Lin Yutong put away the phone, and regardless of whether Ma Xiaoting was real or fake, he went over and carried the person back to his seat. Yan Yan was very close, diagonally across the aisle. He took two steps quickly, and as soon as the person pressed down on the chair
, with a sharp blow of the knife, he knocked the person unconscious.
Then the car became silent.
Lin Yutong looked Yan Yan up and down and smiled: "You take Qing Ning and sit in the front, your dad and I will sit in the back, and the child will stay with us."
Yan Yan agreed, stretched out his hand and dragged Qing Ning forward. As he passed by, he said to Lao Wu: "I just fainted. I'll wake up after I faint. It's nothing serious."
Lao Wu nodded repeatedly: "Very good, very good!" Ghosts are not afraid of people, but they are afraid of evil people. He feels that they should strictly belong to evil people.
Qingning turned her face from time to time to look at Ma Xiaoting, and then at the child sleeping soundly in her father's arms: "It's strange..."
Don’t be surprised!
Lin Yutong asked Qingping to sit behind him and reached out to pick up Qiming. The Fourth Master waved his hand: "You are busy with your business."
Lin Yutong sat next to him, holding his mobile phone in his hand and editing text messages non-stop, but his mouth was not idle. He whispered to the Fourth Master: "... Now the death toll for one party has risen to ten.
...There is also a situation that we are not aware of... After the large truck collided with the three-wheeler, it also hit a passenger bus heading from Shayuan to the provincial capital, causing the vehicle to overturn on the side of the road in a drainage ditch nearly two meters deep.
In the ditch... there is no data on how many people died and how many were injured..."
The earliest bus that goes directly from villages and towns to the provincial capital is at 4:40. You can enter the provincial capital in time for dawn.
As long as they are going to the provincial capital for errands and want to go back the same day, they all like to take this train because it won't delay their work.
So everyone generally knows the situation of this kind of car. When running on rural roads, it is often overloaded. In addition, people who take it with them to the county or city feel that there is not much road, so they have to stop and squeeze.
That’s it. Some buses have specially stuffed mats under them, so that people who are standing can take them out and sit down in the aisle. Occasionally, if there is an inspection, ask the overloaded ones to get off first, and then drive over to call for inspection. Those who have passed the inspection
Wait for those who just got off the bus to get up again. In the middle, you only have to walk about 700 to 800 meters and a thousand meters. This kind of thing will be checked below for various reasons that can be said but cannot be said. Most of them are
I will turn a blind eye.
If this is the case, and the bus overturns the ditch, will the number of casualties be small?
Nowadays, it only depends on whether it is a major traffic accident or a very serious traffic accident.
How to divide the responsibilities here is not their business. But among the people who died was the fourth master's eldest brother. Lin Yutong and the fourth master were worried that someone with ulterior motives would aggravate the situation.
What should be involved here should only be legal means, not political means.
What if someone excludes dissidents in the name of ‘valuing’?
Lin Yutong said: "How many people have we made an appointment to have tea with? The time is tomorrow morning?"
I sent the people back today and settled them so well that they rushed to the provincial capital overnight.
It’s okay not to go back. Jin Mancheng’s funeral must be done as soon as possible. It’s best to bury the person in three days. Just watch! Once this happens, if they don’t get appropriate compensation, these family members will not hold the funeral.
It is not uncommon to carry the body to the door of the driver's home, to the door of the traffic police team of the Public Security Bureau, or to the highway to block the road to deliberately make the matter bigger to gain attention and to obtain compensation as soon as possible.
But can we make things develop in that direction?
If the fourth master doesn't come back, people will really have to carry Jin Mancheng's body everywhere. Things will not be simple anymore. In fact, if he is buried early, will it have any impact on the compensation? If you know how deeply involved it is, you won't be here.
The boss is playing tricks. Asking Li Xian'er to follow others to mess around is really going to cause bad things.
When they come back, they put things back on track as to how they were supposed to be handled. They cannot be treated in a 'special' way just because their families are involved.
There are many examples of unscrupulous attacks on political opponents, but they don't want to be a knife in the hands of others. A sneeze from above will cause a violent storm below. This kind of thing must be stopped!
