"A toothbrush used to brush the toilet, you must be able to keep it in your mouth to brush your teeth. I admire your patience and unhygienic habits. Once you are unfaithful, you will not use it a hundred times. If you are a man, you can still save it.
There is no room for it, then after you have doubts, whether it is for the sake of the family or the relationship between you, he should stop, come back to you honestly, and make a clean break with the woman outside."
Xu Shengnan nodded, this is indeed the way it should be.
"Then, let's see if your man does this. Senior Sister Xu, I usually see you so strong and quick and straightforward in your methods. I thought you... I didn't expect you to be so confused and unclear in this regard.
At that time, he was so tolerant in this regard. Believe it or not, if senior Zou Wenxuan encountered such a thing, as long as she caught the other party's real handle and evidence, she could immediately divorce the other party and find someone who was right for her.
Good man, second marriage?"
In this life, Xu Shengnan's biggest rival is Zou Wenxuan. Until now, Xu Shengnan has not given up the idea of competing with Zou Wenxuan. Xu Shengnan stayed in the capital, but Zou Wenxuan was not bad either. He actually found a good job in a large foreign company in Shanghai.
work.
Xu Shengnan has a house in the capital, and Zou Wenxuan's house in the capital is also not rented.
Nowadays, these two old rivals can be regarded as equals. The difference is that Xu Shengnan borrowed Qiao Nan's help, while Zou Wenxuan helped a little bit from a relative at home.
The more equal their strength, the more resentful Xu Shengnan is towards Zou Wenxuan. Qiao Nan's comparison with Zou Wenxuan at this time is basically poking at Xu Shengnan's Achilles' heel.
In fact, Qiao Nan did have this intention. She didn't want to poke Xu Shengnan's weak point. She was afraid that Xu Shengnan would pretend to be a dead dog with her and not react. Therefore, she either didn't mention it or mentioned it, and she had to set a cruel example.
Xu Shengnan clenched his fist: "Xuemei Qiao, I understand what you mean. I, I will think about it carefully, and then go back and observe my husband to see how he behaves. If he really doesn't want this family anymore, I will be the only one."
Efforts are in vain.”
"Sister Xu, whether you can listen to it or not, there is a sentence here that I must remind you first. I don't worry about anything else. Now your man has spent money to the point of asking you for what you want. So, there is one thing you need to know
You must pay attention. Don't think that asking for money is too tacky. Do you still remember how difficult it was for you to take root in the capital? Therefore, you must pay special attention to the fact that others will lose their money. If the man is gone, you can find it again. The money is gone.
, you may be able to make more money. But you have to remember that you are not alone. If the money is gone, what will your parents, your daughter, and even yourself, eat, drink, and spend?"
Qiao Nan had to analyze the seriousness of the situation to Xu Shengnan. Such a ruthless man really existed. Otherwise, Qiao Nan would not have asked Xu Shengnan the first question when he raised his doubts.
She must be paying off the mortgage for the apartment where Xu Shengnan lives now.
"I, I understand." Perhaps life has been so good in the past few years, so smooth that Xu Shengnan forgot the fear and excitement she felt when she first arrived in the capital to study. Especially after entering her sophomore year, she often worried
, after graduation, should she stay and become a drifter in Beijing, or should she go back to her hometown?
The uneasiness at that time was completely forgotten after so many years of comfortable life, which made Xu Shengnan naively feel that feelings are more important than money. She has the ability and money can be earned slowly. But feelings are just that.
Not so easy to find anymore.
In a place like the capital, if you want to live in a place with feelings and no money, it is absolutely impossible. She can survive on her own, but her parents and young daughter who have come to live in the capital cannot accompany her.
Let's get through it together. My parents are old. If they get sick, a trip to the hospital will cost them a lot of money.
When my daughter is in school, she has to attend cram schools of one kind or another, as well as cram schools and activities organized by the school. Not only does this cost money, but the amount spent each time is not a small amount.
Thinking about it this way, Xu Shengnan was shocked to find that she didn't have a marriage. It might be a temporary pain. But she couldn't even keep her own money. Not only would she be miserable for a while, but if something happened to her closest relatives, she would
He didn't even have the ability to deal with it. After all, these situations didn't require other methods of dealing with them. Xu Shengnan only needed to spend a lot of money to solve them.
The pale-faced Xu Shengnan came to his senses from the pain of being betrayed by a man: "Xuemei Qiao, don't worry, I really understand what you mean this time. I have endured this family for so many years and added so much.
It took a lot of effort to build the class bit by bit. These are all my hard work. At least these things, I will never let other women take away them."
Sometimes you have to be so realistic as a human being.
She had understood the truth when she was studying. After entering the society, after more than ten years of good life, she had completely forgotten it. She was even worse than herself when she was in college. Xu Shengnan really wanted to knock her dizzy head and ask
What's wrong with me?
"Okay, if you're like this, I won't say anything else." Qiao Nan breathed a sigh of relief. She was really afraid that Xu Shengnan, who was usually strong, would pretend to be confused with her at this time. She would rather fake happiness than real pain and then liberate herself.
.Fortunately, Xu Shengnan is still the same Xu Shengnan as before. He never admits defeat, understands reality, and does not have too many unrealistic thoughts and ideas.
Xu Shengnan came in a hurry and left in a hurry.
For no other reason than when money was mentioned, Xu Shengnan had to cheer up. This summer, she enrolled her daughter in a summer camp, which cost more than 8,000 yuan. She has done her homework this year, and next year her daughter’s summer camp will go abroad.
At that time, if it is doubled, it will cost more than 16,000.
These are money, money, money. She cannot lack money. She can wrong herself, but she must not wrong her daughter.
She is a heartless man who spends money on other women but is reluctant to spend a penny on his daughter. She is different. Her daughter is her darling. If it comes to divorce, she must take her daughter away.
.Yes, she still has to consider this issue. She has to think of a way to let her daughter follow her after the divorce.
Xu Shengnan either didn't know what to do. As soon as he thought in this direction, Xu Shengnan immediately made a worst-case plan and what he should do if such a situation really happened. Apart from this man, he should firmly grasp the situation.