If you don’t take into account the accidental situation of a perfect match, a match made in heaven, there are roughly two types of marriages in the world.
One is that the love before marriage is vigorous and vigorous, and the two people break through the resistance in all aspects, and finally achieve a happy result and hold hands together.
This is a romantic plot that often appears in novels and is most admired by young men and women.
But the reality is often contrary to people's expectations. The possibility of this kind of love "living together happily forever" is actually not very high.
Precisely because it was so romantic before and they gave a lot to each other, while both parties feel cherished, they also often have particularly high expectations for this relationship.
But after getting married, life will take off its romantic cloak and gradually reveal its unadorned true nature, which is a little ugly and a little vulgar.
Not only will the existing problems between the two parties not disappear completely all of a sudden, but the issues of daily food, rice, oil and salt, supporting the elderly and raising children will become extremely real.
Then two people will find that marriage is actually like riding a bicycle or wearing shoes every day. No matter how beautiful the appearance is, it will gradually be ignored by people and covered up by the wind, rain and mud. What matters is practicality.
Once this huge gap is not handled well, love will deteriorate, and in the end only complaints and dissatisfaction with the real marriage will remain.
There is another kind, that is, the love before marriage is not vigorous, and even a bit compromised. Either the woman will get along, or the man will make do. Or both of them have to give in.
In short, it is the result of people compromising with objective reality. It is also the most common situation in our reality.
This choice seems to have inherent hidden dangers and problems. But for two people to come together, they must have thought deeply and considered it, and they are more or less prepared for the difficulties they will face.
More importantly, most people in this era still have a relatively traditional and serious concept of marriage. There is no thought of riding a donkey to find a horse, and there is no room for divorce at all.
So now that they are a couple, each other will try their best to fulfill the obligations of husband or wife to maintain the stability of the family.
In this way, the expectations are low and the marriage is more tolerant. Then the worst result is often that life remains calm after marriage.
And if the material conditions are superior, one party's emotions will deliberately accommodate the other's. Parents and relatives of both parties will also play a positive role in it.
So although such a married life cannot be said to be happy and complete, it can still be said to be of high quality and ideal. There is indeed the possibility of giving birth to true love or deepening the relationship.
People like Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna fall into the latter category.
Zhou Manna should be said to be the one who took the initiative before and after the marriage. She pursued Yang Weifan, and after the marriage she tried hard to change Yang Weifan's lukewarm attitude towards her. So she tried her best to control her temper as the eldest lady, especially to accommodate him.
Not only did she learn how to take care of Yang Weifan's life, but also because of the sense of security brought by the "legal license", she no longer had the difficulty of keeping a close eye on him and doubting him as before. She really became more and more like a good wife and mother.
This made Yang Weifan feel relaxed and a little touched. It was like a reward, so he would try his best to satisfy Zhou Manna's life pleasures.
For example, put on sunglasses and accompany her to watch movies, go swimming, go to the park, or go to the store to buy clothes. He is also like a good husband who dotes on his wife.
As for Zhou Manna's parents, they valued their son-in-law Yang Weifan very much. Every time they entertained him, they treated him like a distinguished guest. They also specially transferred their daughter's work to the "Military Newspaper" in order to allow her daughter to have more leisure time and focus on her family.
superior.
As for Moody, he will also provide convenience for the young couple. Not only does he pay close attention to the contact between the actress and Yang Weifan in the group, but he also arranges for Zhou Manna to go with Yang Weifan when he goes to perform with the group.
In this way, the two of them traveled around the mountains and rivers and attended banquets together. It was like a honeymoon trip, which was really enviable to others.
Even Yang Weifan's friends have a harmonious relationship with Zhou Manna.
Take Su Xiaoming as an example. After all, there are still many common topics among women. What's more, Su Xiaoming also has his own love life. After more contact with her, Zhou Manna understands it. She still feels a little sorry for her previous attitude.
As for Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan, no matter who Yang Weifan marries, they both hope that he can live a more comfortable life. Not to mention the marriage help, they also contributed two thousand yuan.
This generous gift really surprised Zhou Manna. In order to repay the favor, she specially held a banquet at her house in "Haifang" and cooked for Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan.
Her outlook has greatly improved.