Lin Yutong said: "I didn't even see it on site. From the information I heard, there are many responsible departments." The direct responsibility is, of course, the driver responsible for the accident. But indirect responsibility, such as the highway department, whether the road surface meets the standards, and the guardrails on the roadside
Are the warning signs, etc. properly matched? Also, if the bus is overloaded, the traffic police department also has a big responsibility.
As for the vehicle, whether it is a problem with the production company or not is subject to forensic investigation.
Whether it is a major traffic accident or a very serious traffic accident, because it involves the executive deputy department of the Organization Department who holds many official hats, this matter will be treated "especially seriously".
The result is often that many related and unrelated people are involved, big or small, for various reasons that cannot be put on the table.
So, what good will it do to Fourth Master and Lin Yutong?
So majestic! Isn’t it a bit grand in your hometown?
Many things happen to small people and small things, and you may not know them yet. Therefore, be cautious at all times.
As Lin Yutong said this, he took Qiming over and the fourth master walked around modestly.
When they arrived at the county town, Qingping Xu Qiang and Yan Qingning picked up their children and got off the bus here.
Qingping and Xu Qiang must have gone home first, and Xu Tian must be waiting at home. The child was left with grandpa, and it was fine.
Qing Ning and Yan Yan went straight to the hotel. There was a funeral in the Jin family, and Shi Ke had to leave the ceremony and take care of the children. There was no need to go to the capital, so they diverted directly back to the county seat. The house was asking for help with cleaning, so they first went to the hotel.
Stay at the hotel.
When she saw the child, she felt extremely distressed, "Look how pitiful we are..." It was difficult to say the extra sentence, for fear that Qingning would be overly concerned. She checked the child first to make sure that her precious grandson was sleeping like a piglet.
It's okay, now I have time to talk to my son and wife.
I was dissatisfied, so I didn't say it directly, but said tactfully: "I also said it would be nice to leave the child in the capital and ask the confinement sister-in-law to follow you to your uncle's house. If you don't trust your eldest aunt, why don't you trust your aunt?"
The eldest aunt refers to the eldest aunt of the Yan family, Yan Dong’s mother. The aunt is Qiao Guohong.
Strictly said: "Gao Jie's father... he doesn't seem to be able to do anything anymore. It's only been a day or two. Qing Ning and I went to see him once before..."
Shi Ke was startled: "You said this happened in a hurry..." Waking up from a vegetative state is indeed a miracle that can only be seen in TV dramas.
Strictly said to her aunt again: "...my aunt is accompanying Sister Nannan..."
Qiao Nan has been childless since she got married, and now she is debating whether to undergo in vitro fertilization. Who doesn't have something to worry about? Of course, her aunt cares more about her niece than her own family.
Shi Ke wanted to say something: If Qing Ning doesn’t come back, why won’t they bury her?
How could Qingning not know that her mother-in-law was dissatisfied?
She smiled bitterly: "Mom, this is a complicated matter. When Qingyuan called, they just said that the people were gone. I thought that the people had probably been packed up and couldn't enter the village, so they were rushing me..."
Seeing that Shi Ke was puzzled, he explained: "There are special things about people who die outside. The filial son and the filial daughter must be buried at the entrance of the village. It doesn't matter if one is missing. If the person is missing, the bad luck will still be there. If someone doesn't call him, he must be buried at the entrance of the village."
After the coffin was sealed in a shack for seventy-seven forty-nine days, it was allowed to be buried in a cemetery reserved for those who died violently. Actually, I don’t think it matters when they are buried. Death is like a lamp going out. But this
If my uncle is not buried, other families will not be able to bury him. I originally thought about making trouble and paying for it, but if I don’t bury people here, I still think that my parents will support me. What will happen to this matter? I
I have to come back! I thought that the journey back this time would be difficult, and I would just hand the child over to you when we get there. But who knows... My uncle's leg seemed to be the most seriously injured, but in fact, upon inspection, it was revealed that the child was injured the most.
Knowing that the hit on his head was even more severe... he was brain dead, but he was reluctant to take the person off the ventilator immediately, and just kept it there. By the time we arrived, he had just died..."
Strictly speaking: "There was another one in the car this time, and he was still breathing when he got in the car..."
