In the end, Taikang chose to leave based on the choice given by Qin Wan'er. He explained his situation clearly and everyone could understand it.
Manyu didn't complain about Taikang anymore, but thought about it for a moment, why didn't she want to go home to spend time with her family? This is probably the biggest difference between young people and older people.
As people get older, they become more and more family-oriented. Manyu is a young person, but she is not that attached to her family.
Young people who don't like to get together with their families often have common characteristics. The most important thing is that they are too close to their families. Those young people who are far away from home will cherish the time they get together with their families. After all, they are too close to their families.
I never spend more than a week with my family every year.
The situation is different for people who live in the same city as their parents. Even if they live separately in a big city, it cannot be said that they see each other every day, but they still have the opportunity to see each other at least a hundred days a year.
Once there are more opportunities to meet, people won't feel like they cherish them.
Therefore, Manyu has never been in a state of extreme longing for his family.
She spends more time in contact with her parents. Even though she is very busy working overtime every day, sometimes when she returns to her home where she lives alone at night, she will see people coming to bring her some delicious food and daily necessities.
parents.
So Manyu is the kind of person who "doesn't know" how to cherish.
Of course, another reason why Manyu doesn't have so much attachment to his family is the generation gap. The generation gap is invisible and intangible, but it really exists.
Manyu especially dislikes his parents giving him "philosophy classes" and telling him some principles of life.
In fact, this may be a contradiction that exists in every family. Parents want to instill their life experiences into their children, but the children do not want to hear these things.
These principles of life are indeed reasonable, but some of them are no longer suitable for this society. With the continuous rapid development of society, many principles that were once unchanging have become far less reasonable than they are now.
It’s not just people who have changed, it’s also the society that has changed.
Many elders are unaware of the changes in society and that their own principles have begun to be slowly eliminated.
So when they use this kind of truth to educate young people, young people will become impatient.
Manyu is like this. Her parents like to tell her some big truths and let her listen. They do this every time they meet, so Manyu won't be attached to her family.
For young people who are attached to their family members, generally the elders in the family can really give their children a free space. They have no sense of attachment or even a sense of disgust towards their family members. Most of them are liked by the elders in the family.
Those old-fashioned principles are taught in education classes.
The attitude of young people depends on the elders.
In fact, there is no distinction between right and wrong. Nowadays, people over fifty years old, of course, are talking about ordinary people. Their concept of money is still "accumulation". To put it bluntly, it means saving money and knowing how to live. They
You can even afford to buy an expensive house for your children by saving and living frugally for most of your life.
Young people have a different concept of money, and what young people face is different from what their elders have faced.
Young people are faced with expensive things. Thirty years ago, how much did a house cost? It was only 20,000 to 30,000 yuan. But now, 20,000 to 30,000 yuan is one square meter, and it is still non-prime in second-tier cities.
The price of the location is the same for prime locations in third-tier cities.
Young people these days have to spend close to 20,000 yuan to buy a laptop, right?
Dell's Alienware and Apple's MacBook Pro, as long as they have higher configurations, cost more than 20,000 yuan.
Therefore, young people realize that in today's society, money cannot be saved, and it is never possible to accumulate money by relying on accumulation. In today's society, the little you save year after year is not enough to cover the inflation and currency depreciation in the second year.
What about speed?
But the older generation, or the conservatives among the young people, will never understand this truth.
It is understandable that older ordinary people do not understand this truth. They have been frugal and frugal all their lives, and they understand that only by living frugally can they buy a car when their children want a car.
When you want a house, you have to raise money to buy a house, and then you can spend some money to see a doctor when you are sick...
They don't understand the rules of paper money circulation, and they don't know the reasons for so much extra money being printed every year.
Let’s talk about the matter that Xu Yun and the others are currently investigating. How much black money is transferred out of the country in this way every year?
There are a lot of bastards like Chuanshan in China. Although their money is black money, it is actually the "capital" of the Chinese people!
When the money is gone, won’t the country stop printing? Of course it will print! Money is constantly being printed!
But too many ordinary people do not understand that the circulation of banknotes must not exceed the amount of gold and silver money it symbolically represents. Once this amount is exceeded, banknotes will depreciate, prices will rise, and inflation will occur.
Inflation will only occur under the conditions of paper currency circulation, and will not occur under the conditions of gold and silver currency circulation.
Because gold and silver currency itself has value, its function as a means of storage can spontaneously adjust the amount of currency in circulation to make it compatible with the amount of currency required for commodity circulation.
Under the conditions of paper currency circulation, because the paper currency itself has no value, it only represents the symbol of gold and silver currency and cannot be used as a means of storage.
Therefore, if the circulation of banknotes exceeds the quantity required for commodity circulation, the banknotes will depreciate.
Every ordinary person likes to say one sentence: "Money is becoming less and less valuable."
But every ordinary person living in China's general environment is still persisting in saving money and depositing money.
Is it really that they don’t understand? Or are they worried that if they don’t have any savings, they will be kicked out of the hospital one day because they are sick and have no money?
Or will their children be admitted to a prestigious school with excellent results one day, but will be turned away because they have no money to pay tuition?
Perhaps in a country that does not even have the most basic medical security and education security, saving money is the only spiritual sustenance of the people.
Only with this kind of sustenance can people live in this country with peace of mind. Everyone is thinking about "security" in the future, so they ignore the living conditions at this moment.
Living in the moment.
Although these four words seem simple, they really seem to be suitable only for those countries where citizens do not need to worry about any "guarantee".
In fact, the people of China should understand the truth of living in the present. In a country with serious pollution, how can we not live in the present? What if we really get lung cancer because of the smog? Even if we spend most of our life savings, we will not be able to live in the present.
It can't be cured at all...
brutal reality.
Young people think openly and may be able to live in the present. Why? Because they all have a subconscious mind. They smoke smog and eat gutter oil every day. Whether they can live to the age of fifty is a question mark, so why not live in the present?