"So, if that's the case, you should first discuss with your girlfriend whether you should make such a decision."
"You love your girlfriend very much, so I think you won't be able to make such a decision. Besides, you are about to get married now, and you have no reason to cancel the wedding casually and make others laugh. And you are so good.
, your girlfriend should also have deep feelings for you. Even if something like this happens, you may not be willing to give up this relationship. So you decide for yourself whether you want to break up, marry Xiaoyun and have children, or whether you want to talk about it.
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Zhang Haotian said calmly, taking out a cigarette from his pocket and lighting it. He ignored the words on the sign next to him saying no smoking and took a big puff. However, his trembling fingers betrayed him. He could not calm down at all now.
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"And if your decision is that you still love your girlfriend and still want to be with her, then you'd better not say it at all. After all, the mistake was indeed made by you and Xiaoyun, and your daughter
My friend is innocent. She knows that these things will hurt her very much in the future. Moreover, if such things happened before marriage, she cannot bear it as a girl, and it cannot be justified in terms of face. So if you say that you do not want to be with Xiaoyun
If you want to get married, I still understand and respect your choice, and at the same time advise you not to tell her or let her know all this."
"Or maybe you still confess to her, but try to restore the relationship and she is willing to forgive you. This is a matter between you. How to handle and resolve it is also your business. In short, for Xiao
As far as Yun is concerned, the result is the same, so it is another choice and result."
Zhang Xiaoyun's mother had heard what he said, and her face burst into tears immediately, and she yelled at him: "You have thought about others when you said such things, but what about us Xiaoyun? Why don't you think about us Xiaoyun?"
Think about it? No matter how wrong she is, she is still our daughter. As parents, do we think we will just ignore her if she becomes like this?"
"Not to mention, you are the deputy mayor of Donghai City, and your identity is on display. If such a scandal occurs, what will others think of you? How will you take the future? Xiaoyun will have a different future.
How to go about this? This is not only our Xiaoyun’s fault, so if they don’t bear the consequences, does it mean that Xiaoyun should face and bear the consequences alone?”
Zhang Haotian stopped her: "Calm down first and listen to what I have to say. Xiaoyun is our daughter. Do you think I don't feel distressed if something like this happens to her? But distressing has to face reality after all. You
It is impossible to force Xudong to marry Xiaoyun. Even if it is said that it is not legal, it does not say that two people must get married if they have a relationship, even if they have children. What's more, getting married is the same thing.
How will we live in the future? Today's society is no longer that of ours, where parents can live a lifetime with the words of a matchmaker. Nowadays, young people value feelings more. Obviously Xudong has no feelings for Xiaoyun and only has responsibility. What he loves more is his girl.
My friend, how are you going to live from now on? Besides, do you think Xiaoyun doesn’t have any knots in her heart?"
Zhang Xiaoyun's mother shouted uncontrollably: "If feelings are important, then if he likes his girlfriend so much, why not still have a relationship with Xiaoyun? What's the use of talking about feelings? A lifetime is so long, can it be said that feelings will not change?
?But the child is always his own child, and this responsibility cannot be said to be irresponsible. We have to be responsible for Xiaoyun, does he mean that he does not have to be responsible for his and Xiaoyun's child? "
Wang Xudong could only say: "Auntie, don't worry. Since I admitted this matter, I have made plans to be responsible. Otherwise, there is no need for me to stand up and admit this matter. I hope you understand my thoughts and
My sincerity is just that now I am trying to find a compromise as much as possible to minimize the damage."
After all, Zhang Haotian has been struggling for so many years and is relatively more rational. He sighed longly and said to Zhang Xiaoyun's mother, "Calm down first. Xudong is not that kind of person.
We all know in our hearts that no matter how impulsive or angry you are, it is impossible to change the fact that everything has not happened. It is impossible to say that this child has not experienced it. Therefore, consider your own body first and don't be so impulsive.
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"Xiaoyun is our daughter, and I have to think about her, but what I can do is limited. I can only take a step and watch one, depending on what Xudong and his girlfriend want, and what Xiaoyun herself wants. In short, it doesn't matter.
No matter how they chose in the end, Xiaoyun will always be my daughter. It is impossible for me to say that I will ignore her feelings for the sake of face. To be honest, I am very angry and sad, but blood and family ties cannot be changed. I don’t care if it is Donghai City.
As deputy mayor or any other position, Xiaoyun is my daughter, and this will never change, so she will always be more important than anything else. No matter what the outcome of the matter is, or what others think of us, then this outcome
We must bear it together with her. You have to remember that any reputation or face in the future will not be as important as Xiaoyun."
"I have been an official for many years, and I think that I have done my best in my work and have never made any problems or mistakes. This matter will not affect me. Even if it does, it is the result that I must bear as a parent."
Zhang Haotian said, looking at Wang Xudong, "So now let's talk about the second situation. You and your girlfriend's relationship and how to deal with it is up to you, but in short, you will not marry Xiaoyun and let her give birth to this child openly.
, then this is a matter for our family. When Xiaoyun wakes up and recovers, we as a family of three will discuss how to deal with it. If Xiaoyun insists on aborting this child, then we will treat it as
This thing has never happened, this child has never existed, let her live the rest of her life well."
"And if she is reluctant to keep this child, then we should consider her future, because this child is also our flesh and blood. If something like this happens, don't we have any responsibility? It is very likely that she will be in the future.
There is no way to get married, no one is willing to marry her as an unwed mother, she has to face a lot of criticism, and at the same time she has to face a lot of pressure from reality. As a family, no matter how sad or angry we are, we will still go together in the end
Take responsibility and face it.”
"Even if she wants to give birth to this child, we will work with her to raise the child. As for what others say and think, I admit that it may be embarrassing. I, Zhang Haotian, have lived half my life and can say that I think I am.
She has a clear conscience. In the end, she was criticized and made sarcastic remarks by others because of such a thing. To be honest, no one else would have felt better. However, in this life, there are always many things that people are unwilling to face but still have to face. She
She will be my daughter for the rest of her life, and I will face many things with her throughout my life." (To be continued)