Qingning somewhat admired her aunt, who had to worry about everything from household appliances to strings for picking out ears and tying up sundries.
She said, "Tell my sister to prepare slowly."
"Is she ready?" Yingzi said worriedly, "She will make do with whatever she can. If you don't think about her, she will always be left behind."
That's okay.
In the past few years in the capital, it was her who took care of the family.
She also always feels that her sister is very reliable and she doesn't have to worry about anything at home.
It turned out that my aunt called this "losing things", so what should I call it when I live my life in the future?
When she went back and asked her mother, her mother said that her daughter would never understand how a mother feels at this time.
Qingping took a small notebook and prepared to interview her mother seriously: "How are you feeling now?"
"What mood are you in?" She was so upset! She snorted softly, "I feel like I want to send you out of the house!"
The Qingping pen was all ready, and then Duotou said to herself, "As soon as she closed the notebook, is there any way to speak?"
Xu Qiang saw that his mother-in-law was not in a bright mood and was relatively docile. When she came back, she did housework and bought vegetables and fruits. Anyway, she was busy at home and outside. Then Yingzi had a different attitude towards Xu Qiang. She didn't ask Xu Qiang to do this.
Ask Xu Qiang to do that, and there will always be Xu Qiang’s favorite dishes when cooking.
Qingping felt that who was the dearest one.
When no one was around, her mother filmed her: "If I don't treat others well, how can they treat you well?"
Whether he treats me well or not has nothing to do with whether you treat him well or not?
Who said it doesn't matter?
This is the most childish thing to say!
Yingzi explained her reasoning to her two daughters at home, and even called Qingning down to tell her to listen.
She gave an example, saying that so-and-so’s family was not good to her son-in-law, and what happened next. She also said that so-and-so’s family was good to her son-in-law, and what happened to her son-in-law. “I know, you are young people now.
, they all think the same as what is shown on TV. He must love you to death, and he can’t live without you... My child! You have to remember! Anyone can live without you. If you insist on asking others to divorce,
If you can't live without someone else, then you won't be able to live this life. Life is not like that. Likewise, I'm even more afraid that if you can't live without someone else, then you are asking for your own fault."
Yingzi sighed, "This is why everyone is willing to raise sons but not daughters. You have to marry your daughter to someone else's family. Whether it is good or bad, you can't see at all. When young people fall in love, two people are good with each other.
Like a person? But after this force has passed, you still want you, he is still him. You look at some people, why do you say that you are not willing to marry your daughter to a family that you don’t know about? I’m afraid it’s inconvenient to not understand the situation.
Well, it is true that acquaintances have a benefit that no one else has, and that is affection. The couple is really stumbling a bit. Whoever wants to talk about breaking up can easily not open their mouths. There is no day that they can't live with.
Not all days are made easy.”
Qingping and Qingning looked at each other. They didn't agree very much with this theory.
Qing Ping said: "You always compare us with that time. There is really no comparison. Let's not talk about the age, but the geographical limitations. Most of the girls who stayed in the city have financial ability.
No one is born dependent on the other. He makes money, and I make money. When we go out to socialize, men and women are equal. It's not like you and my dad, who are in charge of the home, and everything outside the home is my dad's business.
Now...can you go to the tax bureau to pay taxes? Can you go to the health bureau to apply for a health license? Look! You can't! You always feel that that's where men go, and that's where men can talk. Then take a look
If you say that, how can my aunt be an official?"
Yingzi slapped her daughter angrily: "Is this what I'm talking about? What I'm saying is that in this life, you can't just focus on love and love..."
But what’s life without this kind of love?
This time Qingping didn't refute her, he roughly understood what she wanted to express, and just nodded and said: "I understand, understand!"
Yingzi then returned to the topic, "Just talk about Han Cai'er, your Aunt Cai'er..."
It's a woman who lives in an alley and is divorced from her husband Qiu Cheng, who works in a supply and marketing cooperative.
Both of them knew this person, and Qingping had more dealings with him.
Therefore, Yingzi said: "...some time ago, Qiu Cheng's father died..."
Qingping immediately realized who he was talking about and exclaimed: "The old man's body looks really good..."
Yingzi nodded, "The illness was serious. I sent him to the hospital and called him back. No one could wake him up and he couldn't even open his eyes. The Qiu family is such a big family. There are hundreds of filial sons and grandsons, from the house to the yard.
I can’t even kneel down. This old man won’t even open his eyes no matter who asks. In these years, didn’t the old man often take care of your Aunt Cai’er’s two children..."
Two sons were born that year, and the older one was given to Qiu Cheng. The child could not live without his mother and lived mostly with her. The younger one only recognized his mother. Later, he became a grandfather and lived alone, just to take care of his two grandchildren.
"... When the old man got his job, everyone in the village advised Cai'er to go and see the old man for the last time. Then Han Cai'er went. Marrying this old man again after these years is not a thing, Han Cai'er had to say
Shun Xin, that's really not the case. The old man helped her take care of her two sons, and she felt grateful in her heart. She couldn't stop crying when she called her dad. The old man didn't even open his eyes when anyone called him, so Cai'er yelled and struggled to open his eyes.
She opened her eyes, crying, and talking anxiously... Cai'er helped the old man up again and asked the old man to spit, and then served him. What did the old man say before that? He said that the Qiu family owed Cai'er,
He said that they did something wrong when they became parents, which led to the couple's divorce. He also said that he couldn't worry about the two grandsons, and said that everyone in the yard cried. Finally, he left a message, don't call the man Qiu Cheng later married wearing sackcloth and wearing filial piety.
, she is not allowed to visit her ancestral graves in the future... In fact, in the past few years, the one she married later always went to Qiu Cheng's brother's house when she came back, and she was not allowed to enter the old house. Until her death, the old man only recognized Cai'er as his daughter-in-law...
…”
These two sisters cannot understand the logic of being recognized and then being fulfilled for the rest of their lives.
What’s wrong if you don’t let people in? What’s wrong if you don’t ask people to come in?
