When modern young men and women establish a relationship with each other, both parties need to go through a complete set of procedures. This set of procedures also differs according to different local customs.
However, no matter how you simplify or increase the content of the process, the three core points will not change. First, take photos with your circle of friends. Second, meet with relatives and friends. Third, meet with parents.
There may be some changes in the order of the three core points in this process, but the content will basically not be different. These three points are actually equivalent to announcing to the social circles of both parties that I have a partner. And the scope of the circle of notification
It also becomes more and more important as it goes up, from those acquaintances in the circle of friends to one's own parents. Although this kind of notification does not seem to have any special meaning at first glance, it actually has a quite complex social psychology.
If activities as a driving force were explained in detail, it would take four or five chapters.
However, after all, hydrology is not a particularly important point. The key point is that the three-point process between Hu Jia and Sun Lien did not follow the routine. The parents' meeting that was supposed to be at the end went directly to the waiting area. At the same time, in the circle of friends
Everyone also obtained the corresponding information from their respective grapevine channels. This resulted in Sun Lien and Hu Jia being able to actively choose only the "joint meeting" option.
"Of course." Hu Jia nodded with a smile. To her, it didn't matter who she went to eat with or what she ate. Anyway, it didn't matter as long as she was with Sun Lien. "Make an appointment with Dr. Yuan."
For Sun Lien, he doesn't have to worry about having too many lice anyway. Director Liu has gone to the capital to receive temporary training and is preparing to fly to Africa to perform humanitarian missions. He will never jump out of the plane.
I parachuted into Ningyuan Fourth Central Hospital, and then I pulled myself out and scolded me. Besides, after I came back from dinner, I might still have time to continue writing!
The place where Yuan Ping'an booked was not far away. The restaurant he chose was in Sun City. It was a store specializing in northern spring cakes. It was rich in color, reasonably priced, and had a bit more home-cooked flavor than ordinary restaurants.
.I have to say that the place chosen by Yuan Pingan is very good. It can not only take care of the salary levels of both parties, but also reflect a touch of intimacy during the banquet.
It's not that Yuan Ping'an doesn't understand the world at all, on the contrary, his handling of interpersonal relationships is quite good. It's just that he didn't come in handy in Tongxie Hospital before. Speaking of internal relationships in Tongxie's departments, they are better than other departments.
Local hospitals are simpler. As for things like office politics, it actually corresponds to the old saying, "There are many demons in the temple, but there are many bastards in the shallow pool." The less serious a place is to do, the easier it is to breed all kinds of things.
Strife and struggle. In a place like Tongxie, people basically don’t have this kind of "leisure and elegance". They face countless difficult and complicated diseases and life and death tests every day, so how can they have time to mess around?
The meal was good, and there were many dishes on the table. At first, Sun Lien looked at the table full of various dishes, and even felt that he had nowhere to start.
"This is the taste we northerners are used to." Yuan Pingan explained with a smile, and then he picked up a piece of cake to demonstrate, "Put your favorite dish code inside the cake, and then roll it up...
..." He rolled it up skillfully, and then said, "It's similar to preparing a sterile bag before surgery."
Hu Jia was still a little confused about how to start, but when he heard this statement, he immediately became interested. And the result was that Sun Lien even saved the time to roll the pancakes. Hu Jia lowered his head and rolled the pancakes for five minutes, and the "result" was rolled out.
Then he filled the bowl in front of Sun Lien.
"I can do things like preparing sterile packages with my eyes closed." Hu Jia put down the last rolled spring pancake in front of Sun Li'en with a smile, and ordered to her boyfriend, "Eat it quickly."
The meal was enjoyed by both the host and the guest. Yuan Pingan picked out a few jokes that were widely circulated in the association, causing the other diners sitting around to burst out laughing. Sun Lien was half-leaning on the table behind him.
On the back of the chair, he was drinking a cup of warm pear soup in his hand. His abdominal muscles ached from the constant jokes, and he almost spilled the pear soup all over himself.
"Having said all that, I'm actually inviting Dr. Sun to dinner today. I want to ask you for a favor." After eight minutes of rice and a good cup of tea, it's time to talk about business. Yuan Ping'an raised his voice.
He lowered his voice and said to Sun Li'en, "I heard from Dean Liu that the diagnostic center our Fourth Hospital is planning to establish will ask you, Dr. Sun, to take the lead?"
Hu Jia coughed lightly, smiled at Yuan Pingan and said, "Sorry, I'm going out to make a phone call." Before leaving, he squeezed Sun Lien's leg very secretly.
Sun Lien sat up straight, confused and said, "What...what did you say?"
Dean Song Wen said that when the new diagnostic center is established, and as long as Sun Lien's professional title is high enough, he will be asked to be the leader of the diagnostic team of the diagnostic center. Although the position of leader of the diagnostic team sounds scary, but no matter what
It has nothing to do with "taking the lead". What's more, according to the information revealed to him by Liu Tangchun, Xu Yourong should be the director of the diagnostic center at that time.
