Zen Buddhism says that romantic means wandering without wind. You can go wherever your heart wants without disturbing things, not hindering things, and not staying in things: A very special girl is very beautiful. It’s not like you haven’t seen her.
You saw it from a distance; it’s not that you haven’t met her before. You met her and passed by her, but you didn’t stop. You just passed by. You accepted her beauty, but you didn’t stop.
possess.
——Xiao Chan, Xie Daoyun, Princess Xin'an, Su Hui, and Princess Qing Le, the reason why the three idiots spared no effort in writing is of course because he likes women. There was a certain writer in the past, whose name I can't remember, but his novels had a prominent theme,
He just loves women and praises women. He said that if there are several beautiful things in the world, one is nature, and the second is beauty and women. The older women are very maternal and caring, and the younger ones,
It is easy to inspire a man's soul. For example, if someone runs out of ideas for writing a novel, he will ask some girls to go to his house and sit and let him read. After reading for several hours, he will continue writing when inspiration comes. However, if a girl
It's not enough for you to see the beauty of her. Next, you have the desire to possess her. This is staying. Pursue her and get her, and you will stay with her. You can never move forward, because when a person becomes interested in something,
When you have desire, there will be an attachment. You fix the attachment in your heart, and at the same time, the desire caused by the attachment also fixes you. This is not romantic.
Except for Liu Shangzhi, none of Chen Caozhi's friends had concubines. Xie Xuan, Fan Wuzi, Kong Wang, and Ding Chunqiu were all nobles. Not to mention concubines, it should be common to have personal maids to warm the bed, but the article did not mention it.
In this regard, it may be because these aristocratic families belong to a relatively strict type, or it may be that they are not worth mentioning at all. Due to the general environment, apart from formal wives, the status of concubines and maids is too far apart to be completely incomparable, so Chen's mother and Li's
Although she loved Lu Weirui, she still arranged for Xiao Chan to sleep with her son. In her mind, she did not realize that doing so would hurt her future daughter-in-law. Of course it would have been possible for Chen Caozhi to just give in, but he didn't; on the other hand,
, reputation was very important in that society, and Chen Caozhi disdained using Xiaochan's closeness and affection for him to gain the reputation of being a gentleman, so Xiaochan continued to be his maid.
Let's talk about Xie Daoyun, after all, she is two years older than Lu Weirui. Lu Weirui is completely defenseless in front of her. She only listened to Jun's words and impulsively offered up her relationship with Chen Caozhi. Fortunately, Xie Daoyun is also a wonderful person. She
I like Chen Caozhi, but I also like the feeling of having a crush on the other person. As Socrates said, God is not on the side of the beloved. Xie Daoyun gained a kind of strength from secret love to protect herself, even if she looked at Chen Caozhi
Being intimate with Lu Weirui, she also mistakenly believed that her silent guarding attitude was the deepest, most special, and most ideal love. She might even secretly believe that the love between those two people was because they had their own
She was willing to fulfill her wish. So she told herself that there was no need to be envious, let alone jealous.
Finally, there are often criticisms in the book review area that Chen Caozhi is not a man enough, or that he can have multiple wives if he has an emotional foundation. The conceptual distinction between sex and sex gives polygamy some legitimacy. I think that people, especially
Men should be self-reflective, confident, and act according to their heart, rather than looking for reasons and excuses for themselves from the external environment. People who want to have multiple wives can naturally work hard to have multiple wives and don't have to be shy. Chen Caozhi's original idea is to have sex with
Lu Weirui stayed together for hundreds of years and became a couple of water-painted immortals. As for not being a man enough, it is just the opposite. Although Chen Caozhi seems to be a man who can do everything well, he is rational and wise, and he usually always takes Mount Tai and surpasses Beihai.
It makes it easy for others to convince him. In fact, there are times when this person can't think clearly. For example, Xiaochan was in his arms several times, and the atmosphere was very good when he was alone with Xie Daoyun. However, he did not use confusion as an excuse to follow the trend.
