Chapter 515: Finally someone who knows how to do it
Fortunately, when a group of equally useless subordinates left Lang Tuan Zuo at a loss, Sun Fang, who had been promoted to deputy platoon leader of the guard platoon and was today the duty officer of the regiment headquarters, blinked and said weakly.
: "Sir, I know a little bit about the etiquette of engagement here in Hebei."
"You? You are helpless. Your hair is not even long. Have you ever seen a woman's body? Go and play in the mud. The adults are talking, little kid, please don't interrupt." You have also been single for more than 20 years, but you have become an uncle.
Zhao Ergou, who wanted to be the big-tailed wolf in the team and offered suggestions but didn't have any good suggestions, looked disdainful.
The uncles all burst out laughing in unison. When it comes to women, they must have more say than this youth. Nineteen-year-old Sun cannot be an adult, but he is still a little baby in their eyes, even if he is now
He also obtained the rank of warrant officer and officially entered the ranks of officers.
"Company Commander Ergou, if I really understood, would you dare to bet on mutton hot pot with me today?" Sun Fangfang blushed and challenged Zhao Ergou.
The laughter in the regiment headquarters became even louder. I was treated to a mutton hot pot meal for several yuan and almost made Zhao Ergou, who had saved his wife's money, cry. But Zhao Ergou was famous for his embarrassment in the independent regiment.
Xiao Feng's counterattack was sharp enough.
"Okay! The little kid will become more capable when he becomes an official. If he dares to challenge your brother Ergou, come on, come on. If you can tell me, everyone here, one by one, will have mutton shabu-shabu, please."
Of course, Zhao Ergou would not be annoyed with this little brother Sun Fengfang, so he laughed and cursed loudly.
"Okay, it's settled. We will be the witnesses. Come on, I can't help but tell you." Liu Lang slammed the table to open the gambling game.
Even a dead horse has to be treated as a living horse doctor. It would be too embarrassing for the leader of such a large independent group to get engaged and ask others for help. He must rely on his own people to solve this problem.
"Get married here in Peiping, and you will be divided into Manchus and Han..." The first words Sun Bubu said made everyone look at him with admiration.
Looks very professional.
Indeed, because the Qing Dynasty has made Peiping its capital for more than 200 years, the Eight Banners' descendants have already taken root in Peiping. Even after the Qing Dynasty has been overthrown, there are still many Manchus in Peking City. The rules for Man-Han marriages are naturally
The difference is that they are rules passed down by their ancestors. They may change slightly with the changes of the times, but the fundamental things cannot be changed.
"Continue." Liu Lang nodded, paying more attention to himself, the deputy platoon leader of the new security platoon.
No wonder this boy was so fair-faced and handsome, but he didn't expect that he came from a wealthy family. Of course, it doesn't mean that Liu Lang can't have any suspicions about Sun. Everyone has their own secrets. As long as they don't harm the interests of the independent group and the nation, these
It's all trivial. Sun Fang's performance on the battlefield has proven that he is an extremely good warrior.
"After entering the Republic of China, the weddings of our northern Han people are actually not as complicated as before. However, some wealthy families still like to use ancient rituals. "Tongkao of Five Rites" once said that since the Later Qi Dynasty, regardless of the emperor or the common people,
The wedding "one day is about accepting the favor, the second is about honoring the name, the third is about accepting the auspiciousness, the fourth is about accepting the levy, the fifth is about asking for an appointment, and the sixth is about welcoming in person." With Liu Lang's encouragement, Sun Wenfeng glanced at Zhao Ergou sideways and started.
Show off.
Zhao Ergou was in a daze. The stubborn Sun Feng was pretending to be a pig and eating the tiger. It turned out that a big-headed soldier actually spoke in a very profound way, and he couldn't understand it at all.
Not only did he not understand, but in fact, all the rough guys present, except for a few who had gone to regular military schools and those like Liu Lang who had attended private schools for a few days, were all in a state of confusion.
What's that? You need to be educated to get married, so how did they get here? They couldn't help but feel grateful to their parents. How much pain did they have to suffer in order to get married and have a baby?
!You also have to learn to read and write.
They were a bunch of big bosses. Liu Lang frowned and looked at this group of subordinates who had been promoted by the top soldiers. He felt angry again. In the past few years, he must pay attention to learning and culture, and put it on the same level as military training.