The two of them are living outside, and their good life is over. If you don’t ask me to come back, I won’t come back, right?
Okay! The two sisters probably understood what she wanted to say, that is, when you get married, you must do your duty as a wife. If you are good to other people's families, you will not be treated badly sooner or later. If you really wait for the day when the man is unreliable, he
None of his family members would watch him act recklessly.
Use the power of moral clan, etc. to restrain him.
Qingping wanted to refute again, but Qingning held him down and whispered: "If you refute again, you'll get into an argument again."
This seems to be the case between the two mothers.
I can't think of it anymore when I see it. I can't get better after seeing it for two days and I feel choked.
As for Yingzi, after she married her daughter, she wished she could instill in her daughter all the life experiences and lessons she had accumulated over the past half of her life that she had not given to her children.
But as for Qingping, did you have any phobias before marriage? She must have had some. However, her life experience told her that what she longed for was short-lived. The more she became more frightened and nervous, the more nervous she became.
Qing Ning said to Qing Ping in private: "That's not necessarily the case. Really! Look at my father and my mother, it's been half a lifetime. They are so tired when they are alone together."
Then he talked about a few things about his parents, such as sitting on the lawn in the park with one pillow on the other's lap. At home, the father was carrying the mother on his back to play up and down the stairs. Not to mention that the two of them were locked up.
The lights are dancing at home.
"Look!" Qingning said after giving examples: "No matter how life goes by, experience is not always correct."
Okay! Qingping accepted this statement and tried not to refute it despite her mother's nagging.
But she could endure anything, but she couldn't help but refute the comments she made after the house was renovated and cleaned.
why?
Yingzi said: "This house is well decorated, but it's just... is this a place where people live?"
ah?
What do you mean?!
Yingzi felt that there was no place to sit when she came in. She felt that it was wrong to sit anywhere.
As soon as people sit in, they feel that it doesn't match the mood.
The key point is: "There must be someone dedicated to cleaning this. In such a big house, just cleaning the room, you can't even think about doing anything else after doing this alone. Look, the shoes we changed were not put in the entrance hall."
, I suddenly felt very messy. The bag was not placed in the right place, and it felt wrong.”
This needs to be lived in by someone with good living habits, or the house needs to hire a nanny to take care of it at any time.
Xu Qiang quickly said: "Don't worry, I will definitely invite aunty at home."
Yingzi glared at Qingping, "Then you don't go to work now, and I still have to take care of you at home?"
Just because I don't go to work doesn't mean I don't work, okay?
When Xu Qiang was gone, she said to Qingping: "Xu Qiang's father hasn't used a nanny yet. Do you think it's appropriate for you to use a nanny first? It would have been okay to hire a nanny for his father first. But he
Dad’s situation...the old bachelor hires a nanny and they gossip."
Without so much talk, she just said, "If I don't hire a nanny, I'll find an hourly worker who will come and clean the house regularly."
This works!
The mother-in-law didn't want her daughter to do housework, so her mother-in-law narrowed her eyes when she saw her son-in-law.
She stayed there for more than a month. In September, the orchard at home was really busy, so she went home.
Restaurants have been closed for such a long time before.
When they returned home, the phone call came three days later. The wedding date was set, and it was set on the 28th of the twelfth lunar month.
Then Qingping felt that getting married was really tiring.
Wedding photos must be taken.
I looked around for photo studios and asked about the prices. When I came back, I told Qingning: "If you are really a freshly graduated college student, you can't afford this marriage. It's too expensive!"
Qingping, on the other hand, is not someone who values these things very much. He took more than two thousand sets to prove that such a thing happened, so forget it.
It's like shooting outdoors and going to scenic spots.
Qingping shook his head, I couldn't bear the torment.
The wedding dress was custom-made by Xu Qiang. It's not a top-notch one, but it's definitely of a higher quality.
I wore it once when taking wedding photos, and then put it away properly, "I'll wear it until the wedding..."
Just after I finished speaking, I seemed to realize something was wrong, "Can I wear a wedding dress on the 28th day of the twelfth lunar month?"
Definitely not!
On that day in your hometown, do you want to try on a wedding dress?
Lin Yutong laughed when he heard this. What kind of wedding should he give to Qingping? He simply gave him a Chinese dress.
The bright red dress is embroidered with gold thread, and there is a complete set of gold jewelry on her head and face.
Real gold is indeed different, it dazzles your eyes when you take it out.
Qingping didn't realize it was real gold at first, but thought it looked good, "It looks much better than a wedding dress."
I was very happy to accept it. I went back and changed it to show it to Xu Qiang, but when I put it on my body and on my head, I felt something was wrong. The weight was wrong!
Xu Qiang bluffed, took off the hairpin on her head and weighed it, "It's real gold."
Then this is worth the money.
Qingping quickly called Lin Yutong. Before she could say anything, Lin Yutong said, "Just keep it. Just take it with peace of mind."
It's not that I have to be partial, the key is that this kid knows what's good and what's good.
When the family is busy, she comes back. Leave the house to her and don't have to worry about anything. During the senior year of high school in Qingyuan, wasn't it thanks to this child?
She has that heart.
The Fourth Master has nothing to do with me. He doesn't care about them, he just has his heart.
"Of course it's good to have a heart, but you have to be strong, right?" At this time, Aunt Yan was talking about Yan Dong, "Yes! That's your father-in-law. No matter what, it doesn't matter, but you can't say that you are counting on our family..."
Yan Dong said: "I just borrowed it temporarily. When the money is freed up, I will return it to you..."
"You are my son, what can't you repay?" Aunt Yan put her hand in her pocket and held her bank card tightly, "The main reason is that this is a bottomless pit. If this drags on for ten or eight years,
Yes, son, your life will be ruined."
Yan Dong frowned: "Mom, do you believe that my son can come back to you? How much will I lend you, and I will pay you back double with interest. I'm waiting for help over there..."
Aunt Yan rolled her eyes and handed over the bank card: "This is what your father and I have saved over the years. It's only 100,000 yuan. The family has some money left for household use, but there is really nothing else..."