Shi Ke felt uncomfortable and simply waved his hand. Yes! Anyone can predict the messy things just right?
She said, "What now? You have to rush back?"
Qingning was not in a hurry anymore, "The whole world is looking for Qingshou and Yang Meili. When the time comes, Qingyuan will call me." Who knew that these two people have not shown up yet? This is another one that no one expected.
thing.
Strictly asked Qingning to wash it off, "I don't have a lot of milk, can I express it?"
Qingning nodded: "It's swelling. You can scald the bottle..."
It needs to be squeezed out and stored in the refrigerator, and it needs to be warmed when feeding the child. This is especially inconvenient in a hotel.
Shi Ke was anxious: "Why don't you go home first? Everything is ready-made at home. Even if you only clean out one room, it will be enough to live in." She anxiously picked up the child and gently said, "How about that?"
Already, let’s feed milk powder for two days first…”
"He was picky." Strictly turned around and looked at his son gently, "I also eat milk powder, unless I am very hungry and eat a little... I went with his mother for a postpartum check-up. How long will it take to go to the hospital? I was crying.
Yes, taking milk powder is like taking medicine..."
Shi Ke tapped his grandson's nose: "I'm used to it." He pretended to be angry and said, "Just starve for a couple of times..." After saying that, he smiled at his grandson's little face and said, "Grandma's kiss."
Grandson, grandma can’t bear to starve our baby, right? We are born tall, so naturally we have to be picky..."
When Qing Ning came out, she saw her mother-in-law holding the child and talking to herself, enjoying herself. Listen to what she said again...
What are they?
Get in the car and go home all the way. On the way, Shi Kecai discussed with Qing Ning: "I have to prepare this gift... You can do your job, I'll ask a few acquaintances from the past to help..."
Qingning said: "No, I will discuss it with my sister and arrange it together. The person will be buried at 12 noon the day after tomorrow at the latest. I will go and send my uncle back today. It will only take two or three hours."
Tomorrow morning I will go sweep the tomb, and tomorrow night I will greet the deceased. It will all be over in an hour. I will come back right away. The day after tomorrow we will go early in the morning, ask the children to have a brazier, and ask Yan Yan to see you and the children off.
return…… "
When a child passes over a brazier, he or she is showing filial piety. Hanging red on the body means that all evil will not invade and filial piety will not overwhelm the body.
"If you don't enter the gate, the brazier is usually placed at the entrance of the alley." Qingning explained again.
Oh! That’s okay.
Today, it was quite warm in the morning. It only took an hour to come and go. She stopped by to burn a stick of incense, say goodbye, and then brought the child back.
While we were talking, a call came from Qingyuan, asking him to come over.
Shi Ke was surprised: "Really blocking the way and not letting people enter the village?" Such a custom!
Meeting up with Qingping and Xu Qiang, they found Xu Tian holding the child.
It's good to be modest. A full-month-old child doesn't recognize anyone, so anyone can carry it. But that's not the case with Qiming. This kid is over a year old and has already recognized people. Xu Tian is a grandfather, but he doesn't see children often.
Naturally, they don’t kiss each other. They cry uncontrollably. My parents are with me, and it’s okay if grandpa holds me. But if my parents aren’t here, I start crying. What should I do? Grandpa hugs me, and then follows me.
In the car, Qingping also said: "I still don't understand the rules here. At that time, my mother... was considered a violent death..." It seems that this was not the case at that time.
Xu Tian said: "That is in the village, not outside."
He had heard too much, so he explained to a few children: "In your town, in the two rows of houses along the road, do you think that in every house there is a young man in his twenties or thirties who has died due to various reasons?
The elderly will not die, and the women will not have any accidents. Only the young and strong men in their twenties and thirties will die..."
Qingping had heard about it once or twice, but Qingning didn't know about it at all.
Xu Tian explained: "That is the one at the east end or someone else's. My son died on the construction site. I was afraid that people would stop me when I brought him back, so I didn't tell anyone. I secretly brought him back in the middle of the night."
.Since that year, a young man has died on that road every year... How many years have passed, counting on your fingers, now every family has not been spared..."
Qingning didn't believe this at all.