"1. Nacai: This is the first stage of the marriage proposal. After the man asks a matchmaker to propose marriage, the woman agrees to the marriage proposal. The man prepares a gift and goes to the woman's house to propose. The gift is a goose, and the goose must be alive. Why use goose? Goose is
The symbol of migratory birds is in accordance with the meaning of yin and yang. Later, a new meaning was developed, saying that geese lose their mates and will never be paired again for life, so that their loyalty is chosen.
2. Name asking: After the marriage proposal, the matchmaker asks the woman for her date of birth and name to prepare for the marriage.
3. Naji: It is a ritual to inform the woman of the good news of the marriage after asking for her name. It is also called "engagement". This is the main ritual in the engagement stage. In ancient customs, geese are used as usual to signify the marriage.
It was later developed into the use of rings, jewelry, colored silks, gift cakes, incense candles, and even sheep and pigs as tokens of a promise, so it was also called a promise or a promise.
Of course, the group has already skipped the first two procedures. What you need to do when you go to the Chief Ji's house the next day is to do the third procedure. In our north, it is also called "Fang Ding" or "Xia Ding Li".
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When leaving the ceremony, you need to select a special day through a matchmaker to transfer the tokens given by the man to the woman to the woman, and replace the Geng Tie of both parties. The tokens are usually rings, bracelets or small gold and jade Ruyi, etc. The Geng Tie is a folded post with the birth dates of both men and women. Generally,
Use the dragon and phoenix stickers printed by the paper shop. There are two folds of dragon and phoenix stickers in one copy; the colors are different, one red and one green. The red one belongs to the man and the green one belongs to the woman. There are yellow dragon and phoenix patterns printed on it, which are written side by side in the middle of the card.
The birth dates of "Qian Zao" (man) and "Kun Zao" (female). The Geng Tie rules are prepared by the man; ask someone to write them. The person writing the Geng Tie must be a "full blessing person" and not a "four-eyed person". The so-called "
A "Full Blessed Person" is a person whose spouse is still alive, and those with children are better. However, if his wife is pregnant, she becomes a "four-eyed person" and is not qualified. While the man's letter and token are sent to the woman, the matchmaker
Bring the girl Geng Tie back and complete the placement procedures.
Of course, for a banquet hosted by the future father-in-law like a group seat, the setting ceremony can be done in person by both parties, and the auspicious date for the wedding can be selected together, and then the ceremony procedures can be completed. Group seat? I say this, does it count? "
Sun Bubu's encyclopedia-like explanation made all the officers dumbfounded. They looked at this ten-year-old who was just a sergeant and squad leader before today and a second-class recruit a month ago like a monster.
Nine-year-old young man.
What kind of family can raise such a guy? Anyway, including several officers with academic background who studied at the Yunnan Infantry School of Baoding Military Academy, they all think that they don’t know this.
Facing the somewhat dull gazes of the officers, young Sun Fang couldn't help but his face turned pale. He also thought of a very crucial question, and couldn't help but feel anxious. He looked at Liu Lang who was smiling over there and thought about it.
Explanation: "The group seat..."
"Haha, no need to say more, I believe you." Liu Lang waved his hand and blocked Sun Wuwei's explanation. "I just want to make sure of one thing now. After I finish this Geng Tie
, can I use ancient rituals to go to Ji Mansion?"
"It should be possible! For a wealthy family like Ji Mansion, if you treat them with ancient courtesy, sir, maybe they will be happier." Sun Feng was not sure what Liu Lang meant.
"That's okay, Zhao Ergou, I'll leave the matter of the wild geese to you. Before sunset tomorrow, you are responsible for bringing me a car of wild geese. Since I want to give this as a gift, I have to give it sincerely." Liu Lang decided.
road.
A carload of wild geese...
No matter how stupid a person is, he will understand it instantly.
Sir, this is another plan to do business without capital!
It's just that you don't want to give a ring, bracelet, gold, or jade as you wish, just to save money, but are you sure it's appropriate to bring a car full of wild geese?
Are you going to send good luck? Or are you sending food, or are you sending food?
When I think about the rows of wild geese hanging in the corridor of Boss Ji's sculpture gallery, everyone's expressions look strange.