In this way, Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna's married life has reached a very beautiful balance. They have a good job, a good family, good relatives, and good communication. Anyway, they can't find anything bad about them.
To be honest, this kind of day is like being enveloped in a layer of soft and warm sunshine, which is closer to Zhou Manna's perfect imagination, which makes her feel very happy.
Although Yang Weifan still has the shadow of another person in his heart, he also understands that reality is reality. The person sleeping next to him now is Zhou Manna, and she will be the mother of his child in the future.
Therefore, I strictly set a cordon in my mind, reminding myself that I must never violate morality.
In addition, he had to admit that the life after marriage was actually much more interesting and rich than he had initially expected.
Seeing people around him smiling with satisfaction, especially his parents' radiant faces, he couldn't help but think that if it could stay like this, maybe it wouldn't be so bad...
I don't know why, but sometimes a person's feelings about life can be completely opposite to the social environment.
As time goes by, just as the married life of Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna becomes more and more peaceful and peaceful, the overall social environment becomes more and more lively, restless, and noisy.
Because since March, whether it is in terms of the mental outlook of ordinary people, entertainment life, or national policies, one phenomenon that can arouse the collective astonishment of society has occurred one after another. It is simply overwhelming, and it feels difficult to calm down.
Waiting for the vibration.
March 18th, the second dragon in the second month of the lunar calendar, was also the day after the wedding of Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna. As the first policy announcement for this year, in the conference room of the West Building of Zhongnanhai, a major discussion that affected hundreds of millions of families began.
The central topic of the meeting is: in the face of out-of-control population growth, is it feasible for a couple to have one child? What problems will they encounter and how to solve it?
From this day on, the population symposium was held five times in succession. After discussions with experts from various industries, they successively eliminated several key issues that "will cause a decline in the quality of the population", "will cause a shortage of labor force", and prevent the occurrence of "421 families".
After the problem, the birth policy was finally established to encourage a couple to have one child.
Since then, whether in the countryside or in towns, the slogan "One is not enough, two is just right, three is too much" was quietly replaced, and the slogans painted on the walls became "It is better to have only one child!".
In this regard, the public's backlash is quite large, although it has been firmly suppressed by enforcers from all over the country. But those who really want to have more children will not give up. For example, the "general" who was far away in Bincheng gave Hong Yanwu a
Call me for advice and advice.
The "general" really regretted it. Because when Hong Yanwu was drinking wine for his child's full moon the year before last, he said in Bincheng that the national policy would change, reminding him that he should hurry up if he wanted to have another child. But who made him not take it seriously?
.So now when he talks about it, he feels very embarrassed.
"Xiao Wu, I regret not listening to you. A few years ago, I still promoted 'one is a lot, two is just right, three is too much'. Who knew it would change so quickly. To be honest, I begged for this.
There are quite a few people. But no matter how many gifts they give, no one dares to say that the country is serious about it. Alas, thinking about this, I feel sorry for my son's next generation. If they really want to give children, what?
My aunts, uncles, aunts, and uncles are all gone. What do you think I should do? Is there really no way I can give birth..."
The "general" also felt guilty. He didn't expect that Hong Yanwu would enlighten him on this matter casually. It really relieved his worries.
"Brother, what are you worried about when others are worried? What do people like us have to fear about 'family planning'? This is a policy, not a law. Shouldn't they be sentenced? Shouldn't they be shot? Then why don't you want the children you want?
It's over, who can stop you?"
"It's just that you and Han Ying can't make progress in the workplace. If you fall behind, you won't be able to run away. You'll also have to be fined. If your child is born in the future, you'll be a blackmailer, and we'll have to pay for all the expenses ourselves."
"It really doesn't matter if you think about it. Don't worry about the household registration. Things in society are just like that. It will be easier to handle when the policies are relaxed in two years. In short, what are we willing to spend money on?
That's right. He's a good working man, he can't be stuffed back into his mother's womb..."
Not to mention, the "general" thought was really true. I immediately felt confident. I laughed heartily, and on the other end of the phone, I said that Hong Yanwu saw the problem to the point, and he was a bit like Zhuge Kongming.
Hong Yanwu was also very modest, saying that Zhuge Liang would not give advice for women to have children. His level was relatively low, equivalent to a cobbler.
In addition, in March, the advertising industry in Beijing once again experienced significant development.
