Chapter 2736 Complaints caused by private messages
This is not an isolated case. Li Yifei receives thousands of private messages every day, and in recent times the number has reached tens of thousands. He cannot read every message, and he does not have the time. W√w W√.
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But this piece of information still made him dumbfounded, and later he felt speechless. A woman sent him a private message, hoping that he could pay more attention to some women's rights information. Li Yifei read several messages in a row seriously, and replied: "I
I respect women very much, because whether it is my mother or my elder
Mother-in-law, or daughter, they are all women. As a son, husband, and father, I certainly hope that they enjoy the same rights as men. Of course, their status in the family is higher than mine, and the quality of the people is improving, so
I believe that women’s rights and respect are improving day by day!”
The other party quickly replied: "Thank you Mr. Veteran for your reply. I hereby implore you to join our organization. Many men have joined this organization. Let's work together for women's rights. I hope that one day women can live normally in society."
, live like a human being, without having to endure all kinds of supercilious looks and all kinds of difficulties. Finally, I would like to thank Mr. Veteran again."
"Wait a minute, why do women encounter all kinds of difficulties in social life now? Why can't they live a normal life in society? Is it because I am ignorant? Why do most of the women I meet live a normal life?
No one deliberately made things difficult for me, right?" Li Yifei was full of confusion when he saw the other party's reply.
The other party quickly replied: "Mr. Veteran, you are a sensible person and a man. You should know how superior men are in this society. They take advantage of all kinds of things. Most men also discriminate against women.
In their eyes, women are just playthings and objects. Many female compatriots are persecuted by them in various ways. Therefore, we must work hard and make unremitting efforts to fight for the rights and interests of the majority of female compatriots, so that women can obtain the rights they deserve as soon as possible.
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Li Yifei rubbed his eyebrows and felt that this person was crazy or mentally retarded. What were he talking about? He patiently replied: "I admit that there are still many extreme phenomena in this society. Some women
We are suffering from domestic violence within marriage and more family work. There are also gender biases in employment issues in some jobs, but I think society as a whole
It is still very good, and it is developing in a better direction. In this regard, I think you should not objectify women. Neither men nor women should do this, but do not overly regard yourself as the persecuted party. Over the years, I
What we have seen is that whether in rural areas or cities, the status of women is improving more and more. In some places, it even costs one or two million to get married. Isn't this a form of improvement?"
"That's not improvement, veteran, that's insulting. Those ugly men are using money to buy wives. They are insulting women!"
"In this case... aren't women asking for high betrothal gifts, wedding houses, cars, and even jobs? Why are men insulting women? To be honest, I don't understand what you are talking about. What you want to win is
What rights? Does it mean that women should not want these things? Or that men should not give them? If it is the two, then there is something wrong with your position." Liu Yifei replied inexplicably.
"Haha, of course not. These are what men should give. They are so sexy, silky, and rubbish. They still want to marry a wife. Of course, they have to pay more. We women have to work hard to give birth to children. We are out of shape and suffer from all kinds of diseases.
After giving birth to raising children, we women are the ones who pay. They provide a sperm and then leave it alone. Shouldn’t they pay more money?”
Li Yifei has already determined that this guy is a lunatic. His words are inconsistent with his words and his logic is reversed. He doesn’t even know what he is doing, so he is running around on the Internet shouting for women’s rights? Isn’t this a joke?
, compared to the perverted incidents and candid filming incidents that had been caused before, it was just a directional discussion, but when it came to the rights of men and women, it simply turned into a mess.
So Li Yifei simply stopped replying to this person. He curiously clicked into this woman's Weibo space, read a few posts, and was stunned. As long as it involves news about the rights of men and women, this woman's words... are quite a bit like wanting to kill her.
Let all the men in the world be blessed, so that women can stand up completely and take charge of the family...
Li Yifei really couldn't agree with this kind of rhetoric. He took a screenshot and thought for a while before matching the content of the other party's private message to Weibo and wrote: "As a man, I always respect women.
The events are the same, because I have a mother, a wife, and a daughter,
I hope they won't cause any trouble outside because of their gender. In China, we have just opened up for a few decades, and we have followed the path that the West has taken for a hundred or two hundred years. Our economy has even become the third largest economy in the world.
A big country, perhaps because it develops too fast, has caused people to have a high degree of thinking
I haven’t caught up yet, but I still feel that some things are developing in a good direction. There are some things that no matter men or women should be overly pessimistic or extreme. I received such a private message today. I could have ignored it, but I
After taking a look, I found out that because of the candid filming incident,
Many female fans have sent me private messages. I originally thought it was nothing, but when I saw it today, many of their comments were really shocking. I don’t know what these people do in real life and what they have experienced.
