At 3 o'clock in the morning, my wife suddenly said that her amniotic water had broken. I said to go to the hospital quickly, but my wife was also worried. She hesitated and said to me: Don't go to the hospital yet, she still wants to sleep for a while...
I didn't know whether to laugh or cry, so I carried her to the hospital, and then she started having labor pains.
The labor pains slowly changed from once every ten minutes to once every five minutes, then from once every five minutes to once every three minutes, and finally once every minute.
My wife cried in pain in the morning, she cried so hard.
I said that we should have a caesarean section. It hurts so much to see you in pain. However, she always insisted on having a natural delivery, saying that it would be better for the baby.
To be honest, I really can't understand that a girl who is usually so afraid of pain can be so strong at this moment, insisting on giving birth naturally even though she is crying in pain.
I once read the news that the mother was in pain and asked for a caesarean section. However, her family did not agree and she was forced to jump off the building. Not to mention whether this was true or not, it was really heart-wrenching to watch at the time.
At that time, I promised my wife that she could have a vaginal delivery if she wanted, and she could have a caesarean section if she wanted. But my wife despised me and said that of course she would have a vaginal birth, as the child born naturally would be healthy and smart.
I have to lament the greatness of motherhood again at this time.
I waited outside the delivery room for a long, long time, while my wife was suffering inside.
Then suddenly I received a WeChat message from my wife: "I gave birth, 14:28, to a boy, six pounds and five ounces."
At that time, she was still suturing the side wound...
Until now, I still can’t understand how she thought of sending a WeChat message to me outside the delivery room...
Then, I saw the nurse coming out holding Ren Xiaosu. He was too dirty to take a bath, but I thought he was very cute...
At that moment, I began to want to take responsibility for him and how to be responsible for his life...
I asked the nurse to let me go in to stay with my wife, and the nurse agreed. She put on my clothes, hat, and shoes and entered the sterile delivery room. She saw my wife's haggard appearance...
At this moment, she and I have not slept for more than 30 hours. The doctor said that we need to induce lactation and require the mother to cooperate and so on. She still can't sleep. I said to use milk powder to fool her first. Anyway, Ren Xiaosu can't remember anything...
At that moment I understood my responsibility, which was probably more to make my wife happy first, and let Xiaosu just let the situation take its course. Anyway, I can make a living...
Without further ado, I’m going to sleep. Thank you all for your blessings and support today. Thank you to everyone who voted, thank you to everyone who understood me, and thank you to everyone who tipped me. I’m really touched.
When Ren Xiaosu grows up, I will tell him that his mother endured countless hardships for him on March 16, 2018, and that there were tens of thousands of people blessing his birth.