Starting from March 10, China Television will broadcast a fifteen-second advertisement for Japanese "Citizen" watches every day.
This is the first foreign product advertisement that has been broadcast on the National Television of the Republic of China for a long time. The Japanese company paid 800,000 yuan for this year-long advertising contract. But for a while, "Citizen technology is famous all over the world" has become a household name.
advertising slogans.
As for outdoor advertising, it continues to develop in depth.
An advertisement for wool sweaters was erected on a high-rise building near Sanyuan Bridge. This may be the first billboard on the roof of a building in Beijing. Inspired by this, since then, building advertisements have appeared one after another in Beijing.
The commercial streets in the busy city have also changed greatly. In addition to the plaque advertisements of time-honored brands reappearing on the streets, attractive products and pictures began to appear in the windows.
For example, the "National Photo Studio" located at the south entrance of Wangfujing Street has not had window advertisements for many years. The "Little Red Book" has always been displayed inside, but now it has been replaced by photos of radiant models. And the promotion board in the "Dongan Market"
It has also been converted into an advertising window to display special products in the mall.
But the biggest progress has to be said to be the emergence of light box advertising.
Although the cost of construction and maintenance is high, only a few large shopping malls and hotels can afford it. After all, it adds a bit of bright color to the dark night of Beijing, so that the city no longer becomes stiff and cold as soon as it enters the night.
I feel a little more angry and happy.
The "Silian Barber Shop" at the northwest entrance of Jinyu Hutong can be said to be the pioneer in using light box advertising.
While they took some pictures of modern hairstyles and hung them in the store, they also took out the rotating light boxes from the warehouse that had been abandoned for many years.
The rotation of this thing in black and white and blue is very impactful, especially at night, like a spiraling magic bottle. As soon as it was placed, it caused a big shock, attracting passers-by to stop and watch. A reporter from the "Beijing Evening News" even came here specially
, made a special report on this.
This made "Silian" a fashion pioneer. Not only did it impress its peers, it established itself as the number one in the hairdressing industry. It also made their already popular business even more crowded.
In most cases, customers who want to come here to get a haircut have to wait several hours for their turn.
In April, people in the capital completely took off their cotton-padded clothes and trousers. Those college students and cultural people wearing glasses and pens also began to be intoxicated by Bei Dao's "Reply" and Shu Ting's "To the Oak". This
This is a sign that Menglong poetry has begun to be widely recognized and recognized by all walks of life.
But at the same time, the people in the capital were even more surprised to find that the entire city was actually ruled by Liu Lanfang at noon. Starting from this month, for 117 consecutive days, many people in the capital spent their noon time like this.
Passed.
At twelve o'clock at noon, the radio was turned on on time. While eating, the family listened quietly to Liu Lanfang's story about Yue Fei's life and death. It was not until the voice of "Listen to the decomposition next time" sounded that the family washed the dishes and took a nap.
After taking a nap, those who went out to make soy sauce scattered around.
Moreover, during this period, there were many sights on the road of people stopping under the eaves of other people's houses or beside shops, and would not go on the road until they had finished listening to the storytelling.
It's no joke to say that the streets are empty on time. Even the public security officers admitted that by this time, the crime rate had plummeted. Therefore, not only the police suggested that Liu Lanfang should be given a certificate. Some people even jokingly called this
The storytelling actor is "Jingjie Tai Sui".
But in fact, the ones who should be most grateful to Liu Lanfang are the semiconductor radio manufacturers and department stores. Because this year, the backlog of semiconductor radios in many state-owned stores were also sold out. It can be regarded as the last glory of the radio industry before the TV era was completely ushered in.
For Hong Yanwu, of course, it was inevitable to listen to storytelling with Chen Liquan and the old and young men at "Tianxingju". But his mood was far less exciting and enthusiastic than everyone else.
The reason for this is that, in addition to the plot of storytelling no longer having any special appeal to him who is well-informed, the surname of his mother's family is also one of the reasons. He can't join everyone in scolding "complete"
"Look"? It seems a bit inappropriate.
On the contrary, two other pieces of news that month that had not attracted the attention of the general public attracted all his attention.
One is that the National Bank announced that foreign exchange certificates would officially begin circulation on April 1, 1980.
Another, a great man gave a speech that individual urban residents can buy houses in installments.