That's enough for a man.
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Maverick Xie Daoyun
People often think in the book review area that Xie Daoyun's affection for Chen Caozhi is mainly due to her admiration for his talents, and he chooses a son-in-law through elegant conversation. If she can be impressed by other talents she meets, she will probably marry him.
The fact is that since the death of Chen's mother and Chen Caozhi's filial piety, Xie Daoyun has not worshiped the empress Tiansun who is in charge of human marriage for three years.
She mentioned it before and was asked by her personal maid Liu Xu, but she didn't hesitate. Talking about choosing a son-in-law at an elegant gathering can relieve the pressure of being forced to marry, which is better than having the elders behind closed doors to decide for a lifetime. Xie Daoyun is very intelligent and almost demonic, and his reactions are extremely fast.
, an artist is bold, and she is not afraid to take this path.
When Xie Daoyun first appeared on the scene, she didn't show any face to others. She always looked down upon those who were inferior to her. She never gave in to others, and she never said polite words when she disagreed with others. Those who are bright are easy to be dirty, and those who are smart are easy to be dirty.
It is appropriate for those who are willing to break up, and those who are harmonious will be poor. Many people say that it is reasonable for Xie Daoyun to be unfeminine. She is often too lazy to take detours and directly confronts each other face to face, leaving no room for anyone or herself. Her attitude is decisive
, quite similar to the assassins of ancient times. When an assassin breaks out, blood will flow for five steps. When Xie Daoyun opens his mouth, his words will definitely hurt others. He will spray whoever he catches, and you will be sprayed until you can't even find a way to escape. There is no way to avoid it, you can only live with it.
Mi Heng, the number one madman in the Wei and Jin Dynasties, was a similar example. He made others afraid of him. When Mi Heng was on a business trip, his colleagues who saw him off simply sat on the roadside in collective silence. Mi Heng cried on the spot. Xun Yu was helpless.
He stood up and asked why he was crying. He replied: So many dead bodies on the roadside scare me. Madness is a kind of character. Mi Heng is not really unreasonable. The official documents he is responsible for drafting are "appropriate to each other in terms of severity and density".
The meaning that his boss Huang Zu wanted to say but couldn't express was expressed just right. Huang Zu happily took Mi Heng's hand and said, "This is exactly what the ancestor wanted, just like what the ancestor wanted to say." Finally, Mi Heng
He died very young. Huang Zu wanted Ni Heng to flatter him at the banquet. He didn't show any perfunctory or compromise. He directly called Huang Zu a rough man who made clay and wood. Huang Zu was angry and scolded Mi Heng. Mi Heng scolded him back.
:You are an old and verbose person!
Xie Daoyun is better than Mi Heng. After studying in a thatched cottage, being sent away at eighteen, and picking up countless children from aristocratic families in three years of chatting gatherings, maybe he is really not as angry as before when he is older? Qing, she has to think about the future, she thought.
She neither hurts Lu Weirui, nor can she torture herself. She wants to live a free life and "be friends for life." She has made a lot of preparations for this, but it seems that she still cannot do it.
More and more; Xie Daoyun became free, disguised herself as a man and became an official. From then on, she participated in political affairs and became restrained. She was burdened with the pressure of a shady identity. Can freedom and restraint be offset? It is difficult to answer. We can only ask the person involved. Maybe Xie Daoyun himself also
Not sure, maybe I haven’t thought about it yet, maybe I don’t dare to think about it deeply.
But no matter when, women are always so concerned about their own uniqueness. Love turned Lu Weirui into a little woman. Little women are the cutest women in love. There are so many little women in the world, but Xie Daoyun is the only one who stands alone.
