"Now that you understand everything, use your brain more when doing things and speaking in the future, and don't be so impulsive like last time. Now look back and think about it, is it appropriate to quarrel with your parents for a man? This man wants to
I think he is really the one who can give you a lifetime of happiness. I think it is somewhat worth it. If not, do you have the nerve to make your parents angry?"
Now that her mood had calmed down, Qiao Nan immediately criticized Fang Fang for her willfulness.
Fang Fang smiled coquettishly: "Aren't I forced to be anxious? Otherwise, what else can I do? How should I best deal with such a situation in the future?"
Fang Fang really likes her current boyfriend. She feels that this boyfriend is very considerate, gentle and very kind to her. He is not like the "good son-in-law" her parents say who always bullies her.
However, when it comes to being married for a lifetime, Fang Fang does not have this level of confidence in her boyfriend.
"Stupid, if arguing was useful, why did you come to my mother-in-law's house that day to complain to me and ask for support? On that day, you could have calmly explained why you had to argue. The more you argue, the more you
My parents feel more and more that you are acting on impulse and not making rational decisions."
"It's useless for me to be calm, they won't believe it." Fang Fang yelled, she was so angry that she made the noise.
Qiao Nan drank some water to moisten her throat. She would have no other way out in the future. Maybe she could open a psychological consulting company, or become a person who listens to people's complaints and chats with them. Otherwise, she could become a matchmaker and get red envelopes.
: "You are angry, but no one believes you? No matter what, no one believes you. You are so angry that you hurt yourself and your parents. You clearly explain your thoughts.
Finish, then stick to what you believe in and get out of the way. In this case, if you receive this call today, you will feel a lot less guilty about your parents."
"..." Fang Fang was speechless, but had to acquiesce to Qiao Nan's words.
When she returned to school this time, she often thought of that day.
Thinking back to that time, her mother was so angry that her eyes were red, and her father's body was trembling as he aged. As a filial daughter, Fang Fang couldn't stop blaming herself. Her reason was also constantly being pulled and torn between filial piety to her parents and striving for her own happiness, which made her confused.
After returning to school, she couldn't sleep for several nights. Even when her boyfriend asked her to go out for dinner, she refused three times.
As a result, people on both sides of her seemed to be injured: "Then what should I do in the future?"
"I'm still thinking about the future. Didn't your parents compromise? I feel guilty. After returning to your parents at the end of the semester, spend more time with your parents, chat with them, walk with them, and go to the park. Also.
Yes, it's okay. I'll call you two or three times a week to communicate with your parents, or talk about your life at school, whether you are happy or not, and what happened. We talk a lot, your parents.
I understand you, and I will never quarrel with you over an 'outsider' in the future."
There was a hint of coaxing in Qiao Nan's tone: "Your parents like Gao Yan so much because you are not as good as Gao Yan. Gao Yan is so sweet in front of your parents that he is the one who makes trouble."
Like your parents' son. The problem is that you are the real one. Gao Yan can do it. You have to do better than Gao Yan and snatch your parents' hearts back from Gao Yan. Without your parents' support, you have to do better than Gao Yan.
, Can Gao Yanguan get whoever you want to marry in the future?"
The more Fang Fang listened, the more reasonable it became. The reason why she almost gave in was precisely because of her parents' attitude.
If her parents favor her in the future and stop paying so much attention to Gao Yan, then Gao Yan's words are nothing, so why should she be anxious?
The key is who her parents' hearts are for!
Fang Fang seemed to have opened up the two channels of Ren and Du, and her spirits were lifted. She was as depressed as before, like a big rooster with high morale: "Nan Nan, you are indeed my best and best friend.
The words woke up the dreamer. After listening to your words, I was enlightened and understood everything. Don't worry, I know what to do in the future and will not let Gao Yan take advantage of me again."
Looking at the phone call from her father today, even if her parents say that no matter how good Gao Yan is and that he is a role model for all children, she is always the only daughter of her parents. In the end, her parents' hearts are for her.
Yes, not towards Gao Yan.
She was born to take advantage of her blood relationship. How shameful it would be for her to lose to Gao Yan again.
With Qiao Nan as her backing advisor, Fang Fang, who had always been a talkative person, had more contact with her family and would chat with them from time to time.
At first, Fang's father and Fang's mother were not used to it, and they didn't understand why Qiao Nan wanted her daughter to do this. However, it's always a good thing that parents and children communicate more.
Slowly, Mother Fang understood what Qiao Nan meant and the purpose of these calls: "Oh, it's so late and it's not particularly safe. You'd better not go out. If you really want to go on a date, we'll do it during the day."
"Well, it's not that I won't let you experience life. You are still a student now and focus on studying. When you graduate, if you want to stay at home and let me and your father raise you, I won't agree."
"You want to live outside? You are still thinking about it. What do I think? What I think is not important, what is important is what you think. Okay, then I will tell you, you just listen, you can make your own decision on what to do.
Fangfang, you are an adult, and Mom trusts your judgment. Let me tell you, not to mention how much it costs to rent a house outside, what Mom is most worried about is safety. You live on campus, and there are several roommates in one dormitory, Mom
You can rest assured. Otherwise, Mom will be so worried that she won’t be able to sleep."
As a student, even after going to college, the life of a top-achieving student like Fang Fang is still very monotonous, except studying.
Fang Fang communicates more with her parents and talks more, but there is too little content to talk about.
After chatting about studying, Fang Fang would occasionally mention her boyfriend. She had the idea of boiling a frog in warm water. Unfortunately, she was the one who ended up being boiled in the pot.
It was also Fang's mother who found a way. She didn't speak harshly, let alone say a single word directed at the boy. From the beginning to the end, she acted from the role of caring about her daughter, which made Fang Fang slowly accept her "opinion".
A date in the middle of the night? What if that brat takes advantage of Fang Fang?
Working outside? She and her husband just said a few good words about Gao Yan, and Fang Fang was so upset that she would be so angry if she suddenly went out to experience life in society. Wouldn't this give that brat a chance to comfort Fang Fang?