Chapter two hundred and eighty second family harmony
"The head of the house is a capable man. He can burn tiles and pots, he can say yes and he can laugh. There is something interesting about talking and laughing..."
This is what the daughter-in-law of Zhao, who runs a Pener kiln, said about her husband in the Peking Opera "Wuben Ji".
Don’t think that this is the standard for choosing a spouse in ancient times, but it is actually quite reliable, because the two most important points to ensure a marriage are material and spiritual. It requires money and fun, and then it can still
"Not interesting"?
The same is true for Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er". They have less money than anyone else, and they are both eloquent and well-informed people.
What's more, nowadays, "Tang Xin'er" still feels two of the rarest things from Hong Yanwu, namely his unswerving infatuation and his serious and responsible attitude towards relationships.
This made their relationship sublimate a step further after experiencing this disaster. It was like adding oil to honey.
As for the Hong family's affairs, the Hong family's family dinner on Chinese Valentine's Day was indeed ruined.
That day, Hong Yanzheng and Xu Manli got off work and rushed back to their old house with little Hong Yi. What they saw was that the scene was completely opposite to what they expected.
Instead of having a lively gathering together, the whole family became taciturn and no one stopped joking.
Shou Jingfang has left, and their parents are sitting together, sighing and worrying. The younger generation are also all listless.
Only when Hong Jun saw his parents and younger brother, he ran over quickly and informed them according to his understanding. He said that his third uncle and "Aunt Sugar" got angry and ran away for some reason, which made the whole family unhappy.
Only then did Hong Yanzheng and his wife realize that the situation at home was caused by Hong Yanwu. When they met their parents, they were stunned when they learned the whole story. They didn't know what to do for a while.
But to be honest, there is no need to worry about this matter because, as Hong Yanwu himself expected, things really turned around later on.
The Hong family are all kind-hearted people. After everyone slowly digested the situation, the children of the Hong family began to speak for Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er".
Hong Yanzheng said that Hong Yanwu was irritating. He didn't know what was good or bad, and couldn't understand the painstaking efforts of his elders. He didn't do what he should do, and he did everything he shouldn't do. But the matter has come to this, and he can't evade responsibility in this matter.
, he actually didn’t pull up his pants and didn’t admit it, which is considered responsible. He is indeed no longer a child.
As for what his cousin said about not being able to have children, he was definitely right. Fortunately, the Hong family was not alone. At least they now have two grandchildren. So he felt that Hong Yanwu might be serious about being so determined. If it was true, he
If you think about it yourself, you may not force them to leave.
Xu Manli also echoed that since Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" have crossed the line, it is not easy to break up, otherwise it will be too sorry for the girl, and it will be like pushing "Tang Xin'er" into the fire pit.
Hong Yanwen’s opinion is that times have changed. The Marriage Law prohibits arranged marriages and advocates free love. This means that parents only have the right to provide opinions and have no right to make the final decision for two young people.
If the young couple wants to live together, you can't tear them apart. If you don't want to live together, you can't pinch them together.
In addition, the third child in their family is a master who never listens to advice, and no one can stop him from doing anything he wants to do. So since he can't even object, why not happily marry this daughter-in-law?
Where is your son?
As for Hong Yanru and Chen Liquan, one is young and the other is dull. Neither of them knows how to keep up with adults' thoughts and communicate maturely.
But Hong Yanru really liked "Tang Xin'er", and Chen Liquan felt pity for "Tang Xin'er" who was an orphan like himself. They were both happy that Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" could be together, and they also said a lot of good things.
In this way, the children of the Hong family are doing their best to help Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" and persuade their parents to change their minds.
Even Hong Jun followed the adults every day, talking about "Uncle Three" and "Aunt Sugar". He thought his grandparents had driven Uncle Three away, and he always asked when Uncle Three would be able to come home? He told his grandparents not to be angry.
As a result, the Hong family couple, who had always found it hard to be cruel, gave up all plans of "beating up the couple" and had no choice but to compromise.
