Guo Yu looked at his daughter with a very complicated expression and was very hurt. Obviously, she was still very uncomfortable when Lin Xiaoya said that in front of Wang Xudong. Even if she was a business legend, in the end she was still in front of Lin Xiaoya.
Just a mother.
Wang Xudong looked at Lin Xiaoya and said calmly: "Xiaoya, as an adult, first of all, I don't think you need me to remind you what kind of attitude you should have when talking to your mother. You are already a college graduate.
As a person who wants to enter the society, I believe you don’t have this attitude towards customers in the store. Otherwise, you would have been fired long ago. Customers are just your so-called food and clothing parents. You can still smile at them, but why can’t you control your own mother?
My own emotions?”
"You have always emphasized that you majored in psychology, so you should know how much consequences and harm people can cause by impulsively speaking when they are angry. You can use the knowledge of psychology to analyze others and help others solve their problems. Why not
Are you able to think about your own behavior towards your mother instead of thinking about how this situation happened today?"
"I guess it's not that you don't have this ability, but that you have never done this before. Although you have indeed learned a lot and changed a lot, in your heart, your mother will always be the mother she was in the past.
, you should just define her as someone who doesn't understand you, who is only busy with work and has no time and energy, let alone the intention to communicate with you."
"And have you ever tried to really get into your mother's heart and try to understand her feelings and devotion to you, and her unchanging concern for you from beginning to end? You study psychology because you want to become a better person.
Better yet, to help more people, why not try to solve the relationship between you and your closest relatives?"
"You feel that your mother doesn't understand you well enough, but do you understand her? In other words, have you ever thought that she also needs to be understood? Do you feel that she has sacrificed for you and sometimes wants your response and response?
Do you care? She is just your mother, not an iron-clad person. You keep saying that if your mother finds out, she will definitely object to what you do. Have you ever thought about why she would object? Have you discussed it with her?
Have you ever discussed each other's concerns and tried to dispel all her doubts and worries? You haven't. You just preconceptions that your mother is such a person, thinking that she will not understand you and support you, so you take
She was deceived, and she had to bear the consequences."
Lin Xiaoya still held her head up stubbornly, but it could be seen that her expression was gradually not as tough as at the beginning, but she was still holding on.
Wang Xudong also slowed down his tone: "Xiaoya, actually, your performance has made me very happy all this time. I can clearly feel your changes and progress. More than once, I felt that you have become mature and sensible.
.But the happiest person is always Sister Guo. As a mother, no matter how good or bad you are, you are still her child, but she sincerely considers every aspect for you and hopes that you can live well."
Lin Xiaoya bit her lip, and finally said unwillingly: "For my own good, you shouldn't have to arrange everything for me. I'm an adult, can't you respect my thoughts and opinions? You have to do it at any time.
I act like a child and dictate my life and choices. Doing this for my own good will only make people feel suffocated. You also said that I am mature and sensible, so why can't you let me do what I want according to my own wishes?
thing? I’m just going to do a job and everyone else can do it, so why can’t I?”
"This is not a crime. I will graduate sooner or later. If I don't go out to work then, will I just stay at home every day? Then if someone really wants to attack me, why don't they just blow up the house?
Mom, I know you are good for me, but even if you want to protect me for fear that I will be in danger, can you protect me for the rest of my life? I have to work sooner or later, and I know you can support me for the rest of my life, but I don’t want to rely on you.
For the rest of your life, I don’t want to rely on anyone, I want to live on my own abilities.”
"Furthermore, if you may encounter danger even when you go out to work, and you have to worry about being kidnapped every day, you are the one who is really in danger. I am just your daughter, but you are the backbone of the entire Huahai. I will attack you."
My actions are more threatening and more effective, so don't you still have to go to work and do what you have to do every day?" Lin Xiaoya looked at Guo Yu and said.
Guo Yu had also calmed down, looked at Lin Xiaoya, and finally nodded and said calmly: "Okay, I know you are always dissatisfied with me in your heart, and we rarely have the opportunity to communicate well. It just so happens that today
Let's take this opportunity to talk things out so that we don't have to worry about it all the time."
"Xudong is not an outsider, and he knows the situation between our mother and daughter best. You trust him more than you trust me. Let him make a judgment on some matters."
Guo Yu said and called the housekeeper over: "Tell the lady what happened during the time when she arranged bodyguards for her, whether it was necessary to do so, and what kind of arrangements were made around me.
level, and what have you encountered."
The housekeeper wiped his cold sweat, but still followed Guo Yu's instructions, and said honestly: "The bodyguards on the young lady's side are one personal, one nearby, and two groups of floating personnel take turns to protect the young lady, because the young lady's identity is in the school.
It was well hidden, so nothing happened during school, but on the way home, the bodyguards reported that someone was following them nearby, and once they caught two sneaky people, but the latter two
They refused to admit that they were intending to kidnap. They only said that they wanted to stalk and harass them, and later handed them over to the police station. Another time on the subway, they also caught someone who had indeed had evil intentions towards the young lady, and they were all sent to the police station.
Two other times, the lady’s wallet was stolen, but they quietly took it back and returned it.”
"Another time, the lady went shopping and her bag was robbed. Later, the police patrolling nearby quickly caught the robber and returned the bag to the lady. In fact, it was the bodyguard who caught the robber and asked the police to intervene. Although the security in Donghai is good,
But after all, there are a large number of foreigners, and sometimes in crowded places, small accidents like this still happen."
When she heard this, Lin Xiaoya was shocked. She had no idea about these things, and there was no way to imagine that she had experienced this: "How is it possible..." (To be continued)