Of course, if you want to say it's a coincidence, then others must believe it is a coincidence.
We have always been very particular about this, but in the past few years, young people have died unexpectedly one after another, and some people say that it must have been the fault of that bastard, the old man.
Whether it is true or false, everyone feels that they would rather believe it and follow the rules, and everyone feels at ease with each other. Everyone is afraid that something will happen in the future, and the owner is also afraid that something will happen and someone will blame him. So everyone will follow this rule.
This is not a family-by-household matter. You say you don’t believe it, you say you are superstitious. Then explain why young men died in every house on both sides of that road. If you can’t explain it, if you can’t explain it, then you can
What’s wrong with following the rules? Can we please give each other peace of mind?
Don't talk about calling the police without calling. If some problems in rural areas could be solved by calling the police, we wouldn't always say that the problems at the grassroots level are complicated.
When they arrived, both Qingshou and Yang Meili were there. Old Yangtou grabbed his daughter back. He knew where her daughter was, and he also knew that her daughter was with another person and was living a good life. It had been so long.
, they raised their granddaughter and did not call their daughter back. They just thought about it for a long time, and the Jin family gave up. They asked their daughter to get the certificate from the serious people over there and live a good life. But isn’t this impossible now?
If he didn't call his daughter back for such a thing, Jin Mancheng would have to stay at the entrance of the village for forty-nine days. The body was placed in a coffin, but everyone knew that the body would rot. Thinking that his relatives could not be buried in peace... Jin
Does the family hate it? The deceased is the most important. No matter how good he was when he was alive, or how many difficulties the living person has, he will come back and bury the person first before talking about it.
He called his daughter back and brought his granddaughter.
Yang Meili was obviously pregnant with that man's child, but she still came.
Along with Qingning and the others, there were also Huahua's parents and the child Qi Rui brought back by Lian Bing.
Lao Yang kicked Yang Meili and said, "I'll tidy up your dad. Tell him you're back and ask your dad to follow you home..."
Qingshou was so angry when he saw Yang Meili that he wanted to strangle her to death. At this time, Qingfeng also caught her. If he could come back and send his father into the house, all grievances would be settled!
Even Wu Da and Wu Shuang came there with their wives and children, for fear that some people would deliberately make things difficult for others.
There was an old man in the village who liked to do things, so he came over to take a look. He looked at the juniors of the Jin family who were kneeling at the entrance of the village one by one. Someone there reminded them: "This... is the son-in-law of the second family... That one is from the third family.
Wife...this is the son-in-law of the fourth family...where is the daughter-in-law of the fourth family?"
Qingyuan said: "Grandpa, I'm not married yet."
"Are you engaged?" he asked again.
Qingyuan shook his head: "No!"
I don't know who shouted again: "How come I heard that the daughter of the third family is engaged..."
The third child was very angry, "Who said that?"
Some people actually say it has a nose and eyes.
Some people said no, "You're engaged, why don't you come? If this is a bit unlucky, and if something happens in the future, who's to blame?"
It doesn't matter if one person doesn't agree.
Someone saw Xu Tian hugging Qiming and asked, "Didn't the fourth family have a grandson?"
Someone shouted: "Stop looking for it. It's okay if the two children don't come... My niece has fulfilled her filial piety to the uncle... It's these two nieces who have washed her..."
The man shut up and explained to the person next to him, "I'm not afraid of offending people. I'm more afraid of getting into trouble than offending people."
We had to take the main road back, and the main road had to pass by the two rows of houses where the accident occurred. All of them had lost sons and grandsons, and they were particularly serious.
After pulling it back and forth, the son-in-law who thinks Qingjuan can get it.
Qingjuan was stimulated, but it didn't end. Liancheng came. His grandfather personally delivered it. Knowing the rules here, he called his grandson. Then he hurried away, but it was still too late.
The young man was pretty, but he lowered his head in embarrassment after being looked at by so many people. Then he quietly stood next to Qingjuan.
Qingjuan was angry at this violation of the rules, but also happy that Liancheng could come. She asked in a low voice: "How did you come?"
"Driving back." He whispered, "Are you just waiting for me?" He looked very uneasy.
