No one refuted Sister Lin's words. This is correct. The final decision must be made by the child himself. Otherwise, he will be blamed.
Everyone understood the underlying meaning of these words.
The eldest brother-in-law's face became ugly. Why would his wife have such thoughts? In the final analysis, he still has no ability to help his wife and children live a good life. Therefore, the child went to an extreme, and the wife also felt that the family conditions were good.
, itself can save a lot of effort. Some people struggle all their lives, but they still can't catch up with those who are born with a higher starting point. This is a truth she spent half a life pondering.
He stood up slowly, "Let's go back. It's not too early."
If you have anything to say, go back and close the door and say it yourself. Don't embarrass yourself in front of others here.
Sister Lin stood up and pulled Dandan roughly, "Let's go! Come home with me."
Lin Yuting did not get up, nor did he say that he would take them back on the way. There are still buses available, so just take the bus back.
He really didn't want to move.
"Eldest sister and brother-in-law, let's go first." Lin Yuting said, "I will discuss some business matters with third sister."
Sister Lin paused for a moment and said "Okay" with a choked voice.
Lin Yutong waited until he watched the family of three go out before turning back.
"Let eldest sister and mother handle this matter. They have to do it this way." Lin Yuting said softly, "No one can persuade me."
Mother Lin also felt that if she had stopped Sister Lin and found a family with slightly better family conditions, her daughter would not have had such a hard life. The key is that in their view, if she first fell in love and then got pregnant, she would still be able to survive without getting married.
what to do?
Lin Yutong didn't want to deal with this matter.
She also thought that if Sister Lin agreed, she would abort the fetus in her belly as soon as possible. If she was too embarrassed to go to the hospital, she could do it herself. She would ensure that the child's body would not be harmed much.
But looking at it now, Sister Lin obviously has other plans.
This plan is confusing and short-sighted, but it is hard to criticize.
For Sister Lin, she relies entirely on her half-life experience to plan for her daughter. What is her life experience?
Poor and lowly couples suffer from all things!
The relationship between the couple cannot be said to be bad, but no matter how good the relationship is, when faced with difficulties, how can there be any happiness at all?
Therefore, in the past, she felt that when looking for a partner, she should find someone who was responsible and compatible. After half a lifetime of hardship, she knew that no matter how good the relationship was, it could not buy a good life. Some things were irreplaceable.
Emotions can be managed, but material things sometimes make people powerless.
Lin Yutong cannot say that this idea is wrong. Elders always use her life experience to teach younger generations.
In Sister Lin's view, a marriage that only cares about feelings and not material things is a deep pit. She has fallen into it and cannot watch her daughter fall into it again.
Perhaps, she hadn't thought about finding a good family for her daughter before. But suddenly one day, it became possible. Will she give up?
Definitely not.
"It depends on what the eldest sister wants in this matter." Lin Yutong said, "I think my parents will also compromise."
An old couple always wants to take more care of their children who are having a bad life. This is human nature.
"Let's take a look, but when it comes to negotiating with the Li family, Third Sister, don't come forward." Lin Yuting shook his head, "It's really troublesome if it's stuck on and can't be torn off."
Lin Yutong thought the same way. Is it okay to trouble the Yin family all the time because of matters at home?
Don’t you have any shame?
This was also the time when my fourth master and I were getting married, which was the most difficult time for the Yin family. Otherwise, no one would have a problem with it.
I also have a sister-in-law and a sister-in-law.
Lin Yuting also thought of this and was determined not to let Lin Yutong come forward.
After Lin Yuting was sent away, the three children came out. The noise just now was quite loud. Even with the door closed, a little wind noise could be heard.
This kind of thing will probably be considered rare after ten years. After twenty years, people will slowly look down upon it.
But now, getting pregnant out of wedlock can indeed ruin a child's life.
"...You must know how to protect yourself." Lin Yutong took Yusheng's hand, "In the end, the girl's family will suffer from such a thing."
But the fourth master still looked at Zhensheng and Yesheng, "If you can't shoulder your responsibilities, don't mess around."
The three children suddenly blushed and agreed quickly.
Children today are still very pure.
What Lin Yutong didn't expect was that this matter would be strongly opposed by the second sister Lin.
She called Lin Yutong to complain, "I used to say that I was deceived by lard, but I think she is also deceived by lard now. The more I live, the more I understand. Why does she become more and more confused?
Didn't you ruin the child? Yesterday I accompanied her and Dandan to the police station and met that boy named Li Qiang. What kind of stuff is he doing? He was just a fool. When he heard that Dandan was pregnant, the first thing he asked was, "It's mine."
"Tell me, can such a person live a good life? In addition, Dandan is not an understanding child. No matter how good the conditions are, can such a person be controlled? If you can't control it, you have to spend a penny.
