can you understand such a simple truth?"
The woman shook her head.
"Then let me think about it and put it more straightforwardly and simply." Xu Yun was not impatient. If he were the son of a woman, he would have been impatient long ago, right?
Children who are patient with their parents are really rare, even pitiful.
Xu Yun continued: "You, as his mother, have worked hard to raise him, and it has been so difficult to pull him from childhood to today. He is not grateful to you. Then, as a boss, I just give him a salary to let him live.
, I have not taken care of his other things, and he will definitely not be grateful to me. Tell me, why would I, a boss, re-employ such an ungrateful employee?"
The woman nodded in sudden realization. Only then did she truly understand the meaning of Xu Yun's words.
"That's why I said, if I have such an employee, I will definitely not reuse him." Xu Yundao: "A person who can't even write the word "filial piety" will definitely not be able to write the word "loyalty". Why should I let such a person work for me?
what about work?"
The woman lowered her head in shame.
Think about her education for her son...
Xu Yun is right, she is a typical parent who dotes on her children spiritually. Her doting on her son is unconditional. Although she will never be satisfied materially, she will always dote on her son spiritually.
She would not let her son suffer any grievances other than material things since he was a child.
Because she always felt that her son had been wronged materially, so she could no longer be wronged in other aspects.
Precisely because of this approach, this guy who has always been doted on mentally will not be grateful to his mother for taking care of him when he grows up.
He never thought about how difficult it would be for his mother to take care of him and raise him by herself. Instead, he felt that his mother was sorry for him and made his life so difficult.
The initial mistake in all this did not lie with him, but with his mother's education. It was his mother who kept emphasizing that she was sorry for him, and it was her mother who kept emphasizing that it was because of her that he made his life so difficult.
Therefore, subtly, he thought this way, feeling that everything was his mother's fault, and that his mother had always been owed to him! Instead of being kind to him!
"It's your fault that your son has become like this and has no filial piety towards you." Xu Yundao said: "We have a saying in China that it is the fault of a son to be unfilial to his father. As a parent, you should think more about it sometimes."
At this time, the driver bought the coffee.
Xu Yun took a cup of coffee and handed it to the woman. The woman's first reaction was to give it to her son because the son only bought two cups.
But at this moment, Xu Yun's eyes fell on the woman: "There is a saying in China, which is that filial sons emerge from under the stick. If some children are really not good, it really doesn't matter how many times they are beaten or scolded.
"
"I understand." The woman nodded.
The driver was a little confused and didn't understand what they were talking about.
"If you think that my mother has embarrassed you, then you will no longer have me as your mother." The woman suddenly said to her son: "You are like this because it was a mistake in my education. I will bear all the consequences voluntarily."
"Mom? What do you mean by that?" This was the "Mom" he had said for a long time. In his opinion, it was an insignificant thing, but at this moment, his mother was already in tears.
The woman turned around and left, throwing away the coffee in her hand.
The driver was even more confused now, and thought to himself, if you don't want to drink it, give it to me! This cup of coffee costs fifteen thousand won! Because Xu Yun wanted it, he didn't dare to buy a cheap one, and he bought the most expensive coffee.
Fifteen thousand won is enough for him to have a very, very big meal, but he has never been willing to spend more than five thousand won on a meal!
Although he took the money and had to reimburse it, he still felt distressed!
Fifteen thousand won can buy several heads of cabbage.
"Mom... what do you mean?" Although he called her mom, there was still some complaint in his tone. It seemed that it was because his mother's behavior in front of Xu Yun did not give him the so-called face, which made him feel very uncomfortable.
Embarrassing.
That's why he felt a little uncomfortable.
But the woman never looked back and paid attention to him.
Only when a loved one is about to "leave" him will he realize how precious this "close relative" is... So when his mother stopped paying attention to him, he felt really lost!
This feeling is very uncomfortable, even more uncomfortable than the feeling that he doesn't want his mother to appear, but when her mother does appear, it embarrasses him.
"It's hard to collect water when it's covered with water." Xu Yun drank the coffee and said, "That cup of coffee spilled, can you still put the spilled coffee back into the cup?"
"Of course not." The driver answered without thinking. There was no need to think about this question at all.
Xu Yun nodded: "Sometimes, the same is true for family affection. When you think it doesn't matter, you can hurt it unscrupulously, but when your family affection is spilled like this cup of coffee, it will be difficult to get it back."
The driver's Adam's apple relaxed a little. Although he was a little worried, he felt that Xu Yun's words were a bit alarmist.
After all, it was his mother! He didn't believe that his mother would neglect him.
"You have been unscrupulously neglecting your own mother. Do you suddenly think that when your mother is about to neglect you, you still feel very lost?" Xu Yun smiled: "This is family affection, and you today
What is lost is precisely this most precious relationship."
"I...I won't lose it." The driver naturally refused to admit it.
"In the past, if you didn't call her mom, she would still obey you. But today, if you call her, she won't pay attention to you anymore." Xu Yun said: "Your family relationship seems to have fallen into a very deep crisis.
Make up for it, and maybe you can get it back."
"What on earth did you say to my mother?" The driver couldn't understand.
"I just told her that your unfilial piety is caused by her behavior. And your unfilial piety will become a roadblock in your work and career, because no boss will cultivate an unfilial employee." Xu Yundao.
Maybe the driver still doesn't understand my mother's difficulties.
Her mother was able to be cruel because she actually hoped that he would wake up and understand what "filial piety" is, so that he would not be fired by his boss in the future... When she thought of this, even if her son called her "Mom",
She didn't pay attention either.
She was very thorough in Xu Yun's education. She knew that if she could not give her son enough lessons, he would not be truly sober and enlightened.
Xu Yun looked at this "cruel mother" who left without looking back, and all that was left in her heart was admiration.
The driver was completely stunned and stayed where he was, not knowing what to do.
Xu Yun waved him back to the car: "It's better not to stay in such a place where you can clearly see the joys and sorrows of society. I don't like to be sensational, so you'd better take me to a more prosperous place.
A place with more beauties will at least make me feel more comfortable."
Although the driver wanted to go and talk to his mother at the moment, Xu Yun gave the order, and he could only obey the order quickly. He decided to go home at night, use his savings to buy some beef, and have a meal with his mother.