When discussing marriage, Hong Yanwu and Shui Qing were sincerely considering each other.
The two people's hearts are getting closer and closer.
But despite this, they still feel that there is still a huge pressure.
Because in the end, everyone knows that how to lift the lid and how to get recognition from both families is the biggest problem in their marriage.
If this point cannot be solved, no matter how well they plan for the future, it will be meaningless.
"How about we let it go? Wait until we are really ready and find a good time..."
Shui Qing thought hard about this and felt that he had no clue.
She frowned and lost confidence first, and made negative suggestions.
But even though Hong Yanwu had no definite certainty, he insisted on facing the difficulties.
"There's no need to rush. As the saying goes, fire can't be contained in paper. If we want to drag it out, we will be passive if our family members find out about us. You have to know that unsuccessful lies can sometimes even destroy the truth.
Things become unreasonable. If this is the case, as if we feel that we are in the wrong, they will become more and more confident, which will increase the resistance. Besides, if you are not in a hurry, I am. Now every night I dream about marrying a wife.
It’s something about me. I’m afraid of having long nights and lots of dreams, how can you bear to let me suffer?”
Okay, the last joke made Shui Qing's face burn hot again.
But it was also a kind of happiness, and it also relieved her worries invisibly.
"You are so serious! Can you be more serious? If you have a way... just tell me."
Hey, this kind of complaint is a bit coquettish.
Naturally, Hong Yanwu couldn't stop showing off and playing tricks.
"Okay, okay, listen to me. What I mean is, since we have to take this step anyway, it's better to face the battle as soon as possible. Any problems can only be solved if they are exposed. Right? As the saying goes
It is said that the speed of troops can at least catch them off guard and leave them with no time to think about many objections."
"Of course, there may be many people who object to us being together, not just our parents. But that's okay, because not all those who object may think the same way? There will always be some people who are more determined, and some who are not.
So resolute, the reasons for their opposition are also different, and they will never be completely the same."
"So my idea is to defeat them one by one while they are still in disarray, from easy to difficult. In this way, not only can we keep the secrets to the maximum extent, but we can also win over the alliance and win the support of friendly forces."
"If most people can speak for us, it will be easier for our parents to talk to us. Even if our parents still disagree and are annoyed by this matter, there are still people who can help us continue to do our work behind the scenes. What do you think?
?”
Not to mention, Hong Yanwu’s words are really based on experience and have very practical benefits and operability.
Shui Xiaoying was the first internal agent to be pulled over, and she played a big role in it.
After Shui Qing heard this, although no one could guarantee that if he followed this method, it would be successful, but he really couldn't find a more feasible and good method.
So she nodded.
"You're right anyway, then let's do this."
However, although she raised her hand in approval, Hong Yanwu did not become complacent, but instead spoke with some worry.
"Qing'er, to be honest, I'm not afraid of any twists and turns, repetitions, or even delays in this matter. But I'm just afraid of one thing, which is that you yourself may change your mind because of opposition from your family."
Shui Qing quickly defended herself.
"No, I won't. This is our own business. Not to mention that now that marriage is independent, even the so-called 'parents' orders and matchmaker's words' in the past can't change my own choice. How could you think so?
?Don’t you believe me?”
Hong Yanwu sighed.
"It's not that I don't believe you. It's just that reason is reason, and emotion is emotion. The dilemma in the world is that emotion and reason are in conflict, and it's difficult to have both. It's easier to solve the same problem."
"To be honest, there are many things in life that we have no control over, such as our relatives, which we cannot choose. We can stop making friends, and couples can divorce, but the blood relationship will never change. But who can say which one between family ties and love?
important?"
"What should you do if your parents insist on beating each other up? If you don't agree to separate from me, and they cut off relations with you, or even take more extreme measures to force you, what should you do?"
"When relatives fight, they often compete to see who is more hard-hearted. Even if there is a winner, it will be a lose-lose result. The palms and backs of the hands are all flesh, which hurts feelings."
Needless to say, it was obvious that this time Hong Yanwu had thought about the front again, and he had the most comprehensive view.
