"Okay, brother. I'm probably the first one in the entire capital who can take advantage of your generous offer! I'm contented! You're the only one who beat me out and doesn't let me make random moves. That's quite interesting..."
"Da De He" laughed at first, made some half-joking remarks to himself, and then spoke to "You San".
"Okay, don't get bored here. You will never be on the same level as others! You won't be lucky enough to drink with others! Remember, this is what you call me! Since people are bothering you, stay away from me in the future. Get out of here.
Come on, don't delay our brothers from drinking."
This is called "Poxia Donkey". With such a saying, the benefits are obtained and the face is decent. Everything is good, but the only one who suffers from the shortcomings is "You San".
At this time, it must be said that "You San" was very sensible. He smiled sarcastically and quickly left without arguing. The atmosphere at the wine table gradually returned to normal.
However, even though "You San" did such a good job, his exaggerated nod and bow before leaving still made Hong Yanwu feel particularly awkward, making him feel as sick as if he had eaten a fly.
This is because Hong Yanwu suddenly realized that few people could always maintain such a smile in the face of insults.
Who is willing to be humbled? Even if you dare to be angry but dare not speak out, you have to show some dissatisfaction unintentionally. But "You San" looks like a eunuch taking a breath of fresh air, as if he was relieved by being scolded, which is too unreasonable.
So there must be something hidden in this kid's heart. There are eyes behind his eyes, which is definitely a standard wolfish ambition. The more this happens, the more it proves that this kind of human nature is insidious and dangerous.
It seems that this is a bug that can make waves without wind. We must not let such a person gain power! If this kid takes care of you, he will make you feel uncomfortable one day.
To be honest, he is quite worried about "Da De He" now. With such a master who can hide his heart by his side, if he turns around and plays with him one day, it will be enough for him!
The two awkward things are over, right? But as the saying goes, again, again, and again.
On September 10, 1980, the third thing that made Hong Yanwu uncomfortable happened again.
On this day, the third session of the Fifth National People's Congress passed the new "Marriage Law of the Republic", which immediately caused an uproar in society.
The new Marriage Law was formulated on the basis of the 1950 Marriage Law, based on practical experience and new situations and issues in the field of marriage and family at that time.
While reaffirming the principles of the original Marriage Law, it added many supplementary policies that are in line with the new social situation. Among them, "breakup of relationship", as the legal ground for divorce, was also included in the new Marriage Law.
Article 25 of the new Marriage Law stipulates: "When hearing a divorce case, the people's court shall conduct mediation. If the relationship has truly broken down and mediation is invalid, the divorce shall be granted."
What does this seem to mean now? Of course, a "broken relationship" should be divorced, but at that time, how difficult was it? How earth-shattering?
This provision not only clarifies the statutory grounds for divorcing, but also gives judges discretion. It not only has practical significance in legislation, but is also conceptually advanced.
But at the same time, this law also shakes the Chinese people's deep-rooted traditional concept that "marriage is for life" since ancient times.
So many people thought it was a law that made good people suffer and bad people succeed. Many people even later attributed the increase in divorce rates and third-party interference in 1981 to the revision of the Marriage Law.
But these people never thought that a large number of unreasonable marriages at that time were caused by historical issues. It was precisely with this provision that people had the opportunity to correct their mistakes.
In fact, even if one party is indeed at fault and deliberately creates a "break-up" situation, it is ultimately a good thing for them to separate from such a person as soon as possible.
More importantly, the most critical significance is precisely that prohibiting divorce must not be used as a means of punishment.
But having said that, in reality, this legal adjustment based on humanistic considerations does have adverse side effects. For many families, it will also increase mental worries and even cause conflicts between husband and wife.
Yang Weifan is the most typical example, someone who is deeply "poisoned".
After the promulgation of the "Marriage Law", when society started to debate the scope of "emotional breakdown", his life began to become difficult.
Due to the emotional disparity between him and Zhou Manna before their marriage, Zhou Manna became nervous and unconfidently began to guard him strictly.
Not only did she follow Ah behind him like a shadow every day, but when she was doing laundry, she began to carefully check every part of his coat, hoping to find any clues.
The most common thing she usually said became, "Are you also thinking about 'breaking up' with me? Tell me, which girl in your group do you like? Tell me, and I will make room for you..."
That kind of joke, which is definitely not a joke, is really disgusting.
In this case, it is impossible for two people not to quarrel.
One time, because of an unintentional joke between Yang Weifan and a female colleague, Zhou Manna lost her temper all night in their "little home" and broke a lot of things in the house.
But it turned out that Yang Weifan couldn't bear it anymore, and got angry and said, "If you don't want to divorce, just leave." She was scared again, crying and hugging her, apologizing and acknowledging her mistake.
When things got really bad, Minister Zhou and his wife came to visit. After finding out what was going on, the old couple gave the young couple 50 bucks each. On the one hand, they criticized Zhou Manna for being ridiculous, and on the other hand, they criticized Yang Weifan for being inappropriate.
If you don't use your words carefully, the matter will go by in a blur.
But the temporary quelling is useless, but similar forms of quarrels may become the norm between couples in the future, which is what makes both couples miserable.
No problem, this is the bitter wine they brewed, and they have to drink it themselves.
Of course, unlike Yang Weifan, Hong Yanwu's life was not affected by the adjustment of divorce laws. What really caused him mental pain was another change in the Marriage Law - the age of marriage stipulated in our country is 20 years old for men and 18 years old for women.
The age is adjusted to 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.
Needless to say the reason. If nothing unexpected happened at the end of last year, Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" would have gotten married now. They would get married before the new Marriage Law was promulgated. How appropriate that would be.
But now, there is no news about Yi Ren, that is, "Tang Xin'er" is coming back soon, and she has to wait for another two years.
This is called failing to catch up with one step or failing to catch up step by step.
How could Hong Yanwu not think that all this was caused by fate, which did not want him to be too happy and was deliberately playing tricks on him?
How could this prevent him from thinking of "Tang Xin'er" again and not feeling sad for the happiness that the two of them should have had in the first place?
This is just like what was sung in a song, Hong Yanwu really wanted to ask God, "I have been waiting for a thousand years, why doesn't my beloved come back?"
At the same time, he really "touched the broken soul."
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