It should be said that Hong Yanwu immediately made the decision to find "Tang Xin'er", which was a wise move.
Because he rushed to the small courtyard of "Qifenglou Hutong" and pushed the door into the bedroom. He saw that "Tang Xin'er" had already spread out two suitcases on the bed and was packing clothes and putting them in.
Let's go. It's obvious that we have plans to travel far away.
This made him very happy that he arrived in time. Otherwise, if he came back tomorrow morning, he might not be able to see anyone again.
But there was one thing that he really didn't expect, that is, doing the ideological work for "Tang Xin'er" was actually more difficult than persuading his family members.
"Daughter-in-law, why did you come back by yourself?"
Hong Yanwu asked as if nothing happened at first, but what he got back was only the air of silence.
After a while, he shamelessly pretended to be relaxed again.
"Daughter-in-law, I have to say that you are really careless. If you don't throw something away, you won't throw it away. Once you throw it away, you will take away the most precious thing like me. Fortunately, I have legs and know how to run back. How about you?
Can’t you reward me with rewards?”
But this shameless joke still had no effect. At most, it only made "Tang Xin'er" raise her head, glance at him through the mirror on the dressing table, and then continue doing whatever she was supposed to do.
Hong Yanwu had no choice but to cover "Tang Xin'er's" suitcase and forcefully stop him.
"Tang Xin'er, can you please stop doing this? If you have anything to do, just tell me. Let's talk..."
But "Tang Xin'er" stood there, refusing to look at him, looking away coldly. It still meant that he didn't want to say anything, just eat popsicles and pull popsicles - nothing happened.
This kind of attitude really makes Hong Yan feel miserable. In just a few hours, "Tang Xin'er"'s attitude towards him has completely turned around. Even if he knows what's going on, realistically
The contrast was also hard for him to accept.
He stood beside "Tang Xin'er"'s bed and looked at the back of her head, feeling a little angry.
"Do you want to pack your things? Yes! Do you want to go find 'Auntie Bao'? Yes! But you have to explain it to me first. What's wrong with you?
"Tang Xin'er" didn't speak yet, but her shoulders began to twitch obviously.
In "A Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Baoyu once said, "Women are the flesh and blood of water." Therefore, water has become synonymous with women. Since women are made of water, it is not difficult to understand that women like to cry.
So even though the two handkerchiefs wet from crying just now are still thrown on the table, "Tang Xin'er" still has tears whenever she wants to.
This made Hong Yanwu's heart soften, and the sparks that had just been lit were extinguished again.
He slowed down his tone unprincipledly and even said pleadingly, "Can you tell me why you did this to me?"
But a man's gentleness is also a good medicine for a woman. Perhaps it was the sad tone this time that touched "Tang Xin'er", and she finally started to speak.
"Why? Do I still need to say this? Don't you already know that I am a woman who cannot have children? I am not worthy of marrying you anymore. You should not come to me again..."
Although he was prepared, the choked voice of "Tang Xin'er" still made Hong Yanwu's blood rush to his head. He couldn't see "Tang Xin'er" looking so sad, it was so heartbreaking.
"Fart! This is your own nonsense! I tell you, I don't care at all! Don't underestimate yourself because of this, you are still the same in my heart as before, whether you understand it or not!"
But "Tang Xin'er" said, "Don't lie to yourself, you love children so much! Come on, Xiao Wu, your words really touched me! I know you have a conscience, and finally we didn't have a good time in vain.
But...but your family won't let us be together. Just pretend you don't know me. There are so many girls in the world, just go and like them. We can get together and get away easily, but I don't
It’s your fault…”
These words were obviously deliberately spoken by "Tang Xin'er" in such a mood, but although she said them forcefully, as soon as the words "I don't blame you" were spoken, tears burst out of her eyes involuntarily, completely
burst into tears.
There is no doubt that the most deadly tender weapon a woman has for a man is tears.
I feel pity for a woman's pear blossoms, which usually arouse the protective desire of strange men. Not to mention Hong Yanwu who truly loves "Tang Xin'er".
At this moment, somewhere in his heart began to explode. It hurt!
Standing here, he truly experienced the ice and snow in "Tang Xin'er's" heart. He even regretted that he could not follow her to see Shou Jingfang, and could not accompany her when she left the Hong family's old house.
