"Let me ask you a question, Weiran." Yuan Zili thought for a while and said.
Wang Weiran smiled awkwardly. He thought that Yuan Zili was going to ask about his private life, but even so, he was ready to tell the truth. But one thing that Wang Weiran didn't expect was that Yuan Zili did not say this, but laughed.
Hehe said: "I don't want to pry into your privacy. I'm just asking you, how many ways do you think men and women can communicate? Answer truthfully. I didn't hide anything when I just talked to you."
If Yuan Zili had asked himself this question as soon as he came up, Wang Weiran, a doctoral student, would definitely tell Governor Yuan the most standard answer and the most formal answer without saying anything.
But Yuan Zili's conversation just now told him that what he wanted to know was not the answer. Wang Weiran thought for a while and said: "There are two ways of communication."
"Oh, tell me, which two are they?"
"Spiritual communication and physical communication. I think this is the case, and this is also reality." Wang Weiran said bluntly. In the past, he would never have thought that he could discuss this issue with provincial and ministerial leaders, but
It’s different today. There is a saying called “talking wrongly and speaking truthfully”, and that’s exactly what it says. Today’s conversation can be said to be vulgar to a certain extent, but in fact it reveals some real relationships in society and officialdom.
, as a person in the officialdom, Yuan Zili deeply understands this truth. He now tells himself that Wang Weiran has no reason not to dare to move because of the importance he attaches to him.
"Yes, you are right. It is true. Compared with noble communication, sometimes vulgar communication is more effective. Throughout his life, a man will definitely have sex with more than just his wife. In fact, for me personally
I don’t recommend that relationships with lesbians are more complicated, but in fact, sometimes some things are inevitable. What should you do then? Face it correctly. Since you have to do it, don’t be caught. This is
Remind me of the reasons for fearing h-n officialdom.
When I was in Xilin, I saw many officials fall because women were caught by others because of money, thus amplifying crimes. What I want to say is that you will inevitably make a little mistake in your life, but remember if
If a small mistake is caught by your opponent, he will use it to blackmail you. Never compromise, even if you think this is the simplest and most effective method, it will only snowball and eventually put you on the road from which you can never turn back.
"
"So how should we deal with this kind of problem?" Wang Weiran couldn't help but ask.
"There are many ways to deal with it. As long as you search carefully, you will definitely find it. For example, the first country in the world to possess nuclear weapons was the superpower the United States. The first time the United States used nuclear bombs was against Japan. Why did it dare to do this? Because at that time, only
One of their countries has nuclear bombs. There was a great scientist in history who participated in the research of nuclear bombs. Later he went to the Soviet Republic, which is what we call the former Soviet Union, and told them the core technology of nuclear bombs, helping the former Soviet Union to develop
They used nuclear bombs. Later, those who rebelled against it all said that it was moral. And as more and more countries with nuclear bombs, everyone checks and balances each other, it actually becomes much safer.
Originally we should not talk about international affairs, but today we have mentioned it, so I will mention why the United States has been closely watching the Iranian nuclear issue. Try to think about it, if Iran also had a nuclear bomb, the United States would not dare to do so.
Attack them, the US-Iraq war lasted for eleven years, and how much has gone through during this period. If Iran does not have nuclear bombs, I am afraid that sooner or later it will follow in the footsteps of Iraq. This is current affairs today."
Wang Weiran took a sip of tea: "Governor Yuan, I understand."
Yuan Zili nodded, "The issue of checks and balances is a very important knowledge in the officialdom. As the saying goes, only with restrictions can there be balance. If you think about it carefully, you will get the same experience on this."
"While I was talking, I got a little off topic. Today I am mainly going to talk to you about the difference between the officials' children and the grassroots like us. Let me test your observation skills. Tell us about the third generation of red officials and the second generation of officials, those who are called
Playboys, how are they different from you?"
"Sometimes they do things in a high profile, but when they encounter certain things, they are relatively low-key. I have thought about this problem myself before. Sometimes, when you should be high-profile, you must act like it. Being low-key is actually to appear more high-profile.
Another point, I personally found that the officials' children pay more attention to their own taste than me. I didn't pay much attention to this issue before, but then I gradually felt it and there were some changes. As of now, I am the municipal party committee member.
Secretary, represents Anguo City, and is a public official of the country. No matter where I go, people will pay attention to me, and I must set an example. I can't do whatever I want like before. I can't just say that I see others playing Go on the street.
I immediately ran to watch. When dressing, you should not dress casually in public, and sometimes the same is true at home. Children from official families sometimes act impulsively. I think that in my position, I cannot rely on my supervisor to judge some things.
, I saw a post on the Internet calling for injustice. I can follow it, but I can never completely believe what is said in it. Nowadays, anything can be faked, so without investigation, there is no right to speak. If you want to do things for the people, you must put yourself in a neutral position.
s position."
"Outstanding officials' children do more than that. Their families determine their development path. As grassroots leaders, we should not only see the results of things, but also pay more attention to the process. Anyone whose father is an official
Most people pay more attention to details when doing things, because they have cultivated this quality since childhood. Maybe you can give me some counterexamples. These do exist, but one thing we should pay attention to is that since we have entered the big dye vat of officialdom,
We not only look down, but also learn to look up and learn from the good. This is the most pragmatic and best thing for us grassroots people. There is an old saying in China, which is that if a fly does not bite, there will be no egg.
A dyeing vat can also produce mud without being dyed."
Wang Weiran thought of Yun Haiyi. In the past, she felt very good about Yun Haiyi, but she had never been able to figure out the reason. Now thinking about it, Yun Haiyi must have been influenced by Yuan Zili, and established a good foundation at a relatively good level.
This quality is what every person in officialdom lacks.
Yuan Zili's words gave Wang Weiran a new understanding. Some of his previous concepts were completely destroyed at this moment, but after breaking, Wang Weiran understood this. Without Yuan Zili's enlightenment, he would have understood these things.
I don't know how many losses I will suffer.
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