So as soon as he said this, Shui Qing fell silent. After thinking for a long time, he could only continue to ask him.
"Then what do you think we should do?"
"I need your complete trust and confidence. You leave everything to me. You don't care what method I use. But you must believe that I will definitely solve all the problems. And you can't be anxious until the problem is solved.
, you can’t give up, you can’t fight with your relatives. Can you do it?”
This time, Shui Qing didn't hesitate much. In just a few seconds, she looked into Hong Yanwu's eyes, exuding a gentle and trusting expression.
"I can, I believe you."
At this point, the thoughts of Hong Yanwu and Shui Qing finally reached complete unity.
Next, it is up to them to work together, face the difficulties positively, and overcome them.
For them who are worried and uneasy, how great would it be if they could encounter an auspicious omen at this time?
It will definitely give them great encouragement.
But things went against their expectations. Such a good thing did not happen, but instead caused them a big emergency.
Unfortunately, they sat there for too long and were too engrossed in chatting.
As a result, Shui Xiaoying was completely ignored by them. The child fluttered like a butterfly and ran further and further away. At some point, he suddenly disappeared.
When the two of them realize this, how can they not be in a hurry?
Although there are many good people and few bad people these days, and there are few cars, even human traffickers specialize in abducting boys. Relatively speaking, it is much safer to lose a child.
But what's terrible is that Kunming Lake is nearby.
Public facilities are not perfect these days, and there are no fences around the lake. What if a child falls in?
So Hong Yanwu immediately went to look for Shui Qing separately. He asked Shui Qing to run to the East Palace Gate while he ran to the Seventeen-Arch Bridge.
The result was good. As soon as he saw the lake in the distance, he was startled.
Because there were older people gathering near the Tongniu on the shore, it looked like something big had happened.
He rushed over in a hurry.
But he soon felt at ease again, because before he could even run over, he could already hear Shui Xiaoying's loud voice howling in the crowd.
This at least shows that she is alive and well.
And when Hong Yanwu took a closer look, he was left in disbelief and astonishment.
Because what he didn't expect was that people would really drown.
A man and a woman were rowing a boat and fell into the lake. The man choked to death. After being fished out, he lay on the ground covered in bruises and his face was covered with a piece of clothing.
The woman who came with him was sitting on the steps crying.
What he never expected was that when that woman cried, Shui Xiaoying was actually crying with her.
I shed snot and tears as hard as I can, and I feel sad as much as I want.
Many people watching the fun mistook Shui Xiaoying for a family member of the deceased and tried to persuade the woman.
"Stop crying, think about the children around you."
Some people also said, "Well, the child was so young and his father drowned. How tragic!"
Naturally, the woman cried even more aggrieved. While crying, she also defended herself.
"We are not married. Who...who knows whose family this child belongs to? I...I don't know her..."
When Hong Yanwu heard this, his head was pounding.
Without saying a word, he squeezed in and quickly grabbed Shui Xiaoying away.
When he was far away, he turned around and asked the child again.
"Hey, you girl. You don't even know me, why are you crying?"
As a result, Shui Xiaoying's answer made him want to jump into the lake.
The girl claimed with tears in her eyes that she was infected by the woman's cry.
I wonder if the family would be so sad if she was not the man lying under the mat.
Therefore, she really hoped that she could die once, not for anything else, just to let everyone cry for her, which would make her appear very important.
Then he asked Hong Yanwu, "If I die, will you still miss me? How long will you cry for me?"
Good guy, at such a young age, you have such crazy thoughts.
Still alive and dead, she is just like a young sister Lin, what a fragile little glass heart.
The point is that this kind of thinking is indeed dangerous.
So Hong Yanwu solemnly issued a warning.
"I tell you, death is not fun. If you really die, you will no longer be there. There will be only darkness, a darkness that you can never get out of. Do you understand? So you have to stay away from danger and don't think about it anymore."
Unexpectedly, this girl actually said, "I'm not afraid of the dark, I'll turn on the light."
Okay, the heartless bachelor's true nature has come out again, and all the hard work has been in vain!
Hong Yanwu suddenly realized that compared to everything else, being a qualified father is probably the most difficult thing.