Everyone had just learned about the benefits that Li Yifei, the golden eagle, could bring to them, and they were all a little excited. But when they heard the fourth master's words, the expressions on their faces became a little ugly...
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If Xiao Ling'er and Zheng Yuling married Li Yifei at the same time, as long as they were not too public, it might still be a good thing among these big families. But now that Li Yifei is married, it means that Li Yifei can no longer marry him at all.
Xiao Ling'er and Zheng Yuling held a wedding, and there was also that woman Su Mengxin. Who in the whole of China could compare with Su Mengxin? If Zheng Yuling and Xiao Ling'er were to marry again, wouldn't it also become a joke?
But thinking about it on the other hand, since a woman like Su Mengxin can follow Li Yifei, and it is impossible for her not to know that Li Yifei is married, what does that mean? This may be a very strong signal.
In terms of strength, the Xiao family and the Zheng family are still inferior to the Su family. It would be a good thing if they could truly achieve a strategic alliance with the Su family. This would obviously be better than marrying with the Chen family and the He family.
It brings more benefits.
Therefore, the Xiao family and the Zheng family are now in a dilemma. A turmoil can cause all four big families to be so troubled. This is simply an unimaginable thing.
Li Yifei was having dinner with the old man of the Su family, as well as Su Mengxin and Su Mengfei.
During the meal, it was just like a normal family meal. The old man said nothing. However, after the meal, the old man called Li Yifei into the study. As soon as he entered the study, the old man suddenly sighed.
Li Yifei was a little surprised and said: "Old man, why don't we come up here and just do this with me?"
The old man shook his head and said: "Yifei, I'm going to tell you something serious today, so put away your playful smile."
Looking at the serious look on the old man's face, Li Yifei felt that the old man was very unusual today. He obviously had something important to tell him. At this time, he no longer was as angry with the old man as before, but sat down and said
: "Tell me.?．ww. ?"
The old man nodded with satisfaction. Li Yifei's current appearance was almost the same as when he was a soldier. Then he said: "Yifei, I have decided not to care about the family affairs in the future."
"Why?" Li Yifei's eyes widened immediately. He was still waiting for the old man to come out to the market. Why did he suddenly want to give up his job?
The old man waved, and Li Yifei immediately understood, took out a cigarette and lit one for the old man.
The old man took two sips and said: "In the past, I have been working hard for the prosperity of the family, and I was thinking about how to make the family develop better. But as my position gets higher and higher, I feel that the burden on me is getting bigger and bigger.
Big, I shoulder not only the responsibility of the family, but also the responsibility of a country, the responsibility of the entire Chinese family. I can't abandon everyone for the sake of a small family."
Li Yifei looked at the old man blankly, not knowing what to say for a moment.
The old man smiled slightly again and said: "This may be different from you. When you were in the army, you were dedicated to the army and the country. But after leaving the army, you have to care more about your family. But I and you
I have no talent, I have too many things and too many responsibilities. If I still care about my family's interests and ignore others, then I shouldn't be in this position. Therefore, I have rarely interfered with the family in these years.
Regarding the things inside, I hope they can develop themselves."
Li Yifei looked at the old man blankly, and suddenly felt that this old man was really a person worthy of admiration. Compared with the old man, his level was really too low.
"Actually, after so many years in this position, I feel that the family management method is no longer suitable for the development of this society. Because a family has rights, it will arrange its own family members based on its own rights. These
Many people do not have much ability, but they are in high positions. This is very important for our country.
The development of the family is simply a very troublesome problem, but these big families are all intertwined, and it is impossible to completely resolve them for the time being. Many things are also in their hands, and for the time being the country can only
I acquiesce in the existence of the family, but in fact I deeply disapprove of such a family.∏∈,"
Li Yifei was startled and said: "Old man, it can't be so serious, right?"
"I don't need to scare you. I know you also want to create a world for your family, but I still want to remind you not to go too far. Some things are not good if they are too extreme. You can let your family live a better life."
Life is about the same. Let them struggle on their own regarding their children. Everything has been arranged for them, and they will get used to waiting for it. They simply lack the motivation to move forward. No matter how talented they are,
People also tend to become mediocre."
After a pause, the old man continued: "You can't be rich for more than three generations. This is the experience left by our older generation. It sounds like a joke. Some families have indeed been passed down for many years, but look at the families that can really be passed down for a long time.