When everyone arrived, everyone knelt down. There must be a lot of people. Big and small, Xu Tian hugged Qiming and hid to the side.
The kneeling filial son and filial daughter burned paper and set off firecrackers to remove bad luck. Then they kowtowed and scattered money, which was regarded as buying a way with various gods. Finally, they gave each of them a white lantern bought from the paper shop and lit it.
Get up. Each person has one hand to guide the souls' way home. Yan Yan and Xu Qiang both took two, one big and one small. They took them for their two children. Lao Yang took them for Qifu, the daughter of the Qing family, and they were colorful.
Dad helped Qi Rui hold it.
Throw money as you go, call people as you go.
The junior couldn't open his mouth, so the people in the village who were accompanying him said: "If you don't shout, stop it. Wait for your uncle... Otherwise, who will be harmed if you leave a little soul behind!"
Qingjuan held Qingyue's hand: "Whatever I say, sister, just follow me..."
It's like playing a trick here, with so many people watching, and singing a monkey show is not like this.
Qingyue almost cried.
Liancheng still had an idea. He squatted down and muttered something to Qingyue, and then the kid shouted loudly. Liancheng, who thought he was particularly shy, shouted in a measured and rhythmic manner.
When Qingjuan asked about it later, he said that his father died on the operating table and also died outside. At that time, the place where his grandparents lived was not considered a county seat, but only a suburb of the county. He was four years old.
, he also called his father this way. He was afraid that he would not be able to bring his father home.
Even though I have never met this uncle-in-law, he still behaves very piously.
Just walked and shouted all the way, and welcomed the "people" into the house.
Then there were firecrackers, burning paper, and kowtows to thank the various gods for opening the way for their loved ones to return home.
At this point, Qingping and Qingning felt that it didn't matter whether they were present or not. They lit a brazier at the entrance of the alley and stepped over the brazier. The matter for today was considered over.
Qingping took the child back to his house in the town, while Qingning and Yan Yan returned to the county town, and the child still needed to be fed.
Yao Siyun sent Liancheng away with Qingyue and Qingjuan, and then followed Qingping back to the second son's house.
When he got home, Qingjuan scolded: "What kind of nonsense is this? What age are you still doing this? And my father's uncle, he looks like he is sick. Why did he ask his niece to go? My father and I
My second uncle is the same... He didn't say he was stopping him... And my second uncle also asked my eldest sister to go..." Then he asked Qingping: "My eldest sister is still bold and not afraid at all. Humph! If it were me! I don't care.
Go to the ball! My son and daughter-in-law are not going, why should I be asked to go! I just go in and can’t move. How can you bite me?"
Qingping said: "I used to hear people say, 'A man depends on his maternal family, and a woman depends on her mother's family.' I never understood the meaning of this sentence emphasized by the old man. This time, I really understand."
There is a saying that has been circulating in my hometown. Maybe even those born in the 1990s may not know it, but as those born in the 1980s, they still know it to some extent.
This sentence is "a man depends on his maternal family, and a woman depends on her natal family".
She didn't understand why a man relied on his maternal family, but she simply thought that a woman relied on her natal family, which meant that if a woman was bullied by her husband's family, she should depend on her natal family for support.
In fact, this understanding is extremely one-sided.
That’s not what this sentence means at all.
Why did Uncle Meng over there, at such an old age, show up at the hospital in the provincial capital as soon as possible? Why did no one refute him when he made comments about the funeral? Even his own father listened.
Now if you think about the funerals in your own family or in the village in the past, you will find that if the male owner of the family died, then the first person to be called over must be the man’s uncle’s family. If the uncle is no longer there, his cousin will do.
There is no brother, cousin, or nephew. If there are no relatives in the uncle's family, then the uncle's family has to have someone. If it is true that there is no one in the maternal family, people will say it is really pitiful. If it is
Hostess, the person coming must be her mother's brother or nephew. If no one comes from her mother's family, they will be labeled as pitiful. At first, Yingzi and Lin Yutong were somewhat coerced into recognizing the Lin family, and Aunt Jin
He once said, "A woman relies on her mother's family. Even if she has biological brothers, their surname is Guo and not Lin! If they are not closely related to each other, their names are not justified."