, Xie Daoyun and Chen Caozhi belong to another kind of feelings that have nothing to do with love. She tried to convince herself of this. Unfortunately, her younger brother didn't believe it, her third uncle and her aunt didn't believe it, her personal maid didn't believe it, Heng Wen, and Xi Chao didn't believe it. The household registration of the person named Jia
The officials didn't believe it, and everyone who knew her identity in the book didn't believe it, and the readers didn't believe it even more. It seems that Chen Caozhi believed it a little, her sister-in-law Ding Youwei was doubtful, and her fourth uncle thought he was a celebrity and thought nothing of it.
If the genders of the three people are reversed, and Mr. Lu and Mrs. Chen are determined to be in love first, and Mr. Xie "is less than 100 years old, he will fight for love if he likes it", then there is no problem, because in the psychological stereotype of Chinese culture, men compete for love with all their strength.
It's not a big deal at all. Some people say that this man is immoral, but most of the people involved won't care, but women don't. They just care about this. In essence, a man gets married from one woman to another (mother → wife)
, when a woman gets married, she goes from one family to another (the home where she grew up → the home she established).
The book "Three Idiots" is quite serious and will not reduce the intelligence of the heroine. Chen Caozhi is not the kind of hero who pretends to accept the novel even if he refuses it. I don't know how the plot will be arranged in the future.
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Everyone loves Lu Weirui
Traditionally, historical novels often feature parents who are extremely confused when choosing a son-in-law, a purdah girl who bravely pursues love, and a well-matched young man with a bag of embroidered pillows. Then the protagonist's appearance provides the only answer to this unsolvable cycle.
In the society of the Eastern Jin Dynasty described by San Chi, the children of the gentry were corrupted and sunk in a life where they could not see the troubles, and turned into idle idlers, incompetent and ridiculous generals, and enthusiasts who followed everyone else's opinions. But within a small area, that
The noble temperament originated in the bones, in the blood, and acquired through immersion has not disappeared. Every aristocratic family always has one or two young people who are capable. What is the aristocratic style? It is Fan Ning’s son.
The spear attacking the son's shield is Gu Kaizhi's finishing touch. It is what Kong Wang and Chen Caozhi agreed on. A gentleman convinces people with his virtues. He reads the documents carefully, is elegant and elegant, and has exquisite skills. His elegant and calm charm, spiritual freedom and independence
Even more precious is the fact that "everyone is his own king." Chen Caozhi can only blame the thousand-year lead in Ge Hong's collection of books and the dreams of the sages, and he never forgets to temper himself every day, without daring to slack off, otherwise he will fight with such a group of people.
It can be very uneasy for people to stand together.
If Lu Weirui's parents and peers are all mediocre people, and their growing environment is like a sauce vat, then no matter how much spirituality they have, they will be wasted. Lu Weirui is the winged flower fairy in this lush forest, with the beauty of nature.
She probably gives the impression that she is a girl who loves flowers and paintings. She is kind-hearted to a boundless extent. She doesn't even know how to curse or complain. She only cries when she is anxious and doesn't speak loudly.
Lu Weirui's situation is relatively easy now. Lu Na and Zhang Wenwan have shared a lot of pressure for their daughter. Everyone in her future husband's family likes her. Even her lover's rival in love bowed out gracefully and left his sincere blessings. Xie Daoyun
So what if he moved into the daughter-in-law's building before Lu Weirui? Lu Weirui will be the owner of the daughter-in-law's building from now on, and Xie Daoyun can only live in the daughter-in-law's building under a fake name and identity as a guest. As the saying goes, what should come will always come, and what should go will always go according to the author
From a technical point of view, abuse stories are easier to write than happy stories because there is more space for maneuvering. Xie Daoyun is always abused, so naturally more writing is needed. And besides cheering for Chen Caozhi and waiting for him to marry, what else does Lu Weirui have?
There is nothing to worry about, so in order to avoid the role of Lu Weirui becoming formulaic and symbolic, the three idiots racked their brains to think of unexpected and reasonable plot points, and found them bit by bit to form the plot, which was quite difficult.