, how much hardship is required, and every generation must have a strong helmsman. Not only must he be talented and capable, but he must also have an iron fist and be decisive in killing, so that he can suppress his family and not let them go.
The family is falling apart."
"To give you the simplest example, kings of all ages, no matter how wise they are, after their death, the struggle for imperial power is so cruel. The same is true for the family. When you are no longer there, your next generation will
There will be a series of battles over the family. In our families, every change of clan leader is inevitable, otherwise a big family will be disbanded."
Li Yifei felt even more chills running down his spine. Of course he could understand what the old man said.
The old man smiled slightly and said, "Do you feel that such a big family is not what you want?"
Li Yifei nodded and said with a wry smile: "Yes, if it really becomes like that, it would be better not to have it at all."
"Yes, but how many people can understand that, living alone, always want to make their life more exciting, and how many people want to be content with the situation and live a dull life, especially you, you have now
When the fight has reached this point, if you want to be mediocre, you won't be able to become mediocre."
"Grandpa, what should I do now?" Li Yifei asked the old man humbly for the first time.
The old man showed an appreciative smile on his face and said: "My advice to you is that you can continue to work hard and build your family."
Li Yifei suddenly said doubtfully: "Didn't you say that there are no benefits to building a family?"
The old man laughed and said: "There is nothing wrong with creating a good condition for your family and your children, but I suggest that you at least don't get involved in officialdom and don't get through things in this area. As long as you have enough
The government is here to serve you, and you don’t have to have everything in your own hands."
"But...it doesn't really depend on talking. When it comes to services, I always feel a bit empty."
"Yes, we used to have an official-oriented mentality, and those who were officials were senior, but don't you feel that the current leaders have stepped up their efforts and placed more and more restrictions on officials, just to make them
Returning to the idea that being an official is to serve the people. Although this task is very heavy, you should also be able to see that it is becoming more and more effective. Officials can no longer be as public as before. If the people are not
I am satisfied that if I complain to him, I will not say that he will lose his official position, but at least he will handle it."
Li Yifei nodded and said, "I can see this."
"So, in the future, you can make money and expand your business. If you bring them enough performance, they will naturally serve you. In addition, I will give you a task."
"What task?" Li Yifei felt that this task would not be easy.
"That's becoming the biggest family."
Li Yifei's eyes suddenly widened and he said, "Grandpa, I'm completely confused."
"Haha, it's very simple. I want you to become the largest family, and then you disband this family and set an example for all other families to disband."
Li Yifei's eyes widened even more, and he grinned after a while and said: "Old man, your idea is really crazy. Then why don't you let your Su family be disbanded? It seems that your Su family also has a strong appeal."
The old man sighed and said: "I have such an idea, but our Su family's influence is still not enough. There are other families that are stronger than our Su family. In addition, the Su family is also deeply entangled. It cannot be disbanded with just one sentence."
It was disbanded, so I need a simple family to do such a thing."
Li Yifei rolled his eyes and said, "But why do I always feel like I'm at a loss?"
The old man chuckled and said: "Isn't this life a process of struggle? What's the point of the real result? In the end, isn't it just burned away with ashes? I'm telling you this today. I want to wait until I get older.
When your children grow up and fight for the rights in the family, causing discord among your women, then you will know that it is a kind of happiness to have nothing."
Li Yifei grinned. It was hard for him to refute this. He was not a child. He believed that he could make his women live in harmony forever. Once this woman has a child, most of her thoughts will be on the child.
Especially the older they get, the stronger their thoughts become.
"Yifei, you are a smart person. I don't have to explain many things in detail, you can understand, and time will test whether what I said is correct or not. Now let's talk about the problems we are facing now, this time,
I can't come forward, but someone from our Su family will come forward to help you coordinate, and we will definitely let you marry a girl from the Xiao family and the Zheng family."
Li Yifei smiled bitterly and said, "If you tell me that, I have no interest in starting a family anymore."
"Haha... you have no way out, unless you don't want Meng Xin, you don't want Xiao Ling'er, you don't want Zheng Yuling, you don't want Ning Xin'er, you don't want Ye Yunzhu, otherwise you have no choice but to bite the bullet."
"Oh, I suddenly felt like I was forced to go to the Liangshan Mountains and boarded a pirate ship." Li Yifei sighed. Now he understands that starting a family is really not that fun.