People had their own opinions at the time. As far as the general social concept is concerned, people like Xu Chongya went to the Fangshan County Education Bureau many times to find Hong Yanwen in the name of a target, and she even spent the night there. This impact is irreversible.
In layman's terms, it means that you have definitely decided on a relationship with someone, it's a done deal.
So Xu Bingquan was angry, even though he scolded Xu Chongya, got angry, locked his daughter in the room, and even planned not to feed her.
But as soon as he calmed down after smoking a cigarette, he slumped down on the sofa full of fatigue. He didn't even bother to get angry, and just sighed sincerely.
"It's over, your spoiled good daughter. We're done."
Yu Wanfen, who was still complaining that "my daughter is stupid," still didn't understand what he meant. "Why is it over?"
"Oh! It's over of course. Chongya is already in the hands of the Hong family. The only way now is to marry her daughter to that boy."
Yu Wanfen's eyes widened immediately.
"Marry him? No way. What are you worried about? Didn't Chongya say that the two of them have nothing at all, they just hold hands. When she goes to Fangshan, she stays in the guest house by herself."
"What do you know? Your idea is too simple. If she could be trusted, something like this wouldn't have happened."
After rebutting at first, Xu Bingquan replied with some dejection, "Besides, don't forget, that boy has a single dormitory. They both stay there during the day, so it would be too easy for something to happen."
Yu Wanfen's face turned pale when she heard this, and she stood up in a hurry.
"No, I have to ask again. If this stinky girl really dares to do such a shameful thing, I...I will kick her out..."
"Sit down!" Xu Bingquan shouted quickly and stopped his wife. "Are you stupid? Drive her out? She can go find that guy by herself."
Yu Wanfen was furious. "She dares! I still have to settle the score with that boy! If the uncooked rice becomes cooked rice, that boy is a gangster! I will go to the police and send him to the police station."
But although Xu Bingquan was also angry, as a practical person, he had to analyze the situation at hand for his wife.
"Would you please wake up? It was our precious daughter who came all the way to our door. She is acting like a hooligan? Chongya herself doesn't admit it, so how can you explain it? The most important thing is that our status is no better than that of ordinary people, so the matter will be a big deal.
What about our face? Do you want others to laugh at you? Don’t we stop going out to meet people in the future?"
"This..." Yu Wanfen also felt depressed for a moment, and then said unwillingly, "Then... then it's okay... what if you are just worrying too much..."
In this regard, Xu Bingquan also made a sad conclusion.
"It's useless. You will definitely suffer the consequences. Don't forget, that kid lives in the dormitory of the Education Bureau. This has all fallen into the eyes of others. Those people in the Education Bureau will definitely not think that they are as innocent as they think.
.Think about it, we have been together for so long, and we come here to spend time alone every month. If we say that there is no such relationship, no one will believe it. So if this thing doesn't happen, the daughter's reputation will be completely ruined.
What should I do if it spreads to the capital? If you can’t afford to lose sight of people, then no one will want you, unless you find a second marriage. On the other hand, it’s much better to marry a man. What other foolproof solution can you think of, the only choice is to marry
He..."
After a pause, Xu Bingquan rubbed his forehead severely. It was almost too painful to live in that way.
"This is a beautiful move. There is nothing we can do about it. That kid is from the Hong family. If he really has ulterior motives and deliberately commits harm and leaves one of us to take revenge, the consequences will be really serious. Do you think I am willing to bow to them?
, I am the most unwilling...Why did I give birth to such a daughter..."
As he said this, the cigarette in his hand accidentally burned his fingers again, causing him to immediately shake off the cigarette butt in embarrassment.
It was really indescribably boring and indescribably frustrating.
To be honest, the real situation of the matter is of course different from what Xu Bingquan and his wife imagined.
Because the love between Hong Yanwen and Xu Chongya is not only sincere, but the standard they can reach during their date is still rationally restrained to the level of superficial intimacy.
Just like when he was in Beijing in the past, Hong Yanwen couldn't help but want to cuddle, but Xu Chongya wouldn't say cuddle. Because the negotiation couldn't be settled, he couldn't let him cuddle.
When she started running to Fangshan and came to her door, she was willing to let Hong Yanwen cuddle and kiss her in his single dormitory, just like that.
Why? It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s that I really don’t dare because I’m afraid of getting pregnant.
What should I do if I'm pregnant? Where should I put my face?
At that time, most people didn't know what measures to take. No one told them. They had never been exposed to this information and didn't understand.
And it’s not just Xu Chongya who is afraid. Even if Hong Yanwen is a man, he is also afraid. What if he gets pregnant? The paper can’t contain the anger at all. How about making the matter bigger?
There are indeed big troubles, but no good results. Even if the big thing is reduced to a trivial matter in the end and they avoid being held accountable, and they actually get married and start a family, the two of them will be looked down upon. Not only will they lose their future in the workplace, but they will also have to bring trouble to their families.
Can't lift my head up.
But having said that, it was precisely because the feudal consciousness was so serious in society at that time that the Xu family could not afford the consequences. So Xu Bingquan and Yu Wanfen pinched their noses and had to admit the marriage.
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What's interesting is that this time they asked Xu Chongya to call Hong Yanwen home again, but their attitude was completely different.
On the contrary, the old couple were very anxious, as if they were afraid that Hong Yanwen would not admit his fault, so they kept chasing him to ask what he thought, and forcing him to express his stance on what to do next.
It wasn't until they heard Hong Yanwen's promise that he would tell his family about it soon and that he would marry Xu Chongya no matter what, that the old couple heaved a sigh of relief.
In addition to being happy, Xu Bingquan immediately promised to transfer Hong Yanwen back to Beijing. He also expressed his willingness to entertain and sit down with Hong Yanwen's parents to have a good chat and put the past unpleasantness behind him.
This is probably to try to express sincerity and give Hong Yanwen more motivation, so as not to let this matter happen again.
Therefore, the whole process made Xu Chongya blush so much that she couldn't even lift her head.
When she saw Hong Yanwen off, she said to him, "Why do you make it seem like I have to rely on you for my support? You must not look down on me in the future..."
Although Hong Yanwen smiled faintly and said nothing, he looked at the shy Xu Chongya with the same look he was looking at his wife.
In this way, the head of the Xu family actually reassured the two young people in a very smooth surprise. The rest, they only need to convince the Hong family to achieve their wish.