Guo Yu felt a little confused by Wang Xudong's sudden question, and replied: "Find her and bring her back to see if the school can find a way to make up for the exam."
"You found her today, but what about tomorrow? What if she runs away from home again tomorrow? Are you going to look for her again? And if she runs away from home again tomorrow, you won't be able to find her so easily. Furthermore, you will find her again today.
If you bring her back forcibly, she will definitely be unhappy. She already hates you. If you bring her back forcibly, it will only make her hate you even more, so she will do more and more crazy self-abuse actions to get back at you. Now
It has reached the point where I don’t go to school, play around outside, and even take ecstasy pills. What will happen if I continue to go crazy? I don’t dare to think about it.” Wang Xudong said to Guo Yu politely, although he didn’t say anything.
It was so direct, but Guo Yu could also understand what Wang Xudong meant.
Guo Yu calmed down all of a sudden, and his face was not so pretty. He looked at Wang Xudong and asked seriously: "What do you mean?"
"Mr. Guo, have you ever seriously thought about why your daughter is like this? Don't tell me it's because your husband passed away when she was young and you were busy with work and had no time to take care of her, so she had psychological problems.
She had a shadow, had some psychological problems, and then became like this. Of course, I also believe that you must have consulted many experts about her problems, but, in my opinion, the experts said that she had psychological problems.
It's true, but is the reason why she became like this really simply because she lacked father's love and mother's love when she was young?" Wang Xudong said directly to Guo Yu.
"As I said to Lin Xiaoya before, I am also a single-parent family. My mother passed away a long time ago. My father raised me. Compared with your family, the conditions of our family are very poor. My father is the only one.
A leather shoe maker opened a small workshop and store for making leather shoes. You were busy at that time. My dad was definitely busier than you when I was a child. You were busy because you wanted to make the business bigger and stronger. My dad was busy because we
We both have to eat and live, and he can only work hard day and night. Who is busier? When I was a child, I was very mentally ill. Others had parents to accompany them at home all day long, but why didn’t I become like your daughter in the end?
?I believe that in this world, there are many people who grew up without their parents by their side for various reasons, but it is probably very rare for them to become like your daughter, right? Why?"
"Don't put all the responsibility on your daughter, and don't put all the responsibility on the past. I can tell you clearly, Mr. Guo, your daughter will become what she is today. Of course, there are psychological problems caused by lack of care in childhood.
There are extreme reasons, but what is the most important reason? The most fundamental reason is because of your doting. It is your doting and doting that made her what she is today. Because you are busy with work and have no time to accompany her,
So I felt I owed her, so I doted on him and doted on her desperately, and it was because of your doting that she became what she is today."
"My words may be a bit harsh. I am a person with this kind of temperament. If Mr. Guo thinks what I say makes sense, then I will continue to say it. If Mr. Guo feels uncomfortable listening to it, then no.
I'm sorry, I apologize to you, but you just think I just farted and didn't say anything." After Wang Xudong finished speaking, he said directly to Guo Yu.
Guo Yu's face turned very ugly, and he said after a long time: "You continue."
"I'm a rough guy with no culture. I always speak straightforwardly. Since you asked me to continue speaking, I won't beat around the bush and speak directly. After several days of contact with your daughter, I have a general understanding of your daughter.
Understand, she is not bad in nature, she is actually a very kind-hearted girl, and she is a girl with a very sensitive and fragile heart. There are two reasons why she became so deviant, lack of care when she was a child, and psychological distortion
, I have always hated you. In addition, you have loved her infinitely over the years and responded to every request. The servants at home also support her as if she were the emperor. This makes her character become domineering. She feels that everyone
You should treat her how you want, feel that the whole world owes her, so you should meet all her demands, and the whole world should be centered on her. All the reasons combined make your daughter what she is now."
"Why does she hate you? Because she thinks you didn't accompany her when she was a child. She doesn't realize that you didn't accompany her because you have to work and you want to give her a better life. She doesn't realize that she has enough to eat and wear.
Everything she uses is given by you, and she doesn’t realize the importance of it. That’s why she hates you even more. She thinks that everything in this world is very cheap and easy to get, so she hates everything.
I don't care, I don't pay attention to everything. Mr. Guo, do you think this is the case?" Wang Xudong asked Guo Yu after finishing speaking.
Guo Yu remained silent, and finally said again: "Keep talking."
"I've finished speaking, I've finished everything I want to say." Wang Xudong said directly.
"Then... what's your opinion?" Guo Yu then asked Wang Xudong.
"My opinion? My opinion is that since she wants to run away from home, let her run away from home. Since she wants to live on her own, let her live on her own. Why should we look for it? What can we do if we get it back?
?There is an old saying, if you raise a wolf, you should give it meat, and if you raise a dog, you should not stop it from eating shit. Although it sounds ugly, the truth is this. What you give birth to is a daughter, a human being, and a human being.
You should raise her as a human being, not as a god. Your daughter is eighteen years old, does she know how money is made? Does she know how other people live? She
Does she know how the world works? Does she know what this society is like? She doesn’t even know what society is like, so how can she become a person who can adapt to this society? She has become the deviant she is today.
Isn’t it very natural?”
"If you want to ask me my opinion, my opinion is that since she wants to run away from home, let her go and let her feel the cruelty and indifference of this world, feel the harshness of the world, and feel the hardship of life.
"Wang Xudong said.
Guo Yu frowned, and then asked Wang Xudong: "Will she become obedient like this?"
"I don't know, but at least it won't get worse, right? Besides, it's already like this, how bad can it get?" Wang Xudong asked rhetorically. (To be continued)