But this was beyond Yan Dong's expectation: "Mom?" I didn't expect to take out so many in one go.
Aunt Yan snorted at him: "Let's go! Let's go quickly! Your mother and I are very cruel. If you don't go, I won't give you any more!"
Yan Dong went over and hugged his mother: "Whenever my son earns money, you will keep it all."
After her son left, Aunt Yan called Shi Ke and complained: "...Can you ask the hospital to charge less? My stupid son has taken away all the family's money... How much will it cost to make up for it...
…It’s all the old lady’s fault. If she hadn’t liked Gao Jie back then, Dongdong wouldn’t have met such a daughter-in-law…”
After a lot of nagging, Shi Ke realized that this sister-in-law had spent all her savings to treat her in-laws' illness.
After hanging up the phone, she still laughed a little.
When the old man came back, she said, "My sister-in-law is not completely cold-hearted. She has no human touch at all."
The old man sighed and called his eldest grandson that night: "Dongdong, are you tight on money? Grandpa still has some money here."
Yan Dong couldn't take the old man's money: "You can keep it. I'm a capable person, so I can earn it by myself."
But in the end, the old man transferred 80,000 yuan to his grandson's card, "It's more important to save people. Now that you're married, let's live a good life, you know?"
Yan Dong said it in his mouth, feeling strange in his heart.
He turned back to the ward and gave Gao Jie his bank card: "Here is 180,000 yuan. Take it first. The medical expenses will be paid from here. I also have to go on a business trip. I will pay the money to this card on time every month."
.It’s not an option for us all to stay here..."
"Money..." Gao Jie looked at the bank card. There were 180,000 yuan here. "Where did the money come from?"
Yan Dong said: "We can't rely on the old man. I am going out this time just for business. Although it is a bit nervous to pay for the medical expenses, we can save a little and make ends meet."
Gao Jie couldn't understand for a moment why her husband's family, who only had plastic flowers and eighty-eight seats to deal with when they got married, would now spend so much money to fill this hole in their house. She also didn't understand why this new husband
Why does the husband still care about himself in this situation? He should know that he still has personal things in mind.
"You...why?" she asked him.
Yan Dong touched his head and did not answer the question. He only said: "My mother has a bad temper and a bad mouth. If you feel depressed living in my house, just live with your mother at your house first. You can't stay 24/7
I will stay at the hospital for hours. The hospital has the respect of my second aunt and will take good care of her..."
After explaining everything in detail, he picked up his bag and said, "If my colleagues are still waiting for me, I will leave. If everything goes well, I can come back in a month or two. If not, it will be almost three months. If you need anything, call me."
.”
Gao Jie was still confused until the person left.
She went to pay part of the fee, and when she returned to the ward, her mother was already here.
Gao Jie's mother said: "You go back and rest, I will take your place."
Gao Jie came out immediately. Instead of going back to her parents' house, she went to Yan's house. She rang the doorbell and the door opened from the inside.
When my mother-in-law opened the door, the first thing she said was: "I'm back." Then she said with disgust, "I don't know how to bring a key with me. Who cares about leaving the door open for you? You can't do it when you come back.
Are your dad and I still not allowed to go out and have to watch over you?"
Gao Jie lowered her head and went in: "I'm sorry..."
"Don't be sorry." The mother-in-law hummed, carrying her bag as if going out, "The key is hanging on the back of the door and has been prepared. There is rice in the pot, you'd better put both the food and the vegetables in it.
After eating it all, we also ate the eggs. We don’t have the habit of leftovers in our family. Waste is shameful. Don’t even think about pouring it secretly... Do you hear me?"
"I know." She turned around and lowered her head to see her mother-in-law out. "Mom, please walk slowly."
Aunt Yan then went out with a disgusted look on her face, and it was time to close the door: "Don't keep your face drooping all day, it's not bad luck. All your good luck will be wiped out..."
The moment the door closed, she held back her tears.
I went to the kitchen. In the pot were hot red dates and millet porridge, a basket of steamed dumplings, a boiled egg, a plate of small pickles, and a plate of fried vegetables. I struggled to finish eating, and took a look at the lunch box, wondering if it was dirty.
Brushed.
When I opened it, it was full of things.
Tears rolled down her cheeks. Her mother-in-law should have prepared this and asked her to take it to the hospital.
The cries turned from suppressed to wails, and the eldest son of the Yan family, who was standing at the door, walked down the stairs again without going in.
Yan Dong's father said: "You should speak more politely from now on. If you have a mouth like a knife, who can stand you?"
Yan Dong's mother said: "Don't worry about me! I said it if I didn't feel happy or unhappy. It's not my fault, Lao Yan, if we all held the wedding as the Gao family said, where would we have the money to make up for this deep hole now? I still
Too soft-hearted..."
Thinking about that one hundred thousand, I feel really sad.
While they were talking, the old aunt who came to the community over there asked the couple: "How is your in-laws doing?"
Yan Dong's mother said: "It's probably impossible to wake up. But what should we do? After all, it's the daughter-in-law's father. We paid more than 200,000... Do you think our daughter-in-law is expensive to marry?..."
Yan Dong's father got up and walked back, so let her be ruined. This whole life will be ruined by a broken mouth.
After entering the house, my daughter-in-law had packed everything and was carrying her lunch box to go out.
Yan Dong’s father asked: “Aren’t you going to take a break?”
"No!" Gao Jie raised a smile, "My classmate called me and said there was a tutoring class for a music teacher and asked me if I could go. One hundred and five hours an hour, I think it's okay. It's not tiring to take care of children.
, and it’s only from 4 to 6 p.m., the time is easy to coordinate..."
Yan Dong's father nodded repeatedly, "Then... then go... bring the key..."
So Gao Jie was completely busy.
During the day, she would go to some cafes and restaurants to play piano, at night she would go to a tutoring center, and later in the evening she would go to students' homes as tutors. The task of taking care of her father was given to her mother.
