After hearing this, Wang Xudong just nodded, then stubbed out the cigarette butt in his hand and threw it in the trash can. He said calmly to Lin Xiaoya: "I can hear your answer, so the purpose of asking you to work this time is
Reached."
"Xiaoya, actually, you don't need to prove anything at all. People never live for others to see, but only live for themselves. Therefore, you don't need to prove yourself to anyone, as long as you feel that you are
If you do the right thing and what you want to do, then you don’t need to care about anyone else’s opinion.”
"For you to say such words and make such a choice today, you have actually proven yourself. This is the best proof."
"Do you still remember the words I said to you before you ran away from home? Some of them are true and they are my evaluation of you at that time, while some of them are things I deliberately provoked you. Why? Because I want to
Come out and take a look at the world, take a look at this society, take a look at other people's lives, and take a look at what normal life should be like."
"Your biggest problem in the past was not what you were like as a person, but the environment you were in. Your mother is here today. I said some things directly in front of your mother and daughter. Why did you do this before?
Did it become like that? The reason is that you are half responsible, and your mother is also half responsible. I have already scolded you where you should be scolded, so I won't scold you today. Today I will talk about your mother's responsibility."
After Wang Xudong finished speaking, he turned and looked at Guo Yu outside the door.
Guo Yu was a little surprised when he heard what Wang Xudong said, then nodded, walked into the ward, and stood there listening to Wang Xudong's words carefully, with a very sincere attitude.
"Do you know why she became like that before? In fact, the biggest mistake was caused by you. In other words, the culprit of why she became like that is you. I didn't tell you before, I just didn't want to say it.
It's so unpleasant to hear, I'm afraid you won't be able to accept it, because this sentence is a heavy blow to a mother, and today, she has completely changed, so I am telling you this."
"The reason why she became like that, doing nothing all day long and not doing anything serious, was because you didn't give her anything to do. You arranged her life properly. What did you ask her to do? From childhood to adulthood, you
Giving her a sufficient material life and everything she needs is enough for her life. What do you want her to do? For a child, she can get it without any effort.
Everything, you let her not know that life requires hard work and struggle. Teachers will ask other children to set a goal and ideal in life when they are young. Where do you want her to find her ideal? She has been there since she was a child.
What you have is an ideal that others cannot achieve in their lifetime."
"Someone has said that life is a journey. All of us are riding this one-way tourist train called life. The starting point is birth and the end point is death. Every stop along the way is a stage of our life.
Every scenery we see outside the window is our life experience and the meaning of life. And you? From the moment she got in the car, you gave her a luxurious single private room. This private room is isolated from the world.
It not only isolates outsiders, but also the outside scenery. You shield her tightly and protect her. This private room has all the luxury things, and is served by dedicated servants. She only needs to lie on the luxurious Simmons bed and feel hungry.
A servant fed her the best food, and when she was sleepy, someone patted her to sleep, and then she stayed like this until she got off the bus at the terminal. Doesn’t it look beautiful? In fact, it is very sad. If life is a journey, and
She just slept during this trip and didn't see anything, so what does this trip mean to her?" Wang Xudong said this to Guo Yu.
"She is rebellious, she is arrogant and domineering, she is cynical, everything about her is not because of what she has in her bones. The reason why she is like this is just because of the boredom of her life. You have deprived her of the meaning of life.
Life is her own. It is up to her to decide who she wants to be and what kind of life she wants. You should not live her life on her behalf. This is why I inspire her.
The reason why you let her run away from home and leave you to live outside alone."
"How many days has it been since she came out? Has it changed much?" Wang Xudong asked Guo Yu.
"Big, big." Guo Yu nodded.
"Yes, do you think a person's personality can be completely changed in just half a month or so? Do you think it is possible? This is obviously impossible. There is an old saying that a country is easy to change.
Nature is hard to change, how can it be so easy to change a person's character? Then why did she change? Because it is not a character problem at all, but because this time she came out, I made her find the meaning of life. You just heard her
Having said that, what did she gain after coming out this time? She knew what hard work is, she understood what life is, and she also experienced a sense of accomplishment. The most important thing is that I allowed her to see what life should be like, and also
Let her understand what she wants and what she should pursue."
"As a mother, I can understand your thinking. You want to give her the best everything, and you want to arrange everything for her so that her life can be carefree and smooth sailing. However, as I said before
Yes, you have arranged her life for her, that is, you have lived her life on her behalf, what will she live by herself?"
"Do you know agarwood?" Wang Xudong asked Guo Yu.
"Agarwood? I've heard of it."
"Agarwood was originally just an ordinary tree. However, during its growth, local people would use knives or axes to cut deep wounds on its body. These wounds were infected by fungi.
The tissue around the wound begins to fester due to infection, and the sap in the sap ditch is stimulated by this and transforms into a paste-like lump, which eventually becomes incense. In fact, life is like this agarwood,
If it grows up peacefully all its life, it will never be able to withstand stimulation and will never bear incense, and it will always be just an ordinary tree. You are far smarter than me, and your life experience is far richer and more knowledgeable than mine.
It's far beyond my comparison. I think you should understand what I'm going to say now." Wang Xudong smiled at Guo Yu when he said this.
"Okay, whether I have done a good deed and done a good deed, or I am nosy and amusing myself, my task has been completed anyway. Lin Xiaoya, I'm sorry." Wang Xudong said, standing between the couple.
Lin Xiaoya said three words, and then bowed to Lin Xiaoya formally. (To be continued)