Shi Qing thought for a while: "Is this what is called knowing yourself and your enemy so that you can win every battle?"
"Actually, I have nothing to teach you about this aspect. If you are really interested and your ambition remains unchanged, the only thing I can say is that it is fine at ordinary times. If you don't focus on business and want to focus on idle things, you should look at the psychological aspects.
Read the book, it will definitely be good for you." Qiao Nan was not a professional herself, all she had was a feeling, which in the end could only be understood but not expressed.
Shi Qing wanted to understand, and reading books on this subject was of course the best thing.
"Sure." Shi Qing likes reading, so it's not difficult: "But according to what you said, I have to become a psychologist?"
"This, even if you can't be an expert, you still have to put in some effort to learn it. For example, your dad, people in your circle, in fact, most of the time, they are just playing psychological warfare, they can't do it." The brain capacity is poor.
A little bit, and it's easy for someone to step on it.
"Okay, I understand, I'm going to borrow the book." Indeed, her father thought much more than she did. Her father thought too much, but she thought too little: "Qiao Nan, that's not right."
"Wrong? What's wrong?"
"We are the same age. How come you know so much about these aspects? Isn't the gap a bit big?" She never felt that she was inferior to anyone, but in front of Qiao Nan, she seemed to be more than a little behind.
And the distance between the two is definitely more than "0.5" points.
Qiao Nan turned her face away, not daring to look at Shi Qing: "I am indeed a little better than you in this aspect. But what I can say is that there are about forty classmates in our class who know better than you.
There are definitely not a few of them. You are a young man who doesn’t know what it’s like to be worried, and you are in a high position, so there is nothing you need to worry about at all.”
What Qiao Nan said is absolutely true.
"Am I such a good person?" Shi Qing was not particularly happy to accept this fact. She really didn't try to be the bottom of the class.
"Okay, don't worry about it. Your situation is entirely caused by your living environment. But it's strange enough. Qiu Chenxi is related to you, and she doesn't have a lot of ideas at all. I've always felt that, you
The personalities in this circle are complicated, and everyone has a few brains and a belly full of tricks. A purebred like you is simply weird."
Not to mention Qiu Chenxi, Wang Yang is the most typical example. He is just a junior high school student. He can even think of such vicious tricks as borrowing a knife to kill someone, and almost killed Zhu Baoguo.
Later, Wang Yang also cooperated with Chen Jun and sang a beauty trick for her, hoping to sow a relationship between her and Zhu Baoguo.
One by one, Qiao Nan felt tired just counting them.
"You are the weird one." Shi Qing became depressed.
"I was complimenting you!" Really, living in such a circle, it is really rare to be as pure and clean as Shi Qing, not even one in a hundred.
Shi Qing said "haha" and sneered: "I don't need such a compliment, thank you."
"No, Shi Qing, what do you mean by your family? I remember that you are your father's only daughter. They never teach you the dark side in this area. Aren't they afraid that you will fall too badly?" The Shi family still has that kind of thing after all.
With so many resources, if Shi Qing is not cultivated, the Shi family will have no successors.
"How do I know!" Shi Qing's face suddenly fell: "The reason why my dad didn't teach me this must be because he wanted me to live a simple and happy life. As for my grandpa, it's hard to say." At least grandpa's starting point
, it’s definitely not that simple.
Qiao Nan held her forehead: "Shi Qing, I didn't say this to scare you. You have to think carefully about your family's situation, otherwise it will easily cause big problems. Your first lesson now is to go back
Do some research on the psychology of your family. As the only junior member of the Shi family, what is the purpose of this arrangement and what are their plans for the future. Don’t be forced to have no choice or be forced into a dead end, only to find out
You are trapped in a predicament and cannot get out."
What Qiao Nan said accurately reflected Shi Qing's life in her previous life.
In his previous life, Qiu Chenxi did not use Shi Peng to enter the army, nor did he make so many low-level mistakes because of Qiao Nan.
Even though Zhai Sheng still didn't like her, due to the influence of Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang, the marriage between Zhai Sheng and Qiu Chenxi was only delayed for a few more years than it was now, and finally got married.
Without Qiu Chenxi as an introduction, Shi Peng was in poor health and almost had to run between the hospital and the army.
Even though Shi Peng had considered whether he should leave the army, he lacked such an opportunity. Until the moment he died of exhaustion and illness, Shi Peng could not take off his military uniform.
Without Shi Peng's protection, Shi's mother was useless. Mr. Shi acted arbitrarily and thought to himself that he had chosen a partner for Shi Qing and allowed this man to marry into their Shi family.
Shi Qing was deceived and went home. When her family helped her change into a dress, she realized that today was her engagement party with a strange man.
Unwilling to be dealt with by her fate, Shi Qing paid a heavy price in the end. She finally escaped from marriage and left, joined the army and became a female soldier. Then she risked her life and fought for merit, and finally succeeded.
A "female general".
Unfortunately, when Shi Qing became famous and was able to return to his hometown, his illness was even more serious than that of Shi Peng. Neither father nor daughter lived past the age of fifty and passed away.
Shi Qing didn't know that she still had that kind of life ahead of her.
But when she heard Qiao Nan's words, she couldn't help but shudder. She always felt that if she didn't "grow up" quickly, she might face an extremely terrible future.
Shi Qing felt a chill and her face turned pale: "Qiao Nan, you are right. My grandpa and grandma have always been partial to Qiu Chenxi, and I don't know what their intentions are. I am a granddaughter, and I know that my grandpa has always been
They all want a grandson, but my mother doesn’t care. It’s my father who firmly disagrees and asks my mother to respond to the country’s call for eugenics and postnatal care, get an IUD, and prevent pregnancy. My grandfather, I, I really have to be careful.
One hand."
Two days ago, grandpa would rather let dad leave the army for Qiu Chenxi.
Maybe one day, grandpa will sacrifice Qiu Chenxi in order to fulfill her.
Shi Qing didn't know, but Qiao Nan knew it through Zhai Sheng's mouth.
Seeing Shi Qing's fragile look, Qiao Nan felt extremely soft-hearted: "Shi Qing, let me tell you something, everything in the world is for profit, and everything in the world is for profit."