She began to get used to life in her mother-in-law's house, even without her husband. She could get up calmly despite her mother-in-law's various criticisms and disapproval, and then eat the breakfast she made while she was disapproving with peace of mind. No matter how late she came back at night, she would always be at home.
There is always a bowl of rice left.
As long as people are diligent, they can make endless money.
Even though the work is not respectable, the income is really not that little. The tutoring center alone costs 300 a day, and tutoring in the evening is more expensive, 200 an hour. That’s 500. There are also coffee shops and Western restaurants, occasionally.
Even if you get some tips, the average is three to two hundred a day.
She earned more than 20,000 yuan a month, and she gave 3,000 yuan to her mother-in-law to supplement the family income.
Then I saw my mother-in-law raising the corners of her mouth in disdain, and couldn't help but put a smile on her face.
My husband doesn't call frequently. At the end of the month, he will send a text message: The call is 30,000, and it is on the card. Please check to see if it has been credited.
She heard him say that he was the most impatient about business trips, and sometimes he would bleed when drinking with clients. But now he is on a business trip and won't come back for several months.
Holding her bank card in one hand and her mobile phone in the other, she still sent a text message: Drink less alcohol.
The other side responded instantly: Got it!
At this moment, she suddenly felt at ease.
He dialed the phone again and said in a negotiating tone: "Our income, if it stays as it is now, is not bad. The hospital expenses are less than 20,000 a month, so we can prepare them at 25,000. In fact, we can get it a month."
You have to pay twenty to thirty thousand yuan to pay off the debt. How about paying back mom’s money first..."
Over there, Yan Dong, who was leaning against the wall at the door of the private room, took a puff of his cigarette and said, "You have the money at home and you can deal with it. You can spend it however you want. Don't wrong yourself."
"Well!" Gao Jie wiped away her tears, "Then when will you come back?"
Yan Dong smiled: "After finishing this order, I will go back."
When Gao Jie approached Qing Ning to pay back the money, Qing Ning was shocked.
From head to toe, Gao Jie is dressed in the cheapest street food. A sweater jacket that costs tens of dollars, jeans that have been washed white, a pair of canvas shoes on her feet, an old bag from a few years ago on her back, and her hair is like a telephone cord
The rubber band was worn and hung casually on one side. There was no makeup on the face and he was very thin. "This is 30,000 yuan. I will pay it back to you first. Call Yan Yan and he said that it will be the same for you."
Qingning said: "I'm not in a hurry, you can pay me back anytime."
"It's okay, I'll give it to you first. If I owe less to others, my burden will be lighter." Gao Jie smiled lightly, "When I'm really in a hurry, I'll borrow it from you." I originally wanted to return it to my mother-in-law, but in the end,
My mother-in-law said, why are you so worried about me? You have calculated so clearly with me that you are planning not to serve me in the future or something. Then the money has not been paid back, so you should first pay back what you owe me strictly.
Qingning nodded, took the money, and asked one more question: "How are you doing after getting married?"
Gao Jie and Qing Ning were sitting on the bench on the lawn outside the laboratory. She hugged her backpack, "Getting married... is different from what I imagined... I felt so bad that it was almost impossible to live... But after I survived, I felt
not bad."
The two of them didn't say much. Gao Jie was in a hurry and said, "There is one more class and I will be late soon. I'm leaving."
As he said that, he waved his hands and ran away with his backpack on his back.
Without the exquisite makeup and fancy clothes, people look more down-to-earth and peaceful.
Qing Ning felt that such nobility made people feel much more comfortable.
As soon as Gao Jie was sent away, Han Chao called Qingning, "Can you contact Gao Jie?"
Apparently she knows about Gao Jie's father.
Qingning asked: "How did you know?"
Han Chao said: "Gao Jie's mother called me. She wanted to give me Gao Jie's phone number, but I didn't ask for it at the time. If she had asked for it, her mother wouldn't be able to tell me."
"Then what do you want?" Qingning asked with raised eyebrows.
Han Chao sighed: "Who would have thought that this would happen. It's not convenient for me to come forward. If she needs money, you lend it to her and I will return it to you. Don't let her know."
Qingning said: "No need, she is living a good life. Now she can do without you, without the harsh winter, without anyone."
She felt at ease, because she really stood up. She was no longer the frightened girl.
Han Chao was silent for a long time and hung up the phone without saying anything.
Accommodate, give in, be tolerant, give her everything you can, but is she still uneasy?
Yes! It’s better to have it yourself than anyone else.
Lost? Definitely! She may not need her as much as before.
But another voice in my heart said: It's okay! You can live well without me, and I have nothing to worry about.
The past must pass!
When Gao Jie's mother saw her child coming and going in a hurry, she said, "I heard that Han Chao is doing well, you..."
"Mom!" Gao Jie took a mineral water bottle and filled it with water from the water dispenser in the ward, then tightened the cap: "Mom, I'm married. What are you talking about?"
Gao Jie's mother watched her child stuffing mineral water bottles into her bag, "Why do you think I'm talking about that?! Look at you now... you can't bear to buy a piece of clothing, but you can save a bottle of mineral water. Just hold a bottle and put it in
Drink water. Why should you live like this when you have good choices? Han Chao owes you, if you come back to him, he will not ignore you."
"Who said he owes me?" Gao Jie laughed, "I owe him! You owe him. Over the years, he has been used as your family's long-term worker and your family's cash machine. But why?
I ate other people's food, used other people's food, and looked down on them when I looked back. I hated my dad for cheating on me, but now? I'm married! Are you trying to encourage me to cheat on you? I'm living a good life now, but my mother-in-law has a lot of bad words.
Although he has shortcomings, he never abandoned me when I was in the most difficult time and took care of my food, clothing, and daily life. My husband is different from what I imagined. He couldn’t even give me the wedding I wanted. But he did the most for me.
If you don’t like a job, give me money and ask me to treat my father’s illness. I think this is good! I don’t know if other people are doing well, but I know that my husband... works hard to earn money for me..."
After saying this, she really didn't want to talk to her mother anymore, "I'm still busy, let's go first."
Turning around and opening the door to the ward, Yan Dong stood outside the door still carrying a bag.
