But at this moment, Li Yayan's idea is not as firm as before. I don't know if Qiao Nan is afraid because of the Zhai family's background. He is obviously a junior high school student, but he can be so stable when encountering things.
On the other hand, in front of Qiao Nan, she looked like a fledgling yellow-haired girl, running around in a hurry and always saying the wrong things, making her a little shorter than Qiao Nan.
Li Yayan kept telling herself to be calm and not to be anxious. It didn't matter if the beginning was not good. As long as everything was brought back to the original track during the process, her brother would have the money to marry his wife.
"It's okay, don't be nervous." In Qiao Nan's eyes, isn't Li Yayan just a yellow man? Qiao Nan has always regarded everything that happened in her dreams as her experience in another life. The combined age of Qiao Nan's two lives
, almost surpassing my own parents: "Have a drink, it tastes good, not too sweet, you don't have to worry about getting fat."
She looked at her watch and saw that there was still an hour before the afternoon class, so Qiao Nan felt that she had enough time to see what else Li Yayan wanted to say and do.
"Thank you, thank you." Li Yayan, who was extremely embarrassed, did not refuse the drink. After holding it up, he drank half of the cup before feeling calmer and put down the cup: "Qiao Nan, I'm here to talk to you.
Have you ever told me, I am not from the capital."
Women's friendships are often established through gossiping. Moreover, at this time, when everyone talks about their own experiences, it can also enhance the relationship.
"Really? It's such a coincidence that I'm not from the capital." But after marrying Zhai Sheng, she moved her registered residence to the capital.
"Really?" Li Yayan knew what is enough. Although the fellow villager burst into tears when she saw the fellow villager, this was not the best time for her to show that she was from Pingcheng: "Then are you like me? Come on.
After arriving in the capital, I found it extremely difficult to make friends. I didn’t understand. Aren’t we all Chinese? Why was it that I was not an authentic capital person? When some people found out, they looked at me and spoke in a different tone.
It's the same. Even if those people were still willing to date me, I felt uncomfortable and refused. When it comes to this matter, I feel really uncomfortable."
Li Yayan is not completely lying. If there is really no such regional discrimination at all, why do some people always talk about locals and foreigners? But in this case, when it comes to the situation of Chinese and foreigners,
On the contrary, it's as if foreigners are rare and more powerful than Chinese people.
Qiao Nan leaned back slightly: "You have to look at this kind of thing. As far as I've ever encountered, it's not all like this. There are still many people in the capital who are warm and hospitable." As for relatives and friends, what should I say?
It's quite embarrassing to expect the other person to be friendly to you when you don't have pure thoughts.
Li Yayan smiled bitterly: "That should be because your situation is different from mine. I see that you are usually either studying in school or rushing home to take care of the elderly and children. I am different. In addition to learning more knowledge, at home,
No one in the city needs me to take care of me, and I really have a lot of free time. Because of this, I encounter so many things, which makes me sad. If my husband hadn’t wanted to develop his career in the capital, I would have really wanted to go back to the capital.
My hometown. After all, there are a lot of relatives and friends there."
"Is there a saying that the beauty of hometown water depends on whether you can kiss the people in your hometown? It seems that hometown is better. However, once this woman gets married, she can only follow the man. It makes me think now
Find a better friend, there is no one you can hang out with when you have nothing to do."
Qiao Nan resisted the urge to yawn. This person really gets sleepy easily after eating a full meal: "I see you are quite old. Where are your children? How old are they? Have they gone to school?" As long as you have a child by your side,
As a parent, it is really impossible to go anywhere easily. Li Yayan may not have to go to work, but he still has to go to school.
Faced with Li Yayan's situation where he was so busy that he had to find a friend to kill time, Qiao Nan really couldn't understand it. She never had such a leisurely time, whether in dreams or outside.
"I have a son who is only four years old this year and has just started kindergarten. As you know, the elderly in the family cannot live without their children. My husband and I came to the capital to develop, and the child was left with my parents-in-law, who is still in my hometown.
That's why I have so much time and am so bored." When Li Yayan mentioned her son, longing flashed in her eyes. She missed her son very much. If possible, she would fly back to Pingcheng to see him.
"That's it." Qiao Nan touched her chin: "Then have you ever considered bringing your children to the capital? To be honest, it's better for children to grow up with their parents. What's more, the teaching in schools in the capital
The quality is not bad, and the best universities in the country are also in the capital. If your family has the conditions, you can definitely let your children come to the capital, which will be better for their future development."
Li Yayan touched the plate with his hands in excitement: "I think so too, and say so!" The quality of education in the capital's schools is much better. If we don't start from an early age, will we wait for our son to lose at the starting line and be unable to catch up with other people's children in the future?
Okay: "You don't know, the elderly at home dote on their children too much. Sometimes when they dote on their children, they don't understand what is best for them. Is this still doting on children? This is all harmful.
Children. Especially when they have some little thoughts, it’s so sad to hear.”
Last time I went home to celebrate the New Year, there was another situation that made Li Yayan particularly dissatisfied with her parents-in-law.
After finally returning home for the New Year and being able to stay with his son, Li Yayan couldn't wait to be with his son 24 hours a day. During the day, his parents-in-law couldn't stop his grandson from getting along with Li Yayan. But at night, his son was crying and making trouble.
I insist on sleeping with grandpa and grandma.
Li Yayan was very sad when she saw her son accepting her baby. Li Yayan had already laid down, but then she thought about her son's crying and felt uncomfortable. So she got up and made milk for her son, hoping to coax him to see if he could be cured.
The son coaxed him over.
Who knew that she heard her mother-in-law asking her son at the door of her parents-in-law's room: "Baby, do you like your mother or grandpa or grandma?"
The son replied in a sweet voice: "Grandpa, grandma."
"Then do you like us the most?"
"Uh-huh."
"Since the little baby likes us, you must not leave with your mother. You must stay with grandpa and grandma, okay?" (To be continued)