Such oppression makes them hate men to the core.”
"Shouldn't men and women have equal rights and respect women? Shouldn't men and women work together? To put it another way... If you are strong, others must respect you even if they don't. Let alone women, in this society, men are also the same. They are incompetent.
, who will respect you if you are a coward all day long? If you are capable, others will look down upon you even if you don’t tell them. So rights must be earned, but you must have the strength and the obligations.
, the two female friends I discussed with me today, I still want to
To put it another way, maybe our ultimate goal is the same, but I really don’t agree with what you have done and said. In terms of betrothal gifts alone, rich families don’t count, just ordinary families. In my family, the industry
In the city, the price of high-rise buildings near the city is around 5,000.
Right, the center of the city may be more than 6,000 to 8,010 square meters. If the wedding room is 70 to 80 square meters, or about 100 square meters, let's calculate it as 100 square meters. In this case, it will be at least two rooms, and there may be three rooms, with children.
It's enough to live in something, and the house price is calculated as 6,000, so
A house costs 600,000 yuan. This is cash. What if it is a loan? Maybe it will be repaid in 20 years, and it will cost 800,000 yuan. Of course, I have not calculated it carefully. Then what? Will it cost money to renovate? With today’s prices
, normal decoration, household appliances and furniture are included.
, I’m afraid one hundred thousand won’t be able to buy anything, so one hundred and fifty thousand to two hundred thousand is enough. This also means that you have to do the decoration yourself and spend several months of labor. Then what? Do you need a car when you get married? According to the
According to the custom here, the car may be delivered by the woman’s family.
Some require the groom’s family to buy them. This is the basic material for marriage. Most of them require a betrothal gift, ranging from 50,000 to 70,000 to as many as hundreds of thousands. Taking a middle price, let’s count it as 100,000. Of course, in this regard, I
I don’t know much, I can only tell you what I saw, then
Let’s calculate the total price. We have already paid one million. Oh, don’t take out a loan for the house, just pay it in full. Then one million is enough. In other words, in third- and fourth-tier cities like Yecheng, or even smaller
In this city, it would cost at least one million to get married."
"Then let's do the math again. If this million is paid for by the man's parents, assuming that the man's parents are ordinary workers, the two people's current salary combined may be ** thousand a month. This may be too much, because
According to the salary standard in Yecheng, unless it is a very good job, it cannot reach this figure. Well, let me say more, it is ten thousand Huaxia coins, which costs four thousand a month. Well, this number may not be enough.
Because of the exchange of favors, eating and drinking may not be enough, then
Even if you save 6,000 or 1 million, how many months will it take? I don’t want to keep counting. Of course, many fans on Weibo may say that when you got married, you didn’t ask for so many things, such as a house and a car.
Ah, it’s all the young couple who make their own money.
Yes, it doesn't matter what kind of gift the other person's parents ask for, and they start from scratch. Really, if that's the case, I give you a thumbs up, because you are called self-reliant. You really rely on your own efforts to live a good life. I wish you a long life together.
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"It's not that women who want betrothal gifts, houses, and cars are not good, because this is the rule of society, and it is also the so-called male responsibility, because one party is to marry, the other party is to marry, and China has had this custom since ancient times, and this is also as a
Men's obligations and responsibilities are to let their women live a relatively stable life, and to let her know that they have the ability to take good care of her, so isn't this normal? But this is a matter of mutual respect, and you will gain something.
, you have to give something corresponding. I always feel that people
You must respect others first, and then you can gain the respect of others. I admit that I am a little angry. People who only want rights and do not pay obligations and responsibilities, regardless of men and women, should stay away. Men who do this are just as hateful. Do you think
You are the sun in the sky, and everyone has to revolve around you? Yes, you can be respected and can be called around, but what about your obligations and what you should do? If you fail to do it, please forgive me for not being able to respect it.
Such a person, because I have no obligation to respect such a person."
"Having said all this, I hope everyone respects women, because our mothers, daughters-in-law, and daughters are all women, and there are many women in our relatives and friends. Our country is getting better, society is getting better, and everyone's morals are also improving. Some people
There is no need to talk about things all day long, because when the moral quality is reached, it will arrive naturally. I also hope that my fans, regardless of men and women, will fulfill their obligations and responsibilities, and then enjoy what they have obtained, because