Why is it pitiful? Why do you say you need to take care of it? What should you take care of?
The man died, and someone came from his uncle’s family. The woman died, and someone came from her mother’s family. What are they here for?
Come to supervise! Come to examine! Come to see if there is anything unfilial or bad in this.
It is impossible to test when this rule was passed down. But the original intention of formulating this rule should be for the purpose of "filial piety". To monitor whether their children are filial.
For example, if an elderly person in the family dies, or someone comes from the maternal family, or someone comes from the natal family. After the person comes, the family will designate a person to groom the elderly person. At that time, there were not only one son, some families had daughters, and some families did not have daughters.
.Those who have daughters will usually point their daughters to groom the old man. Why? The daughter will not hide it for the daughter-in-law. For example, whether the old man died abnormally, whether the old man was abused and has scars on his body. The old man has been ill for a long time.
In the bed, the care and attention of the old man was not careful, which can also be seen from the body. The bed sores on the old man's body were rotten and filled with maggots. This would have been possible if the son and daughter-in-law had not waited until the other person's mother-in-law or natal family came.
If the person is dressed directly, no one will know, right? There was a case in He Xiaowan's family where a son and his wife strangled his own mother to death, but it was not the married daughter who discovered it. Why did I dress my mother before I arrived?
Okay? This is not in accordance with the procedures, so there is something fishy about it.
If you don't have a daughter, you may point to your married niece, or to another daughter-in-law who doesn't often live in the same yard with the old man to wash up. The purpose is the same, which is to check on the old man in the name of washing up.
Is there anything inappropriate about you? If you are from a more sophisticated family, your maternal family or your natal family, you should be watching the whole process.
There are also special cases, such as three relatives, six old friends and few children, or special cases of death where the clothes are difficult to take off and the shroud is difficult to wear and put on. We will ask the specialized person in the village to do so.
Wear it for those who know how to wear it, and then give them a red seal.
But like in the hospital, there is no one in the village to help except my own family. What's more, this is the person appointed by Jin Mancheng's uncle himself.
Why don't you dare to just shirk someone when you point them out in person?
The original intention of this rule should be good. After such a set of procedures, everyone knows that if the elderly are abused and treated poorly, even if no one finds out when the elderly are alive, they will definitely not be able to hide it after they die. Once it is revealed that this is unfilial, no matter what
In the past or now, as long as you want to be shameless, you really can't stand the criticism. Some old people can't stand the torture of illness and don't dare to commit suicide. Why? They are afraid that during the funeral, people will know that their death is not peaceful. They are afraid of their children.
The younger generation was criticized by others. There was that kind in the village. The mother’s legs hurt and she couldn’t bear the pain. With the conditions in those years, there was nothing that could be done. The old man hanged himself. Then the son was stabbed in the spine. He ran for the village.
He was kicked out. Why? You are not filial to your mother, but you still serve the villagers? Serve your grandma's legs!
Everyone gets old one day, right?
With this rule in place, even if there is someone who is unfilial, he has to think carefully about whether he dares to go too far.
But this rule has been circulating for many years. No one knows when it was passed down. But over the years, there must have been evolution. After all, nothing is static. What's more, the implementation of the rules,
It also varies from person to person. Just looking at the character of the uncle's family or the mother's family, or whether the relationship between the two families is good, this will have a direct impact on the implementation.
Originally, the function of these people was to supervise, but later it evolved into giving advice on funerals.
Whether the prepared shroud is good, whether the coffin is good, and whether it is paved and covered, are all things that can be seen through. If you can't see through, then I'm sorry! If you are not satisfied, these people will not show up at the funeral.
People who don’t know will say, love it or not!
But if you don't come, it won't be done.
In the past, the kind of supervision was whether the death was normal and whether the old man had been abused. If there was something bad, the family would not come. If they didn't come, the matter would be serious. No one in the village would dare to help with the burial.
I'm dead. What if I get involved in a lawsuit? Can I become an accomplice?
Therefore, these people did not show up or say anything. Then no one visited the cemetery and no one dared to carry the coffin. Almost no one from home came to help.
No one is allowed to enter the cemetery!
Who can carry their parents out into the wild on their backs, dig a hole and bury them themselves?
