Cheng Rui explained: "Some newlyweds with delicate and complex emotions have a lot of worries and concerns about the future. The change in roles after marriage makes them worry about some of the pressures brought about by this change, including subconscious and objective aspects of reality.
Newcomers with poor mental quality will have some bad physical reactions. Nervousness, anxiety, and fear...
The closer the wedding day gets, the more these negative emotions accumulate. When they accumulate to a certain level, some couples will be unable to bear it and have the idea of running away from the wedding. Some run away from the wedding the day before, and some run away from the wedding on the same day, tsk."
Cheng Rui looked at his old classmate and smiled slightly, "In other words, a groom who makes the bride anxious before the wedding must not be a good groom, because he does not give the bride enough sense of security."
Qin Mochen:......
Qin Mochen frowned even more tightly, "Girl, what on earth are you..."
Su Keke immediately waved her hand, "It's okay, uncle, you make me feel safe. I'm just too nervous."
The man held her little head in his hands, frowning and not letting go, "Keke, I didn't think carefully and ignored your feelings.
Can you tell me what you are worried about?"
"I, I don't know, I'm just inexplicably nervous. If I'm anxious, it's really only a little bit."
Su Keke felt that she was looking forward to the wedding, and she didn't know what she was anxious about.
"Girl, after we got married, our life has not changed much. It is still the same as before. And after you go to college, we will spend less time together."
"Or is this girl reluctant to leave me and wants to be with me all the time?" the man asked.
"No. I'm very adaptable. Besides, I have Da Xing and He accompanying me."
"Then what are you worried about? Tell me, huh?" xdw8
"If I knew it, I would tell you. I don't know it myself."
Qin Mochen thought of something, moved his eyes slightly, and asked tentatively: "Are you afraid that I will touch you? I thought the girl had been prepared for it."
"I'm prepared, but, but"
Qin Mochen looked at her with encouragement in his eyes, "Girl, what is this?"
"But I'm afraid of getting pregnant with a baby!" After Su Keke said it in one breath, she felt refreshed and no longer anxious.
She also suddenly realized, oh, this is what she was worried about deep down in her heart.
"I am still a child myself. I think I can still grow a little longer. If I accidentally get pregnant, will I not be able to go to school or take orders?
Then I want to drop my child and have a baby. What if my enemy shows up during pregnancy? If I am not in my prime, I will suffer a lot from my enemies.
And after giving birth to the baby, I still have to breastfeed and take care of the baby..."
Qin Mochen:......
Cheng Rui pricked up his ears and eavesdropped:...
What the hell?
What is this concern?
You can think of so many things that are so far away!
Qin Mochen wiped his face and had the urge to pick up the little girl and spank her.
After glancing at Cheng Rui, Qin Mochen pulled Su Keke aside.
The two of them whispered for a while.
"...Of course I know there are defensive measures. But what if the thing breaks accidentally?"
"..."
"The world between two has not started yet. How could I let a third person disturb our life? I will not have children in the next five years. Coco, you think too much." Qin Mochen's eyebrows twitched in pain.
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"Uncle seems to want us to have children as soon as possible. Master and Grandpa Zeng also want me to have more children."
"Ignore them."
Not to mention Qin Mochen, Cheng Rui felt his head hurt when he accidentally overheard one or two sentences.
What kind of worries are these? The kid from Mr. Qin’s family really has a brilliant mind and is worried about issues that are totally unnecessary.
After Qin Mochen's analysis, Su Keke also felt that he seemed to be thinking too much.
This anxiety seems to have started when she accidentally watched an emotional program.
A couple of college boyfriend and girlfriend went out occasionally. One day, the girlfriend suddenly became pregnant. The boyfriend was furious and firmly believed that the girlfriend had betrayed him. The girl was angry for a while and did not explain or abort the child. She took a year off to give birth to the child and went for DNA testing.
Detection.
It turned out that the child belonged to the boy, but at that time the boy was heartbroken and frustrated after breaking up with her, and met another girl when he was at his lowest point.
Yes, when a girl is pregnant, the boy has a new love, and the relationship is still very good.
In this way, after the child is born, the boy does not want to be responsible for the girl because he feels sorry for the girl who came later.
The three of them had been arguing for a long time, and later they put on a show to ask everyone to help give their opinions.
In the end, the boy still didn't marry his ex and only agreed to pay child support. Then his new girlfriend said she didn't mind and stayed with the boy together.
A girl wastes a precious year giving birth to a child. After giving birth, she cannot just leave the child alone. She has to take care of the child for at least a year and a half before she can return to school. She also has to consider whether the school will accept her or not.
And after a year and a half, she may have lost touch with the school.
In the end, this girl got nothing.
Many people say that the man is a scumbag, and some people say that the man doesn't know anything. His ex-girlfriend didn't explain it, and he got a new relationship later. You can't abandon your current girlfriend just because of the child.
In short, the father-in-law is right and the mother-in-law is right, which is a mess.
The cause of all this is that the safety measures were not taken well at the beginning and something went wrong.
So Su Keke was also afraid. If she and her uncle didn't do well, and accidentally got pregnant, she would get married. Of course, she wasn't worried that her uncle would let her down. She was worried about the problems she just mentioned...
Qin Mochen repeatedly promised that he would not let her have the little bun in her belly so early, and Su Keke slowly felt relieved.
"To take a step back, if the problem you mentioned does happen...it leaked out, and it happened accidentally."
Speaking of this, the veins on Fourth Master Qin's forehead trembled again, "Even if it happens accidentally, don't be afraid. Those things you worry about are actually nothing. So, don't think too much."
After Su Keke found her crux and was so patiently enlightened by her fiancé, she felt much better and no longer anxious.
"Congratulations to the two newcomers for solving the anxiety problem so quickly."
Cheng Rui adjusted his gold-rimmed glasses and said, "But old classmate, can I ask why I don't have the honor to be your best man? Look, I'm already thirty and still single. Why don't you give me a gift?"
A chance for charm?”
The best man is also the best man of the fourth master Qin in the imperial capital. He will definitely attract attention when the time comes, and maybe his love will come.
Qin Mochen sneered, "Why, you are an old man in his thirties, and you want to imitate my old cow and eat young grass?"
"Qin Mochen, these words are very funny coming from your mouth. You also know that you are an old man in his thirties, and you ate a young grass?
You can eat it, but I can’t eat it? Besides, I’m not going for Miss Su’s bridesmaid. There are so many female guests present, so I can’t go for others?”
Qin Mochen was silent for a moment and suddenly said: "Actually, the most important point is not this."
Cheng Rui:?
"The groom is so handsome. If you really stand with me, you will be overshadowed by me. I do it for your own good."