The couple looked at each other, and Gao Jie said, "Why did you come back early? Didn't you go home?" Then he pointed to the ward, "Dad's vital signs are very good. We don't need so many people guarding us today. You can come back tomorrow."
Bar."
Yan Dong was stunned for a moment, said hello to his mother-in-law, and then looked at Gao Jie: "What about you? Don't you want to go back with me?"
The two of them left while talking.
Gao Jie's mother could still hear the distant sounds outside in the ward.
My daughter said: "I will finish class at eight o'clock today. The class is close to the place. I will definitely be able to go home before nine o'clock. Mom said she would make dumplings today and asked her to freeze them in the refrigerator. I will cook them myself when I go back.
The ones I kept are all lumpy."
The son-in-law said: "Then what kind of stuffing do you want to eat? I'll tell you when I get back."
"Let's eat leeks. When the leeks are tender..."
Then I couldn't hear anymore.
Gao Jie's mother looked down at her unconscious husband lying on the hospital bed, and then sat down slumped.
Am I the one who has always been wrong?
No matter how troublesome other people's family affairs are, they are still family affairs.
But what Lin Yutong is worried about is really a big deal.
By November, Lin Yutong became highly nervous.
What has she been doing in this place for the past few years?
The first is the disclosure of information. If you have anything to say, don’t cover it up. The second is the integration of top and bottom, centralized leadership and management, and the establishment of a special epidemic prevention and control center, which is a standard department of major hospitals everywhere. So,
We should try our best to avoid local protectionism. When there is a big problem, we should only focus on one area and even divert the disaster eastward for our own benefit. The third is to integrate with the International Health Organization. The International Health Organization operates in accordance with procedures.
However, the domestic health department operates in accordance with policies and instructions from superiors. There is no excuse for continuation. Previously, both foreign students and specialized personnel were assigned to study. Even the health department should be able to communicate with the world in a world language.
You cannot just focus on the one-third of an acre within your own system.
I have prepared a lot, but is it foolproof?
no!
The execution ability of a public official is not included in this calculation.
What should they do if they don’t pay attention? What should they do if they are careless? What should they do if their own quality makes them unaware of the seriousness of what happened? Or what should they do if their own knowledge structure is not directly related to the work they do?
In other words, he is basically a layman.
Every possibility is possible, but can this be solved by Lin Yutong at once?
The current national situation is like this. Those in the health department must have a medical degree?
Maybe not?
She ran again and again, lobbying again and again, saying that we cannot focus on the economy, which does not mean that we must ignore public health. The main reason is that we can't do anything without money.
Approving a small amount of money at a time can make life difficult for someone.
But I really tried my best.
It was already November, and she stayed in the office.
The epidemic prevention and control department asked them to report on the situation in various places every day. The advantages of vertical leadership, which was only responsible for the superiors and not under the leadership of the local government, soon became apparent.
As soon as a case was discovered in Pengcheng, the news was reported back as soon as possible. The entire epidemic prevention procedure was launched, and all people who had contact with the relevant people were quarantined and observed. At the same time, the epidemic prevention fund was launched, free treatment was provided to all personnel, and subsidies were issued to those who had been quarantined.
Notify all provinces and cities as soon as possible, including Gang, Austria, Tai and other regions.
Report the epidemic to the World Health Organization as soon as possible and take appropriate measures.
At all entrances and exits of stations and airports, there are personnel from the epidemic prevention department to inspect people moving around.
Of course, there were a lot of complaints. Those who knew about it were several sources of infectious diseases, but those who didn't knew thought it was a nuclear bomb.
Isn't this a waste of public resources?
Not only are the masses complaining, but the media is also making all kinds of cynicism. That's all.
The key is internal, and some people have raised objections.
Epidemics have never been eliminated since ancient times. They are all temporary and local. It is reasonable to take some measures in Pengcheng, but it seems inappropriate for the entire department to follow suit.
Making a fuss out of a molehill.
Many people believe that Lin Yutong has been busy with this matter in the past few years. Without the epidemic, the ability of this prevention and control department cannot be highlighted. Now he has to do something to put himself in front of him.
Of course, I won't say it so directly, but that's what it means.
Lin Yutong had already prepared what to do if the opposition was too strong. As a result, the National Daily published an article, which believed that from focusing on economic growth to paying attention to public health, this is a perfect and complete improvement of government functions.
Progress. Regardless of the size of the epidemic, we have seen the capabilities of the health department. At the same time, our epidemic prevention department is still in the early stages of development. We should give more support and understanding, treat this as an exercise, a rehearsal, and nip problems in the bud.
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The publication of the article proves that the above attitude is supported.
Except for the common people who dislike the trouble and often complain about it, "It's a waste of time", the media's voice has disappeared.
But I don’t know where the problem occurred. Immediately afterwards, some large and medium-sized cities reported that they had discovered the epidemic. The final investigation revealed that these suspected patients had either traveled to Southeast Asia, been on a business trip, or had followed
People who have been to these places have been in contact.
However, no relevant epidemic has been reported in Southeast Asia.
It is unknown where the epidemic over there came from. Whether it was transmitted by animals or originally carried from here. But if there is a problem with so many people that it can spread, the epidemic over there must be more severe.
What's even worse is that the weather over there is hot.
By December, according to feedback from the International Health Organization, the number of deaths that could be counted there was already in the thousands.
At this point, the voice of discussion disappeared.
If everyone pays attention to it, then everything will be fine.
Only when Lin Yutong went home could he truly have a peaceful sleep.
But it’s still the same outside, there’s a little disturbance, and everyone is nervous. Wear masks when we go out, wear isatis root when we come back, and then the smell of disinfectant is everywhere in the house.
Qingyuan is not allowed to go out of school, and there are no public classes. Everyone is staying in the dormitory. Someone comes to take the temperature every day.
It's so boring to be in the dormitory, the only fun is surfing the Internet.
He is happy when netizens praise our country's epidemic prevention capabilities.
