In this way, raising a daughter is really a disadvantage. In this situation, the daughter is completely like raising someone else's son.
Anyway, she would not do this. If she was rich and could make money, she would definitely spend all the money on her family, especially her parents. After all, these people are her closest relatives.
Living together, the relationship is not comparable to that of ordinary people.
Instead of wasting a lot of money on an outsider called "husband", it would be better to spend it on your own parents, brothers and sisters.
When Ding Jiayi heard this, she felt that this made so much sense. She gave birth to Qiao Nan and raised Qiao Nan. Qiao Nan finally learned how to make money, but she had to use the money earned to support outsiders and be filial to other people's families.
Old man, you and Qiao Dongliang have to stay much further back. Why!
Rather than letting others enjoy the fruits of her labor in vain, it is better for her to firmly hold the fruits of her labor in her own hands. At least, all the money Qiao Nan earned before she got married must be kept in her own pocket
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Qiao Nan is so good at making money. After one year, she will earn two or three hundred thousand. After five years of earning, Qiao Nan will almost be a millionaire. Why should Qiao Nan marry into someone else's family with one million?
, and then take this one million to give it to her husband, or to give it to her father-in-law and mother-in-law, but she and Lao Qiao will not enjoy any happiness at all.
Under the influence of Qiao Zijin, Ding Jiayi became more and more domineering, and her demands on Qiao Nan became higher and higher. Ding Jiayi never felt that there was anything wrong with her doing so, and that it was a way of treating Qiao Nan.
Very excessive behavior.
All unreasonable behaviors were rationalized by Qiao Zijin's distorted explanations. Ding Jiayi simply regarded this set of ideas as a guide to life, and she had to refer to everything.
There used to be Qiao Nan here, so how could Ding Jiayi have her thoughts on Qiao Zijin? Now that Qiao Nan is no longer a shield, Ding Jiayi's thoughts have not changed at all, so the trick she used on Qiao Nan
Reasonable guidelines, what are the problems when applied to Qiao Zijin?
Ding Jiayi did not agree with being criticized and criticized by Qiao Zijin today, and felt that she was wronged: "Why am I not good to Qiao Nan? You didn't tell me, instead of letting Qiao Nan earn all the money she
, to spend it on outsiders, of course it is better to be filial to me and your dad. You have a lot of money now, shouldn’t you be filial to me and your dad?”
Isn't it just a matter of paying a mobile phone bill, which costs a hundred yuan at most. If it's a bigger deal, Zijin would have to quarrel with her, because he dislikes her as a mother who is too harsh. If this is considered harsh, then these
What has she asked of Qiao Nan in the past few years?
Ding Jiayi knew very well that compared with her previous demands on Qiao Nan, what she said to Qiao Zijin was not a request. Even here, she was punished by Qiao Zijin.
Who is the mother and who is the daughter?
Of course, Qiao Zijin didn't remember much about what he had taught Ding Jiayi. After Ding Jiayi reminded him, Qiao Zijin was somewhat impressed: "Mom, this society is changing every day. You can't always be so old-fashioned and complacent.
There is no progress at all. When a daughter grows up and gets married, what’s wrong with eating from her husband’s family, drinking from her husband’s family, and paying a little for her husband’s family? Also, when your daughter grows up and has her own life, you have to let us be independent. This independence maintains personality.
Independence, life independence and financial independence.”
She has done a good job. In today's society, there are many old people who are nibbling. She has money in her pocket, and she doesn't want to spend her parents' money. She spends her own money everywhere.
Compared with those nibbling old people, she is a filial daughter. She doesn't have so many demands on her mother, so why should her mother have such high demands on her?
Qiao Zijin’s biological mother, what does Qiao Zijin mean by financial independence? Others don’t understand, but Ding Jiayi understands it. The so-called economic independence means that all the money in Qiao Zijin’s pocket is
You shouldn't interfere with Qiao Zijin's, let alone take Qiao Zijin's money. This is what Qiao Zijin calls economic independence.
Over money, the mother and daughter, who had always been very united, started quarreling in the police station. The people in the police station were dumbfounded and speechless about this strange mother and daughter. They talked about money, and they were fooled in the police station.
They started arguing in front of outsiders. No wonder the aunt's lover received their call with such a cold tone. Not only was he not nervous, but he also said he would pick them up in an hour.
The content of the conversation between the two was too simple and had no connotation. Anyone with ears and brains would understand what the mother and daughter were arguing about. The mother asked her daughter to pay the phone bill, but the daughter thought that the mother was not financially independent enough.
, always grabbing her daughter, sucking her blood, and making all kinds of excuses to spend her daughter's money.
Based on this conversation, people in the bureau said: Neither mother and daughter are good birds, no wonder they are in that kind of news. It seems that the reports in the later period of the news are all true. After arguing for a long time, this pair
The word "money" has never left the mother and daughter's conversation. Not to mention that money is more important than family ties, money is almost more important than life.
Of course, Qiao Dongliang didn't know about the quarrel between Ding Jiayi and Qiao Zijin in the police station. The Zhai family held a luncheon, not a dinner. So, around two o'clock in the afternoon, they dispersed. The important guests were Zhai Yaohui and
Miao and Liang were given a little free time, and the younger contemporaries were naturally arranged by Zhai Hua.
Seeing that everyone was almost gone, Qiao Dongliang stood up and said: "Nan Nan, you have a child who will be blessed later. What happened in the past is just a mistake. If you can't go back, you can't change anything. Now...
... Very good, just keep it like this. What if one day, I am no longer here, and I can't control them anymore. You just do things according to your conscience. If you should control them, I won't push them away. If you shouldn't control them, you won't control them either.
Don't accept it. Since ancient times, only parents have raised their children, and the children have nurtured their parents in return. It makes no sense for your sister to be a mother even though she is so old. Your sister is shameless. Don't talk to her again.
She got it."
Qiao Nan nodded and called "Dad" calmly. For Qiao Nan, these instructions came too late. The years that have passed cannot be taken back, and there is no point in continuing to struggle. But this
It doesn't mean that Qiao Nan can completely forget the hurt she suffered in the Qiao family in the past.
Everything she had suffered could not be easily erased with a few words of comfort from her father, which were not serious or even sincere. After being comforted, she could pretend that the incident had never happened, or that the sins she had suffered could really become a thing of the past.