"It's not that he treats you as a child, but that you give him the feeling of a child, so in his heart he treats you as a child who has not grown up. Think about it for yourself, you are next to him
How does it make him feel? Ignorant, unreasonable, and always asking him to coax and take care of him. Think about it for yourself, is this what you are like when you are around him? I have seen you around him so many times,
You are. Yes, he is indeed very kind to you, but this kind of kindness is not love. To be precise, it is not the love between men and women. It is a kind of pampering from an adult to a child, a kind of love from an elder to his sister.
That kind of doting."
"What kind of woman does a man need? What kind of woman will a man fall in love with? A woman who makes his heart move, gives him warmth, tenderness, comfort, and makes him feel comfortable, not a woman who is in front of him
Just a child who will only make him upset. Let me ask you, if you were a man, between you and me, who would you choose?" Qin Kexin said to Lin Xiaoya without the slightest courtesy.
"And, not only that, the gap between you and him is too big. I don't mean to belittle you when I say the gap. I just talk about values. He is ** years older than you, almost ** years by one round.
, Of course, you will say that age is not a problem at all, yes, that’s right, age is not a problem, what is a problem is your life experience. He left school at the age of eighteen, left his family, went to the army and entered society, outside
It has been many years of struggle, but what about you? You have never left school or had a family. Can your life experience be comparable to his? Do you think your life values can be the same? Do you think you have a common language?
?What did he say to you when you two were together? Besides coaxing you, what else could he say? Can you understand what he said? Can you understand what he needs and what he is thinking? "
"When you two are together, you are completely in two different worlds. Do you think you two can be together? Do you think he will fall in love with you?" Qin Kexin asked slowly.
Lin Xiaoya suddenly fell silent. She had never thought about these issues. She had always known that she liked Wang Xudong, and that she liked to be by Wang Xudong's side. She felt safe being with Wang Xudong. She relied on Wang Xudong from the bottom of her heart, but
She had never thought about these issues, let alone how Wang Xudong felt when he was with her.
"Sister, this world has only opened a door for you. You haven't walked out of this door yet. Whether it's love or love, at least we have to wait until you actually walk out of this door before talking about it.
You are still too young and you don’t understand what love is. I know that your love for him is serious, I can see it. Yes, I love him, but I don’t object to you loving him, just like me
As mentioned before, it is your right to love him. Moreover, from the day I fell in love with him and decided to be with him, I knew that he was an excellent man. It is impossible for an excellent man not to be liked by women. I have long since
I am ready to compete with other women. I also have this confidence. No one can take away my Qin Kexin man."
"Sister, you can love him, but you have to wait until you grow up and mature. As you said, he promised you that he will be your boyfriend when you go to college. Okay, then you can study hard.
, study hard and go to college. After going to college, you have half-stepped into the society. Once you step into the society, you will become mature. When you mature, you will come to compete with me. I, Qin Kexin, am like this today.
Let me tell you, I, Qin Kexin, will never stop you from contacting him, no matter whether I am his girlfriend or his wife in the future. Moreover, if one day, he tells me that he likes you and does not want to be with me anymore.
When you are together, I, Qin Kexin, will never say no. But now, you are really too young, do you understand what I mean? "
"A man is not what you say is yours, but you have to grab it by yourself. How to grab it? It's not to grab it with your hands, or to pester him, but to improve your self-cultivation and improve your own charm.
With your beauty and inner temperament, when your charm is enough, the man you want will automatically be fascinated by you and follow you actively. This is called grabbing. That is to rely on your own persistence to get love.
Tricks used by men. Women who do this will only make themselves look bad, and will make men look down on them. Women should be noble and proud. This sentence is not just for you to target Xudong. It should be like this for every man you meet in the future.
.The more proud a woman is, the more men will think highly of you, you know?"
Qin Kexin finally pulled Lin Xiaoya to sit on the edge of the bed and slowly spoke to Lin Xiaoya. She was really teaching her as a sister.
Lin Xiaoya remained silent and didn't say a word to Qin Kexin.
She is a somewhat unruly and willful girl, which is related to the family environment in which she grew up, but she is definitely not a person who cannot distinguish right from wrong and understand the truth. She knows very well that what Qin Kexin said is correct.
"I understand what you mean, and I listen to you. However, I want to tell you, when the day comes, whether you are his girlfriend or his wife, I will definitely snatch him away.
, I said, he is my man and will always be." Lin Xiaoya suddenly stood up and said to Qin Kexin after a long time.
"Okay, as I said before, if that day comes, no matter if I am his girlfriend or his wife, if he tells me that he likes you and wants to be with you, I will never stop him."
"Remember what you said today." After Lin Xiaoya finished speaking, she opened the door and walked out.
Wang Xudong was sitting alone on the sofa outside smoking a cigarette. He was wondering what the two women were whispering in the room with the door closed, but he was too embarrassed to eavesdrop. More importantly, he still
I don’t know how he will explain Lin Xiaoya’s matter to Qin Kexin’s mother when she comes back later. This is not the most important thing. The most important thing is that he is afraid that Lin Xiaoya will talk nonsense in front of Qin Kexin’s mother later. If that happens, he will really die.
Too bad.
"We have to find a way to take this little ancestor away and bring him back to the East China Sea before Qin Kexin's mother comes back, otherwise there will be a big problem." Wang Xudong finally came to this conclusion, and this is still a matter that must be done immediately
If we wait until Qin Kexin's mother comes back to implement the conclusion, it will be too late.
Wang Xudong stood up after thinking about it, preparing to go in and take Lin Xiaoya away by force. No matter what, the most important thing was to get Lin Xiaoya out of the house first. (To be continued)