The benefits of having a strong security department are conceivable. To others it is a serious illness, but in China it feels like catching a cold.
Once it is discovered that there is no sign of the epidemic spreading, everyone should do whatever they want.
Some people have symptoms such as fever, cough, and sore throat. Sometimes they don’t need to be checked by a doctor and go to medical centers in various regions.
With less panic, life becomes normal.
Entering the twelfth lunar month, Qingping had to go home first to prepare for the wedding.
The wedding is scheduled for the 28th of the twelfth lunar month, and Fourth Master and Lin Yutong will definitely take the time to go back.
Held a wedding in his hometown, Qingping was more worried about how to bring back the wedding dress full of gold.
It seemed that no means of transportation could reassure her.
Qingning said: "Give it to me and I will take it back for you."
I will definitely go back two days early. It’s totally in time.
Xu Qiang will definitely have to go back with him. His father can't handle the wedding alone.
When the two of them got home, they sent Qingping home first, and Xu Qiang cut it back by himself.
Xu Tian said: "It would be great to come back a few days later. He also said that he would give you money and asked you not to forget to take Qingping to buy something. It is fashionable now to buy three gold or hardware products. You have to buy jewelry."
What did she like about the jewelry in the gold shop outside? Especially compared with that set of jewelry, everything else looked so rough.
But the meaning still needs to be conveyed.
The next day, I asked Qingping to go shopping. They had already bought their previous wedding rings and diamond rings in the capital. That was enough.
I don't want things like necklaces and earrings in my life.
She thinks your neck is a little thinner than other people's necks, and it doesn't look good with a necklace. Then there are the earrings, which she didn't bring with her. The grandma brought her ears for piercing. Didn't one of them grow in later? Then
At that time, it seemed that wearing anything would hurt, and the psychological shadow was always there, and she didn't want to have to wear it again. As for the bracelet, she still shook her head. People who sit in front of the computer all day long to type, don't you think it's troublesome to have jingles on your wrists?
Xu Qiang said, this is really a very economical daughter-in-law.
Now that it's out, I have to buy some.
Xu Qiang said: "How about buying something for mom?"
So the two of them went back and bought a pair of bracelets for Yingzi. They were very thick and solid bracelets with no patterns at all.
Yingzi refused: "Why do you give me this? No, no! I've been in the restaurant all day, wearing a gold bracelet, which is not cool enough. Besides, your aunt is wearing a copper earring, walking in
On the road, two young men on motorcycles snatched the piece of gold that they thought was gold and pulled it down, tearing both earlobes apart."
Ouch!
I really don’t know.
There is a kind of businessman walking along the streets in the countryside who uses scrap copper to make jewelry. It can be any kind of jewelry, as long as the material is sourced and a small fee is paid for the craftsmanship. Or you can use some scraps to offset the cost of the craftsmanship.
What is waste?
For example, some nozzles of spray guns used to apply pesticides to crops are made of copper. Who doesn’t break a few of these things a year? It’s so common. Take two of these things and give you a pair of copper earrings, including the labor cost.
It's all saved. Just throw these things away and replace them as soon as you take them. Many people do this.
Li Xianer secretly changed her pair of earrings behind her daughter-in-law's back.
Yang Meili saw it when I was taking it, so why did you hide it? It was your fifth aunt. There were many things in the scrap yard, so she conveniently gave me two dozen.
Yang Meili said: "Then why don't you ask for two more and give me a pair?"
Then she went to find Ma Xiaoting. Ma Xiaoting was not willing to give it to herself, so how could she give it to Li Xianer? She immediately betrayed Li Xianer.
Yang Meili went back and stood in the alley and scolded Li Xianer: "...you are so generous and said that you want a pair of earrings, but you don't want them to be made of gold, silver, or scrap metal. I can't bear to part with them or something.
?The most disdainful thing about you is that you are so petty! You pretend that everyone is just like you, and you can’t stand on the stage.” Then in the middle of the night, he got angry when he thought about it, and kicked Qingshou up and scolded him, “You haven’t even bought me earrings, your mother
Wear them all. Her frozen face looks like an eggplant, does it look good with that thing on her?"
As a result, the more she talked, the more vindictive Li Xianer became.
No, he was robbed while walking on the street. The key is that his ears were torn off.
Yingzi went to school: "I had seven injections while I was crazy, and now I am resting at home."
Then Yang Meili shouldn't be scolded anymore.
The vegetables grown in the greenhouse were busy years ago, but Li Xian'er couldn't help and made things worse.
Qingping asked: "I have to go and see if it's hurt."
Let’s wait until we get back to town.
Yingzi said about the pair of gold bracelets, "Return immediately. I'll take this thing with me. If I meet the robber, he'll cut off my hand."
It's not that evil.
But the meaning has been expressed, that is, I will not wear it, and I will definitely not wear it.
If you don't wear it or take it back, you can just leave it at home and look at it when you remember it.
After Xu Qiang left, Yingzi said that Qingping was short-sighted, "He doesn't have a mother, he only buys for me. How does that kid feel? It's not a success!"
So Qingping bought two gold watches the next day, one for his father and one for his future father-in-law, Xu Tian.
Everyone's reaction was the same, "Why should I wear this thing? Does it hurt my hands? Wearing it becomes a burden."
Anyway, no one wants to use the good stuff, so they just hide it at home.
The Xu family has renovated another two-bedroom apartment in a popular luxury style, with expensive furniture and appliances. Everyone knows that the second son married Qingping to a house in the capital. So here Xu
God wants nothing from the Jin family.
So the second child and his wife thought that all they needed to prepare was a few quilts.
We ordered six beds, but according to Yingzi's wishes, nowadays all double quilts are available in the city, so we will sew double quilts ourselves.
Then these six beds are worth twelve beds.
On the eighth day of the lunar month, I went back to town to prepare things so that someone could sew a quilt for me. I specially asked people like Han Cai'er who were familiar with me to go over the details together and go buy them.
Qingping followed behind, but no one listened to her opinion.