So he was panicked and at a loss, and he hurriedly tried to comfort her.
"Oh, what are you confused about? Why do you give up on yourself so easily? I like children, but the problem is that I have to have you first! If you are not here, and it is not our child, what is the point of the child?"
"In addition, don't worry about my family members. They are all kind and reasonable. I believe it won't take long for them to understand. They will still be affectionate to you. No, it will be better for you..."
"Can you please stop crying? You're just like the wind and rain! If someone says you can't give birth, then you can't give birth? Yes, my cousin has superb medical skills. But he is not a gynecologist. Besides, nothing is absolute. Chinese medicine
If it doesn’t work, what about Western medicine? If it doesn’t work at home, how about abroad? We don’t need money even if we lack everything. I don’t believe that traveling all over the world can’t cure this disease! What’s more, medicine is still developing. In a few years, this disease will definitely not be cured.
What kind of illness is this? You believe me..."
But the darker the description, the more anxious he became, and the harder "Tang Xin'er" cried. No matter how hard he racked his brains to think of all the words to say, it was of no use. Instead, it backfired and made things worse.
In fact, this is the shortcoming of Hong Yanwu's lack of emotional experience in his previous life. What he thinks is that "Tang Xin'er" is the woman he wants to protect with all his strength, and he must do everything he can to prevent her from shedding a single tear.
But this wish is beautiful but unrealistic. Because any truly mature man should know that it is even more difficult to prevent a woman from crying.
Women are perceptual animals with particularly well-developed emotional nerves. She can be moved by a detail that touches the heartstrings for no reason. For example, she can be sad for a stray cat for a long time, or she can shed tears in front of a rose.
A woman's heart is not only fragile and sensitive, but also systematic. Once she starts crying, she will touch all the nerves in her body from point to point, causing all the sad, wronged, and regretful past events to come to her mind.
In fact, it is really difficult to say whether women cry because they are sad or because they cry because they are sad.
This is even more true when it comes to "Tang Xin'er".
A woman like her who has been greatly emotionally stimulated and has a considerable sense of psychological crisis has every reason to cry.
What's more, the feeling of sadness when crying will further cause her to have an emotional association and think of many sad memories in the past.
In this way, huge sadness will continue to surge into her heart, accumulating and amplifying her emotions, making her cry out of breath, crying out of control, and making her a mess.
To put it bluntly, it was in vain for anyone to try to stop her tears at this time. Even if she loved to wear her red underpants and the superman who could save the world came, anyone who pretended to be a good person would be asking for trouble.
But it's not that there are no benefits at all. In fact, crying is an invisible tranquilizer. After she vented happily, she naturally felt calm.
Once her mind calms down, she will naturally have time to think, and in most cases, her inner self-blame will be made up for with actions.
So the rational approach is that Hong Yanwu should stop and wait until "Tang Xin'er" has finished crying first.
In fact, after her emotions are vented and her mind is balanced, she will be able to listen easily and listen to both good and bad words.
It's just a pity that Hong Yanwu in his previous life treated the crying woman very roughly.
Either he is full of joy and makes people cry harder, adding to the fun with tears. Or he kicks them away in disgust, throws a handful of money and leaves.
It all depends on his own mood, because to him, including his ex-wife Fang Ting, all women are nothing more than commodities with price tags, and no woman has ever gotten as much as "Tang Xin'er"
Live his true feelings.
Although this was commendable, Hong Yanwu was extremely inexperienced and didn't know how to deal with this kind of situation correctly. So he was almost talking to himself, and Hong Yanwu was impatient and was almost exhausted from spitting.
Yes. Mistakes are inevitable.
Tormented by "Tang Xin'er's" indifference, Hong Yanwu walked around the room like a predator that couldn't catch its prey. Finally, he couldn't help getting anxious and roared.
"This won't work, that won't work! I've told you this, and you still don't believe me? Do you really have to make me kneel down and beg you? What do you want? Tell me!
"
This sentence made "Tang Xin'er" tremble all over.
To be honest, she had loved Hong Yanwu thousands of times in her heart, but the inferiority complex brought to her by reality made her dare not accept the hand that Hong Yanwu extended to her.