"Dean Liu said that the diagnostic center will be like other departments in the future, and will revolve around the emergency center of our fourth hospital." Yuan Pingan said sincerely, "After all, this donation is for you, Dr. Sun. And let me say something
To be honest, based on your sensitivity to diagnosis, Dr. Sun, this diagnostic center will definitely be handed over to you in the future."
Sun Lien frowned. He always felt that this conversation was a bit strange.
"I... do want to ask your opinion on something." Yuan Pingan's attitude became even lower, "You may have heard my boss say when I was with the Association, I have a girlfriend in the capital.
there……"
Sun Lien nodded calmly and continued to wait for the rest of Yuan Pingan's words.
"I'm almost thirty, and starting a family is just around the corner. I originally thought that I could attend the emergency department at the Tonghe Association, so that I wouldn't have anything else to worry about when I get married to her. But now that I've come to Ningyuan to study, she's all alone.
Neither of us is comfortable with the two places being separated from each other." After holding back for a while, Yuan Pingan finally expressed his request, "I asked Dean Liu about the personnel of other departments in the hospital.
Recruitment has stopped, and the only departments that can accept people are Dr. Sun and your treatment team..."
"Ah?" Sun Lien was stunned. He thought that Yuan Pingan had said so much because he wanted to find Liu Tangchun or Zhou Jun to intercede through him. However, he did not expect that Yuan Pingan was looking for him.
"I know this request is a bit excessive." Yuan Pingan said that he was also embarrassed. Over the years, Yuan Pingan has really never found a relationship. "But... I really have no choice. Dean Liu
Having said that, no personnel changes can be made in the entire hospital now. Only your treatment team has the special approval authority of Director Liu and Dean Song..." Sometimes, you can't say too much. Yuan Pingan himself understands this, he
Put your words into position, and the rest depends on your luck.
"To be honest, it's a question of whether this treatment team still exists now." Sun Lien sighed. Dr. Yuan is indeed a good expert. If nothing else, he can give an accurate diagnosis of Yang Jianqiang's condition by consulting the information.
Diagnosis, based on this alone, Yuan Pingan should be an outstanding talent that various hospitals are competing for. Sun Lien relied on the assistance of the status bar and a temporarily added set of CT imaging to see that something was wrong. Yuan Pingan did not even see it.
That set of decisive CT results. But this does not mean that Sun Lien has the right to open this back door for his girlfriend. In fact, just as Sun Lien was worried, since he was ordered to leave the emergency room, the entire so-called "
The "treatment team" didn't even have a single consultation. It almost became an organization in name only.
"Dean Liu told me about this issue." Yuan Ping'an saw that Sun Lien's tone seemed to have softened, and he quickly said, "Dean Liu said that it was only a temporary measure for Dean Song to ask you to go to the emergency clinic. At most, it was too much.
In one month, you will be transferred to the emergency room again."
Sun Lien's eyes widened, and then he began to smile bitterly. This meant that his source of extra income from the outpatient clinic was going to be cut off. Don't underestimate the registration fee. Sun Lien's income in one night was more than what he had done in a previous week.
"Let's not talk about anything else." Sun Lien thought about it for a while and felt that he couldn't just refuse it directly. "Doctor Yuan, what department does your girlfriend belong to? Is she also a psychiatrist?"
"No." Yuan Pingan shook his head, "She is an orthopedic surgeon."
Sun Li'en has only dealt with two departments of Tong Xie. In addition to emergency, the other department is orthopedics. Although he only saw the heroic figures of academician Qiu and other leading figures at that time, Sun Li'en also understood that Tong Xie's orthopedics department is also in the country after all.
Ranked in the top five, Yuan Pingan's girlfriend is naturally not an "ordinary doctor". What's more, a female doctor who can work in this department, which is nicknamed the "decoration team", must have her own merits.
Either they can endure hardships or they are extremely skilled.
Does such a person serve as a subordinate to Director Zheng? Sun Lien suddenly thought of Zheng Guoyou, who cursed at the young doctors, but did the most difficult, tiring and tiring work by himself. Maybe Old Zheng would like to have such a person
What about new people joining?
"You can send her information back to my mailbox." Sun Lien thought about it for a while, and gradually felt that maybe he could give it a try. If his "treatment team" still has such privileges, then he can temporarily accept Yuan Pingan's girlfriend.
Then it seems good to let her follow Director Zheng. Anyway, this is an explanation for Liu Pingchuan, Liu Tangchun, and even Professor Zhu Minhua. Only by solving the problem of young doctors' "husband and wife" living apart in two places can we help them serve patients better!
What's more, with just a name, two excellent doctors can be tied to the boat of the Fourth Central Hospital. This deal can be done! "I dare not give you a guarantee on this matter, I will definitely have to ask
Ask the director what he means. But as long as there is an opportunity and I can help, Xiaosun, I will definitely help."
Yuan Pingan was overjoyed, "I'll trouble you then!"