Everything is well-chosen and expensive. A quilt with a quilt lining costs more than a hundred dollars. Then Yingzi said, "My family is very stupid and I still can't sew quilts by myself. What do you think I am alive for?"
I can help her with all the work. Without me, it would be difficult to remove and wash the quilt. Just prepare the quilt cover and put it on directly. Then it can be removed and washed."
He also said that the quilt covers sold outside were not good, not thick or strong at all.
You have to buy that kind of porcelain-resistant cloth. The ladies and aunts who came to advise me kept saying that this material is good and it will last a lifetime of washing.
Qingping's face turned pale, and the words in his ears were: I guarantee it will last a lifetime of washing.
You can't change the design or color, and it's very thick and hard to wash.
It's really not as good as the ones sold outside that cost tens of dollars. If the cover is dirty and you don't want to wash it, it's not a pity to just throw it away.
You said that if the dowry prepared by my mother cannot be damaged, you can still throw it away?
The meaning is different, okay.
Yingzi couldn't do anything here, and Lonicera, who came with him, also said: "Then I can get two beds for this kind of thing."
Cai'er asked: "Does my house have such a good building?"
Liandong then said with a smile: "I didn't build it myself, it was our Yan'er who wanted to bring her boyfriend back."
Qingping was stunned for a moment, Lakshen is coming?
It seems that the two have reached the stage of discussing marriage.
Cai'er then asked: "Did you bring your son-in-law back? What does your son-in-law do? Where does he work?"
Liandong looked at Qingping and said: "I was told that I was a classmate of Qingping. I reported it to the Meng Provincial Daily and said that I was a reporter from the reporter station in Beijing or something, but I don't understand. Ask Qingping, and Qingping will definitely know."
In fact I don't know anything.
There is no contact with Lakshen at all.
She could only laugh and said: "I have been busy renovating the house in the past six months, so I am not very well-informed."
Even if Qing Ping said so, everyone felt that Yan'er's little son-in-law was really capable.
As a reporter, this is incredible.
Anyway, reporters who can appear on TV are all amazing.
One asked about the wedding date, and the other asked what the young son-in-law’s family was doing.
Yingzi felt particularly unhappy.
When you want to make a quilt, you can’t buy it. You have to buy it when I have to buy it. You have to steal the limelight from others, and you will feel comfortable.
Two days later, before the quilt was sewn at home, Liu Yaner came back with Lakshen.
After not coming back for several years, Qingping thought Liu Yaner would never come back, but she did?
Why?
Lonicera was very happy when she talked about it outside, but when she was the only one left, she scolded Yan'er with a cold face: "Why do you have the nerve to come back? Why did you come back? Just die outside!"
Lakshen had never seen a mother talk to her daughter like this, and she couldn't help but feel bad for Yan'er, wondering how she had endured it for so many years.
There is a smell of urine everywhere in the house. The backyard is where pigs are raised. Feces are all over the yard and cannot be cleaned. The younger brother who is already a young man lying on the kang is lying on the bed with nothing on.
From time to time, I would lift the quilt and expose my body without any sense of shame.
Why don't you wear clothes?
He tried his best to change the subject and asked this question.
Lonicera's eyes softened when she looked at her son, "I'm afraid that if I pee, my clothes will be wet, and it won't be easy to change."
The key is to eat well and not move. This child is not very old but weighs 160. Lonicera is a thin and small one, 1.5 meters tall and weighs less than 80.
She has been taking care of her all year round, but she can't help her up at all.
Lakshen sighed, it was a tough day.
There was no trace of unnecessary pity in Yan'er's eyes, but her words were nice: "This is my home. Where can I go if I don't come back? Besides, I also want to get married, so how can I not tell you and my dad? Then
It’s so heartless.”
After all, Lonicera and Yaner have been mother and daughter for more than 20 years. When they heard this, they understood.
This is to ask for the household registration book.
The couple still knew about being expelled from school. Why did they know it?
When they couldn't find Yan'er, they called the school's Student Affairs Office, and they told them. They said that their child had been expelled, and that all the previous household registration and other relations were taken with him.
Neither of these two couples said anything and just pretended that they didn't know about it.
Dang Lonicera became cautious, knowing that if the money was lost, it would be difficult to take it back. If he didn't hold on to the rope, he probably wouldn't come back. So he went to find someone from his nephew's daughter-in-law's sister-in-law, anyway.
I turned a few corners and found an acquaintance from the police station.
When talking about Yan'er's situation, he said that he was expelled from school and had to get his household registration back. But the migration certificate showed that the child was lost.
People said, "Well, that means nothing. At least there needs to be proof that I was actually fired and my registered permanent residence was transferred back."
Otherwise, if you only have two household registrations, what's going on?
Rural household registration involves the division of land, so it cannot be said that one more person is born for nothing.
The couple called the Student Affairs Office again and told them that the land needed to be allocated, their family was in trouble, etc., and could they issue a certificate of expulsion or something like that?
The Student Affairs Office sent it to me. Then I found someone in the village to issue a certificate stating that I was willing to re-admit Liu Yaner, and my household registration was restored.
Besides, there is no need for any reason to go to the village to issue a certificate. The village's big seal is hanging on the gate of the village headquarters. If you are in a hurry, you can find a piece of paper and stamp it yourself.
Very simple thing.
Then Yan'er secretly came back and wanted to secretly get her hukou back and then secretly move out. However, when she went to the police station, she was told that her hukou had already been registered.
Then something bad happened!
My ID card has expired and I can’t get it, and I don’t have a household registration book if I want to get married.
This home has become a place where I can never return home.
Rendong had already discussed it with Liu Cheng, so at this time Rendong said, "You can get married. Just buy a house in the provincial capital with full payment."
Provincial capital? Qin City!
A two-bedroom apartment would cost around 300,000 yuan at current housing prices.
How could these two freshly graduated people get so much money?
Lakshen said: "My father and mother bought us a house in Bao City. We don't live in Qin City permanently, so we don't need to buy it. I will consider buying it in the capital when I get richer in the future..."
