It is the objective law of this world to prosper and then decline, or whether it will prosper and prosper.
If you want to violate this, even "destiny", a guy who loves to go against people, can't do it. Otherwise, how can people say that there is always hope in life.
In fact, it is just like what Hong Yanwu said to comfort the "general" mother, how difficult things are, as long as you overcome this hurdle, it will be different.
The arrival of Hong Yanwu and "Xiao Baizi" was like a key turning point, bringing good luck to the Jiang family and making the "general"'s experience gradually improve.
On October 12, "Sanjizi" and "Xiapaizi" came to my door one after another. Their purpose was almost the same, they were both apologizing for the trouble caused by relatives coming to the door.
Hong Yanwu's "education" had immediate results, and the "general" now also knew not to be a bad guy, but to treat him differently.
For the "Xiaolizi", he kicked him away without even letting the kid enter the house. But for the "Sanchunzi", he was quite tolerant.
Especially when he knew that the family of "Sanjiezi" had been hiding the fact that he had visited the house, and "Sanjiezi" knew about it from the relatives who got the money, he could even understand "Sanjiezi"
"The difficulties.
For this reason, he kept praising "Three Clan Sons" to Hong Yanwu and explained the ins and outs, saying that among all the "Hai Cong Zi", this boy was the only one who valued friendship.
"Sanjizi" really deserved these words, because he personally gave back the money that his relatives had taken away yesterday.
He said that he regretted that he should not have listened to his family, and that he should have returned the money to these relatives long ago. If he could be more responsible, he would not implicate his elder brother. He can't control others, but he has figured it out and promised them
You have to take care of your own affairs, and you can't rely on anyone.
Hong Yanwu couldn't help but feel deeply pleased for the "general", after all, there was such a true brother who had passed the test of money. So the three brothers and "Xiao Baizi" had another hearty drink.
On Sunday, October 14th, Manager Xie from "Shengli Guest House" came to visit unexpectedly.
Fortunately, after he and the traffic brigade captain accepted the "general's" watch to pay off their debts, the two of them felt increasingly unhappy.
They knew what the sea cucumber market was like outside, and the "general" paid off his debt with his watch, so they knew at a glance that they were in serious trouble.
So the two of them drank together several times during this period and calculated the value of the watch for 40 yuan before and after, which was probably less than 6,000 yuan. I felt that I was too sorry for my friend. There was no such way to take advantage.
In the end, it was agreed that each of them would return five watches, and Manager Xie sent them back to the "general" that day.
Although several of these ten watches are from Bincheng's local "Pearl" brand, they are relatively low-value among this batch of watches.
But think about it from another perspective, it is already commendable that people who are just social friends who are not close friends can take the initiative to spit out the meat that has been put into their mouths.
Of course the "general" was moved and surprised.
To put it bluntly, what about his own brothers? Some people can't do this even between flesh and blood relatives.
Interestingly, there was a misunderstanding this time.
It turned out that when Manager Xie came, Hong Yanwu took "Xiao Baizi" to the street. When they came back, the two of them shocked Manager Xie.
Manager Xie didn't expect to see Hong Yanwu and "Xiao Baizi" here. He touched the back of his head and said, "You won't lose money too, right? It doesn't matter. You can stay at our 'Shengli' and we won't charge you any rent."
I'll also be in charge of the food in the canteen. If you're short of invoices and need to pay bills, I'll try my best to think of a solution..."
Hong Yanwu was immediately laughed at by Manager Xie's self-righteousness.
"Lao Xie, it's really interesting that I have you. In fact, I just came here. I stayed here for the past two days to make some arrangements with the 'general'. I will go to find you in two days. But today, I am going to attack you.
In this case, I must treat you well..."
In short, this unexpected friendship undoubtedly gave the "general" another encouragement and gratification, and restored a lot of confidence in interpersonal communication.
As for "Hai Bangzi", this is the case.
After "Sanjizi" returned on the 12th, through him, others gradually knew that Hong Yanwu and "Xiaobaizi" were coming.
Although they were embarrassed, "Ba Octopus", "Dead Corpse", "Sea Hare" and "Sea Dog" discussed it for a while, and still went to the city together to pay a visit, hoping to show their friendship as landlords.