She was afraid that this was an illusion, a beautiful dream, because dreams are illusions and they will wake up one day. She was afraid that one day, when Hong Yanwu wanted to leave her, she would no longer be able to stand being alone.
And fundamentally speaking, she actually has something completely opposite to her inferiority complex, which is her excessive self-esteem.
She has been taught by "Sister Agou" since she was a child that men are unreliable and women have to rely on themselves. So she wants to be the most beautiful, richest and most skillful woman.
She has never wanted to be anyone's vassal, nor is she willing to be anyone's vassal.
It was Hong Yanwu's overly excited words that made her suddenly have a bad feeling. She thought that Hong Yanwu was pitying her and that's why he yelled at her so rudely.
She simply couldn't imagine that if the relationship between the two people was no longer equal in the future, would the happiness she longed for be available again?
So she also said harsh words. "What do I want? I want you to go! I beg you not to pester me anymore! I am here to rely on you! We are finished! Don't you understand?"
This heartless answer was something Hong Yanwu never expected. He was speechless for a long time.
It wasn't until he glanced at the roof again, took a breath, and said with a serious face, "Are you serious? I'll ask you one last time. If you say yes, I will leave without delaying you for a second."
"
But at this moment, for the two of them, their emotions are like arrows that have left the bowstring. They are doomed, and neither of them can do it without feeling sad and hesitant.
Just like that, after "Tang Xin'er" gritted his teeth and said "yes", Hong Yanwu left sadly.
The moment he left the small courtyard, he was very sad, thinking that he was not trusted, that all his efforts were in vain, and that his love was also in vain.
As for "Tang Xin'er", it was completely contrary to her own heart to show off her strength and make such a strong gesture. After a while, she cried even harder. This time it was like a life-and-death struggle. Because she felt a sense of opposition.
Emotional utter despair and exhilaration.
But the worse thing was yet to come. About an hour later, when she had cried enough and exhausted all her energy, as mentioned before, her mood began to recover.
, people began to become calmer.
She couldn't help but start to think back and reflect, and she also began to discover her impulsiveness and bravery. She also thought of Hong Yanwu's efforts and various benefits in the past.
But it's a pity that Hong Yanwu has gone missing with his loss at this moment. And she can't go to his home to find him, it's completely irreversible.
Inevitably, another deep regret hit her. This time her heart hurt as if she was bleeding...
If we look at the situation at this time, this relationship should be regarded as ruined by the two people's immature ways of handling the relationship. It has become a regret that each of them regrets.
But the good thing is that Hong Yanwu has an advantage that most men in this era do not have - thick skin.
Although this trait is not very respectable to say, and may be a bit wretched, it is undeniable that no matter in the shopping mall or in love, or even in various fields, at certain critical moments, this ability has the power to turn decay into magic and play a role.
A game-changing effect.
This time was no exception. Just when "Tang Xin'er" was feeling despair, the courtyard door opened, and in came Hong Yanwu, whom she had already begun to miss.
He was holding something in his hand, and when he walked into the courtyard, he felt a little guilty and wanted to see what was going on in the bedroom.
But this was all a blind worry, everything had already fallen into place.
"Tang Xin'er" quickly appeared in front of the door, and with a heartbreaking cry of "Xiao Wu——", she jumped into his arms like flying and hugged him tightly.
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Hong Yanwu was a little surprised at first. He couldn't understand what happened. But he soon felt relieved, threw away the things in his hands, and hugged "Tang Xin'er" tightly.
"Why are you back? I thought you would never come back again..."
"How could it be! Just for a little quarrel? You look down on me too much. Who doesn't know that you women love to talk what you mean? You say you want me to leave, but in fact you don't want me to leave..."
"You... are annoying! Shameless..."
"I'm shameless. What's wrong? No matter how you drive me away, I won't leave!"
"That's nice to say, but you've obviously already left..."
"I'm going to buy groceries. Today is the Chinese Valentine's Day, and you haven't eaten anything yet... Oops, it's broken. I threw all the eggs on the floor. Let me go first and I'll clean them up..."
"No! Don't let me go, don't move..."
"Tang Xin'er" acted coquettishly like a child and nestled her head tightly in Hong Yanwu's arms.
And Hong Yanwu also found that her tears wet his chest again.
This time, he didn't try to stop her crying, because at this time, he also felt like crying.
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