Liu Yan'er glanced at Lakshen, and really didn't want her to see her family in this situation. But she still closed her eyes and said, "My mother didn't say to buy it for ourselves. She said that if we want to get married, we have to buy it for my brother in Qin City.
a house."
With this house, even if the rent is collected, my brother will not be afraid of starving to death while lying on the kang. He will also have something that he can use when marrying his wife in the future.
This is what they do.
Lakshen's eyes widened in shock, how could such a condition exist?
Moreover, my family's financial well-off does not mean that I can spend 300,000 yuan as paper.
His family is sincere. I heard that Qingping received 100,000 yuan as a gift. His parents also prepared 100,000 yuan for his visit this time. But the 300,000 yuan was a bit like a lion's mouth.
Liu Yan'er turned her face and looked at Lakshen. Seeing Lakshen's embarrassed face, she knew that this number was very difficult for him. She said to Lingdong: "This matter is not a trivial matter, and it is not something he can decide. We have to discuss it, and we have to discuss it."
Discuss it with his family."
Lonicera said, "Let's rest first."
The weather in the twelfth lunar month made the room feel like an ice cellar, so it was impossible to sleep.
Liu Yaner said: "If you can't get it, I don't blame you. It's just forcing people to do something difficult. Without a household registration book, there is no way to register a marriage."
Lakshen looked at Liu Yaner: "Then what should we do in the future?"
Liu Yan'er lowered her head: "It's fate but not destiny."
Lakshen stood up after a while: "What nonsense are you talking about? A living person can be choked to death by urine."
He gritted his teeth and said, "The house in the Bao market is worth more than 200,000 yuan. If you sell that house, plus the 100,000 yuan that my mother gave me this time, we should be able to make up enough. As for the future, we have the money."
You can earn your own money! I promise you that I will buy you a house in the capital."
Liu Yaner then smiled: "Really?"
"Really!" Lakshen hugged the girl, "I will go back to Baoshi first as soon as possible to take care of the house."
Liu Yaner smiled softly: "I'll wait for you."
Early the next morning, she sent Lakshen to the car. But instead of going home directly, she went to the police station.
She was wearing a scarf and a hat, wrapped tightly. When she saw that there was a young girl inside, not the policeman she met last time, she quickly said: "Hello, my family's household registration booklet has been lost. Can you get a replacement?"
The girl was eating melon seeds while warming her other hand on the electric heater: "Lost it? How did you lose it?"
"It's not lost." Liu Yan'er whispered, "My brother is a fool. He tears up everything he sees and throws away everything he sees. He accidentally threw the household registration book into the stove and lit it on fire. I will help my brother with disability.
The certificate is waiting to be used."
The girl sighed: "I'll have to watch it carefully in the future. Where is your ID card? Give it to me." Then she took a form to apply for a replacement, "Can you fill it out?"
"Yes!" Liu Yan'er quickly picked up the pen beside her, filled out the form and handed it over.
The girl was working in front of the computer, then stretched out her hand and said, "Give me eight yuan for the cost of production."
Liu Yan'er quickly took out the money and handed it over. She held the fresh household registration book tightly in her hand and hid it in her arms when she left the house. Then she didn't stop at home and only said to Liao Dong: "Gather up the money.
I will definitely come back around the year or two ago.”
She went directly to live in the county town.
Someone asked Lonicera, why did your son-in-law leave without seeing anyone when he came back?
Liandong laughed: "Our Yan'er is very sincere. The two of us discussed it and agreed to buy a house for our Bao'er in Qin City. This was not impossible. The two of them went out early in the morning. After buying it, they came back.
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The women who came to sew Qingping's quilt started to discuss it, and the one who liked to joke said to Qingping: "Look at Yan'er, she takes care of her mother's family when she gets married. She knows how to do it for her family. You should also learn from others and call her that
Qiangzi belongs to someone else, and he will also buy a house for us in Qing'an."
If you make a deal with others, the Jin family is not enough.
Someone else's daughter asked for a house when she got married, but when my own daughter got married, she got the house as a dowry.
Especially Jin Mancheng and Li Xian'er, they jumped right away, "What kind of house do you want to marry? Look at other people's daughters, and then look at you. It's the same as going to college. When you get married, you have to drink your father's blood and eat your father."
meat."
Yingzi said: "I do!"
That was a joke to tease Qing Ping, so the two people's expressions changed and they immediately started shouting.
Damn it, I will marry my daughter this time in my life, what a happy event you are here to interfere with.
Yingzi said angrily: "Come if you want to come, get out if you don't want to come! This is how I marry my daughter. Did it cost you a penny?" You are so lenient!
The second brother was at the door. He came in and looked at his brother: "Go away! Leave quickly! Don't ever enter my front door again in your life."
The person who made the joke at the beginning was also a bit sarcastic.
Yang Meili came out of the kitchen and advised Yingzi: "Second uncle and second aunt, you two, don't be like these two idiots. Some people are shameless and sell their daughters for glory, as if everyone is like her. Besides, we
Jia Qing'an has hands and feet, and a brain as good as anything, and he's not someone who doesn't know how to poop or pee. He has to rely on the money from selling his sister to survive..."
This is very hard to hear.
It is said that you should not slap someone in the face when you hit someone, and you should not expose your shortcomings when you scold someone. This is really a slap in the face and then expose the shortcomings at the same time.
Some people who were good friends with Yingzi pulled away the furious Lonicera first, fearing that she would quarrel with Yang Meili. There was a happy event at home and they couldn't make such a fuss.
Then Yang Meili sent Jin Mancheng and Li Xianer to the vegetable field.
Ma Xiaoting said to Yingzi: "This stupid wife of ours can't do anything when the chips are down."
Even Yingzi was so angry that he vented his anger on his second child at night: "This is your good big brother! In the past, I would have been done without arguing with him, and I even got into trouble with him. It was us who arranged the marriage between his two children."
When Qingfeng got married, did we give him a face? What was the result? Is this how he reciprocated? Let me tell you, if I don’t give your brother face in the future, don’t choke on me."
Just this one incident was enough for Yingzi to hate them for half his life.