Judging from other people's faces, what's the point of getting married like this? When we came out, we met Li Qiang's mother again. Do you know what they said? They said, "Miss Xiaomi now, she can marry anyone she wants."
You can do it, listen, what are these words..."
"You didn't slap me?" Lin Yutong asked while holding the phone.
"Why didn't you hit her?" Sister Lin's voice on the phone became louder and louder, "I even slapped her. However, the eldest sister was so angry that she took Dandan to the hospital today."
"Dandan is willing?" Lin Yutong frowned sourly as she held the orange segment that Fourth Master fed her into her mouth.
"I think that child has learned a lot and has become a bit promising. Follow me and scratch Li Qiang's mother's face. She cried when she came back and obeyed the arrangements obediently." Second Sister Lin said.
Sigh, "Come back for dinner this weekend. I'll leave next Monday. This time, I plan to take Dandan with me. What if this child doesn't have any ability to make a living? I thought about it and took her to the United States to learn Western food and pastries. What if
I only studied Western pastry, and I’ve probably finished my apprenticeship in a year or two. When I come back, I’ll open a shop and open a dessert shop. Coffee, milk tea, cakes, and flowers. I think the business will be good.”
This is a good idea.
If you open a store in an area with many office buildings, it will definitely be popular among white-collar workers. This is a decent thing for a girl to do.
Second Sister Lin sighed on the phone, "I haven't been at home these years. My eldest sister is responsible for taking care of my parents' affairs at home. Dandan doesn't know how to discipline this child, so I will take care of it. I can pay for her tuition."
, but she had to work to earn living expenses. Not only did she have to earn enough money to work, but she also had to earn the capital to open a store. She had to earn it all. After a year or two of hardship, she learned well. Moreover, the United States is relatively open, and girls
It's normal for teenagers to have sex and live a normal life. After she stayed here for a while, her inferiority complex disappeared..."
Lin Yutong understood that after Sister Lin's divorce, she probably had a period of low self-esteem and always felt that others were pointing fingers behind her back. Therefore, she could understand Dandan's subtle changes in her heart in such an environment.
Second Sister Lin sighed: "If she could earn living expenses in the United States by working part-time, she would be fine when she comes back. No matter how hard it is, she won't be like now. She won't have enough to eat, and she won't be able to do anything."
Yes, as long as you don't aim too high, can be self-reliant, and have the ability to support yourself, how much worse can it be?
"I don't look at my eldest sister, and I look at my parents looking worried every day, and I can't ignore it." Second Sister Lin whispered, "This child's psychological problem is a knot that cannot be opened in China.
Coupled with eldest sister's old thoughts and ideas, I'm afraid it will make this child weak and timid and have low self-esteem."
Lin Yutong agreed with Sister Lin's idea, "It would be best for her to earn the rent herself."
Second Sister Lin was silent for a long time before saying: "Okay, I will rent the basement secretly when I go back, and then ask my American friend to pretend to be the landlord. I will pay her back the money when she returns to China."
The two of them decided on the matter on the phone.
Sister Lin will naturally not object to going to the United States.
On Monday, Lin Yutong took leave and personally sent Lin Erjie and Dandan to the airport. It had only been a week since the child had the abortion surgery. Lin Yutong brought the prepared pills to her and said, "Take it on time, the body is your own.
"
Dandan was very silent and didn't speak much along the way.
Sister Lin kept mumbling: "I must listen to your second aunt."
The eldest brother-in-law was very silent. When he was about to check in, he said: "No matter how nice it is outside, it is not home. Study hard and come back soon."
Dandan just nodded without looking up.
Lin Yutong felt that Sister Lin had saved the child once by taking him out.
After watching the plane take off and flying to the other side of the ocean with her family, Sister Lin said: "I learned well this time, but the loss is a bit big!"
The eldest brother-in-law smiled bitterly and said, "If you don't suffer, you won't grow up."
On the way back, Sister Lin said to Lin Yutong embarrassedly: "I've thought about it, and I'll resign too. The youngest has rented some land on the outskirts of the city. Your brother-in-law and I have enough money to rent a few acres."
"Growing vegetables?" Lin Yutong asked with raised eyebrows.
"No! I want to plant flowers." Sister Lin's brows relaxed a little. "Planting flowers doesn't have to be expensive. They are common and festive. I looked at a pot of cactus outside and it sold for several dollars.
.The cost is not big. I don’t understand the technology. Isn’t there Cheng Ying? I asked her last time and she said that the market situation is quite good.”
Lin Yutong looked at Sister Lin in surprise, "Sister, this is..."
"No matter what, I want to give it a try." Sister Lin said fiercely, "If I had money, I don't believe that woman would dare to talk about Dandan like that..."