Life will not become richer just because you make a few more friends.
Friends, how can we be so easy to make friends with?
In the dream, Qiao Nan worked so hard. In addition to having a better relationship with her roommates in high school, she also had the best relationship with Shi Qing. Later, when she went to college, she had another senior sister. In the dream, Qiao Nan
I already feel that I was very lucky and blessed to have met so many worthy friends.
"Dad, Mom, okay, why do you keep talking about this topic? Is someone spreading nonsense again?"
"..." Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang were speechless, because Qiao Nan was right, someone was talking about something.
Qiao Nan doesn't like to socialize with others. After living in the military and political compound of the capital for so long, Qiao Nan has almost no contact with the neighbors, making her like a loner. If it weren't for the presence of the Zhai family, Qiao Nan would
His style and style are no different from those of a lone wolf.
How can we stop gossiping!
In the past, everyone disliked Qiao Nan and felt that Qiao Nan was born unworthy of being a neighbor. Qiao Nan went out less often and did not come to make friends with her family. Everyone felt that Qiao Nan was doing something self-aware. Knowing that she was with
The people in this compound are incompatible with each other. They are not from the same family. Only by being less out of sight can you save your face.
Things are very different now. Many people are wondering why the daughter-in-law of the Zhai family never shows up in their compound and communicates with others. Is it because Qiao Nan herself is unwilling to communicate, or is it because the Zhai family has some purpose?
, restraining Qiao Nan and preventing her from communicating with others.
Except when the child is one month old, Qiao Nan, who never expresses herself, almost gives people the illusion that she is a tool specially found by the Zhai family to give birth to a child. No, after the child is born, Qiao Nan has no chance of giving birth to a child.
She became an aunt taking care of her children.
In this regard, the Zhai family was extremely helpless, especially Zhai Yaohui. We had some old friendship with each other in the past. On the premise of taking good care of one-third of an acre of land, there are so many important national affairs, why not more?
Are you concerned about the development of the country? This is because you are old, so you have learned the gossip of women?
Zhai Yaohui asked Qiao Nan to make friends not to clarify the misunderstanding. He simply felt that Qiao Nan had always been too lonely. In the past, because of the Qiao family, apart from working, he did not have any extra time to get married.
After coming to their Zhai family, she got pregnant in the shortest possible time, and she still had to study with a full belly. For more than a year, Qiao Nan had almost no chance to relax. Naturally, he hoped that Qiao Nan could have her own personal time and
world.
After discussing it with Miao Liang, the two decided to let them take care of San Bao as much as possible while they were still young, so that Qiao Nan could free up the world and expand her circle of friends.
Others misunderstood that the Zhai family regarded Qiao Nan as a child-bearer, and that the means of raising the child was not important, but if Qiao Nan had such an illusion, it would be a big problem.
b "No, it's nothing. I didn't say anything." Miao Liang smiled awkwardly. She didn't expect Qiao Nan to guess it right. Without any preparation, when Qiao Nan asked this question, Miao Liang answered naturally.
I can't even laugh.
Okay, seeing Miao Liang's reaction, Miao Liang said no, how could Qiao Nan believe it: "Dad, Mom, I think we live behind closed doors. Whether you are good or not, others can't tell, it's in your own heart.
I know best. I think I am doing well as I am now. It is definitely a bit busy to take care of three children at once. But you really asked me not to get involved in the affairs of the three children, and gave me time to do my best.
What kind of friends should I make? Firstly, I will feel empty and panicked. Secondly, I don’t think the friends I make under such circumstances are reliable.”
Friends are not made with a specific purpose. If you make friends for the sake of making friends, the friends you make are not friends in the true sense.
After spending so much thought and time, the goal has not been achieved, what's the point, and I am exhausted. When it comes to making friends, Qiao Nan has no intention of forcing anything. This kind of thing can only be allowed to take its course.
Qiao Nan had already made her words so reasonable, and Zhai Yaohui put his mind at ease. His original intention was that his own people were more important, and he did not have such an idea just for the sake of others. He always felt that Qiao Nan's education was not high, but
People are very transparent. The more contact they have, the more Zhai Yaohui is sure of his thoughts.
After Qiao Nan went to school, he saw that Qiao Nan came back third in last year's exams despite being half-suspended. Zhai Yaohui said that Qiao Nan not only has a high emotional intelligence, but also obviously has a low IQ.
Such an outstanding child was born in the Qiao family, but she was wronged because she was held back by the Qiao family. As long as Qiao Nan is given a chance to develop, she can definitely show her talents, instead of the "so and so" from outsiders.
"vassal".
If Qiao Nan didn't grow up in a family like Qiao's, what if Zhai Sheng still married Qiao Nan in the end. Maybe, when outsiders mention the couple now, when they mention Qiao Nan, they don't mean "
Oh, the woman Zhai Sheng married", and it should be "Oh, the man Qiao Nan married".
Zhai Yaohui didn't know that what he was thinking in Qiao Nan's dream was real, and it was not that he thought too much. When Qiao Nan appeared in front of others, others never commented on her as "Zhai Sheng's wife".
When Zhai Sheng arrived, someone would mention, "You are Qiao Nan's other half."
"You two are really..." Seeing that Zhai Yaohui "compromised" so quickly, Miao Liang was unhappy: "Nan Nan, you often go to school now, but you haven't met a girl you get along with?" Doesn't it mean that in school?
Are the friends I make here considered pure friends? Nannan is studying in school, isn't it a good time to make friends?
Taking advantage of this moment, Qiao Nan finally settled her lunch meal: "Mom, don't worry about me. The school I study now is different from the school in your concept. You said
The kind of school that students enter and come into contact with, my kind of school is a place for learning and self-improvement in a pure sense."
Anyone who goes to adult college is either for a diploma or for a greater purpose. The former is about paying money to get a diploma, and the latter is about absorbing knowledge or harvesting results. Making friends is not very realistic.
Of course, Qiao Nan didn't say anything too harshly. Nothing is absolute. It's just that she had no good luck since she was a child, except for marrying Zhai Sheng and entering the Zhai family. So when it comes to making friends,
Qiao Nan has no intention of forcing anything. (To be continued)