They probably thought that this would not be too embarrassing, and thought that Hong Yanwu and the generous "general" would not refute the reputation of so many people.
But they really didn't expect that someone would poke them so hard.
When they met, Hong Yanwu actually said, "If there is no love, there is no need to drink wine."
"General" also said, "Now that Xiao Wu has sent money, I have money to compensate you. In three days, we can all get together to settle the accounts."
Just leave them alone.
The few of us felt uncomfortable when we went back. After drinking and talking from beginning to end, and thinking about it, we began to think that we were not the best.
After reflecting for a night, she bravely came back the next day, but she didn't expect that Hong Yanwu, "Xiao Baizi" and "General" were gone. Han Ying told them that these three people had gone to see "Old Saury".
This made several "sea bumpers" disappointed again. After thinking about it again and again, they became blushing and timid, and it was difficult for them to have the courage to follow the "Clam Village".
It should be said that now that things have come to this point, it is difficult to mend the cracks in everyone's relationship. No matter how much the "Haichengzi" regret it, it will be too late. The heartbroken "general" cannot pretend that this incident did not happen.
Passed.
The friendship that has shared joys and sorrows for nearly ten years is about to be destroyed in one moment. This is a loss for everyone and an unspeakable regret.
Fortunately, the "general" has a good wife, and the "sea bumpers" have a good sister-in-law.
Han Ying was born in a cadre family. She read a lot, was good at thinking, and understood the truth. She was once a dazzling princess active in the sun, and she was also an orphan who lived in darkness and suffered from torture and suffering.
This means that she has fully experienced the ups and downs of human relationships and the harshness of the world, and can understand and sympathize with almost all people in different situations. She not only understands the pain of her husband being sad for his brother, but also understands the difficulty of people trying to control themselves in the face of utilitarianism.
Therefore, although she also resented the "Hai Bangzi", she also felt that they were pitiful and pathetic. The way the "Hai Bangzi" returned home disappointed with their regrets naturally aroused her sympathy.
So after the "general" and Hong Yanwu came back from "Clam Village", she couldn't help but mention the past "touching the sea" that the "general" had told her, and deliberately talked about how they used to beg for a living together.
Those poor but happy times we spent together.
And when the "general" couldn't help but indulge in nostalgia for the past, remembering the past where everyone basked naked in the sun, stood on the rocks to pee, sang loudly, chatted about women, and pretended to be evil to scare the children at the beach. Han Ying sincerely advised her.
He comes.
What she means is that since there have been so many good things in the past and we have tolerated each other so much, why can't we be more generous this time? After all, everyone is confused sometimes, even the "general" himself.
No exception. According to her, men are actually children who cannot grow up. Since they are children, it is impossible not to make mistakes. They should be forgiven!
As soon as these words were said, not only the "general" was shaken, but even Hong Yanwu was deeply touched and ashamed.
He said, "My sister-in-law is really in a different state. Comparing me with her, I seem stingy. I understand what you mean. Indeed, revenge cannot solve all problems. Sometimes this kind of calculation is not only unhelpful, but
On the contrary, it makes everyone suffer. This is mainly because the other person is still someone you care about and care about. People will be conflicted because of their feelings. In this case, I will not insist on it. What to do, 'general', you decide for yourself. How can you let it go?
You feel comfortable in your heart. You know best how deep the relationship between you two has been for so many years."
As luck would have it, just when the "general" was hesitating and thinking, "Sanjizi" came to visit again.
This time he brought another amount of money and told the "general" in a very embarrassed manner that it was money taken away by "Xiapaizi"'s relatives.
Send it back.
"Xiapaizi" also said that he knew that the elder brother didn't want to see him, and he had no shame to come back. But he knew that he was wrong, so he gave up all the money he invested in the sea cucumber. This was not to ask the elder brother to forgive him, but to ask the elder brother to forgive him.
I hope I can help relieve the burden on my eldest brother so that he can feel better...
At this time, the "general" really wasn't calm anymore. He didn't expect that the "Xianglizi" who always cared about money the most would be willing to give up such a large sum of money. Such a huge contrast between before and after is enough to show that he has indeed repented.
heart.
So he relented, and after some deliberation with Hong Yanwu, he told "Sanjianzi" that he must bring "Xiaipizi" when everyone got together again.