In fact, this is also an inevitable result.
Because first of all, if it is not against the fundamental principles, there has never been a competition between parents and children that they can win.
After all, they are flesh and blood. How can any parent be so cruel to their children? They are always afraid of this and that, and have too many worries. Children, on the other hand, usually have no scruples and are often more concerned about their own feelings.
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In essence, this kind of struggle is not equal at all. The balance of victory is naturally different.
Secondly, apart from the fact that the Hong family is a kind family and would never do anything treacherous or add insult to injury, it is also because to the old couple, the girl "Tang Xin'er" is too pitiful and deplorable.
Such a smart, beautiful, talented girl, without her parents and relatives, she has no chance to be a mother. It is not an exaggeration to say that she is lonely. For such a child, the old couple can't even think about it without feeling sorry for them.
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And "Tang Xin'er" has an even more likable personality, is well-informed, and quite sensible. Judging from this matter, she actually has no intention of threatening her with the "raw rice cooked rice" thing.
For the sake of the Hong family, she endured the humiliation and went away lonely and sad. It can be seen that she is a girl who is willing to wrong herself for others. She will definitely keep the peace and tranquility of the family home when she gets married. This is a rare good character and good humanity.
In this way, while having breakfast on September 1st, the old couple of the Hong family, who had carefully considered it, expressed in public that the return of their son would be a good fit for their family. They would be delighted to have a beautiful lady. Now that the matter has come to this, if Hong Yanwu and "Tangxin"
If there is mutual consent and they want to get married, then let them follow their wishes.
They also assigned a task to Xu Manli and Chen Liquan, asking them to go to "Tang Xin'er"'s residence together and invite "Tang Xin'er" to their home for dinner on the weekend on behalf of the whole family, so as to talk the matter out and resolve the current situation.
This deadlock between each other.
Once this decision was announced, the recent dullness of the Hong family was wiped away, and the entire Hong family burst into joy.
The children of the Hong family all sang praises, saying that their parents were wise and mighty, that they could see thousands of miles away and see a hundred generations ahead. Under their leadership, the Hong family would surely prosper and become one of the "five good families" that everyone envied.
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It should be said that the arrangement made by the Hong family is very appropriate.
Xu Manli has a steady and gentle temperament, and is also the daughter-in-law and eldest sister-in-law of the Hong family. By having her come forward, she can show the sincerity of the Hong family without being disrespectful. Also, because they are all women, they will not let the "sugar-hearted children" get too much.
Embarrassed and embarrassed. She is the most suitable person to handle this matter.
As for where "Tang Xin'er" lives, only Chen Liquan of the whole family has been there. He can easily guide the way, and he can also protect Xu Manli in the dark. In addition, he is also the most familiar with Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er", and there are many things.
It seems more convenient for him to supplement it.
Sure enough, when the two of them left, Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" were both a little surprised and extremely happy.
Although "Tang Xin'er" was inevitably a little embarrassed, when Xu Manli took her hand and walked into the room alone, he passed on his warmth to her and talked about the meaning of home in detail. She listened slowly,
The embarrassment is gone.
Until Xu Manli finally followed Wang Yunlin's instructions and said, "Everything has passed, and the family will not interfere with you anymore. But whether you can live a good life in the future depends on you. In fact, your parents are never dissatisfied with you.
, I feel sorry for you. They want me to tell you that from now on we will become a family and we must not be separated from each other anymore. No matter how difficult it is, it is better for us to face it together than for you to bear it alone..."
These heart-warming words made "Tang Xin'er" burst into tears without even realizing it.
Seeing her like this, Xu Manli simply hugged her.
"If you want to cry, just cry hard and pour out all the tears that are drowning in your heart. We are all women and we are all juniors. I'm afraid no one knows your grievances better than me."
Ever since, "Tang Xin'er" threw herself into her arms and cried heartily.
At this moment, Xu Manli took over the role of "Auntie Precious".
Her future sister-in-law is really qualified. What is a relative? This is a relative.
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