With this kind of restriction, no one dares to be unfilial.
But as it evolves, it seems to have changed a bit. For example, if the coffin is not well prepared, he is picky, and if the shroud does not fit, he is also picky. If you don't follow what he says, he won't come. You won't be able to be buried. No.
People who know about it may think you are unfilial.
Therefore, even if you are so angry that you vomit blood, you still have to do what he said.
But most people are sensible, they don't care about that, and they don't want to offend anyone. People are dead, so why do those things happen?
Of course, some stirring up trouble is reasonable. For example, when Aunt Jin’s coffin was too short, didn’t Fourth Master put a coffin on it? It doesn’t matter which son is causing trouble. As long as they ensure that the Meng family’s aunt is buried decently
Just do it.
There are also people who are troublesome themselves, or people who have a lot of quarrels with relatives. They deliberately try to ruin you and ruin your reputation when doing things.
There is a saying among cousins to threaten people: just wait. Wait until your father dies and we will see. It will be weird if you call me "Father" if I don't take care of you.
This threat is quite a deterrent.
It's not just the reputation that stinks, the key thing is that as children, we can't let our old people stink in their coffins just because of this.
Uncle Meng is not only Jin Mancheng's uncle, but also the uncle of so many brothers in the Jin family. If you offend him, you will offend the Meng family. And what did you say? In the future, the remaining four brothers will be gone and they will be the juniors.
Do we still have to invite the Meng family?
And then wait for the Meng family to come back and disgust these children?
Although this is all a matter for the future, there will indeed be considerations in this regard.
Let alone the far one, isn’t the near one right in front of us?
For example, what happened this time:
Okay! You don’t listen to what I say, right? Then I’ll go back now. What will you do with this funeral?
Fourth Master and Lin Yutong came back because they wanted to get the funeral done as quickly as possible without causing any complications. They were originally worried that Li Xian'er would follow others, carry the body, and cause trouble. Can they be delayed because of this matter?
What's more, local custom believes that the person who is pointed out to wash the old man is a filial person. What is contaminated is not bad luck, but blessing.
This shows great filial piety. Merit will definitely protect future generations.
Therefore, the children of Qingping and Qingning do not need to go to Hui when they are at the entrance of the village!
When people talk about funerals, they will also say: So-and-so from whose family is gone, and so-and-so washed so-and-so. This person has been washed by several old people... She is a blessed person!
Qingjuan said: "...Huahua doesn't understand the rules here, Qingfeng doesn't understand?" He called her by his name.
Qingping explained: "You were injured before you came here... I felt so uncomfortable when I saw it..." She felt that anyone who saw their biological father in such a state would not be able to bear it.
While talking, Ye Zi also came over.
Yao Siyun asked: "How is it going over there? Has a mourning hall been set up?"
Ye Zi nodded: "Okay. Qinghui and Qingyuan went to buy a coffin. They sent it over overnight."
Qingjuan laughed sarcastically: "How much did you pay?"
Ye Zi stretched out two fingers: "Two thousand."
Two thousand is neither too much nor too little in rural areas.
Qingjuan said: "Why didn't his uncle choose Qingfeng and Qingshou? Two thousand yuan, didn't he say that the coffin was cheap?" After that, he asked Yao Siyun: "Mom, my father's uncle is also with me.
Like my mother, I prefer my uncle..."
Where do you prefer your uncle?
It's just that your second uncle and your father offended someone for treating him as an uncle.
"Your fourth uncle and fourth aunt have become such a big official." Yao Siyun laughed, "The Meng family and my uncle's family have not benefited from a dime. I have approached your second uncle and your father and asked them to
Finding a job for this son and sending the grandchildren to college are all blocked by the two of them. How old is his uncle this year? He is relying on his old age to sell his old age! What can you do to him? It was intentional, and you
What can you do? When you were in the provincial capital, your father said that just ask one of his cousins to come over. Who knew he would come? It was inconvenient at that time, but now that he is back, you can't offend him. If that doesn't work, go to the Meng family.
If it doesn't work, just use money to talk. All the juniors below are like this uncle." After that, he said to Qingping, "I was afraid that your temper would bring back your father...