Everything in the world probably needs to be viewed from multiple angles.
For example, when Hong Yanwu thought he had some kind of happiness, he never expected that he would think of emotional regrets, which would instead cause him heartache.
And when he was sure that Shui Qing was his life partner, he never thought that in order to make his mother and daughter happy, he insisted on treating them to a Western meal, which would actually make Shui Qing unhappy.
Vice versa, when Shui Qing accused Hong Yanwu of being extravagant and wasteful, she never imagined that when they were halfway through eating, they would meet Su Xiaoming and Cheng Lin in the restaurant who had just finished their performance at the Beizhan Theater.
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She never expected that these two popular singers and actresses, whom she particularly loved, would be happy to sit down and have lunch with them after being invited by Hong Yanwu.
Especially when Hong Yanwu introduced her as his fiancée, they were unexpectedly enthusiastic towards her and were extremely affectionate.
Not only did he offer to attend their wedding, but he also gave them several tickets for performances.
During this meal, they had a great time together and chatted for a long time.
Although Shui Qing was just a listener in most cases, she had to admit that the topics Su Xiaoming and Cheng Lin talked about were very fresh and they also knew how to take care of the atmosphere.
She never felt ignored, which was very pleasant.
For this reason, Shui Qing also felt that spending money was really a beautiful thing for the first time.
She unexpectedly discovered that even though she added wine and vegetables later, she didn't feel that the meal was expensive anymore without her realizing it.
Because dining with big stars is not an opportunity that everyone can have.
Being praised, complimented, approached, and thanked by a big star is not an experience that ordinary people can have.
Therefore, in addition to the enjoyment brought by the material itself, this meal also produces a kind of spiritual pleasure.
The only paradox is that although this fresh taste makes her feel comfortable.
But on the other hand, she knew very well that it was entirely because of Hong Yanwu that the two actresses looked at her differently and welcomed her with smiles.
And this kind of pleasant communication must also require enough money to support it.
It's hard to imagine that the two big stars would still be in such high spirits if this feast had been replaced by steamed buns and pickles.
If that were the case, it would be tantamount to applying an ugly layer of gray to the pink romance.
So for this reason, she fell into a kind of confusion and contradiction.
On the one hand, she felt the happiness brought by money.
On the other hand, she is worried that she will become dependent on material enjoyment and will change her mentality.
"What are you thinking about? Are you still angry with me?"
On the way home from the Moscow restaurant, he watched Shui Qing ride her bicycle and remained silent. Of course Hong Yanwu could tell that she had something on her mind.
He guessed that she felt sorry for him. She still couldn't adapt to spending dozens of yuan on a meal.
So he explained, "Aren't we meeting friends? It's mainly because of Yang Weifan's face, and I have to entertain them. I promise, I won't spend money..."
Shui Qing quickly said, "No, don't think too much about it."
"Then why don't you say anything? What did they say just now that made you unhappy?"
"No, it's not someone else's fault, it's my own. Don't laugh at me. Actually... it's because I have never experienced such a scene, spending so much money on meals and chatting with celebrities. I suddenly discovered the impact of money on people.
The impact is too great. Like today's meal, I was opposed to it at first. But after eating it, I actually felt like I enjoyed it, and I even thought about having it again. Of course, it may not be a big deal to you.
But I have never experienced a change like this. I am really afraid that if there are more scenes like this in the future, I will become vain and worldly. I need time to think carefully about how to deal with this problem..."
Shui Qing's answer was a bit awkward and negative, but Hong Yanwu was happy from the bottom of his heart.
Because her authenticity and honesty are her greatest strengths.
"Qing'er, I understand your concerns. A person's life must always go for the good, and it cannot get worse. And the more outstanding people are, the more they have to face the side effects of fame and fortune. Isn't it? In fact, you can
If you think this way, you understand that controlling money is far more important than having money. I dare say that you are different from others and will never be easily confused by money. In addition, I also want to ask you to remember that in my heart, you are already
I'm my wife. Again, any material contribution I give you is done willingly and as it should be. Don't worry too much about these things. From now on, just decide whether you are truly happy."
"But……"
Hong Yanwu's relief did not dispel Shui Qing's worry, but she asked more questions.
"Don't you think you are qualified to find a better partner? Look at girls like these in the literary and art circles, who are beautiful, talented, and know how to please others..."
"Haha" Hong Yanwu couldn't help laughing.
Shui Qing blushed, and then she realized that what she just said was full of sourness.
Fortunately, Hong Yanwu didn't embarrass her too much, but asked seriously.
"What do you think men care about most about women?"
"What do you care about? Age, figure and appearance..."
"Maybe, you are very beautiful."
Hong Yanwu's teasing made Shui Qing's face burn again, but what he said next was different.
"But there is one more beautiful thing about you that no one can compare with. That is your character. Let me ask you, if the two of us get married, you will be busy and I will be busy. But one day, we suddenly need to be alone and unable to go to work.
I have to take care of the elderly and children at home. What should I do?"
"Then...if it really doesn't work, I will come to Gu's family. The male will take charge of the outside, and the female will take the inside..."
"Then do you think I'm smoking or drinking? Are you interfering with my inviting friends to eat out?"
"No, but I still hope you can think more about your body..."
"Except for cooking and repairing water and electricity, what should I do if I can't help you with other household chores?"
"It's nothing, women do these things..."
"Then what money do I need to give to my family?"
"How could it be! It is necessary to respect the elderly."
"Where are the other brothers and sisters?"
"We are all relatives, so we should help if we can."
"Then what do you ask me to do? What do you mind?"
"Be sincere to me, respect the elderly, and love children."
"Look, look, this is what fascinates me the most about you. You are the most standard good wife and mother. Whoever marries you will have a hard time not being happy."
Suddenly, Hong Yanwu praised excitedly.
This was already the third time he had made Shui Qing shy on the road, but his happiness was definitely not fake, and the following words proved it all.
"Actually, I'm the same as you. What I care about most is the essence of marriage, family and relationship. In my opinion, congenial personality and matching of values are more important than anything else. If a man only cares about a woman's external beauty, such a man
You are not worthy of marriage. Because there will always be more beautiful women. On the other hand, time passes, but human nature remains unchanged. Since these are the things I love most about you, I can naturally guarantee that I will always be with you."
"I'm also telling you, don't think how good those girls in the literary and art circles are. Don't forget, their job is to make others happy, and they are all masters of communication. They spend all day in Vanity Fair, so in their hearts
Apart from competing with others, comparing, becoming famous, and becoming popular, there is nothing else. So they are fake inside and out. No matter how nice they say or how serious they are, they cannot believe it. Most men like girls like this
I think it's good, but whoever wants it will be stupid. I also tell you that I have no merits, but I only have a clear mind, which is enough to resist this temptation and ensure fidelity to marriage."
Shuiqing said nothing more and turned her face to the roadside.
At this time, the corners of her mouth slightly curled up, and she smiled unknown to others.