Yan Shiqing smiled when she saw this and followed Jiang Suya into her room.
"Sister Shiqing, what do you think if Brother Yang and I are together?"
Before Yan Shiqing could sit down, Jiang Suya said these words coyly.
She feels that Sister Shiqing's views are very important. She is still very influential to Brother Yang, and her mother also listens to Sister Shiqing more.
If Sister Shiqing agrees, maybe she and Brother Yang will have hope.
During this period of time, she could see Aunt Chang's attitude.
She was happy, but her mother was having a hard time. In addition, she didn't know what brother Yang's attitude was now. yyls
Yan Shiqing didn't expect Jiang Suya to ask her this question. Judging from her expectant look, it seemed that she couldn't do it without answering.
"Suya, it's not appropriate for you to ask me this question. Nowadays, women's marriage matters are dictated by their parents and the matchmaker. It doesn't matter what others say. You have to ask yourself, do you really want to be with Brother Jiaxiang?
, no matter whether you are poor, rich, or healthy, in sickness or in health, do you have no regrets? Even if your parents disagree, you must never look back? "
Hearing this, Jiang Suya looked troubled, and after a while she said: "Sister Shiqing, I really like Brother Yang, and I feel that I will have regrets if I don't marry him. He is a long-term man, and a good friend."
My son is also a good man. What I like is his quality. But my mother disagrees. She thinks that our two families are too different, and there will be many conflicts in the future due to our living habits. I think Aunt Chang also treats me.
That means, as for what Brother Yang thinks in his heart, I don't know, but what is certain is that he does not reject me."
Jiang Suya said, feeling a little depressed. She felt that she finally found the man she liked and he had outstanding abilities, but why couldn't they be together?
Is family background really that important?
Regarding Jiang Suya, Yan Shiqing has always treated her as a sister and a friend. Seeing her like this, he reached out and touched her head, and then said: "Suya is so good, and Brother Jiaxiang is not stupid. He does not reject you.
This is a very good phenomenon. It's just two people getting married. It's not that you like me, I like you. This involves two families, or two families. Brother Jiaxiang was born in the countryside, while Jiangfu is a century-old family in the capital.
The family background is profound, and the family has not been officially separated yet. To Jiang Mansion, the Yang family is just a small family without any basis."
When Jiang Suya heard this, she retorted somewhat glumly: "Sister Shiqing, do you look down on people from the countryside or something? You and your cousin are not the same thing. At the beginning, you were a peasant girl from the countryside.
, and my cousin is still a prince and has been named King Mo."
Yan Shiqing smiled and continued: "I'm not looking down on you, I'm telling the truth. I'm not quite the same as you. I'm not a country girl born and raised, but I live there. But even so, if I marry
To Ah Mo, that’s me too. Since ancient times, girls from high families have been married, and women from low families have been married. Let’s not talk about me first, let’s just talk about your living habits. I remember that you are used to rinsing your mouth with black tea after meals.
Right? But Su Ya, have you ever thought about how much a pound of black tea costs? After you marry Brother Jiaxiang, can he afford to support you with his salary? "
Jiang Suya didn't expect that the topic would come to this. She just wanted to seek Sister Shiqing's approval.
"So Sister Shiqing, do you also disagree?"
When Jiang Suya said this, tears welled up in her eyes, as if she had been torn apart by someone.
Even Sister Shiqing doesn't agree, so it seems like she's out of luck.
"Fool, crying can't solve the problem. In fact, I want to say that as long as you are good enough, many things can be ignored. The godmother is worried that if you marry Brother Jiaxiang, you will be wronged in the future, and these grievances are most likely to be
It comes from the pressure of money in life. There is a saying that poor and humble couples suffer from everything. No matter how deep the relationship between husband and wife is, they will worry and quarrel over the cost of a little money, and over time, they will eventually be worn away. In my opinion, these are actually
It's easy to solve. As long as the Yang family has enough sources of fixed income, you can still keep all your existing living habits and live your life how you want. You are a lady of the family, and marrying into the Yang family is considered a low-level marriage. Aunt Chang is
Well, if I can marry you as my daughter-in-law, I will naturally treat you a hundred times a thousand times better and won’t embarrass you."
When Jiang Suya heard that the Yang family had enough sources of income, she forgot to be sad and said hurriedly: "Sister Shiqing, does it have to be the Yang family? Can't I support myself by myself?"
"No, Brother Jiaxiang is a man. If he marries you, he naturally wants to be able to support his family, rather than relying on you. That will make him feel that he is useless and can't even support his wife. No matter how much money you have,
Most of it is yours, given to you by your mother-in-law. If he relies on you, outsiders will say that he is a soft-boiled person, which is not good for his career at all."
What Yan Shiqing didn't say was that with Yang Jiaxiang's self-esteem, he would never allow such a situation to occur.
It's just that this will put tremendous pressure on him, which is not a good thing for someone of his age and in an officialdom.
"Then...Sister Shiqing, can I give the Yang family 10% of the profit from our farm's small fry?"
This is the solution that Jiang Suya can come up with at the moment. Although she has not yet started her business, she is full of confidence.
"No, this farmer's small fry has small profits but quick turnover. In fact, it can't make much money. It can only be owned by you, Shaoyao and I. Brother Jiaxiang's Yang family doesn't have to get involved. I want to think about how the Yang family wants to make money first.
I think if Brother Jiaxiang really wants to marry you, he will also consider these things. It’s too far to think about these things now, let’s wait and see.”
In fact, Yan Shiqing really wanted to help the Chang family. When she was in Yangjiacun, she received a lot of care from the Chang family.
Nowadays, the Yang family relies on Yang Jiaxiang's meager salary. There are only two masters now, and both of them are frugal, so their life is not bad.
If you want to marry Suya, it won't work. Suya needs hundreds of taels for food, clothing, housing and transportation every month, not to mention adding some jewelry from time to time.
It's just that Chang's family is illiterate and comes from a womanly family. Their family needs people in the capital but no one, money and power, and Jiaxiang's eldest brother is in an official position, so it's not appropriate to do anything. It's really difficult to calculate in this way.
manage.
Jiang Suya was a little discouraged and felt that the hope of being with Yang Jiaxiang was slim.
"How about I just ask him if he likes me or not? As long as he says he likes me, I will be with him no matter what."